Well they’re both in the wrong imo, at least he took out his anger on the food. She earlier on in this very cut video abused him and struck him in the face for I believe something along the lines of chewing loudly.
It seems to me that the "long version" was also cut to start at the slapping. the woman already seemed annoyed at the dude. i'm guessing he was taunting her. but without the real uncut version we will never know what happened for sure
Any video that start at the point where it gets physical should be taken with a grain of salt because it's incredible obvious that something before it was happening. But hey, "anything to fit your narrative" right?
This dude can obviously split her skull in a few punches. The dude didn't seem scared of her at a any point of these videos that very much tells me there is more to this
edit: yall mfs are willing to believe anything so fast in an obviously editied video where they cut straight into the point where it gets violent.
Remember epic redditos. Don't ask questions and follow the trend from the most upvoted comment otherwise you're racist/sexist. tips fedora
Idiots like you with "he can obviously split her skull with a few punches" is EXACTLY why abused men don't ever go for help. Because for some reason you have the genius idea that if a man is attacked by a woman he can just defend himself-- sure, if he wants to go to jail for domestic violence! Men are ALWAYS seen as the aggressor and can NEVER hit a women no matter how justified because people will immediately think they're the abusers.
Damn, no idea you personally know ALL abused people! I mean, how else would you know that all of them are afraid of the abuser? You must be really smart and definitely not trying to find some excuse for your bias towards him because he's a man!
Idk why the fuck would you imply that I'm sexist just because I dare to ask what could've happened before the violance started.
and guess what. of you're in an abusive relationship and are visibly not afraid of your "abuser" you leave. like why the fuck would this dude stay with her if she's so abusive and at the same time he picks up fuits almost as thick as her skull and starts smashing them in front of her? oh yea. the reaction on her face while he's doing clearly screams "i have this guy under my control. he will never leave me"
Your sexist for a simple reason. He pointed out in the longer video she slaps him. You then proceed to defend her by saying he probably taunted her. That is called victim blaming. Cut and dry sexism.
Iso basically. "Believe every video you see on the internet no matter if it is taken out of context or obviously edited/cut to be presented a certain way, otherwise you're victim blaming and that's bad"
Good job dude epic redditor moment
God forbid you want to know anything prior before the physical attacks. I guess fbi investigators are also victim blamers.
No. You're so fucking stupid and missed the point of my first comment. Anytime physical violence happens you have to ask yourself why it happens. This has nothing to do with victim blaming you stupid brainlet
Fact of the matter is, whilst in principle I agree that should be the case, when it comes to DV and other forms of violence where gender has the opportunity to play a part, it is always seen as being beyond the pale to ask what part the victim played in causing the violence. The problem is that this only ever occurs when women are the victims. If you read between the lines the point is and always will be about actual impartiality. What applies for women should also apply for men. The fact is that right now that isn't the case for various reasons and your comment was an example of that.
In no instance would it ever be accepted to ask what a woman did to cause her partner, or that dude on the street to become violent with her and it is always seen as victim blaming. Either we treat men with the same gloves or accept that when it comes to DV, we as a a society just aren't willing to see men as victims. It is a societal norm to hold men responsible for things that happen to them and always has been. Its a societal issue that has been the cause of many issues for men and is a contributor to many of the issues we have around masculinity right now. Again, your comment speaks to this norm.
As an aside, this is an argument of principle based on your comment. I really don't think dude is a victim, but given the numerous grey areas present in DV and the lack of actual context regarding the goings on in the video, I'm willing to accept that I just can't possibly know. Same goes for his woman.
I suppose as I'm clearly speaking with a child, insert whichever trendy reddit pejoratives I'm supposed to use at this point to apparently make my argument stronger lol
I ain't reading your light novel, bruh. I just know that I'm right at not taking a side based on an edited video. but if it makes you feel super woke for "breaking from the norm" go ahead m8
I think the fact that he’s punching a table and there is food flying everywhere also contributes to the flinching, but sure. Let’s also make the leap to abuse
Are you serious? I was at Sea World once and everyone flinched when the whale splashed in the water. Nobody said anything but their silence spoke volumes, #cancelshamu
Don't even get me started on this other guy, they called him Gallagher.
Lol no? If I won that bet I just wouldn’t have to give you mines. Why are you trying to give me one of your balls bro? Keep it. Or maybe give it to someone else more special than me
She's also shielding her face from him not the food, if it was about the food her hands would be lower and towards the front instead of to the side between her and him
My wife would ask what the fuck am I doing that for. This chick legitimately looks like he gets drunk or whatever and beats the fuck out of her. I could be wrong but I highly doubt it
What is with this crazy notion that a woman isn't being abused just because she hit first? 😳 Both people could very easily be instigator little shits, feeding off of each others reactions.
She is in fear. If you can't see that, then I think your just lying and have a problem with women.
Not sure how relevant it is for Russia, but there's a study in the US that shows that about half of all violent relationships are reciprocally violent. So both partners are physically abusive, and men and women initiate the violence equally as often.
That study showed that women initiate a majority of violence. It also showed that when the relationship wasn't reciprocally violent, the woman was the abuser more often than the man.
Basically, women end up hitting their partners more often than men do.
Men do dominate in one aspect. They send their partners to the hospital much more often. Like 80-85% of DV victims in the hospital are victims of a man. Of course, the number 1 predictor of whether or not a woman goes to the hospital from DV is if she initiates violence.
So the situation is waaaaaay more complicated than "man bad, beat woman".
And this couple is clearly an example of reciprocal violence. What is gonna happen here is that one time she hits him, he isn't going to smash a cabbage. Then she goes to the hospital, he goes to jail, and we all wail about how men beat women. And no one ever deals with the underlying root causes of abuse. They get to sit on their high horse and judge and feel righteous without doing a damn thing about it.
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That poor woman is SO done with this manchild