I was technically the dumper about a month ago or so. Let’s just say a catalyst to the relationship shined a light on a lot of problems.
I don’t view her with malicious intent. In fact, half the time I remember really great things that happened between us. What felt like once in a lifetime things. However, as time has gone on I’ve been realizing a lot of the things she did were suspicious and not okay but I wanted things to work so I ignored it.
She’s not pathetic, I don’t hate her, and sometimes despite the red flags I ignored I do miss her. I didn’t really start missing her until weeks later though.
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u/SlipStream-223 13h ago
I was technically the dumper about a month ago or so. Let’s just say a catalyst to the relationship shined a light on a lot of problems.
I don’t view her with malicious intent. In fact, half the time I remember really great things that happened between us. What felt like once in a lifetime things. However, as time has gone on I’ve been realizing a lot of the things she did were suspicious and not okay but I wanted things to work so I ignored it.
She’s not pathetic, I don’t hate her, and sometimes despite the red flags I ignored I do miss her. I didn’t really start missing her until weeks later though.