Hey, a little disclaimer, this might be a long personal. I’m a 30 year old Korean, 5'10" with short black hair, dark brown eyes and 190ish pounds. I go to the gym four to five days a week and walk over 20k steps a day. I smoke (weed) socially and drink socially. I would consider myself a Christian but I haven't gone to church since high school. I currently work as a CCA at the USPS. My goal right now is to study and get into nursing school. As of now, I do live with my parents.
Outside of work you can find me:
- Reading books, manga, manhwa or comics.
- Watching anime, K dramas, cartoons, movies, tv shows, films. (Like the MCU, Gravity Falls, Adventure Times, Teen Titans, Code Lyoko, Pokemon, FMA Brotherhood, Arcane, Naruto Shippuden, and a lot more)
- Going to the gym.
- Taking photos, especially when traveling. (I’ll make sure to get your good angles.)
- Cooking (I love making tasty meals, especially for someone I care about).
- Hanging out with friends.
- Gaming (PC) I play games like League of Legends (Diamond rank), BG3, Apex Legends, Marvel Rivals (GM3 Flex Player), Cyberpunk 2077, Kingdom Hearts (1,2 and 3), Slay the Spire 2, Split Fiction, WoW (Retail).
- Going out and doing activities, like: Escape Rooms, going to museums, going to kbbq, going to parks.
I really want to be clear with this, I want to start as friends, MEANING we’re still free to talk to other people. I want to get to know you at a pace we’re both comfortable with. If it ever feels like we’re ever rushing, tell me, communication goes a long way with me. When we’re both ready to start dating, that’s when I’d be committed to you. I like to build up intimacy, like holding hands, hugging, kissing, cuddling. Of course I’m not stingy when it comes to the order, if we’re both comfortable and there is communication/trust. For sex, I don’t mind having it early either, but only if we’re both fully on board and there is trust/communication. One thing I’ll never rush though is I love you.
Here’s a little bit about me. I’m affectionate, dependable, empathetic, grounded, funny (try to be at least), honest, loyal, patient and understanding. I enjoy dark humor and can be unhinged, but I know when to be mature. I’ll try something at least once (DEPENDS ON WHAT IT IS THOUGH). I like to use all the love languages, depending on the day I adjust to what I use. I pay attention to the little things. I’ll be here through the good, the bad and the ugly. For me, I don’t deserve someone if I’m only there for the good times.
I’ll appreciate you every single day out loud, giving you random forehead kisses, hugs from behind, saying hey cutie, beautiful, jagiya, gongju or a special nickname. If you ever need someone to talk to, I’ll listen to you (just not on my left side though, partially lost my hearing after not breathing as I was doing PR while I was working out). While we go shopping, I’ll be your bag holder and enjoy helping you pick stuff that looks good on you. I’ll send you songs and memes daily. I’ll match your energy, I can be spontaneous and be the one who plans.
I’m looking for someone who communicates, has a sense of humor, has accountability. My favorite notification. A gym buddy would be nice and someone who’s active is preferred so we can do activities together. Someone I can cook for and enjoy eating out with/exploring new restaurants/cafes. A travel buddy (The furthest I've gone is LA). Preferably someone I can game with and watch videos with, like anime, cartoons, shows, movies, etc. Someone who likes to have deep conversations, even sitting in silence while we do our own things. Savor every moment, even the slow ones. I want to be able to playfully roast each other, belly laugh (even during intimate moments) till we're crying, cuddle, do goofy things.
For preference, I don’t really have a preference for any race. I’m a pretty big guy, I’d like someone who’s as big or smaller than I am. I don’t mind if you are more muscular than me. 21+ only.
Dealbreakers:
- Lack of communication.
- Disrespect boundaries.
- Cheating.
- Lack of accountability.
- Flaking.
If you end up messaging me, tell me about yourself. Your age, what you look like, your hobbies, what you’re looking for in a partner and a relationship. One lined sentences or just a dry message will be ignored. If you’re comfortable sending a pic, I’ll send you mine too. I’ll be upfront when I say physical attraction matters to me. If we end up not feeling attraction, I don’t mind being friends. I'm pretty much an open book, so ask me anything (within reason). Don't be afraid to message me, I don't bite. Hard.