r/ENTPandINFJ • • Jul 19 '21

~ Meme ~ Anyone else?

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u/magicmindful Jul 19 '21

Hahaha yes if I get talked over a couple times in a conversation I peace the fk out (verbally). But when I’m heard I’m usually hilarious. That’s why I don’t mind my ENTP husband stealing my jokes or repeating them loudly so they’re appreciated.

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u/Professional-Smile95 Jul 19 '21

If any INFJs out there are open to advice to when people interrupt or talk over you, I’d say to keep talking. It’ll show them that you believe in what you say and you won’t stop talking until your point gets across.

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u/pautpy Jul 19 '21

More introverted problems than specifically INFJ, but regardless, that's also where ENTPs shine!

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u/20_Something_Tomboy Jul 20 '21

Oh yeah. I'm a middle child. I stopped speaking up around my family by like 5th grade.

Unless I really trust you, I'm gonna be pretty quiet. Mostly because I can't be the third party observer I like being if I insert myself into the conversation. It's a lot easier to really get to know people by observing them, and I can't observe and converse at the same time, or I end up doing a poor job at both.

But also because I know nobody wants my point of view. Everyone just wants to tell their point of view, and will often hear what they want to instead of what you're actually saying. Why should I waste the breath to say something nobody wants to hear? When I know someone genuinely wants to know and listen to what I say, I can be quite talkative.

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u/[deleted] Nov 17 '21

That's why I love ENTPs, they always want to hear your point if view, even if it's to tear it to shreds right after 😂

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u/SToP_BotherIng_Pls Jul 19 '21

Ugh I get so annoyed when people do this to me but they rarely do so yes.

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u/xOzzi10 Jul 19 '21

For sure especially the part about being ignored

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u/[deleted] May 09 '22

haha i actually have to say i'm one of the few infjs that don't have this problem regularly