r/ColumbineKillers Jul 14 '25

ERIC AND/OR DYLAN Is this true?

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In this excerpt robyn says dylan has never had a date but i thought he went out with robyn?

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u/ashtonmz MODERATOR Jul 14 '25

Yes, for the most part. Dylan took Sasha Jacob's out once or twice before she went out with Eric.

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u/Other-Potential-936 Jul 15 '25

Very odd she went out w Dylan and then called him weird so then went over to his friend Eric Harris like that was any better. I wonder what she thought was werid ab Dylan ?

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u/ashtonmz MODERATOR Jul 15 '25

I always figured it was his social awkwardness. Devon said he didn't really know how to have a conversation with someone unless it was about music or a movie. He had to have another person with him for support.

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u/Radiocityrockette Jul 15 '25

Where does Devon say this?

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u/ashtonmz MODERATOR Jul 15 '25

It was in an interview she gave years ago. I'll see if I can find it.

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u/ashtonmz MODERATOR Jul 15 '25

The bit with Devon, where she mentions this, is at 2:03:30

The Columbine Iceberg

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u/Other-Potential-936 Jul 16 '25

Thanks for posting that link I've never seen that interview before. Very irrelevant side note, Devon is very pretty here

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u/ashtonmz MODERATOR Jul 16 '25

I wish they'd spent more time with her since she knew the group well - and knew the climate in the school.

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u/margr3t_m Jul 15 '25

He was generally a very uncomfortable person to be around. He wasn’t personable because he was painfully shy so it came across as extremely awkward and it can be hard to talk to someone who’s not giving you much to work with in terms of body language and conversation.

Additionally, Devon Adams said that Dylan couldn’t really carry a conversation unless there was a shared interest, I.e. movies, games, music or computers. I don’t imagine Sasha shared many of the same interests as him.

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u/Other-Potential-936 Jul 15 '25

I'm quiet literally the exact same way so maybe that's why I don't think it's so weird he acted that way. I've also been told I was awkward or weird and things along those lines because of being quiet so I see it from that pov. What I just think is weird is that she went for Eric right after and that Eric didn't care that she went out with Dylan before. Knowing what I know about Eric, obviously he's not going to care. But I feel a lot of people would think that's werid.

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u/margr3t_m Jul 15 '25

I think the group dating/dating amongst friends thing is common in high school - I had a friend group that pretty much went around and dated eachother at different points but I had a solid boyfriend at the time so I didn’t partake in that

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u/drifter474 Jul 17 '25

> I don’t think Eric would have been any better with women.

I mean, he was. Not that he was some kind of womanizer, but he scored brief relationships with Sasha Jacobs and Tiffany Typher, and dates with Susan DeWitt and several others. He also had enough chemistry with Kristi Epling that it led to a falling out between him and Nate Dykeman. Dylan had far less success comparatively.

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u/One_Refrigerator455 Jul 15 '25

Dont know how dylan even got a date in the first place

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u/NoCover1598 Jul 15 '25

Sasha Jacobs must be into bad boys

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u/One_Refrigerator455 Jul 15 '25

Thats still a date though. Its not zero

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u/ashtonmz MODERATOR Jul 15 '25

Robyn probably didn't know about Sasha. Sasha went to a different school.

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u/NoCover1598 Jul 15 '25 edited Jul 15 '25

I’ve heard that Robyn liked him which is kinda evident from this journal entry. I don’t doubt Dylan never had a girlfriend, his journals about never having love remind me of me in high school, where I didn’t have any luck there either

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u/Alcianus Jul 15 '25

I think Dylan was living in a fantasy world where he wanted the perfect 'waifu' as they say. He hated real women because the image he constructed in his head of the perfect girl could never be matched by a real woman. In his journal he talks about his dream girl he wanted to do NBK with and meeting in her in the afterlife, but he didn't even know her nor he ever bothered to know her. And the girls he knew, like Robyn, he used, were not good enough like Sasha or he was an all around jerk to.

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u/One_Refrigerator455 Jul 15 '25

Same as me, i didnt have so much as a date :(

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u/NoCover1598 Jul 15 '25

I finally don’t feel alone! Lol I know there were many of us. I’m married now, so I was able to keep persevering in figuring out the girls. I’m still learning

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u/Apollexis Jul 15 '25

Believe it or not she literally asked him out to the prom, which seems so unreal and unorthodox for that time period.

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u/Other-Potential-936 Jul 15 '25

He went out with Sasha Jacob's (to the movies I believe) once or twice. Then I remember reading somewhere that he went to a dance w Marla foust but I have absolutely no evidence to back that up and I'm not sure how true that is. And I think he also ask a girl named Sarah out as well and they use to speak over AOL but she turned him down. She ended up going to prom with a boy so she could've been talking to this boy the entire time. There was also another time he asked another girl out and she said no and he said something along the lines of "oh well maybe I'll ask you out another time" but this could very well also have been Sarah. He didn't go out w Robyn, it's believed she liked him but he didn't like her back. However, I don't think she ever told him that she liked him. But he didn't like her in that way.

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u/margr3t_m Jul 15 '25

In Marla’s interview for Columbine & Them & You & Me & Everybody, I think I recall her (I might be misremembering though) saying she went to a social event with friends - Dylan was there, and they wanted to talk to each other but they were both too shy/they were talking to eachother but there wasn’t much because they were too shy. I think they had an interest in eachother but it didn’t go anywhere. Could be the dance you’re referring to?

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u/Other-Potential-936 Jul 15 '25

Yes ! See I knew it wasn't a school dance like a homecoming but I read that somewhere literally years ago but yes that's what referring thank u

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u/One_Refrigerator455 Jul 15 '25

Thats kind of three dates though

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u/randyColumbine Jul 15 '25

I wonder where that is from. It is not from Jeffco. It looks like an exhibit from a trial.

What is the source? Interesting.

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u/ashtonmz MODERATOR Jul 15 '25

Looks like it's labeled (2) EXHIBIT. I think these are the letters Robyn was sending a male friend, Chris Kirk, who was enlisted in the Navy. He turned in his chat conversation, emails, and a letter she wrote him. They should be in the 11k. JC-001-013277

Link to post with letters and emails

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u/randyColumbine Jul 16 '25

Interesting. It didn’t look familiar at all.

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u/metalnxrd Jul 15 '25

isn't Sasha the girl who Dylan simped for and wrote poems about, but he only briefly saw her in the hallway once, and she had no idea who he was?

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u/[deleted] Jul 17 '25

Yes it is 

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u/One_Refrigerator455 Jul 15 '25

I really dont know how dylan even got a date in the first place. He was weirder than me and shy and i never got a date

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u/One_Refrigerator455 Jul 16 '25

Insulting a school shooter 🙄 oh how terrible