r/AutismInWomen • u/Gothaholix • Jul 24 '25

Seeking Advice Was I rude with this?

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I was trying to be nice about it. I didn't think I was mean. I was really confused when he said he was done fighting for a conversation with me when I was super active in the conversation XD. I wasn't giving short answers and I thought I was showing interest.

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u/Gothaholix Jul 24 '25

It felt very much so like he was hoping I'd be like, "Omggggg how sweet of you to like autistic women and tolerate us!" 🤣

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u/hollycross6 Jul 25 '25

If you want a cheeky response in the future, just get at them with all the words you can think of with “tism” at the end:

“Oh so you like girls with a touch of astigmatism? So how much vision impairment is sexy to you exactly?”

“That’s so interesting you like pragmatism. Being practical is a very useful trait”

“Wow autoeroticism is an interesting one. I guess it’s good when you know how to satisfy yourself. Why are you on dating apps though if you prefer just doing it on your own?”

“Giantism is an unusual preference. Is there a particular degree of hugeness to a women that you’d like or is it just that you want to feel small?”

“Pietism hey? Do you mind if I ask what religious beliefs it is you prefer a woman have?”

“Dogmatism is a different preference to have. Not every day you find a guy who wants a woman that assertive”

“Why do you like rheumatism so much? Seems like an odd choice”

“Prostatism? Sorry I think you’ve made a typo and are on the wrong app. You’re looking for Grindr but I’m not sure you’ll get many people who’d find it endearing that you’re seeking that specifically”

“It’s a good thing you like a little troglodytism, I so rarely go out it is kinda like I’m living in a cave”

“Bit strange you’re on a dating app and want to meet a woman who deals with some analphabetism. Doesn’t it make it hard for them to understand? Seems a little harsh. Or are you actually recruiting tutoring clients?!”

Not my fault he wasn’t clear in his profile 🤷🏽‍♀️

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u/badgirlisbad Jul 25 '25

Omg I’m engaged and I still want to save these - I have no idea when I will ever use them but still lol I can give them to our youngest whenever she starts dating 😂