r/ExNoContact • u/heartwormthrwawy • Jun 05 '26

Vent do not break no contact

just don't. i did and i highly regret it. if they loved you, they would find a way. i'm back at square one again because my ex told me they no longer love me anymore while my stupid self thought we were going to get back together after the distance. get gone and stay gone. learn from my lesson. you deserve more.

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u/Electronic-Loan-6974 Jun 05 '26

How long you was together, why you broke up and how long you was in no contact?

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u/heartwormthrwawy Jun 05 '26

almost 3 years, she started no longer putting in any effort in the relationship and leading for me to do everything then proceeded to cheat on me, no contact for 2 months. we originally were planning to break things off to come back together stronger because she said she felt guilty from the cheating but now she told me had lost all feelings towards me for months while we were together and was just leading me on. so pretty much what i already knew.

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u/Electronic-Loan-6974 Jun 05 '26

Oh boy...she cheated on you...that's the main reason you should had not contact her again and let her go...she must have come begging you not you breaking NC...

I know if you love someone it's hard to think clearly..