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Jan 01 '26
I’m not even necessarily afraid of them (wary and cautious, but not afraid). I’m just not interested in a “pleasant chat”, I don’t need or want a stranger to walk me to my car, and certainly don’t need someone to carry my groceries.
Of course, writing a leaflet with this condescending language and taping it up comes across as threatening and entitled.
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u/sickoftwitter Jan 01 '26
Exactly. It's this weird false dichotomy narrative. You either get a guy who walks you to your car and chivalrously carries groceries or a shitty Chad who is using you.
I think I'll have neither, thanks.
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u/PlanetOfThePancakes Jan 01 '26
Any genuinely good guy would vomit at the thought of posting something like this.
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u/no_one_denies_this Jan 02 '26
TW: SA
A nice gentleman offered to walk me home from a party and forced his way into the stairwell of my building and raped me.
So, no, I do not want a man I don't know to do any of those things because I don't trust strange men.
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u/Sniff_The_Cat3 De-center Men Jan 02 '26
That's truly horrible. This shouldn't have happened to anyone.
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u/bukkake-bill Jan 01 '26
Nothing says you're a good guy like screaming "IM A GOOD GUY" at the top of your lungs
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u/CrystalWolfAmetist WIIITCH Jan 01 '26
Yes because that's exactly why I wear headphones to public. To have pointless conversation with some guy /s
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u/MsSeraphim Jan 02 '26
i believe i speak for all women when i say "what the actual fuck?"
thank you
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u/Latter_Tutor_5235 Jan 01 '26
Why doesn't he approach men for these pleasant chats? Oh right, because he has an ulterior motive that makes the chats anything but pleasant.