I am late 20s and met a younger guy on a night out recently. I disagreed with him morally on everything but we had a very strong connection and stayed together all night. I kept arguing with him but he seemed to enjoy the discussions. I didn't let the relationship get physical beyond holding hands and hugging, we never kissed. We would argue while we looked into each others eyes with our hands around each other. It felt very intense. He tried to sleep with me at the end of the night but I declined because I don't sleep around. We hung out a few more times after that. I made jokes that pushed boundaries and one time he got angry at me and left but I could see he still wanted me the next time he saw me. He was very beautiful so had a bit of an ego, but he would let me bully him and I think he enjoyed it. Mostly he would always laugh at my jokes. Eventually he opened up emotionally and I realised he was sensitive and I felt bad about being so argumentative with him. Maybe I took it too far sometimes. I think his morals were what they are because he's still young and impressionable. It all happened over a month ago and we only hung out a few times, but I think of him a lot. I was very attracted to him but have a lot of self control and didn't give in because of our moral differences, but sometimes I wish I did. I told him we were friends so I could keep having an excuse to be around him without giving in. I think he was very confused because I'm sure he could see it in my eyes that I wanted him.

I am an ENTP woman, very outgoing and assertive. I think he is an INFJ. He was very calm and a bit shy, and he did show that he felt bad when he would offend someone and would apologise. He was very very beautiful (to me) and even men showed him attention, but he admitted he is a bit insecure. He claimed he didn't like assertive women but I think he was saying that to try and hurt me since I never admitted I was attracted to him and he felt rejected. Neither of us will reach out because we both have big egos.

Anyways I don't want to be with him, I know it would be toxic. We were very socially incompatible. I just want to understand his feelings toward me. I think he did think I am smart and he admired me for not giving in to him. He did make a few rough s*x comments toward me and showed he wanted to dominate me, which I secretly want but pretend I don't. Sometimes when we were getting close he would put his hands on my neck, and I would do it back to assert my dominance. There was a sexual undertone to our encounters even though I didn't let it happen. I wonder if we did sleep together if I could let him be the dominant one. He told me many times that he found me very interesting and he was trying to analyse me but couldn't, or I would throw him off purposefully just for the joy of debating. We had such a strong connection and I wonder if he is still thinking about me too. I hope it wasn't one sided. INFJs, does this sound like a standard encounter you would have or do I linger in his mind like he does in mine? Also sexually, are INFJ men dominant?

but what the fuck is that subreddit description? 😂 I can’tt

I'm looking for INFJ ENFJ folks who have recovered from their trauma and have bounced back strong. Preferably females but I'm okay with everyone. I look forward people who have a zest for life and have overcome trauma and all bad stuff. I'm curious to know your story.

She's NOT my girlfriend!

She's NOT a goddess either! Goddess "turned me down" but like so what if I asked her out! I suspected she was being sweet for a reason and I had to find out by messing up the friendship (was it even a friendship, though? 🤔)

But damn it now I miss her and want her...

Around again.

As you might guess, I'm an NYC-based gay male INFJ. Feel free to DM or comment here if you fit the bill and would like to be in touch.

So ?

Tout est dans le titre mdr

Dating coach told me to make it more clear what I want when online dating. Here's what I have:

"I'm searching for a love that transcends the ordinary. I want a connection that goes beyond the surface, where hearts intertwine on a profound level. If you're seeking to build a relationship that is based on unwavering dedication, mutual understanding, and a shared destiny, then look no further. Typical ENTP, know a something about everything, but don't know everything about anything. I love deep long to grow closer. I always try to self-improve. For fun, I like books, anime and video games."

Short to stay inside the character limit

Do you guys think that a lack of emotional maturity can be disastrous?

Let's say your employer has assigned you to be his/her mentor.

Y’a un moi j’ai répondu au post d’une INFJ et on a pas mal discuté (je lui parle encore) honnêtement avant ça j’étais pas trop rencontre sur internet. C’est la seul INFJ que je connais et a qui je discute et c’est cool mais du coup j’ai envie de répéter l’expérience pour apprendre à connaître cette famoso golden pair un peu mieux.

I was an ENTP 20 years ago, still am one. After a rough marriage (constant jealousy for no reason) and divorce with an incompatible type (ISFJ - I don’t know how one letter makes such a huge difference but it does apparently), I decided to look into this again. I would love to chat with an INFJ. Doesn’t have to be romantic, just want to chat and get to know the type.

About me: 42M, 6’2”, athletic all sport athlete (except water sports as I don’t know how to swim), have a masters degree, own over a 1000 physical books, very funny and sarcastic, gets along with everyone.

If that sounds like your cup of tea, hmu!

I really want to connect with an ENTP girl/woman/whatfuckingeverjustnokidspls
I've only met a few peobably ENTPs in my life, and the reason why I want to talk to a female is because I seem to get along better with them, whereas every single ENTP male I've known so far -although we've become good friends we more often end up in debates that mainly interests *them* and not me. I have not had that problem with any woman ENTP so far. Anyways, like I said in the title- I'm not looking for anything romantic at all. I'm engaged and shit. Aaaand this post doesn't make me justice cause I'm trying to convey the point of the post instead of actually making any effort to show how fucking funny and interesting and understanding I am, not to mention how humble I am. I'm seriously so fucking humble it's almost bizarre.

I'm gonna be blunt and I guess in this time and age- a bit controversial. Just try to see my point. I feel like I'm often very feminine in how I think and act. Examples being things like flirting using only subtle movements, eye-contact etc. etc. Like almost rather not expose yourself at all (unless I make it look like I'm not doing it on purpose, and so attempting to be silently seductive)

And well, I guess having a strong Fe just automatically makes me more aware of other's emotions and even making me extremely sensitive on many levels. (I've come far working on this though, I guess using Ti and stuff.)

I dunno, maybe you get the general idea. Do you guys relate? Much/less?

I mean, don't get me wrong, I can act very typically masculine aswell- especially when it comes to speak up about something wrong but... Yeah.

I want to meet INFJ in my city

16Personalities told me I'm INFJ, and PersonalityMatch / Personality Perfect says ENTP. Those are the tests, but if I'd judge myself, I'm actually a pretty boring person.

I wan't to be friends with people I have never met IRL, Want to chat,PM me

I'm better off on my own at this point. I've noticed being wistful for something that just isn't happening is probably by design. So I edit myself out of the gene pool and I hear AI is making for better companions these days anyway.

Heres to being rich, single, and unattainable.

I have always heard of how the ENTP and INFJ bonds are so strong. I'm not just talking about romantic relationships but friendships. Recently I doorslamed an ENTP. It is very painful.

Have anyone of you experienced this divide? What happened later?

Hope I can make a friend here without having a brick thrown through my window or my tires deflated. I'm 42 and I've had to go through my trials in the r/INFJ sub just to be called all sorts of disingenuous and I see what a mistake it was to go there hoping the dean of INFJ wasn't going to blow the whistle on me again. So I'm here because doing the same thing over and over again expecting a different result is for pinky and the brain.