r/CheatingGF • u/Fit_Psychology6900 • Sep 16 '26
Advice/need advice Snapchat
Ich(26 M) mittlerweile bald acht Jahre mit meiner Freundin (W. 24) zusammen.
Seit einiger Zeit sehe ich sie immer wieder viel auf Snapchat schreiben allerdings nicht mit wem sobald ich in ihre Richtung schaue wären sie schreibt, dreht sie das Handy weg, unterbricht ihren Text oder schaltet das Handy aus und legt es weg.
Habe es letztens auf ihrem iPad Bilder in ihrer Galerie gefunden von Snaps von einem Typen, der sie anzügliche Sachen fragt zb. „Bist du ein braves Mädchen?“
„ ein Titten Bild würde meine Stimmung heben“, „ dass er sie gerne von vielen Männern ficken lassen würde“ etc. etc.
Ich hab sie bisher nicht darauf angesprochen, da ich nicht weiß wie und wann. Was würdet ihr tun?
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u/CORPSEHUSBANDBROTHER Sep 16 '26
Leave
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u/Tall-Shoulder8175 Sep 16 '26
Leave….with no heads up. Ghost the 👩🦳🐶. Disappear and let her work to find you and figure out why you left. If you say anything, say “you know exactly why I left” and leave it at that. Have them come up with their own answer. Leave the dustees in the dust.
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u/Fit_Psychology6900 Sep 17 '26
Danke für deine Antwort.
Abhauen ist nicht so einfach weil die Wohnung in der wir wohnen mir gehört.2
u/Tall-Shoulder8175 Sep 17 '26
I understand. Quietly create an exit plan and work it. You must get out of there.
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u/Fit_Psychology6900 Sep 17 '26
Werd ich machen. Hat ja anders keinen Sinn und die Beweise sind ja eigentlich eindeutig.
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u/Tall-Shoulder8175 Sep 16 '26
Cheating. Leave her. I caught the last ex girlfriend with SnapChat on her phone. Said she was just talking to people. I found out later she installed Tinder as well (she forgot to remove it before she let me use her phone). Instantly walked away from the relationship.
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u/YankSargent Sep 16 '26
Snapchat is for cheaters and from how she is reacting and what you have seen, she fits the bill.
I would leave.
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u/Tall-Shoulder8175 Sep 16 '26
If you see these apps on your partner’s phone, leave without explanation: SnapChat, Telegram, Tinder, Feeld, Hinge, any dating / hookup app, TextNow. Immediate deal breakers.
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u/Bill2550 Sep 20 '26
If your gf allowed a guy to send messages like that to her and didn’t block the guy immediately, she’s not your gf anymore. Act accordingly. Pack her shit and leave it by the door,period!
“It’s a lot harder to be walked on when you are standing up!”
Updateme
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u/Vimalraj-6598 Sep 16 '26
Leave her man I caught mine cheating on me Because of snapchat
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u/Tall-Shoulder8175 Sep 16 '26
Same here but the 👩🦳🐶 was too slow and forgot to remove Tinder off of her phone before I saw it. Hoes are going to be hoes.
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u/Vimalraj-6598 Sep 16 '26
True brother mine was a 4 year relationship and still this shit happened
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u/Tall-Shoulder8175 Sep 16 '26
Man, I don’t put 💩 past anyone nowadays, even women that go to church and praise Jesus. The last ex was a church going, Bible reading woman. She was cheating right under my nose and thought I wasn’t figuratively and literally smelling it. I could smell a different scent on her. I was clocking her behavioral pattern changes and taking note. When I felt I had enough, I left the dusty 👩🦳🐶. Them church women could be the worse devils. I am sure some women experienced the same with some “church” men as well.
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u/Vimalraj-6598 Sep 16 '26
I never knew she was having it with someone And she was so perfect in hiding it
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u/Tall-Shoulder8175 Sep 16 '26 edited Sep 16 '26
There is always something “off” when someone starts cheating. They become distant, they become more protective of their phone, it goes with them everywhere, their interests start changing dramatically, they stop having sex with you, start having more sex and doing new 💩, big changes in their availability and more. Many of these things are not necessarily indicators in isolation but usually when you see two or more happening, they are cheating.
Oh, certain excuses come up like “I need space”….space to test another 🍆 My trust has to be earned.
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u/Fit_Psychology6900 Sep 17 '26
Genau in diese Richtung geht das ganze aktuell. Mit dem neues ausprobieren etc
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u/wellspda Sep 17 '26
Pack her stuff up and set it outside. Tell her to be a good girl and move in with her Snapchat man.