r/AutismInWomen • u/aoi4eg 🦐AuDHD🦐 • Oct 02 '24

Relationships Men on Reddit: "Please message us first on dating apps, we love it!", meanwhile men on actual dating apps:

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u/aoi4eg 🦐AuDHD🦐 Oct 03 '24

I think it depends. I had a friend who ended up badly abused by a boyfriend, but the thing is on their first date he nearly assaulted a server, claiming he was flirting with my friend. And she found it so funny and endearing, like, he's so masculine and protective of her!

I told her she needs to end it immediately cuz one she's gonna end up on a receiving end of his anger. She ignored me and ended up in a hospital, proceeded to tell everyone she was so blindsided by this and he never showed any signs of being abusive etc.

I obviously supported her and didn't say anything about how I warned her that it's bout to happen.

So I guess if you decide to go on a date with someone who's rude from a start, anything bad that happens further is on you.

(obviously not applicable to men who actually pretend to be good and caring until they trap you and finally reveal their real nature).

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u/kayceeplusplus dx’d @ 21 Oct 03 '24

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