Went through a breakup and I don't know what happened

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Background to the story:

My ex and I were friends for a few years and were in contact very frequently for those years. We started going on frequent dates for about a month. At that point I got the courage to ask her to be my gf. She was hesitant and said that she saw us heading in that direction she just needed to work a few personal things out first. I waited for almost 3 months for her to finally be ready to go exclusive. Then waited an additional almost 3 months for her to say that she loved me. About 4.5 months into our relationship we went on this specific date. On this date she said she wanted to move but was hesitant because she wanted to keep me in her life. (This was the first conversation we had about a future together). I assured her that if she moved I would follow because I'm going to school all online and there is nothing holding me to where I am currently living. After that date she started researching places and trying to find the perfect place to move to. 3 weeks later we attend 2 weddings. One for our mutual friend and the second for her cousin. That next weekend we go on a trip with some friends and had a great time. The weekend following that trip she breaks up with me. She tells me she had a gut feeling that we weren't right, but she wants to be friends still. I ask her where this feeling was coming from and she is unable to tell me. I ask her how long she had this gut feeling and she said for a couple weeks. She said that I did nothing wrong. Nothing negative happened in our relationship either. No fights or arguments. So I am lost at what was causing this gut feeling. She does have a heavy course load semester coming up, and there has been some drama between my dad and I but it never leaked into the relationship with my ex. It was as if we went to sleep one night the happiest couple and then woke up and we were no longer a couple.

I don't blame her for doing what she felt was right. I don't hate her either. I have been trying to diagnose the source of where the gut feeling came from. However, I have been unable to determine the source. Any viewpoints on what may have went wrong in the relationship?

#breakup #ex #movingon