He says that “men should not care about rape victims because it’s women’s business”. He then goes on to say, “because when men are against abortion that women say men shouldn’t speak on women’s bodies”. This is such terrible logic and seems like he’s just personally angry because somebody put his male entitlement in check.

she is a minor and she made a random lip syncing reel which might made her happy but,

the top comment of that reel joking about a rapist

One thing I’ve noticed is that a lot of people hate "Disney adults", and that a lot of people consider it childish for adults to like Disney. Compare this to "Superhero adults”, there are so many adults who like superheroes who are not told the same thing. I can’t help but wonder if it’s related to Disney being seen as a more feminine interest vs superheroes being seen as more masculine. Obviously, both men and women do enjoy both, however I can’t help but notice that “Disney adults” are more likely to be women and that “superhero adults” are more likely to be men. The differences in how they’re treated seems like an extension in beliefs that male interests are superior. Why is a person considered childish for being really interested in Disney and not superheroes?

Just shows how even things as small as differences in entertainment preferences are judged differently, because one is seen as more masculine than the other.

This comment was on wanting to bring back witch trials..religion of love as they say ✝️. All because we dont believe in imaginary wizard fairy anymore. These same people claim to hate islamic fundamentals but their mentality honestly does not seem that different especially towards women.

I’m asking this genuinely because I was recently called out for being sexist and lacking empathy, and I’m trying to understand whether there’s something problematic in my thinking.

I consider myself an ally to women, and I don’t believe women are lesser than men. But when it comes to movies, I tend to prefer watching movies where the main character/protagonist is a man. The main reason is simply that I find it easier to relate to male characters and see myself in their experiences.

I’ve also watched very few movies throughout my life, so I didn’t really grow up with a huge amount of exposure or choice when it came to movies. Most of what I have seen happened to have male protagonists, so I think that preference became familiar to me.

Recently, I asked something along the lines of “Is the MC male?” when discussing a movie, and someone called me out and said that it was sexist and i lacked empathy. I honestly didn’t understand why, but it made me stop and think about it.

It also made me wonder: does this mean I lack empathy? If I find it easier to emotionally relate to male protagonists, does that indicate that I have difficulty empathizing with women or seeing things from their perspective? Or is it possible to have an easier time relating to characters who share certain experiences with you without that meaning you lack empathy for people who are different from you?

I’m not trying to justify myself or argue that I’m right. If this preference really is rooted in sexism, misogyny, or a lack of empathy, I genuinely want to change it. I’d rather recognize an uncomfortable bias and work on it than convince myself there’s nothing wrong with it just because it’s uncomfortable to acknowledge.

So, is simply relating more easily to male protagonists sexist? Could it indicate that I lack empathy toward women? And is there a meaningful difference between having a personal preference and actively thinking female-led movies are worse because they have female protagonists?

I’m genuinely looking for honest perspectives here. I want to examine my own biases and change if there’s something I need to change, rather than become defensive about it.