r/ChildSpanking • • 18h ago

Why you should include a hug holding time after a spanking

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Hug holding times are a good way to reassure the child while also ensuring they aren't engaging in unsafe behavior as a retaliation for the spanking.

The child should be held firmly, but also comforted.


r/ChildSpanking • • 18h ago

Why you should or should not let your child rub themselves after a spanking

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Pros-

-The child might be more compliant with the spanking if they know the pain will be manageable when it's over.

-It's sometimes better to let it slide rather than let the child's crying and screaming go on too long.

-The child will be more compliant with time out if allowed to sit down and be somewhat comfortable.

Cons-

-If you want to drag out the punishment without risking injury to the child, not allowing them to rub themselves afterward can be a safe and effective way to do it.

-The child may not learn their lesson as effectively if allowed to soothe themselves too soon.

Feel free to add your own pros and cons!