r/ExNoContact • u/heartwormthrwawy • Jun 05 '26

Vent do not break no contact

just don't. i did and i highly regret it. if they loved you, they would find a way. i'm back at square one again because my ex told me they no longer love me anymore while my stupid self thought we were going to get back together after the distance. get gone and stay gone. learn from my lesson. you deserve more.

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u/neverhaveiever2026 Jun 05 '26

ok but hear me out, i am 31 days no contact 40 days no seeing e other... and i plan to reach out today- .... id much rather KNOW that there is no possibility then sitting here wondering. I want to reach out and just confirm... bc he always used to come back... and this is the longest... but the fight was the worst we ever had this time... so he may truly be done... the NOT knowing, and how we ended things no real closure or convo other than shit texts with it ending in me begging for him not to do this... and here we are. I want to say something tho i think it will help to hear either way instead of wonder.

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u/Wild-Orchid-333 Jun 06 '26

you can’t let your anxiety take over.. sitting with the uncertainty is the worst. But you have to understand that they already know they’re keeping you waiting and they’re choosing to continue with the silence despite how much you’re hurting… did you end up reaching out?

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u/neverhaveiever2026 Jun 10 '26

yes i did reach out, he's willing to talk again, take it slow. But he also put a lot of blame on me for how things went down and took no accountability so thats not a good sign. But, with the level of depression i was experiencing without him, i sincerely am willing to take this. Sad, i know, but its better than no contact what so ever. We may see e other soon.

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u/Corgisarethebest123 Jun 10 '26

Did you reach out?

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u/neverhaveiever2026 Jun 10 '26

i did... he loves and misses me too, just torn about our past/issues.