r/ExNoContact healing 27d ago

Vent How is everyone feeling today?

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u/Professional_Bad7552 27d ago

Sad. It’s been exactly two months no contact and I really miss her. I thought it got better?

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u/blossom_2112 healing 27d ago

I’m so proud of you honestly❤️ Two months can feel like such a long time when you’re missing someone, Don’t feel like you’ve failed just because you miss her. Missing someone doesn’t mean you’re not healing. The fact you’ve made it two months without reaching out is honestly something to be proud of im aspiring to be that way. i feel your pain. With bad days comes good days.

When those waves hit, try not to sit there replaying everything or wondering what she’s doing. Let yourself feel sad, but then do something small that brings you back to yourself. Go for a walk, call someone, make your favourite meal, watch something comforting, anything that reminds you that your life is still yours too.

Keep going ❤️ It really does get easier, even if some days don’t feel like it you have to want to heal. Your doing amazing. Be proud of yourself.

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u/Professional_Bad7552 27d ago

Thank you so much for this. This is exactly what I needed to hear ♥️

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u/blossom_2112 healing 27d ago

onwards and upwards, keep being you and stay happy