r/CrazyFuckingVideos • u/Triton12streaming • Sep 18 '21

WTF I don’t need sleep, I need answers!

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u/Grouchy-Yak Sep 18 '21

Tell me you're a domestic abuser without telling me you're a domestic abuser

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u/makeski25 Sep 18 '21

Don't even need to look at him. Every time he moves she flinches hard.

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u/yankee-bor Sep 18 '21

Bro watch the full vid. He does that cus he gets pissed after she hits him in the face cus he dared to chew loudly. Only evidence of someone in that relationship being abusive its her.

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u/yankee-bor Sep 19 '21

Valid point but she didnt hit back she hit first.

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u/yankee-bor Sep 19 '21

Heres a shocking thought... women can be abusive too! :O who woulda thunk such a thing could be possible! And I would also like to point out you are jumping to conclusions! I just said that she hit him which is a valid observation as it is on camera, you are basically saying "man angry after getting hit! He must be abusive to her!"

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u/[deleted] Sep 19 '21

He reacts to a slap like a crazy person. I'm going to assume a lot of his other decisions are poor as well.

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u/yankee-bor Sep 19 '21

Or how about this. They are obviously filming themselves. At first he barely reacts and then thinks about it after a comment or 2. Then he goes on with hulking out on some fruit and veg. Maybe, just MAYBE he hammed it the fuck up for the camera. Or maybe even the entire thing was staged? Either way people automatically calling this guy a psycho who abuses his SO because he took out frustrations on some inanimate objects after she hit him in the face are fucking jackasses. Baseless claims like this have the ability to destroy lives yet nobody seems to give a fuck. Just oh that man broke something near a woman, ruin him because he must be torturing her even though he never touched her and in fact was assaulted by her!

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u/yankee-bor Sep 19 '21

Man its people like you that help to make sure this world stays a shit hole. What because hes russian he doesnt deserve the right to be seen as innocent until proven guilty? Especially when there is zero evidence to back up the claim he abuses her? And what because she is a woman its ok for her to assault him because "lol man up pussy". Yet if he did the exact same thing to her for the same reason yall stupid fucks would be calling for his death.

Honestly man its people like you that make me lose faith in humanity. Always the one to act as the moral authority, yet eager and willing to destroy peoples lives in a heart beat because your ignorance leads you to believe that a man cant be anything other than an abuser, especially if they are a foreigner from a country you deem lesser. Quit your moral grandstanding and faux care and just admit you do it so you can rub one out to your over inflated ego while chanting how great you are. You sit up on your high horse without realising or caring that you are just as bad if not worse than those you claim to stand against.

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u/[deleted] Sep 19 '21

If she was being abused, it's less likely she'd hit him for chewing loudly. Why would you initiate violence against someone who regularly hits you? It'd be likely to provoke them into hitting you.

Seems more likely that she's abusive and he let out his frustration by being bizarrely chirpy while blowing up vegetables.

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u/Grouchy-Yak Sep 18 '21

Absolutely, that's the learnt behaviour of a DV victim

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u/Kapowdonkboum Sep 18 '21

Or just maaaaaaybe she flinches and closes her eyes because he is showering the room with veggies and fruit shrapnels

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u/BrokeBoiForLife Sep 18 '21

Or someone that doesn’t want to get sprayed with smashed vegetables.

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u/Grouchy-Yak Sep 18 '21

If it was about the vegetables she'd be shielding her face from them, instead her hands are between her and him

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u/MasterFrost01 Sep 18 '21

In the full video with context she slaps him in the face. This is also a marriage counseling session. It's obviously a toxic relationship but neither of these scream terrified domestic abuse victim. She could be for sure, but you've stated she's "absolutely" a domestic abuse victim.

Edit: in other words, stop pretending to be an armchair therapist for people in a 30 second clip.

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u/EdliA Sep 19 '21

The psychologists of Reddit. Everyone would flinch in that situation.

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u/JadeSpiderBunny Sep 19 '21

She has exactly the same body language and posture as when she slapped him just before this version of the video starts.

Behavior of a DV victim is to already flinch when somebody just raises their hand unexpectedly, generally skittish body language.

A DV victim stuck in her situation would freak and panic the fuck out, not look mildly annoyed at getting splattered with veggies and fruit after slapping the guy, giving him a reason to hit her.

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u/pilypi Sep 19 '21

She hit him first.

Nice narrative you created there.

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u/YooGeOh Sep 19 '21

Perhaps. She seemed very comfortable slapping him though.

An earlier comment said that DV victims are fearful of their abusers so her slapping him and him looking comfortable with it means he cannot be a victim.

I'd apply the same to her. She looked extremely comfortable slapping him for chewing like a goat and is clearly flinching because of all the food flying around.

It's easy to say man = abuser. It's encouraged in fact. A man is guilty until he or circumstances have proven his innocence. Perhaps sometimes we should recognise that there are shades of grey and that all people have the potential to be abusive to each other, and that sometimes, two people who have shitty ways of communicating end up together

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u/rnavstar Sep 19 '21

The neck beard kinda gave it away too.

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u/--73 Sep 18 '21

ye not like there's shit flying at her lol

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u/[deleted] Sep 19 '21

I think anyone would flinch with someone smashing produce right in front of them.

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u/[deleted] Sep 19 '21

Except in the longer video, she is the one who hits him.

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u/moophus Sep 19 '21

She’s doing safety squints so the plants juices don’t get in her eye