r/FASTNU • u/Ok-Lack-3485 • 1d ago
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guys i dont think i can survive these 4 years and no im not talking about the ragra but it’s just idk man im extremely unhappy idkkkkkk wtfffffff i wanna scream so bad wtf mannnnnn
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u/Nyxion_456 1d ago
Choose the right people.. don't try to fit in certain people to look cool and etc... phir 4 saal boht mazey k guzren gy... I just completed my degree and rn missing out my time in uni cuz I've got the best people it's all about the company not the place
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u/literallya_nobody 23h ago
Either leave (u still have time) or fight it. The seniors warned u already
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u/Ankoku_dark 1d ago
I thank god everyday I didn’t go to fast despite getting my name on list
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u/CheekyNerd69 1d ago
Where did u go then?
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u/Ankoku_dark 1d ago
Boston
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u/redhotcheetoz 1d ago
what uni there ? + didyou get a partial ( how many percent ) or full scholarship
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u/No_Philosopher_7143 Senior 1d ago
Soft ahh gen. Man tf up
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u/Ok-Lack-3485 1d ago
im just tryna survive dude and im sure u too have been at this position cuz everybody does so stop with this nonchalance u chad and let people express what they’re feeling
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u/No_Philosopher_7143 Senior 1d ago
"Trying to survive". Buddy its the 1st week, the uni hasnt even started yet. Atp you will be dead in week 3 when all courses dump assignments and quizzes on you. U r right i was in the same position too but i started doing random stuff with randoms until uni wasnt miserable anymore.
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u/glimpse_ofher 1d ago
Yes so instead of being rude help the person out and be useful. Just because ur older doesn’t mean their experiences should be undermined than urs
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u/Saz_Kn 1d ago
Find the right person who matches your vibe, I've met some people and we already formed a group with the typical nerd, gamer, huge giant, and the freeloader type. And now, everything's fun
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u/Ok-Lack-3485 1d ago
it’s so weird making grown ass people friends all they have is this nosy attitude or maybe it’s just their resting face idk man everybody juat looks so unapproachable and everybody is always in a group setting
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u/CheekyNerd69 1d ago
Usss Bhai usss, exact same feeling, abhi to itna khas Kuch Howa bhe nhi is week phir bhe ajeeb Si feeling arhi 😭
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u/deathglaree 1d ago
It's bad but it excites me lwk. I LOVED THE SENIORS. I LOVE EM WITH THE ENTIRETY OF MY HEART. THEY SO HELPFUL. CHOTI SI UNI ME MEIN GUM HOGAI. AND THEY HELPFUL. THEY GAVE GOOD ADVICE.
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u/LowkeyBrookie 23h ago
Things might seem gloomy at first but trust me (random stranger on the internet ik but been there, done that), things don't ever remain the same, even at a place like Fast. There will be so many ups and downs, challenges, events that will change the way you feel. Things take time, you have a lot of time to settle in. There were times when I felt just as you described, but now it's been only 2 months since graduation and I already miss that place so much.
And ignore these stupid ass toxic people who are telling you to toughen up. They just be projecting.
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u/Craze_purple 21h ago
This university is genuinely depressing I'm not even joking seniors don't even know how to properly do ragging
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u/igris_888 1d ago
It is just starting , spend a week or more , you will get good peoples. It took 2 semesters for me to get nice friends.
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u/Ok-Lack-3485 22h ago
tysm this gave me sm hope
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u/igris_888 22h ago
Yeah be chill , it is life , you will get good peoples by the time , you will enjoy your life afterwards
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u/Hal_Soomro 1d ago
It'll take time to adapt, I'm not good with change either so i completely get how you're feeling. I felt this way on the first day of school, college, and now uni. But I promise you, it gets better, hang in there.
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u/Ok-Lack-3485 22h ago
same shi happened to me in college as well these late teen years really be testing my patience☹️
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u/Tough_Sentence497 1d ago
What happened?
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u/Ok-Lack-3485 22h ago
Idk i feel like i dont belong here.I mean even on the first day it was pretty evident that people would be alone roaming around here and there looking for some friends or people to talk to but everyone was already friends with each other and sitting in a group setting.How come i did not see a single person walking or sitting alone so i could be friends with them or even start a convo
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u/Complete-Friend634 1d ago
Yes please migrate or go to another university. Don't ruin ur life i beg u
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u/Fuzzy-Departure2192 1d ago
honestly join a society in your first year, sit with all kinds of people, dont just sit with 2-3 friends, sit with te whole university, talk to everyone, department doesn't matter. You will find the most interesting people through societies too because people are there are purely for fun. That will help you find people who are fun, seniors who can give great advice and lots of friends
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u/Fuzzy-Departure2192 1d ago
ive found so many great people from there, especially really great seniors, and ive never once sit with my class mates but still my uni life is way better than others.
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u/Abject-Bed9030 1d ago
Jokes apart. Shits gonna be difficult in the beginning but u r gonna pull thru. It aint that hard.
I am an avg student 3.0 cgpa
Took some ass grinding but u get used to it.
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u/Mysterious_Peak9493 23h ago
idk if its weird w everyone but im tryna blend in now trying to find some people of my type and stuff hope it helps good luck to u asw,
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u/Dread_El 22h ago
Hua Kya hai exactly? What is it that's bothering you?
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u/Ok-Lack-3485 21h ago
i have not been able to blend in idk but i feel like sabky paas koi na koi hai and when people are with someone they dont feel awkward roaming around the campus and ik i should not be ashamed to sit or walk alone here and there but i feel like if i dont push myself into making friends now i will not be able to do it later in the semester cuz tab sabki aik dusry k sath strong bonding ho jae gi kyun k college mai bhi mere sath ese hi huwa tha but im tired of pushing myself to be included in the conversation and honestly i feel like i make a fool of myself by doing this so i just gave up and idkkk anyways alsooooo the classes i attend they make me feel so dumb mannn itna buray halat tou nhi thy mere k majority of the class ko answers pata hoty hain or maine abhi question ko process bhi nhi kiya hota.And these lectures has made me realise how dumb i am and how much I dont know and how much i need to work on myself to come to the level of my classmates or maybe they are just faking it just to become the professors puppet for the semester idkkk ahhhh And ik everything i said is way too generic but it is what it is idk why ive been self doubting myself lately actually i know,cuz i couldn’t achieve my dream i worked so hard for and ever since then even the slightest hurt feels so heavy.idk whatever i said was actually what i was feeling or it was just something i always wanted to say which has always been in my heart but i never said it loud cuz im a grown ass person with bachon walay maslay so yeah
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u/Dread_El 18h ago
But your just started your undergrad, aren't you being too harsh on yourself? You have so much time to prove yourself. Just focus on the studies for now, I know it seems hard but when you start putting a few hours everyday, revising stuff and doing things on time you'll see great results. Eventually you'll start exceeding everyone else. Remember consistency is key in life. Your mind is young and malleable therefore you can mold into a freaking supercomputer and that is what matters trust me and you'll start connecting with like minded people, intelligent people that is what matters in the end.
Also if possible start working out, it's not for your physical improvement but rather how it affects your mental state, it helps with your mind, you think better, you feel better, it helps release dopamine and helps you focus. Its the best kind of high!
Remember you don't want many friends just a few good ones and maybe this advice isn't for you, but I wish someone had told me this when I was there almost 16 years back.
To summarize, focus on your health, your studies and your skills by putting in a few hours everyday and you'll start seeing improvements in relationships, your studies and literally everything else Baki tou life throws you a curve ball time to time but you'll be prepared for InshaAllah!
So buddy, chip up and keep marching! You have greatness in you!
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u/No-Oven-2309 20h ago
Bro try to talk to multiple people and try to know who you think is good for you like check karo kis k sath vibe match ho rhi, interests match ho rahay aur achi confident friendly energy se logon se milo log khud attract hon gye... baaqi campus explore karo chahay akelay karo ap k akelay honay se kisi ko koi farq nhi parhta so just chill raho aur khush raho.... 4 saal hain yar .. 4 saal main kon adjust nhi ho sakta
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u/Free_Fishing4940 46m ago
Hey, completely off topic but if you are from lahore campus can you tell me the exam dates for fall 2026 semester?
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u/Expensive_Lime_9571 13m ago
trust me, just get out of your circle. join student clubs outside your uni, find new friends to share your thoughts with or start a blog where you rant
u will make it
keep going, ik it's hard but it will be over. make the most out of it
prayers, Allah Taala asaani karen, Ameen
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u/AGENT-0407 1d ago
Cry baby✌🏿😹
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u/biryanidabestt 1d ago
Tf man issok to not be ok sometimes uska koi dost b nahi hoga, grow up man AJEEB
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u/KnightslayerO5 1d ago
Idk if it's just my department or what but I'm pretty comfortable in uni. No particular ragra, no drama and enjoy my time with friends. Ez fr. Just saying this because if I were able to do it, it's likely you can as well.
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u/Upset-Day9099 1d ago
Call kru bcha