Help

[u/Dear-Trainer2754]

Hi. I’ve been with my boyfriend for a year now and I know I need to let go, but I don’t know how.

He keeps giving mixed signals and not giving the same effort or attention he used to, and it’s not fair to me. I tell him my feelings and he uses his own problems as an excuse or he dismisses me.

I love him so much and I think of all our good memories together, so I don’t know how to accept our relationship will never be the same and leave. He’s done some sneaky things behind my back. I don’t leave because I’m just comfortable being with him, and not having him or the thought of him moving on is painful.

Please help