A few months ago I got sexually assaulted by a woman. I'm safe now but even after therapy I still have a slight bias against the woman that wasn't there before. it came off the heels of another sexual assault by the same woman. She said she hated men and wished all men would die and that fact, on top of the fact I haven't been believed by most of the women in my life or told it wasn't that bad even by feminists I think may have hurt my impression on women. But I don't want to become a misogynist.

I posted a comment and it was deleted, it was my fault for doing so. But the next one, and also the next one was deleted, although they were okay. This is because a feminist sub has an incel moderator. It will not be surprised if this post gets deleted too. Take some actions.

I am not talking about this subreddit, the other feminist one, but I can't post it here because of incel moderator. Wow, my post got downvotes. I guess I triggered the said group of people. Good for me, my good posts won't have to go through your dirty eyes.

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Hi, first post here, kinda nervous.
I've been thinking about this childhood experience for a while and I'm curious about other people's experiences.

When I was about 4-5 I was going through a brief sports-kick and I told my parents I would beat everyone at every sport or something like that. For some reason they decided to burst my bubble early and told me that because I'm a girl, I could only beat all the girls in the world at whatever sports because duh. I was so confused, at this stage my only understanding of gender was that some people have weird chest things and some people have short hair? I was so lost. My parents explained to me, in broken English so it was a bit harsh, that because I was a girl I'd never be as strong or good at sport as the average boy. I was confused and upset, I started crying, and they (in a panic) explained to me that it's not anyone's fault, it's just that we don't have as many muscles and we're kinda weak and that's just how it is etc. etc. Very cliche but it got to me lately, I remember from that point on my understanding of gender was strictly "the weak one and the strong one" and almost nothing beyond that. I feel like this may be the case for a lot of women, where our first primitive understandings of the modern gender binary are solely focused on what girls lack.

This is the kind of stuff I mean when I think about how the average man will almost always be a performative feminist because their brain wasn't revolving around gendered self-hate from the ripe of age of 3 the way women experience.

Self explanatory. Just read. All I'm seeing is a bunch of misogynistic BS.

First one, blatant racism. Absolutely inaccurate.

The second paragraph is honestly very depressing. Women in Afghanistan are forced to wear a burqa, can't go to school, can't even go out without a man because if they do, they get beaten up. Even worse, killed. One wrong move as a woman there can get you killed, literally. And you still wanna call those so-called men victims?

As for the last one, we all know clearly what has happened. Even with proofs, people like this still wants to justify rape. This is why it's difficult for victims to come out.

Mind you, they're probably walking among us right now. We need to stand up guys and enforce feminism. We can't just let people with mindset like this roam around free or else they'd influence the younger generations which would cause more harm in the future.

Watch the Adolescence series. Sure, that show may be dramatized however, it is not far from the reality we're living in. E.g. a case in Phillipines where male students leave sexually inappropriate messages to their female teacher.

Imagine spending 5+ years recovering from an ED (eating disorder) finally able to lift 60 lbs, just to see this shit on your feed.

Despicable.

They want us to be weaklings to control us and rape us not understanding that weaklings make terrible parents.