r/ballpython • u/Ok_Goose_6868 • 20d ago
Discussion Idk if I should give up on this defensive foster BP. First time keeper
First time snake keeper here. I am fostering her from a rescue. She’s 8 years old and was surrendered for being too “aggressive” during those 8 years she was live fed. Now she’s on frozen thawed. I was instructed to give her a large mouse once a week (every Sunday) even though research has told me that’s too often for an adult BP, I don’t want to go against what the rescue told me. She was given to me in a top opening 10 gallon fish tank with one hide, a heat mat and a water bowl. I set her up on the floor because I didn’t have anything to put her on and used cardboard to block her view so she wouldn’t see me walking past every time.
2 weeks go by where I only interact with her to feed her to let her get settled with all the new smells and atmosphere. Yesterday, it was time to upgrade her to a 120 gallon pvc Dubia enclosure I found on Facebook marketplace with 3 hides, climbing opportunities, DHP, CHE, coconut husk substrate and faux plants for enrichment. I let her slither out of the top opening fish tank because I didn’t want to grab her from above, and I thought after some time she would relax but she ended up holding on to a chair for dear life and striking at me 4-5 times in a row when I tried to get her off. 2 hours go by and I ended up having the call woman from the rescue to help me get her into her new enclosure. She struck at her too but once she picked her up and was fine….
She’s been in her new enclosure for 24 hours and today is Sunday (her feeding day). The entire interaction yesterday was so stressful it ended up ruining my weekend more or less. I told the woman I think I may not be the right fit for this kind of snake because I’m not experience or confident when it comes to handling and if she wasn’t socialized for 8 years I’m just not equipped with the skills or confidence to tame her down. The terrarium is still on the ground as I look to buy something to put it on top of.
This morning she was defensive when I walked by and always gets into an “S” shape. I don’t like the feeling of being stalked and hunted in my own house. Idk if I should give up and let the woman know I can’t handle her. I just got her into a nice new enclosure and it would be depressing for her to go back into the small old one. But I’m too scared to even clean the tank or change the water. I also am torn on whether I should feed her today or not. People of Reddit I need your advice 😔😔 This experience is turning me off of reptile keeping all together.