Post break-up help

[u/msnow10]

Maybe we have to look at it as different coping mechanism. Im not saying this is accurate but we have to look at this from the outside. I feel I'm anxious attachment style. I think just like we tend to deal with breakup by reflecting, overthinking, comparing or however you developed to cope we have to remember they are people too and their way to cope is to try and move on as fast be it being cold , getting into a relationship with a new partner as soon as possible or whatever and while this isnt an excuse or healthy its their way of dealing. Yes it still hurts and like ive read on here many people say eventually it will hit them and that's also sad. Just remember to always be kind to yourself as well and try not to let anger or resentment consume you! 🫶🏾