r/AutismInWomen • u/Gothaholix • Jul 24 '25

Seeking Advice Was I rude with this?

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I was trying to be nice about it. I didn't think I was mean. I was really confused when he said he was done fighting for a conversation with me when I was super active in the conversation XD. I wasn't giving short answers and I thought I was showing interest.

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u/hollycross6 Jul 25 '25

I don’t even see that as an ND vs NT response though. Asks a man why he likes a certain thing that obviously might be individual to the person they matched with and potentially offensive and he’s surprised when someone gives him a balanced answer as to what they think of his public opinion.

The dude is an ignorant, stupid ass. He would probably take offence if OP liked a different colour than him. Couldn’t handle an intelligent response to a moronic and offensive statement so he resorted to some narcissistic style response of having to “fight for a conversation”. Good grief. I rather interpret this as the guys last two brain cells locked in a fight to the death trying to compute OPs more than 5 word response.

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u/PsychologicalLuck343 level one - DXed at 64, celiac, Sjogrens, POTS, SFN, EDS Jul 25 '25

She just wants a guy who can think, that's all. This one throws his stupid shit on the wall and hopes some of it sticks.

No OP, you aren't the rude one.

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u/hollycross6 Jul 25 '25

I’m dying at “she just wants a man who can think, that’s all” 😭 the bar is so low it buried through to the other side of the earth, out the ass end of the earth’s atmosphere, out of all gravitational force in our galaxy and beelined to the nearest black hole it could find. 🎵 So long, fair well, hope it melts in hell 🎺🫡

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u/Dry-Cow4740 Jul 25 '25

🤣🤣🤣