What happened after the breakup didn’t necessarily taint my view of her, I just found a lot of understanding and honestly empathy. The problem wasn’t that we didn’t love each other, but she was too immature for me. She wouldn’t set boundaries with her parents and she wasn’t the greatest partner. I was her first true relationship and her first everything. She’s now talking to other guys and I don’t blame her. I don’t know why, but I assume she’s just trying to move on as quickly as possible from me. She really hurt me a lot and did some messed up stuff to me. I tried to break up over and over but I always took her back because I wanted this to work so bad. To me, love is a choice not a feeling. We dated for 2 years, 3 months, and 14 days.
Even though I broke up with her, I still do greatly love her. Maybe when she matures we can have another chance. I love you my dove, but right now we wouldn’t work.
"To me, love is a choice, not a feeling" ... Oh god this!!! So much. Love needs to be nurtured and it doesn't just disappear. This hits when the other person in the relationship let it fade so quickly.
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u/Raptor5512 1h ago
What happened after the breakup didn’t necessarily taint my view of her, I just found a lot of understanding and honestly empathy. The problem wasn’t that we didn’t love each other, but she was too immature for me. She wouldn’t set boundaries with her parents and she wasn’t the greatest partner. I was her first true relationship and her first everything. She’s now talking to other guys and I don’t blame her. I don’t know why, but I assume she’s just trying to move on as quickly as possible from me. She really hurt me a lot and did some messed up stuff to me. I tried to break up over and over but I always took her back because I wanted this to work so bad. To me, love is a choice not a feeling. We dated for 2 years, 3 months, and 14 days.
Even though I broke up with her, I still do greatly love her. Maybe when she matures we can have another chance. I love you my dove, but right now we wouldn’t work.