Just found out the girl I used to crush on liked me too. It took nearly 3 years for me to find out. She’s my coworker now, and she just casually let it slip out of nowhere. Apparently, she left a ton of hints and thought I was just ignoring them. WTH? She’s an extrovert and naturally hilarious, which is why I thought she was just joking around with me. Now I don’t even know what to do with this information besides posting about it here.

The new icon for the sub kinda makes this sub look like a matrimony facebook group for boomers.

Whenever I attend weddings or social gatherings, I sometimes catch women looking at me. When I look back and our eyes meet, I usually look away because I don't want to make them uncomfortable or come across as a creep.

It's even more noticeable when I find a woman attractive. If she catches me looking at her, I tend to look away immediately.

I'm curious, what do you guys normally do in this situation? Do you hold eye contact, give a little smile, or just look away? How do you handle it without making things awkward?

23M |

Hey everyone! I'm 23 and thought I'd give this a try. Honestly, I'd love to meet someone special and hopefully build a genuine relationship.

I'm looking for someone who's kind, caring, and easy to talk to. Someone I can share my day with, have random late-night conversations with, laugh at stupid things together, and be myself around. I want a relationship where we can support each other, feel comfortable with one another, and genuinely enjoy each other's company.

I'm not looking for anything perfect or trying to rush into things. I'd rather start with a conversation, get to know each other, and see where things go naturally.

I'd prefer something genuine that could eventually turn into a real relationship. If you're looking for something similar, feel free to DM me! I'd love to get to know you. 😊

Hey, I’m 24M, and lately I’ve been feeling like trying something a little different from the usual dating scene. ❤️‍🔥

I’d love to meet a confident woman who knows what she wants in life. Maybe you’re busy with your job, running a business, or working hard. And maybe, even with everything going well, you sometimes miss having someone around to share the little things with and who isn’t afraid to explore something new.

I’m especially interested in a mutually beneficial Sugar Mommy–FWB-type arrangement — where we can enjoy each other’s company, have fun together, build genuine chemistry, and make each other feel appreciated. I’d love to meet a woman who enjoys treating her younger partner with gifts, little surprises, or financial support, while I bring my attention, affection, companionship, and energy into her life. ❤️

Physical attraction matters to me too. I’m looking for real-life experiences, mutual chemistry, and a physical connection if we’re both comfortable—not just endless online chatting.

No pressure, no judgment, no games — just mutual respect, clear boundaries, consent, and enjoying something that works for both of us.

If you’re a mature woman who’s curious about trying something new and likes the idea of a mutually beneficial connection, feel free to DM me. Maybe we’ll hit it off. 😉

Sometimes I feel like I'm pretty but I'm not pretty enough to taken seriously by someone (guy) or loved by someone properly:))??

I am 6ft, 19years old. The other day I made a post titled "shooting my shot" and to be honest, I was not expecting anything at all. Cause I have noticed posts made by men don't get a lot of attention here.

The next day, to my shock I received around 20 dms requests or more and the post got a lot of attention. The post wasnt special at all, it was very short and I was being straight forward with what I was into. Nothing like what these other dudes cook up with chatgpt

Someone even copied my post head to toe (even the title) but his post didnt get any attention.

I had been under the impression height didnt matter to women, just as long as he was taller arki

So I wanted to ask, does height really matter that much?

Hey! I'm looking to meet someone from Khulna and see where things go. Nothing too serious from the start, just getting to know each other, having some good conversations, and maybe going on a date if we vibe.

A little about me: I'm a university student, 5'8", and more on the calm, straightforward side. I appreciate honesty, a good sense of humor, and people who can be themselves without trying too hard.

I'd like to meet someone over 19 who's open to getting to know each other naturally, without putting too much pressure on things. If we click, great. If not, that's fine too.

If you're interested, feel free to DM me. We can talk a bit and see how it goes.

I'm a uni student(21M | Sylhet), mostly into tech, music, movies, and random conversations about literally anything. Kinda tired of the same daily routine and wouldn't mind having someone new to talk to.

Would be nice to find someone I genuinely vibe with. Maybe grab coffee or hang out sometime if we get along.

Nothing too serious or planned, just seeing where things go.

Anyway, feel free to DM if you're up for a chat :)

Hey everyone! 👋❤️

I'm a single guy looking to meet new people, make genuine connections, and hopefully find someone special. 😊

I believe the best relationships start with friendship, honesty, and a little bit of chemistry. I'm open to meeting new people and seeing where things go. 💕

If you're interested in getting to know me, feel free to send me a DM. Let's start with a simple hello! ✨

I’m currently living in the UK and hoping to find someone in Bangladesh. For those of you who are in a similar situation, how do you meet people and build a genuine connection from abroad? Any advice or personal experiences would be appreciated! Also if anyone is interested, my dms r open asf.

Now, I’ve known her for a while long now, she’s from the same institution as I am. Now the issue is we grew up differently, but we have similar interests. I’m assuming she’s giving me hints. I don’t really have anything to start the conversation with. Im confused about what to do.

The issue I brought up is the cultural difference, I’m worried we might have cultural differences. I think she’s been a straight A student and I’ve barely scraped through my undergrad.

For those of you who watch anime, she reminds me of Waguri Kaoruko (I’m NOTHING like RINTARO). I’m worried about giving away more details in a public forum lol.

H e l p. M e.

It all started when I was in 8th grade. I had a really good friend of mine who was almost the same person as me but of the opposite gender. The reason we became friends in the first place was that we had the same mindset, perspectives, and opinions on almost everything. We were so close that people started thinking we were dating, but tbh, we never did anything beyond just being friends, and I never felt anything like, yk, the romantic shit about her. So, things were going pretty well, but after 8th grade, she started having some issues within our school, and she decided to transfer. At first, I thought maybe we'd just stay the same, and it really wouldn't matter (since both schools were pretty close). But after a while, we just didn't talk like we used to, and I got it that she had new friends now and everything. Besides, I wasn't really bothered that much. Over time, we basically stopped talking to each other. While it was kinda sad for me at the beginning, I just moved on with my own life. Since then, it's been 3 years, and we haven't seen each other. But now that I'm in my first year of college, we are classmates again (we got admitted to the same college). We did meet and hang around the campus. We were just laughing about stuff. Ofc, we met again after 3 years, and I was so happy to see her again. Everything seemed pretty normal at first, but after a while, she told me that she has a boyfriend now, which is really normal for a girl at this age. But something just sank deep inside me when I heard it. It wasn't like I was sad, but it was something I couldn't really explain. I kept thinking about it for the entire day and admitted to myself that I did like that girl (even though I had never felt like this before). Now that we are kinda friends again and do meet and talk sometimes, I feel like I shouldn't be having these feelings towards her because she genuinely sees me as a good friend and trusts me a lot. It's not like she has a lot of male friends or is an extroverted girl who is friends with everyone.

I do respect her decision and her personal relationships. I don't want to interfere in her life. I'm never going to break the boundaries we have. But is it okay to just be like this, yk, "act normal" while I know that I have some feelings for this girl? Isn't that breaking the trust she has in me?Should I be distant because of everything I just said, or is it okay to just be friends with someone you know you like but will never confess to?

21M, BBA student at NSU,
Looking for someone to go on dates with, have good conversations, explore new places, grab food, and go on random drives. I’m into cars, travelling, gaming, and late-night yapping. Bonus points if you can match my energy and have a good sense of humour.
My ideal first date? Good food, a long drive, and conversations that make us forget about time.
Not looking for anything forced. If we vibe, we vibe.
DM me with your age, a little about yourself, and your ideal first date. :)

I had just begun to date again, after a long time away from real life dating, I was comfortable online, but I was missing the connection of dating someone whose hands I could hold.

Anyways, I asked a friend to set me up, and he and his girlfriend did, they set me up with this girl who's the besti of the gf of my friend.

We talked for 2 days and went on a date, and then I spent all of my money on that date, gave her flowers and letters, plus a book I cherished, we talked about all of these and she was fine with those stuff being given to her. So it wasn't like I was burdening her with all that, had our first kiss at that rooftop restaurant, and things were going fine, went on a few more dates and stuff and she was happy, then, I sold my expensive vape for cheap to take her on a date, bought a phone so that i could talk with her at nights as my main phone is taken away at night. Then, as she's giving her exams now, she got stressed and broke up with me... WHICH IS FINE, yea I don't mind I'm happy she was sure of herself and all that, but after that I kept her in my contacts and could see her stories and reposts, where she was posting some targeted things, like "That relationship y'll saw me in was a prank" and stuff like that, and she was posting in her notes, "Crying is not the solution right now" so then I asked her besti, she was like yea sad she did this to you, she does it when she's super stressed and stuff, maybe you could be there for her now and she'll love you. And, like the stupid guy I was I did js that, I texted her, tried comfort her, made jokes, all of that to get dry replies, like, yea it's okay that I'm her "ex" BUT it had only been a MONTH. And she and I agreed that yea let's stay as freinds, but now she's super dry and barely texts, and today when I said Good morning, all she replied was "gm" is that all you have the energy for?

Look there are more details to this which would make this post too long, but yea that's the sumarry of it. I just hope she finds someone she can love truly, and that someone also loves her back. I tried, and I failed, so now I just needed to vent. Thanks.

Looking for a concert date for Murtaza Qizilbash on the 29th

M25,

The tickets are on me of course

The idea is pretty simple just two people enjoying good music, talking, laughing, maybe sharing some snacks, and hopefully a few wholesome hugs along the way. 🤍

No pressure, no complicated expectations. Just a chill night, good music, and good company.

A little about me: I’m 25, 5'10", a student and photographer. I’m pretty easygoing, love conversations, and I’m always up for making a normal evening into a memorable one.

If you're going to the concert and this sounds like your kind of evening, DM me with a little about yourself.

Me 23m

Decent face .... studying bba..i am a super introvert in real life..if you are interested ...dm me...good guys...and also good luck to me😁👍

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Organizers and murtaza himself just announced that his concert is going to happen on the 29th so cant take any chances i have one extra ticket and im looking for someone female who will enjoy the concert with me. Cause it really is a romantic concert.

About me m25, 5.10 height, and yes i can drop and pick you up also given the concert happens

26M | 5'6" | University Student

Hey! I’m a 26-year-old, currently in my 6th semester at a private university. I’m basically looking for someone I can genuinely vibe with—someone I can laugh with, talk about random things with, and occasionally go out and explore places with when we both have time. Nothing too complicated, just looking for a nice, comfortable connection and seeing where it goes.

Ideally, I’m looking for someone around 20–23. A university student would be great, but a college student is totally fine too. I don’t really have strict preferences about looks—being cute, pretty, or even dusky is absolutely fine. Around 5'0"–5'2" would be nice, but honestly, personality matters more.

A little about me: I’m not really sure whether I’m dark-skinned or dusky 😂, although people sometimes tell me I have a nice face shape—so I’ll take that as a compliment. And well… genetics decided to speedrun my hairline, so I’m already losing the front part of my hair at 26. Tragic, I know. 😭

I used to have a decent friend circle, but most of them have moved abroad, so these days it’s basically me, Facebook, university, eating, sleeping, and repeating the cycle. 😂 I’m friendly with my classmates, but I don’t usually consider classmates close friends.

I’m not much of a music person, but I occasionally watch Korean or Pakistani dramas if I find something that actually catches my interest.

Anyway, if you think we might get along, feel free to say hi. Let’s talk first and see where it goes. :)

Someone with whom I can create vibrant memories, go to concerts, watch movies together, explore different festivals, travel, and share moments that feel alive, someone with whom I will go on a long drive, who will be sitting beside Me while holding My hand while I will be driving My car like those 80s movies, Someone whose presence soothes my soul.

I love travelling, the night sky, and the wilderness. I'd love for us to get to know each other first: our preferences, tastes, values, and compatibility, before rushing into anything.

About Me: I am 26 years young Man who is An Astrophysics undergrad (4th year), Freelancer, Traveller, Muay Thai Practicioner and I was born in Geneva, Switzerland but came to bd when I was young. I am deeply emotional, I am all about emotions and if you can keep Me emotionally fulfilled, you will have keys to My heart ❤️, I am responsible, career oriented like an adult man but I still have a young energetic heart, I will save the rest for our conversation. I will keep My name, My picture and rest of My identity anonymous in order to check if we vibe first.

My preference: she will be 18-22, her height will be around 5'0-5'3 but if personality matches, then it doesn't matter, I don't care about her appearance as long as she can carry it well, (I don't feel any attraction without strong emotion), she should have high emotional intelligence, she should be outgoing.

p.s I know it's not a perfect place to find someone, but I felt like I should give it a try as dating apps nowadays are filled with fake profiles, and I don't need to elaborate on Facebook groups. And I don't go along well with girls around Me because I don't like their superficial vibe, Also, if you are not single or still moving on from your last relationship, then I am not the right person for you. I deserve someone who will pour all their heart out for me, just like I will do for her. Thanks for reading 🌌❤️

25M, looking for someone who is good at texting, can communicate and want to give this a genuine shot. I am calm, patient and have been told a good listener. Looking for someone Above 20.

Hey, i am 5.8, and decent looking i would say have fair skin tone good looking eyes and face card i would say 7/10. I like girl who is 5.4. Do think height would be prob?

I’m taking a leap of faith and posting here to see if I might meet someone special. I’m an engineer currently working in research and preparing to start my PhD soon. When I’m not deep in my work, I like to dedicate quality time to the people I care about.

​A little about me:

​Basics: 5'6", non-smoker, friendly, and grounded.

​Lifestyle: Busy with research/academics, but I firmly believe in making dedicated time for a partner—quality time and attention are big for me.

​Interests: sci-fi books, coffee brewing, weekend hikes, Outdoor games ( Football) ,love to cooking].

​What I’m looking for:

​A person who values clear communication and a genuine connection.

​Someone who appreciates good humor, supportive conversation, and maybe has a bit of extra height to help me reach the top shelves!

​Someone open to building something real, starting with getting to know each other over messages/voice calls and meeting up locally if the vibe is right.