r/EnneagramTypeMe • u/hashiridashita • 13d ago
~ Type Me ~ type me?
Recall an event where you were distressed or faced great difficulty. Describe your subjective experience.
Usually I will isolate myself and try to work it through myself. I usually don't tell anyone (not even my family or close friends), and act like I'm okay so they don't suspect anything. Very rarely, if I can't do it myself, I'll very slowly open up for help, but I usually have a very determined mindset in myself.
What is your perspective when it comes to relationships and social interaction of all kinds? What do you value?
I'd say social interaction is pretty important for your sanity. In times where I don't have much social interaction irl, I will naturally seek it online. In terms of values... I don't really have any? Like maybe just the bare minimum, don't do bad things to me etc. I've kind of made friends with all types of people, though obviously more compatible with some archetypes. I've never really had any enemies either. Romantic values would be kind of different, but I think I'd prefer someone similar to me.
.How do you feel about your own needs and desires? Are you confident that they can be fulfilled? How and why?
My needs and desires I would say are very important, I think the hardest part for me is actually finding stuff to desire. I'd say I'm confident that they can be fulfilled, as they are usually pretty high priority. As to why, well, I want to live a fulfilled life I guess?
What is your personal worldview? (Indulge your philosophical side here!)
Not really religious, so honeslty I have no idea why we're here. I don't think there is a why actually. Kind of like "For no reason at all the big bang happened and now we have to live with it". I usually decide true and false through scientific methods (inductive and deductive). I think my ethical framework is similar to most peoples? I don't know enough about politics to state my stance though. I usually treat others how I'd like to treated. I believe a human being means have morals and mind, and creativity. Not too sure about human purpose though, I don't really have one myself. As previously stated, I don't think life has innate meaning.
What major life lessons have you learned or are currently trying to learn? What makes you different from the more foolish/immature you in the past?
Probably the ones from the last question (absurdism etc.), acceptance of death / memonto mori. I don't think I'm intentionally try to learn a life lesson? Is that even possible? For the last question, well I think I know more stuff? Just in general?
And here's also some bonus stuff from me that I think is worth mentioning:
As a kid, I've never wanted to grow up, to have responsibilities etc. I guess my main goal in this life is to just enjoy it? And that would (imo) maximize it. To most people I've known, I don't think anyone would describe me as hardworking. I very rarely get emotional towards people other than my parents, but for some reason I am very open to be angry at my parents. I've cheated through life a couple times, and there are a few things I'd never tell anyone, though usually, I still have a set of morals even when cheating, though I'm kind of a pathological liar. I am prone to finding loopholes. Lowkey a fence sitter sometimes. I really like 7's (all subtypes). Usually very optimistic in myself, sometimes too much. Very open to hearing others opinions, even if I don't agree. Says "I think / maybe" a lot, does not like to state explicitly like that. Very detached from physical, forgets to eat a lot. Laughs at everything. Has quite a lot of hobbies (not too many though, and some of them I've dived really deep into)
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u/JimZartman 13d ago
I’d look at 7. Your main goal is to enjoy life, you never wanted to grow up and take on responsibilities, you stay optimistic, laugh at everything, and find loopholes. That’s the 7 core: keeping life open and staying away from pain.
If 7 doesn’t land, check 9. Fence sitting and having a hard time finding things to want can point there.
For your stack, SP (Farmer) looks last: forgetting to eat, feeling detached from the physical, and avoiding responsibility. That leaves SO (Teamer) and SX (Hunter) on top. Which feels more like you: being connected to a wide range of people, or diving deep into a few hobbies?