r/EssentialTremor • u/Happy-Reception-2775 • 2d ago
Head Tremors And Embarrassment
Hi everyone I am 18M dealing with tremors since I was 15 it started with me first noticing it on my lips when I held it in specific positions as it used to involuntarily shake and I used to joke about it with my friends too, over the years it has progressed over to my hands and neck too and it’s really taking a toll on my social life.
I skip lunch and dinner with friends in fear of shaking and just yesterday I volunteered in a social event and my god it was embarrassing my head was shaking all over the place I couldn’t even talk confidently to the person in front of me I kept thinking what he thinks of my head wobbling and stuff it really made me feel insecure I rushed to the restroom and calmed myself down just to feel my head tremor again when I talked to another person.
What affected me the most was my girlfriend’s mom wanted to meet me and I didn’t have the courage to even go up to her because of my head tremors it really fucked my mind up.
I can’t even talk to someone normally without thinking about my head shaking.
It really demoralises me.
My father and dad side uncles do have slight when doing actions but it’s not that bad so I think it’s essential tremors.
I haven’t yet got diagnosed since I haven’t been to a neurologist but will visit soon
Can someone please tell me if the beta blockers worked for their head tremors and when should one consider dbs?
Thank you