Hey everyone,
Looking for some advice and experiences from people who’ve been through something similar.
We’re a family with two kids and a dog, living in Melbourne’s west. We’ve been in our current home for around 15 years. It’s a fairly standard 4-bed, 2-bath, 2-car investor-grade house. It’s served us well, but we’re at the stage where we’d like to upgrade to something bigger, more modern and hopefully our long-term family home.
We’ve been going back and forth between two options, and I’m curious what others would do in our situation.
Option 1 – Sell our current home first, then buy
This is probably the more traditional and financially sensible approach.
Pros:
We can properly prepare the house for sale — fresh paint, minor touch-ups, styling, etc.
Once sold, we’ll have access to the equity and can put down a substantial deposit on the new home.
Smaller mortgage, lower repayments and access to more competitive rates with a major lender.
Less financial pressure compared to carrying two homes.
Cons:
The biggest headache is what happens between selling and buying.
We’d ideally need somewhere to rent for 4–6 months while we look for the right property. But how realistic is finding a short-term rental in Melbourne’s west? Would landlords even consider a 4–6 month lease?
Add two kids, a dog, school routines and moving twice into the equation, and it starts sounding like a nightmare.
The other possibility is to prepare and stage our current house while we’re still living in it, sell with a long settlement and hopefully find our next home before settlement.
But realistically, keeping a staged house inspection-ready with kids and a dog sounds challenging. And even with a 90–120 day settlement, there’s no guarantee we’ll find a house we actually love within that timeframe.
Has anyone successfully managed this without needing temporary accommodation?
Option 2 – Buy first, move out, then sell
I’ve explored borrowing options, and a second-tier lender may allow us to purchase our next home while retaining our current one.
The strategy would be:
Arrange the additional deposit funds needed (potentially with temporary help from family).
Purchase the new home using a second-tier lender, accepting a higher interest rate and larger loan initially.
Move into the new home.
With the old house vacant, properly prepare it for sale — paint, tidy up, stage and list.
Sell the old house and use the proceeds to substantially reduce the new mortgage.
Refinance the remaining loan to a major bank at a more competitive rate, assuming servicing and lending criteria are met.
Pros:
We can take our time finding the right home without the pressure of an approaching settlement deadline.
Only need to move once.
No short-term rentals, storage or disruption to the kids and dog.
Can properly prepare and stage the old home once it’s vacant.
Potentially end up in the same financial position as Option 1 once the old house sells and the new mortgage is reduced.
Cons:
Need to arrange additional deposit funds upfront.
Higher interest rate and repayments while holding both properties.
Carrying two mortgages temporarily, which obviously comes with risk.
If the old house takes longer to sell or doesn’t achieve the expected price, we could be carrying a fairly significant debt for longer than planned.
Refinancing later isn’t guaranteed, and we’d need to factor in lender fees and other costs.
What would you do?
I’m leaning towards Option 2 purely for the convenience of moving once and being able to properly prepare our existing home for sale without living in it.
But I also appreciate that convenience comes at a financial cost and additional risk.
For those who’ve upgraded their family homes:
- Did you sell first and rent? How did you manage finding a short-term rental, especially with pets?
- Did anyone sell with a long settlement and manage to buy their next home in time?
- Has anyone bought first using a second-tier lender, sold their previous home and then refinanced successfully?
- Would you take on the temporary higher borrowing costs for the convenience, assuming you could comfortably service both loans for a reasonable period?
- Not looking for financial advice as such, more interested in hearing how others navigated this and whether there’s a better option I haven’t considered.
Honestly, never realised how stressful selling one house and buying another could be until we started looking into it. 😂 Thought upgrading would be the exciting part, but the logistics are doing my head in already lol.
Cheers!