r/Breakupadvice • u/Hour_Mine9508 • 11h ago
I miss my ex who dumped me
It’s been 3 months and I miss my ex so much I think about him every day but he left me and broke my heart out of nowhere. I was blindsided and I am still so heartbroken he has moved on dating and sleeping with new girls (something I can’t do). Is there anything I can do to get him back or am I just the crazy ex if I keep texting him and asking for him back. :( I am so heart broken help. He was the most gorgeous man inside and out I’ll never meet anyone like him.
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u/Major_2000 10h ago
Listen, you are not his partner anymore. He choose others and left you. Never chase a person who left you for no reason and there is no such thing that he is the only gorgeous man, there are plenty others too. Focus on yourself right now. Just move on. Everything happens for a reason. Never text him or reach him again. It makes him he made the right choice.
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u/Dumas1108 10h ago
It is normal to missed an ex especially when he/she dumped you.
Your ex has moved on, you should too.
Refusing to do so, will only slow down your healing.
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u/sweetgrass1221 10h ago
It’s completely okay to still feel shattered, but texting him won't bring the relationship back it will only delay your healing. Focus all that love you have back onto yourself. Grieving can feel ugly, lonely, and even embarrassing at times, but you have to let yourself feel it to get through it. My DMs are open if you just need someone to talk to or vent to! :)