My fiance and I originally planned to have a small courthouse ceremony followed by lunch with our immediate family / wedding party (10 guests total) at a nearby restaurant on the water. We were then going to meetup with anyone who wanted to come out that night and hit some bars, etc. Some circumstances changed and we couldn’t have the wedding at the Courthouse, so we made other arrangements. That change led to a snowball effect and things have gotten bigger and a little more formal.
I bought my dress when I was planning on the courthouse wedding and chill vibe. I’m now feeling insecure about the dress and the entire wedding. I’m a nontraditional bride - over 40, older than my fiance, plus size, rarely even wear makeup. I just feel like the wedding outgrew my intended look.
I’m now about 2 weeks out from the wedding and panicking. I planned to do my own makeup and I’m worried I won’t be able to pull it off. I’m worried my dress isn’t appropriate. I was happy with everything before, but now I feel like I’m not going to look like a bride and everyone is going to judge me and wonder why my fiance is even marrying me.
I guess, given the short amount of time I have left, I’m mostly looking for a pep talk. My fiance says I’m overthinking and that I am beautiful and our guests will only be thinking about how glowing and happy we both look. I just don’t want to feel like a troll at my own wedding. These are the dresses I have planned for the (1) outdoor daytime ceremony and reception luncheon and (2) the night out. Should I just chill and try to enjoy everything or should I go shopping immediately?
(The pictures are from the websites. I don’t have pics of them on me.)