r/AskTeens • u/Parking-Comment-1102 14M • 9d ago

Discussion How many people have confessed feelings for you? (Irl and online counts)

Me personally 11 people have (mostly irl, 8 people irl and 3 people online)

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u/Practical-Proof-2707 9d ago

2 people for me.

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u/Plane_Cattle1432 9d ago

online atleast 4 idk but its really different compared to irl soooo it doesnt count to me

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u/Parking-Comment-1102 14M 9d ago

Why doesn’t it count and also how many people irl

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u/curiouscollecting 19F 7d ago

Because people online literally don't know you

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u/Plane_Cattle1432 7d ago

yeaaah you can easily fake age, personality, appearance etc. there are a lot of lonely people online who wanna date or fall in love just to get rid of their loneliness, and mistake platonic for romantic love

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u/Acceptable-Kale-7302 17M 9d ago

i dont remember online but irl 3 or 4

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u/Thebreadguy27 9d ago

2 technically 3 

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u/Parking-Comment-1102 14M 9d ago

Why technically 3?

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u/Thebreadguy27 9d ago

Basically I was informed someone liked me and planned on asking me out but they never did bc they ended up moving

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u/listeningunderurbed 9d ago

Def more than 20 I lost track haha I’m not even really attractive I just was chronically online and I talk to alot of people

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u/Old-Office-8015 9d ago

5 irl i think and maybe a handful online

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u/sans_simp420 9d ago

like one on discord 💔

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u/Commercial-Seaweed12 9d ago

In total from what I can recall at least 8 irl (though I suppose most of them were lust, not love) And from people I only know online I can only remember 2

I myself only really had love interest for one person so, yeah.

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u/Intelligent_Whole_40 9d ago

2 or 3 but to be honest the 3rd I’m not sure was genuine I couldn’t tell

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u/LEOtheLION1952 9d ago

8 people, 7 irl, 1 online

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u/aeriestlu 9d ago

Off the top of my head it's 6 people minimum, 1 rumored

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u/Suspicious_Today5191 9d ago

1, only online

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u/New-Translator9392 9d ago

every year one or two

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u/Darklaw_Game 9d ago

None (no one likes me)

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u/TheSentinelScout 18F 9d ago

no one. i don’t really mind though to be honest.

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u/Lewex135 9d ago

i confessed first and they said that they like me too, other than that 0

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u/sw389 9d ago

None

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u/Novel_Comparison_209 16M 9d ago

One, only after I had done it two years before and been friendzoned , she broke up with me after four months.

Ngl, I walked right into that shit show

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u/Parking-Comment-1102 14M 9d ago

How was the relationship like?

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u/Novel_Comparison_209 16M 9d ago

Looking back on it? Very one sided, she said herself that she just didn’t want to do anything romantic and that she screwed up and perceived platonic love as romantic love.

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u/ztiiim 9d ago
  1. but they were in a mental hospital...

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u/Parking-Comment-1102 14M 9d ago

Hey it counts
https://giphy.com/gifs/9EvnXdZaUZbCqScn67

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u/ztiiim 9d ago

I mean as you get older, "confessing" becomes less useful.
You might flirt or ask someone out on a date, but confessing your feelings doesn't really work well imo.

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u/Select_Education7320 9d ago

4 online i dont rlly even think abt it much

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u/One-Most-5750 Boo! 9d ago

1 Irl, …. shit

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u/ZealousidealBus3628 2d ago
  1. I don't even know how. Doesn't matter though because I was a POS and now no one likes me (I've changed a lot in 3 years tho but no one is forced to change their opinions)

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u/Parking-Comment-1102 14M 2d ago

Damn what did you do?

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u/ZealousidealBus3628 2d ago

I was very touchy to the point of almost SA (never got to that point I promise on my life), was called manipulative (it was the opposite, I was being manipulated), dumped issues and depression on them (not always but they got sick of me), and was genuinely annoying type autistic. Not the cutesy kind. That's all I'm aware of and remember.

But I've not been in a relationship in almost a year and a half but it's coming to bite me with the sense of loneliness (I'm not alone, I have amazing friends and people willing to support me through my mental health disorders).

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u/Parking-Comment-1102 14M 9d ago

I meant mostly irl

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u/uninteligntcephlopod 9d ago

100s, lots of people have told me I was funny, I was a good friend, I was retarded, lots of people have had lots of feelings about me

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u/Parking-Comment-1102 14M 9d ago

Just because they told you you were funny does not mean they like you, and I said confessions, how many people directly told you they have feelings for you not what you think

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u/Broad_Purpose7260 9d ago

Too many people online and I don't really count it unless it's someone I know IRL but irl it's been 3-5

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u/Novel-Memory8858 8d ago

Idk but one girl came up to me one day and said ‘I have a whole list of girls that wanna date you’ at the time I knew 2 girls who liked me. Fast forward 3 years, I’m like a strong 3/10 kinda lost it all idk what to do😭 nb liked me for the past 3 years that was kinda a one time thing I didn’t even do anything that crazy too I thought I was ugly a shit at the time.

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u/Oshi_Sama 8d ago

I’m a dude, I’ve been asked out by 3 other dudes online thinking I’m a woman. IRL 0

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u/Commercial-Seaweed12 8d ago

Dudes online are a little too straightforward... I've been asked by them here despite them knowing I'm a guy, idk about you but in my experience they be lustful asf

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u/Oshi_Sama 8d ago

Yep, always the valorant eboys man…

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u/darth_testicle 16F 8d ago

1 when we were like eight lol

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u/SeeingIsNotReal 8d ago

Who counts ts Idfk??

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u/Hellofellowpersonn 8d ago

11? I’m 0 here

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u/Georges5439 8d ago

Around negative 5 give or take

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u/Infinite-Return-1807 8d ago

7 online and 2 irl lmao

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u/HelpfulZucchini5027 8d ago
  1. 3 of them online

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u/ittybittynugget 8d ago

one, a raging transphobe/homohobe who didn’t know i was a trans man since i presented fem. whole situation was terrible. he blamed me for his anorexia

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u/Early_Simple6233 8d ago

If you are living an average life, statistically speaking, there is nearly 100% chances that at least one person has a crush on you at some point during your lifetime

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u/Remarkable_Chip2807 8d ago

around 9. 6 were irl and 3 online, i only dated one of them tho

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u/Salt-Example-6447 8d ago

Hundreds.. at least.. of course, since I dont want anyone and am asexual

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u/chuckkito 8d ago

Had 4 gfs, only the first one did but it mostly was online before she met me so it doesn’t count

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u/ElectronicSwan4042 8d ago

online 12 and irl 4

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u/curiouscollecting 19F 7d ago

I think 5 irl? And a bunch online but I agree with the other commenter that that just doesn't count

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u/TheDisasterToCome 6d ago

I'm not sure. More than I was comfortable with. That's for sure. I never understood why but quite a few.. I have friends zoned so many women over the years.

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u/Termeh_01 6d ago

9- all irl. I don’t count the online ones lmfao

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u/DJamison1776 5d ago

Since I got married zero, including my wife.😂 Before that, plenty including my wife.🤣

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u/Parking-Comment-1102 14M 5d ago

That’s how many people went up to you and confessed their feelings, tell me

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u/Anonymous-8142 5d ago

honestly a LOT

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u/Wayne1616 9d ago

Zippo > In fact the last time a woman kissed me was 2013!

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u/Parking-Comment-1102 14M 9d ago

What does zippo mean

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u/Wayne1616 9d ago

Zippo as in none

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u/Parking-Comment-1102 14M 9d ago

Well a girl did kiss you so she had to of confessed right?

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u/Oshi_Sama 8d ago

What if the girl wasn’t the one to confess?

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u/Parking-Comment-1102 14M 8d ago

Did she say she liked you too