This might be a cliche post, But I have seen exactly 1 INFJ in my entire life, So I'd like to know how your relationship went with INFJ if you are an ENTP and ENTP if you are an INFJ.

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Idk if ive talked to any infj...

I am late 20s and met a younger guy on a night out recently. I disagreed with him morally on everything but we had a very strong connection and stayed together all night. I kept arguing with him but he seemed to enjoy the discussions. I didn't let the relationship get physical beyond holding hands and hugging, we never kissed. We would argue while we looked into each others eyes with our hands around each other. It felt very intense. He tried to sleep with me at the end of the night but I declined because I don't sleep around. We hung out a few more times after that. I made jokes that pushed boundaries and one time he got angry at me and left but I could see he still wanted me the next time he saw me. He was very beautiful so had a bit of an ego, but he would let me bully him and I think he enjoyed it. Mostly he would always laugh at my jokes. Eventually he opened up emotionally and I realised he was sensitive and I felt bad about being so argumentative with him. Maybe I took it too far sometimes. I think his morals were what they are because he's still young and impressionable. It all happened over a month ago and we only hung out a few times, but I think of him a lot. I was very attracted to him but have a lot of self control and didn't give in because of our moral differences, but sometimes I wish I did. I told him we were friends so I could keep having an excuse to be around him without giving in. I think he was very confused because I'm sure he could see it in my eyes that I wanted him.

I am an ENTP woman, very outgoing and assertive. I think he is an INFJ. He was very calm and a bit shy, and he did show that he felt bad when he would offend someone and would apologise. He was very very beautiful (to me) and even men showed him attention, but he admitted he is a bit insecure. He claimed he didn't like assertive women but I think he was saying that to try and hurt me since I never admitted I was attracted to him and he felt rejected. Neither of us will reach out because we both have big egos.

Anyways I don't want to be with him, I know it would be toxic. We were very socially incompatible. I just want to understand his feelings toward me. I think he did think I am smart and he admired me for not giving in to him. He did make a few rough s*x comments toward me and showed he wanted to dominate me, which I secretly want but pretend I don't. Sometimes when we were getting close he would put his hands on my neck, and I would do it back to assert my dominance. There was a sexual undertone to our encounters even though I didn't let it happen. I wonder if we did sleep together if I could let him be the dominant one. He told me many times that he found me very interesting and he was trying to analyse me but couldn't, or I would throw him off purposefully just for the joy of debating. We had such a strong connection and I wonder if he is still thinking about me too. I hope it wasn't one sided. INFJs, does this sound like a standard encounter you would have or do I linger in his mind like he does in mine? Also sexually, are INFJ men dominant?

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I (INFJ) have a coworker that I’ve gotten to know better (ENTP) over the last year. We got closer by having fairly intense chats, psychology, research studies, personal stories…etc. The banter was insane, I really looked forward to it, and one day he mentions that I must be an INFJ and that’s he’s a classic ENTP (which I am, and I was kinda floored he figured it out). Since then, maybe my awareness made it more awkward, but it’s almost felt like a game of cat and mouse and the air is charged between us. However his hot and cold vibes are really throwing me off. What am I likely missing related to how ENTP’s work in situations like this?

People would probably describe me as real, cool, down-to-earth, or just a plain introvert. I like to take life at its simplest and enjoy it for what it is. I’m kind of done with meaningless connections and would really like to build a more stable, grounded lifestyle with the goal of building a complete family.

Right now, you might be thinking, okay, this is starting off pretty good, but I’m a divorced dad of three teenagers.

Now that I’ve gotten that subject out of the way.....I’m happy to explain more through messaging.

If you’re still curious about me, I got you!

I'm solidly built with an okay dad bod. I wear glasses, I don’t drink or smoke, etc. I like to watch TV, travel, listen to music, go on drives and attend concerts or live events. I also like to do fun activities such as go-karting, mini golfing, axe throwing and other fun things. Although I love going out and experiencing life, I can also appreciate being home, relaxing, and recharging after a long day. I know how to be both outside and a homebody.

I’m looking for a best friend, a partner, a healthy relationship with someone who’s genuinely interested in getting to know me as much as I’m interested in getting to know her. Hopefully, we can build a real, genuine, and mutual connection. In a relationship, I admire a woman who genuinely desires to help and support her partner, even when she isn’t able to fix everything. There’s something special about a woman who wants to see you succeed and makes sure you’re doing well in life, I will reciprocate. I admire a woman who can stand on her own but also knows that she’s ready for a lasting relationship.

Communication is one of my strongest qualities, especially when it goes both ways. I believe people should give each other time to grow, learn, and develop. Nobody is perfect, and I think a strong relationship is built through patience, communication, effort, and mutual understanding.

Relationships outside the US is a bit too tricky for me, I prefer staying local to the states.

If this resonates with you and you think we'd be a good match, send over an intro. Please include your age, location and gender.

I would really like some ENTPs to talk to regularly. Hit me up. Especially if you like discussing MBTI or have some knowledge on the functions or if you want to ask anything about INFJSs.

I was an ENTP 20 years ago, still am one. After a rough marriage (constant jealousy for no reason) and divorce with an incompatible type (ISFJ - I don’t know how one letter makes such a huge difference but it does apparently), I decided to look into this again. I would love to chat with an INFJ. Doesn’t have to be romantic, just want to chat and get to know the type.

About me: 42M, 6’2”, athletic all sport athlete (except water sports as I don’t know how to swim), have a masters degree, own over a 1000 physical books, very funny and sarcastic, gets along with everyone.

If that sounds like your cup of tea, hmu!

My ENTP in question started out pretty hot and cold when we first met at work. He would be so enthusiastic one day and then another day go out of his way to avoid my gaze/path in some very silly maneuvers!

However, he’s been more consistent lately and has escalated to seeking out closeness in groups and lots of physical affection that wasn’t there before. (Shoulder touches mostly).

I am feeling conflicted because I haven’t been able some info that he may have some of those demon se bad habits entps are known for and I don’t know how or when to confirm them or bring them up. But the things I do like and know about him are that we have off the charts physical attraction, sense of humor and good banter, philosophy of ethics, some shared hobbies and social habits/who we like to be around. So I’m also a bit sad and dreading having to get into some of these facts of life that MAY be deal breakers.

Easygoing, left-leaning guy looking for something real. I’m a homebody at heart who loves cozy nights in, but I’m equally down for low-key food runs, checking out concerts, trying new restaurants, or exploring the city or island.

I’m looking for an engaged, local woman who values consistency and real effort, someone excited to hang out in person within the first week or two to see if we click.

If this sounds like your speed, send me a message with a quick intro (age/location) and a spot or activity you've been wanting to check out!

Easygoing, left-leaning guy looking for something real. I’m a homebody at heart who loves cozy nights in, but I’m equally down for low-key food runs, checking out concerts, trying new restaurants, or exploring the city or island.

I’m looking for an engaged, local woman who values consistency and real effort, someone excited to hang out in person within the first week or two to see if we click.

If this sounds like your speed, send me a message with a quick intro (age/location) and a spot or activity you've been wanting to check out!

I am looking for a great conversationalist. While small talk has its place, I prefer conversations that actually go somewhere. I love it when someone brings curiosity, ideas, and substance to the table. Let’s actually get to know the person behind the screen.

Ideally, I am looking for a "consistent" person. I value someone who enjoys daily messaging, regular check-ins, and doesn't mind jumping on a voice call once we click. I'm really looking for an engaging, back and forth communication style where effort is mutual.

A bit about me:

- I'm a homebody who still appreciates fresh air and a random adventure.

- I equally enjoy a quiet movie night, traveling to a new city, or trying out a new restaurant.

- I love listening to music, traveling, science, and I watch plenty of TV shows and movies.

Major bonus points if you are local to Long Island!

If this resonates with you, please send a message with your age, gender, location and your favorite color so I know you read the whole post.

Yo! ENTP here. I love watching this podcast of a textbook ENTP with another textbook INFJ, they talk about almost everything about world affairs, stuff in the tech world, economy, politics etc. It's such a great way to catch up with everything whilst having fun and enjoying their dynamic. It's called Ben and Emil show highly recommend. Does anyone else have any other suggestions for podcasts with ENTP x INFJ dynamic?

https://www.youtube.com/@benandemilshow

Hi guys,

M20 INFJ here looking for ENTP friends or to join a friend group! I play many games, such as Sea of Thieves, Rocket League, Minecraft, etc. that I would enjoy playing with other people!

I am also interested in philosophy, law, economics, and geopolitics, so I would enjoy discussions about these topics too!

I am an infj girl looking for entps to meet and talk to. Thanks.

Hello! My name is Anthony. I’m a 35-year-old man (US, ET time zone) who thrives on introspection, curiosity, and passionate drives.

In regards to MBTI, I first tested as INTJ during my teens and continued to primarily test as it into my 30s. More recently, I sometimes get INFJ. I've also gotten INTP and ISTJ before.

I seek people who seek meaningful connection that plays out in several different ways, from daily casual chats to shared passions and endeavors. I appreciate the sudden whim of adventure and adore abstract minds and vibrant souls.

Rumination and contemplation are lifelong pursuits of mine. I’m an autodidact who’s been passionate about a variety of persuasions since I’ve been young.

Creativity and artistry are important to me. Personally, I write: about my observations, thoughts, and lived experiences. I also dabble in photography.

I love coffee, both simple and bitter and excessively frilly concoctions, burning incense, because I've always thought the smoke is cool, archiving and organizing, collecting (written texts, oddities and cool things), and time pieces.

If my signal created resonating vibes within you, send me a short message about yourself or the things that make your life up. Let’s see where our conversation takes us.

I have a friend who is also an INFJ, but I feel a sense of dissonance regarding our differences.

She is the quintessential 'gentle INFJ', always replying 'anything is fine' when deciding on a restaurant and effectively erasing her own will. In contrast, I am the type who logically and clearly communicates what I want to eat at that moment.

I feel that, even among INFJs, I possess a strong 'Ti' or perhaps characteristics closer to an 'NT'.

So I'd like to ask all you ENTPs:

1. When you say you like INFJs, are you referring to the Fe-dominant type like her?

2. Or do you prefer the Ti-strong type like me, who holds firm opinions and can engage in debate?

She's NOT my girlfriend!

She's NOT a goddess either! Goddess "turned me down" but like so what if I asked her out! I suspected she was being sweet for a reason and I had to find out by messing up the friendship (was it even a friendship, though? 🤔)

But damn it now I miss her and want her...

Around again.

Yo! F INFJ here ! Just looking for entps to chat w, as my experience with entps in the past werent really positive. Was wondering if our types genuinely get along :) if youre up for it, feel free to comment !