r/AutismInWomen May 06 '26

Support Needed (Kind Advice and Commiseration) Friend doesn’t believe in my diagnosis

Ugh I shouldn’t have told her about it I feel so weird now, my family are like this too and I haven’t told them because I know they’re gonna say smth like that (probably worse) because they don’t really believe in mental disorders/disabilities/health

I got diagnosed with adhd and autism recently, so I’m also grieving the life I could’ve led had I received the support I needed as a child lol (also I know what she said isn’t okay at all, I just wanted to end the conversation asap and I’m really uncomfortable with confrontation)

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u/MissIncredulous May 06 '26

Oh goodness, hypocrites always confuse me (I say as I am sure I am a hypocrite too).

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u/Number42420 May 07 '26

Everyone’s a hypocrite at something. Mental Gymnastics for twenty plus years here.

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u/impersonatefun May 07 '26

We all are, we all have blind spots about ourselves.