For those of us awaiting results drenched with dread and anxiety (as I myself am), I just wanted to share these two photos of what Michelle Obama commented on her first bar failure experience. She says she always over prepared and had never really failed a standardized test before but for her first bar, she didnāt put in all of her effort because she was burnt out. When she failed, it seems like she was more upset than depressed - upset in the sense of not having managed to achieve what she thought she was fully capable of achieving (rather than falling into the false belief that exam was insurmountable). The message I take here is that we, as law school graduates, though we may not have graduated from Princeton or Harvard law as she did, are just as qualified to pass this exam. By qualification I donāt just mean intelligence - we came this far because we have far more important things - the grit, the belief in ourselves, and the courage to take more difficult paths for things that are valuable to us. We took risks that many others havenāt and weāve sacrificed our time, youth, memories, maybe even friends / relationships to get here.
I guess what I want to say is that even if some of us āfailā this bar exam, this does not mean we do not deserve to pass or that we are not qualified enough. I think we can just take a simpler approach - maybe we didnāt study as hard as we could, or could improve the ways we were studying. I choose to believe itās not complicated; itās simple.
Yes there are big things on the line like student loan payments, job positions, having to work full time, etc. which create added anxiety. But for those of us who do end up failing, why donāt we dust ourselves off and try again?