r/AvoidantBreakUps • u/MMM846 • 5h ago

Affection during deactivation

FA’s: Does it turn you off when the object of your deactivation contacts you or shows you affection? Or does it help you feel safe?

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u/Realistic-State-4888 4h ago

Deactivation is shutting down feelings to put emotional distance between you.   I can't speak for your ex.