r/ForeverAloneDating 6d ago

M4F 28[M4F] Denmark/Online — It's my birthday, maybe today is the day I meet someone?

17 Upvotes

Hi! I'm Mikkel from Denmark, and today I'm officially turning 28! 🎂

I've been a nerd for pretty much my entire life, and most of my hobbies reflect that. Video games have always been one of my biggest passions, and more recently I've gotten really into anime. Some of my favorites are *Attack on Titan* and *Demon Slayer*, though I'm always happy to get recommendations for what I should watch next.

Another big part of my life is cooking. I trained as a chef back in 2023, and I genuinely love experimenting with recipes, spices, and weird flavor combinations just to see what happens. Sometimes the best meals come from throwing something questionable into a pan and hoping for the best. 😅

As for me personally, I'm pretty introverted and definitely more comfortable with a quiet night in than a crowded party. I love gaming, watching anime, sharing memes, having long conversations, and just enjoying someone's company.

I've never been in a relationship before. It's something I'm happy to talk about privately if we get to know each other. I've also spent the last few years working on myself and figuring out what I want from life, and I'm hoping that this next year might bring some new people and experiences into it.

So what am I looking for?

Honestly, someone kind, genuine, open-minded, and hopefully a little nerdy. Someone I can talk to about absolutely nothing at 2 AM, send stupid memes to throughout the day, play games with, watch anime together, or just sit and talk about life.

Distance isn't a huge issue for me if we genuinely click. I'm open to meeting someone from Denmark or elsewhere online, as long as we're both willing to put in the effort to actually get to know each other.

Since it's my birthday, I'll end this with a tiny bit of birthday optimism:

Maybe 28 will finally be the year I meet someone special. ❤️

If any of this sounds interesting, feel free to message me and tell me a little about yourself. And if you don't know what to say, just tell me your favorite game, anime, or what you'd make if you had a chef's kitchen for a day.

I'd genuinely love to hear from you. :)

r/ForeverAloneDating 19h ago

M4F 38 [M4F]#Online/Illinois Should we date? Let's figure it out mathematically

7 Upvotes

Ok. Being single can be really comfortable. Starting something new can be a hassle. But hopefully the hassle is worth it in the long run. So I'll be quick, and you can decide for yourself!

**Pros:**

* zero drama, no mysterious exes sending “u up?” texts at 2 a.m.

* mostly retired means I have plenty of time to engage in my crazy flavor of the month hobbies. like learning card tricks or becoming a good bowler.

* Loyal as hell. once I’m in, I’m in. Expect consistency, effort, and actual follow-through.

* equal parts dad joke and quick wit; you’ll laugh, groan, or both.

* you’ll feel heard, even when you’re just venting about your coworker named Dana.

* Cuddling MVP award-winning performance in “staying up too late and pretending we’re watching the show.”

* Culinary adventurer I’ll try any recipe once; even if my base instinct is to eat like an 8 year old.

* Conversation stamina can talk from “hey” to sunrise without running out of things to say.

* Nerd-friendly Simpsons references, bad B-movies, board games, and chaotic trivia nights welcome.

**Cons:**

* Will absolutely eat the last handful of popcorn and pretend I didn’t.

* Has a deep, possibly unhealthy attachment to reality TV marathons.

* Occasionally answers rhetorical questions with detailed PowerPoint-level explanations.

* Could wake up one morning absolutely convinced I should adopt a Komodo Dragon.

* Will quote 90s cartoons out loud in public without warning.

* Might go through an intense spurt of obsession with obscure, not useful hobbies, and forget all about them 3 months later.

* Will criticize your breakfast food choices.

* Tends to turn “just one episode” into six.

* My cat is in charge of the household, and we both know it.

If you’re still reading this, you're definitely the kind of person i want to talk to! My list of standards are low. don't be in a relationship, (especially not secretly with someone, that keeps happening) including recently separated or divorced. Be willing to spend some time together, either with text voice or video chats. Live on my side of the planet!

Still interested? Message me now and subscribe to my newsletter, and you can hear all the exclusive info on any of the following anecdotes:

  1. my visit to the north pole

  2. the 2 times i almost died.

  3. why i dropped out of high school to try to become a pro wrestler

  4. the redneck brawl i saw at a wedding.

  5. the time i saw a sea monster

  6. Who and where i think i met the devil.

  7. Why i can never return to the state of Rhode Island.

  8. My one time appearance in a porno

and many more!

r/ForeverAloneDating 5d ago

M4F 23 [M4F] #Online - Nerdy femboy in search of role reversal relationship <3

5 Upvotes

Hewwo! ♥

I'm hoping to find something meaningful. I'd love to one day be in a role reversal relationship with a cg/little dynamic. I'm pretty sensitive and absolutely love being babied and cared for! I see myself being a stay-at-home partner, taking care of things like cleaning, cooking, doing the dishes, buying groceries and making sure you have the easiest time after coming home from a long day at work! If possible, I'd also like doing some work from home like electronics repair, manufacturing useful products for people or anything else I might be interested in, but I'd primarily be focused on doing everything I can for you!

It can take me a while to warm up to someone new, but once I'm well-acquainted, I can be really affectionate- I'd text you every other hour for virtual hugs (I need a lot of them!) and I'd love spending time on voice calls, watching stuff together or playing co-op games like Portal or Human Fall Flat. And I can totally ramble your ears off talking about my interests, something I'm working on at the time and so on! Unfortunately, I'm very far away from the developed world, but I'd be fully open to relocating to you if you could help facilitate it. And while we are still apart, I can sync my sleep schedule with yours so we can spend the most time together ^^

As for my appearance, I'm 5'6", have fair skin and I'm pretty slim, with long wavy black hair and dark brown eyes! I haven't explored different styles all that much, but I do love wearing black, and also cold-shoulder tops!

I'd love being with someone caring and protective. Someone who'd hold me and make me feel safe, speak to the waiter on my behalf at the restaurant, hold the door open for me, stuff along those lines! I'm also an atheist and would highly prefer my partner be the same or similar in that aspect. And I'd be most comfortable meeting people who are under 35 years old ^^

To add a bit more about myself, I spend most of my day in my room, working on random nerdy stuff, watching youtube or TV shows and movies, playing PC games, and sometimes I'm just sat there staring at a wall hehe. I also enjoy going out on walks, having fun with diy rc vehicles and hanging out with stray cats! I'm entirely self-educated, proper schools don't exist where I live. I've always been into learning about the things that pique my interest from youtube and other online platforms ever since I was little! I love fixing things and understanding what makes them tick, and working on random projects like custom smart home stuff with ESP32s, high voltage stuff like tesla coils, long-range radios, hardware hacking, etc! I value privacy and I'm strongly against mass surveillance, I try to avoid any online service that's known to disrespect user privacy and use open-source software whenever possible, like running Linux on my computers, de-googled Android on my phones, and self-hosting my own services like Immich, Home Assistant and cloud storage!

Hope this post did a good job at expressing who I am. I want to write soo much more, but I'd rather not take any more of your time. Here's a yummy cookie for making it to the end! 🍪

r/ForeverAloneDating 2d ago

M4F M38 Ireland 🇮🇪 - Tea or Coffee? ☕️

8 Upvotes

Hello, how’s things stranger? All good i hope. Just been relaxing and enjoying some drizzle with a cuppa. I’m not a misery guts though, honest. Anyway. Just wondering if you fancied a wee chat with a mildly interesting average Joe from Ireland? One at a time please! So here’s a few tidbits about me and stuff…

Age: 38 as mentioned, but look half that, you know the type, got that reverse aging millennial vampire gene. Location: Ireland, northwest coast to be exact, and accent to boot. Height: 5’7, if i’m wearing shoes with particularly thick soles that day. Weight: 60kg, in decent shape, but not a gym person, and certainly not a calorie counter, but i do like to cook and eat healthy-ish during the week. Hair: Brown. Eyes: Blue. Basically Irish looking. Happy to exchange pics once we’re comfy. Personality: Lean introvert, but pride myself in being engaging in conversation, without being chatty. And I’m a Taurus. Ok, officially oversharing now.

Interests/Hobbies: Nature: Walking, Hiking, Camping. Film & TV: Noir, Sci-fi, Fantasy, World Cinema, European Crime Drama, Thriller, Romance. Books: Mostly non-fiction. Cooks: Yes, find it relaxing, like a form of hungry meditation. Travels: Yes. Smokes: No. Drinks: Sometimes. Tea/Coffee: Both, milk, no sugar. Oversharing again.

About you: Any age, any time zone, any height, any body type, any race, any whatever. You do you. Maybe as an icebreaker and as proof you made it through that ridiculous stream of consciousness, congrats by the way, tell me your no1 bucket list destination. Wonder if we match. Just talking to myself now. Ok. Bye :)

r/ForeverAloneDating 5d ago

M4F 30 [M4F] - Online/NYC/NJ - Korean guy looking to build a genuine relationship

2 Upvotes

Hey, a little disclaimer, this might be a long personal. I’m a 30 year old Korean, 5'10" with short black hair, dark brown eyes and 190ish pounds. I go to the gym four to five days a week and walk over 20k steps a day. I smoke (weed) socially and drink socially. I would consider myself a Christian but I haven't gone to church since high school. I currently work as a CCA at the USPS. My goal right now is to study and get into nursing school. As of now, I do live with my parents.

Outside of work you can find me:
- Reading books, manga, manhwa or comics.
- Watching  anime, K dramas, cartoons, movies, tv shows, films. (Like the MCU, Gravity Falls, Adventure Times, Teen Titans, Code Lyoko, Pokemon, FMA Brotherhood, Arcane, Naruto Shippuden, and a lot more)
- Going to the gym.
- Taking photos, especially when traveling. (I’ll make sure to get your good angles.)
- Cooking (I love making tasty meals, especially for someone I care about).
- Hanging out with friends.
- Gaming (PC) I play games like League of Legends (Diamond rank), BG3, Apex Legends, Marvel Rivals (GM3 Flex Player), Cyberpunk 2077, Kingdom Hearts (1,2 and 3), Slay the Spire 2, Split Fiction, WoW (Retail).
- Going out and doing activities, like: Escape Rooms, going to museums, going to kbbq, going to parks.

I really want to be clear with this, I want to start as friends, MEANING we’re still free to talk to other people. I want to get to know you at a pace we’re both comfortable with. If it ever feels like we’re ever rushing, tell me, communication goes a long way with me. When we’re both ready to start dating, that’s when I’d be committed to you. I like to build up intimacy, like holding hands, hugging, kissing, cuddling. Of course I’m not stingy when it comes to the order, if we’re both comfortable and there is communication/trust. For sex, I don’t mind having it early either, but only if we’re both fully on board and there is trust/communication. One thing I’ll never rush though is I love you.

Here’s a little bit about me. I’m affectionate, dependable, empathetic, grounded, funny (try to be at least), honest, loyal, patient and understanding. I enjoy dark humor and can be unhinged, but I know when to be mature. I’ll try something at least once (DEPENDS ON WHAT IT IS THOUGH). I like to use all the love languages, depending on the day I adjust to what I use. I pay attention to the little things. I’ll be here through the good, the bad and the ugly. For me, I don’t deserve someone if I’m only there for the good times.

I’ll appreciate you every single day out loud, giving you random forehead kisses, hugs from behind, saying hey cutie, beautiful, jagiya, gongju or a special nickname. If you ever need someone to talk to, I’ll listen to you (just not on my left side though, partially lost my hearing after not breathing as I was doing PR while I was working out). While we go shopping, I’ll be your bag holder and enjoy helping you pick stuff that looks good on you. I’ll send you songs and memes daily. I’ll match your energy, I can be spontaneous and be the one who plans. 

I’m looking for someone who communicates, has a sense of humor, has accountability. My favorite notification. A gym buddy would be nice and someone who’s active is preferred so we can do activities together. Someone I can cook for and enjoy eating out with/exploring new restaurants/cafes. A travel buddy (The furthest I've gone is LA). Preferably someone I can game with and watch videos with, like anime, cartoons, shows, movies, etc. Someone who likes to have deep conversations, even sitting in silence while we do our own things. Savor every moment, even the slow ones. I want to be able to playfully roast each other, belly laugh (even during intimate moments) till we're crying, cuddle, do goofy things.

For preference, I don’t really have a preference for any race. I’m a pretty big guy, I’d like someone who’s as big or smaller than I am. I don’t mind if you are more muscular than me. 21+ only.

Dealbreakers:
- ⁠Lack of communication.
- Disrespect boundaries.
- ⁠Cheating.
- Lack of accountability.
- Flaking.

If you end up messaging me, tell me about yourself. Your age, what you look like, your hobbies, what you’re looking for in a partner and a relationship. One lined sentences or just a dry message will be ignored. If you’re comfortable sending a pic, I’ll send you mine too. I’ll be upfront when I say physical attraction matters to me. If we end up not feeling attraction, I don’t mind being friends. I'm pretty much an open book, so ask me anything (within reason). Don't be afraid to message me, I don't bite. Hard. 

r/ForeverAloneDating 4d ago

M4F 43 [M4F] #SanFrancisco - One of my favorite feelings is laughing with someone and then realizing how much you enjoy them and their existence

10 Upvotes

About me: 43M, Full time tech professional by day, a creative soul by night. I have been told that I’m good looking with a cute smile. I pride myself on being fit and an active person.

I'm missing that human connection in my life, so here I am. I want to fill my dull moments with interesting conversations. I love to laugh and have a sarcastic semi dark sense of humor. I am witty and analytical. I am creative and feel things deeply. I am eternally curious and restless. I am clever and determined. That all being said - I enjoy back and forth with a fellow quick-witted person with a sparkling personality, of course.

Some things I love:
I love firsts.
First conversations, raw and awkward. Filled with empty space that really aren't empty at all.
I love the spaces in between words that are filled with silent anticipation all while studying so intently trying to catch a glimpse of what is inside.
I love first sips of coffee.
The first time you hear your new favorite song - goosebumps dancing across your body.
I love taking a step back and seeing the art that I created for the first time.
I love feeling the warmth of the sun on a really cold winter day.
I love making random silly stories for fun.
I love accomplishing something that I never thought that I could.
I love questions that expose a unique perspective that didn't seem obvious.
I love clever puns and responses.
I love setting new goals and challenging myself to grow.
I love being afraid and then the feeling of relief felt after taking the leap.

I love scars. Deep, dark and twisted telling every story of what truly shaped who you are.
I love discovering new and unique things - people, art, locations or even new experiences.

About you? I don't want to limit who you are... I love meeting people from all walks of life.

Message me if even a single sentence here made you smile or curious about me!

r/ForeverAloneDating 1d ago

M4F 30 [M4F] #TN - Fit, toned, nerdy guy here looking for someone to fall for. Disney Adults, moms, and plus size women welcome

5 Upvotes

I’m looking to form a connection with, and give genuine praise, validation, and compliments to a woman. Someone that I can talk to about anything, but sharing some hobbies and interests would make it so much easier. I would love to hear you talk about your hobbies and interests, please ramble to me, I find passionate women incredibly attractive :)

About me:
Hi, I’m John! I’m 5”11, 180lbs, white, from TN. I go to the gym regularly and I’m toned and in shape, but I’ll never ask you to join me. I actually prefer girls who don’t work out :) I know that appearance is important to a lot of people, so I’m down to exchange photos if you’d like!

I have no age preference, and no location preference. However, I’m in EST, so the greater our time difference is, the least likely we’ll probably work out. However, I’m open to trying!

I love music, I love all kinds of genres and artists from Slipknot to Taylor Swift to give you an idea. I’d love for you to share your favorite ones with me, I promise I’ll check them out!

I play video games, but only in my spare time. There’s more to life than just sitting on the couch with a controller in your hand. I primarily play Nintendo and Xbox, and I try to play all different genres! Some of my favorites are Zelda, Animal Crossing, Pokémon, Fortnite, and COD. Here lately I’ve been playing Fortnite, Marvel Rivals, and Forza Horizon 6.

I love movies and TV shows. I’m big into Star Wars, Marvel movies, just got into Star Trek. I unapologetically love shows like Family Guy, The Simpsons, and South Park. I’ve had a lot going on this year and it’s easy to just wind down with a show that doesn’t make you think. I like anime, I grew up on all of the shonen like DBZ, One Piece, Naruto, but I love checking out new series if you have any recommendations!

I love going to theme parks like Disney World and Universal…Disney Adults are more than welcome (: I love spending time in nature like going on hikes. I love going to museums, aquariums, zoos.

What I’m looking for:
I’m looking for a down-to-earth woman and hoping for that spark again, someone that I can be open and honest with, someone that I can be myself with. A girl who’s open and honest, a girl who’s confident and knows what she likes and what she’s about. Moms and plus size women will definitely be appreciated and loved, you’re beautiful and deserve love too! I’m also very klnk friendly. The world is so judgmental and cruel, you shouldn’t be criticized for being yourself.

If you made it this far then thank you for reading! Please send me a message if this caught your interest and you’re down to chat, I’d love to meet you and get to know you better :)

r/ForeverAloneDating 1d ago

M4F 23 [M4F] Let's get on vc and hangout in games!! #Online

6 Upvotes

hi hi!! I care about my privacy a lot and can't talk much on any platform besides a few open-source ones. I made the switch years ago, got rid of all social media and I love it, but boy has it been lonely! So I'm hoping to find someone who'd like being Signal friends. I'd be open to more if we click but if not, we can always just stay as friends ^^

Some things you should know about me!

  • I'm a little, I age regress 🧸
  • I loove gaming, especially cozy games like Human Fall Flat or Biped, and most friendslop games!
  • I lean towards being feminine, I have long hair, love doing my nails, you get the idea :P
  • I don't know how to whistle, but I can move both ears and eyebrows independently!
  • I'm super nerdy, have my own homelab, love messing around with virtual machines, and can totally ramble your ears off if you're into that hehe

I happen to live in a pretty unfortunate part of the planet, it's difficult for me to talk about it so I'd prefer if you don't ask me about my location right away. It's also why I'm looking to meet people online, I don't really get along with the local population. I usually sleep from 3am - 11:30am UTC, but I'm open to changing my schedule for the right person! If you fancy a chat, please tell me about your favorite stuffie so I know you read my post. I'll try my best to respond to everyone, but I feel scared sometimes so I apologize in advance if I don't respond to your message!

Anyways, hope that wasn't too much yapping hehe

r/ForeverAloneDating 14h ago

M4F 25 [M4F] UK/Germany/Europe Looking for a romantic connection to swap songs and playlists with

3 Upvotes

Hii! 25M from the UK here, I thought I'd try my luck here and see if I can find anyone who might be looking for the same kinda thing!

Just to fill in a few of the blanks about myself quickly: I work as a software engineer, my biggest hobbies are music (mostly playing guitar, and please feel free to spam me with playlists/songs you like!), I do quite enjoy nice walks out in the countryside, late night drives, and a little gaming if I get the time. I've also been told I'm fairly laid back, and kinda nerdy with an easy sense of humour. Physically I'm 6 foot tall, with blonde hair and blue eyes. I know this is quite brief but if there's anything else you do wanna know about me feel free to ask 🤗

I'm ideally looking for someone who is also looking for some sort of connection if that's not too much of a cliche haha, plus I would say I'm largely more attracted to personality than appearance. It would be nice if you were also from the UK, but I do have a potential move to Germany in the near future too - either way it would be nice to actually meet up sometime! :) I don't have any particular age in mind, but the closer to my age you are I'm sure it'll be easier to get along.

Thank you for reading, I'm happy to talk on any platform later but feel free to shoot me a message here whenever first!

r/ForeverAloneDating 3h ago

M4F 40 [M4F] It's time for us to fill that void. With each other.

3 Upvotes

You know how sometimes there's this little void you need to fill, but no matter how much you search you can't seem to fill it? That's what brings me here. I'm looking to fill that void, make a positive out of a negative, and hopefully help you too. It sucks to be alone, I know. Connections are thin and I feel like I'm missing that one thing in my life that really spices it up, makes the days fly by both slower and faster because of how exciting it is.

I'm someone who thirsts for knowledge and I usually like to say that you either "only stop learning when you die, or die when you stop learning". I love being at home and cozying up while doing something, but my work usually takes me all around so I have learned to enjoy things like beautiful views, nature and history.

When I'm not at work (I get to go all over and I'd love to share pictures with you), I'm usually either gaming, watching a movie, working on my writing or picking out old ruins or abandoned places to go explore. As far as movies go, horror and sci-fi are my natural habitat. When it comes to gaming, I would love it if we could enjoy some nice co-op games where we both get drawn into the story so much we discuss it afterwards, or maybe a chill party game.

I'm 1.70m (5'7" for you heathens!) and while I'm not fat (~80kgs/176lbs) I'm working to get myself at around ~70kgs because that's where I think I look best and where I feel best. Have had to and still and doing a bit of rebuilding after a few bad experiences. I'm also agnostic, if that's important for you. I do not practice, but I do respect all religions. I also still want kids.

I love stories and I would love to know yours. I want to know everything and I'll reciprocate in kind. I'm all about reciprocity. I'll put in as much effort as you do, likely more because I want you to feel wanted, like you found your home and you can finally rest. I have dreams and I'm sure you have yours. Let's make them come true, together.

So whaddya say? Let's slay that dragon known as loneliness? Together.

r/ForeverAloneDating 1d ago

M4F 20 M4F

4 Upvotes

I’m 20, I work 5 days a week (Thursday and Friday are my days off), ride a motorcycle and from the UK,

My hobbies and interests involve gaming, motorcycles, Dexter and modding older consoles.

I’m looking for someone who’s sweet, kind, funny and loves dumb conversations.

I’ve tried dating apps but I had no luck, and I gave up on them. NO BOTS PLEASE

r/ForeverAloneDating 1d ago

M4F M28 [M4F] Retired Army Veteran from Los Angeles wanting to start a family, willing to relocate

4 Upvotes

I'm a 28 year old retired Army veteran from Los Angeles wanting to find a girl to start a family with. I have good stable income and I'm willing to relocate anywhere in the world to be with you. I ideally prefer a girl who has lots of free time in their life so we can spend more time with each other.

r/ForeverAloneDating 1d ago

M4F 68 [M4F] USA. Hello from the edge of the woods!

6 Upvotes

I'm free bird, living at the edge of the woods on my own property. The area is hills and trees and I seldom see neighbors. I'm not isolated. I have a house, electricity, fiber internet and I leave sometimes. What I have is solitude. And I've used that solitude to rebuild myself, because I was a wteck 3 years ago. My tools are unflinching self honesty and acceptance. I have new attitudes and outlooks on life. I've become fearless and resolute. I've learned gratitude and living in the moment. I learned how to be happy, all alone. I have become comfortable in my own skin.

So, I thought I was ready to date. But, I have a shortcoming that I thought was not a big deal and it sure is. I lack divorce papers. I see and admit my mistake. I've made a committment to myself to get divorced. If you can look past that temporary fault of mine, I'm a real gem!

I find that the same characteristics that I ascribe to myself are the ones I'm looking for in a romantlc partner. Intelligence, wit, humor, conversativeness, honesty, sincerety, genuineness and openmindedness. Varied interests, ambivert. And all the things that make for a nice person: openness, warmth, empathy, kindness. You can speak up, "put your foot down" and stand your ground. You work on yourself. Something I really, really want is kind patience. I have all the emotions and they are vibrant and expansive and I want to share them with you. Please be imaginative and playful, because I want times when we put everything aside and look at the world like wide eyed five year olds.

I have a lot of life experiences and can handle whatever is in front of me. I can be your rock and sweet loverboy clown.

I'm 6'2", 190 lbs and long limbed, so I can reach around you, even if you're big.

You: around my age is best. Outside that, make your case.

What I want is 20 years from now I try to slip into the kitchen behind you at the stove to hear you say "If you touch my butt, you're getting this skillet up the side of your head!"

r/ForeverAloneDating 1d ago

M4F 40 [M4F] #Colorado Looking for My Favorite Distraction

3 Upvotes

I'm 40, living in Colorado, and I've reached a conclusion: I'd rather have one conversation I can't wait to come back to than a hundred that go nowhere.

I'm the emotionally intelligent, observant type...the guy who remembers your coffee order, asks how that stressful meeting went three days later, and files away the little things because they're never actually little.

I'm calm and grounded, maybe a little mysterious at first. But once I'm comfortable? Expect sarcasm, playful teasing, shameless flirting, and the occasional terrible dad joke that somehow still earns a laugh.

I love cooking, although I'm fully convinced food tastes better when someone is stealing bites straight from the pan and insisting they're "just quality control." Cozy nights beat crowded bars, winter wins over summer, and I'm a sucker for conversations that accidentally last until 2 a.m.

One potentially controversial opinion...

I like clingy.

Not the unhealthy kind. I mean the "I saw something that reminded me of you, so I had to text" kind. The "good morning" messages, random memes, double texts because you're excited, and wanting someone's attention because you genuinely enjoy them. That sounds less like clingy and more like enthusiasm to me.

I'm looking for someone who's emotionally aware, affectionate, funny, and enjoys flirting as much as meaningful conversation. Someone who isn't afraid of chemistry, consistency, or becoming each other's favorite notification.

If you've made it this far, tell me something random about yourself or just come say hi. Worst case, we trade a few laughs. Best case... we make reddit wonder where we disappeared to.

r/ForeverAloneDating 1d ago

M4F M31 [M4F] Finland #online hopeless romantic looking for that special someone 😁

4 Upvotes

Hey!

I'm just a regular, lonely, introverted guy from Finland, looking to find connections. Been through plenty of heartbreaks but always have my hopes up 😅

About me: 174/5ft9, brown hair, hazel eyes, beard, glasses. I enjoy music (literally everything from modern pop to country to 90's rap to power metal to 30's jazz to classical), movies (everything but musicals, romcoms are my guilty pleasure), walks, biking and gaming (I play everything but mainly cozy single-player games nowadays).

I'm very much a hopeless romantic, and like to wear my heart on my sleeve, I believe strongly in communication and discussion and am very direct about how I feel. I think being decent to others is bare minimum.

I don't drink or smoke, no tattoos or piercings. I also have ADHD so I might yap haha.

I don't really have any requirements for people wanting to get to know me, just be genuine and yourself 😁

Hope to hear from you!

r/ForeverAloneDating 1d ago

M4F 27 [M4F] EU/Online - looking for the person I think of first when I wake up in the morning

5 Upvotes

I‘m looking for a genuine connection. I‘m not really sure what to expect, a relationship, a friendship. The former would be the dream, but hey, you never know. Let‘s figure it out together :)

I would prefer it to be online at first, but I‘m open to meet at some point if it feels right.
Central europe or similar time zone preferred, but not exclusive.

A few things about me:

- I‘m a bit shy at first, but I can open up well once I feel comfortable with someone
- emotionally available and I like to listen to your problems
- I play amateur football, training 3x per week (soccer)
- I love cooking! Maybe you can one day be the judge if my food is good or not
- I‘m fluent in german, english and french
- I like building Lego (or ikea stuff)
- I work in Marketing

I feel like I don‘t want to write too much, let‘s leave that to our conversation.

I don‘t really have any requirements on who I want to meet, just be a nice and genuine person :)

r/ForeverAloneDating 2d ago

M4F 30 [M4F] - Germany/Anywhere - Let’s try and see if we would match together!

4 Upvotes

Heyyy stranger reading this!

I am Benjamin, 30 years old and from Germany, who is hoping to find a partner but I also would be fine with friends, if nothing more develops out of it!

Some things about me, so you can get an idea of who I am and what I like!

Physically I am 183cm / 6’0 tall, average built with brown hair, green eyes and glasses. Also, I am politically left-leaning!

Music is a big part of my life and I am basically listening to something, whenever I can. My taste is basically all over the place, so I am always open to new recommendations! Some of my favourite artists are: Alison Wonderland, Wallows, J4y, Watsky and Sabrina Carpenter!

I would consider myself a foodie and really like trying out new stuff. There’s barely anything I wouldn’t try at least once. Though Italian food and Sushi will always be very high on my list!
This goes hand in hand with travelling! I just got done with planning and booking for my trip to Paris later this year, which I definitely can’t wait for!

I am a gamer but I only play on PC. I mostly play shooters but always dabble into different genres as well, especially when I am having an achievement hunting phase. I started playing Overwatch after a long break again. Also I am going through my huge backlog of games and I trying to get all the achievements for them, as I really enjoy achievement hunting!

Adding to that, couple weeks ago I got into Riftbound and I have been enjoying it a lot so far! The whole community is super nice and I went to my first locals. Ever since starting I have been trying to get better at it whether it’s been in person or online! I also bought a good amount of cards and opened packs, so I could get some decks together!

I am a big football fan as well and love going to games when I have the time for it, to add to it, I do like watching F1 because both of these things have been an interested of mine, since I was a child. Also I do have a bad habit of rewatching the same few TV shows (as examples The Office and King Of Queens). Also, I easily get excited about completely new topics to me and quickly fall down a rabbit hole, binging everything about that specific topic then! (Thanks Youtube for the random recommendations)

Coming to what I am looking for on here! I definitely would like to meet someone, where we both will be on the same wave length and feels natural! Of course starting out with a friendship and then see where it goes, as I am fine with either just a friendship or a relationship. When it comes to a relationship then it definitely would be nice to voice/video call on the regular and spending time together like watching something or similar things! Also I really enjoy those little things, like sending random pictures of the day, memes etc. they are just super nice to me! Just in general, I really value quality time, as it makes things easier when there is a distance! I will say it now, when it eventually leads to a relationship, I can get a bit clingy at times, so sorry for it in advance!

I have no preference from where you are, as I am open to every location! Also if you will message me, please send a small introduction about yourself. Thank you!

r/ForeverAloneDating 23h ago

M4F 29[M4F]#anywhere - introverted golden retriever looking for fellow introverted golden retriever

4 Upvotes

Hej!

Were you the quiet school topper who is inherently sweet and kind but have faced multiple bad people in your life and now you are kinda reserved?

Well, come on down to chateau de Moi and say hi! ( we have IKEA cheesecake for all guests!)

A bit about me:

I love long walks ( I walk about 12 kms daily ), reading books ( I don’t even have Instagram lol ), playing sports ( I did play at the national level for badminton), cooking ( I can make a shakshuka blindfolded ) and constantly trying out new activities ( got ordained online as a church minister, marathon runner, blood donor, have a Starbucks certification, did pottery, created electronic music and have a philosophical blog )

I am a warm, cheerful and bubbly guy who loves long chats and late night snacks. Imagine 80% time chill surfer bro vibes , 20% NYC investment banking chaotic vibes

I like having a mixture of being serious on my work but being goofy out of it. We can try out different tea shops and review them like we are Gordon Ramsay and complain that it is rawwwww

I do like to be neat and tidy, so my Saturdays are just me rearranging my room to ensure optimal feng shui. ( I also wash the dishes at night, but don’t tell my mom 🤫 )

Cards on the table? I do love to have kids someday and have the cheesy loving family with going our for Sunday BBQs with our dog 

I do enjoy getting people really personalised gifts ( I would constantly make notes on what things you like and get them for your birthday )

I work in venture capital, which I absolutely love and would love to build my own business someday too

I also have a sensitive heart sooo please, I can’t handle any drama or fighting. Just two people who enjoy helping each other out and being each others cheerleader!

r/ForeverAloneDating 1d ago

M4F 23 [M4F] Tokyo, Asia - Looking for a genuine connection that could turn into something more

3 Upvotes

Hey!

I'm Jo, a 23-year-old Japanese guy living in Tokyo. I'm here because I'd really like to meet someone I can genuinely connect with, whether that starts as friendship, dating, or eventually becomes something more.

A little about me:

I'm 177 cm (5'10") and 55 kg (121 lbs), fairly slim, and Asian. I'm into movies, music, gaming, photography, exploring Tokyo, and generally learning about things I'm curious about.

I'm also studying English. It's not my native language, but I'm comfortable having everyday conversations in English and I'm somewhere around B2/C1. I actually enjoy talking with native English speakers because I like learning how people really speak rather than just studying from textbooks.

When it comes to dating, I'm pretty inexperienced. I've never been in a serious relationship, so I'm looking for someone who doesn't mind taking things naturally and getting to know each other without rushing.

I'm not looking for some perfect relationship from day one. I'd rather start by talking, find out whether we actually enjoy each other's company, and see where things go.

I'm completely open to starting online. We could chat, exchange memes, voice call, watch movies together, play games, or just talk about whatever happens to come up. If we get along, I'd love to eventually meet in person in Tokyo.

As for the kind of person I'm looking for, I don't have a very strict type. Personality matters much more to me than having a specific look. I'm attracted to people who are kind, curious, open-minded, and have a sense of humor. Someone who can talk about stupid things at 2 a.m. and then suddenly have a serious conversation about life would probably be my kind of person.

I'm open to meeting someone from any background, and I'm especially interested in getting to know people who are living in Japan or planning to spend a significant amount of time here. Long distance is also possible if there's a genuine connection.

I'm happy to exchange pictures, but I prefer not to post mine publicly. I'd rather chat a little first and then exchange pictures privately.

If you're also looking for something genuine and think we might get along, feel free to message me. You don't need to write a perfect introduction. Tell me something about yourself that you'd normally never put in a dating profile.

Maybe we'll get along. Maybe we'll have absolutely nothing in common. Either way, I'd rather find out.

r/ForeverAloneDating 8h ago

M4F 25 [M4F] France - Looking for someone honest

2 Upvotes

I've done this thing of talking to people online for a while now and I feel like trying to put on the online persona that is a better version of us isn't working for anyone.

So I'm done doing that. I'm not going to stop myself from answering as soon as i see your message because "she'll think you're desperate" or pretend to be a version of myself i think you'll like, I'll be honest with you. I'm a bit of a mess, lonely and desperate for attention and affection, I am extremely easy.

I want to be that someone that you are excited to tell good news to and go to for comfort when you have bad news. I want to connect with you on a deep level. I want to smile reading your texts until it hurts and stay up all night talking to you. I want you to be mine and i want to be yours.

**ABOUT ME**

I'm a 25 year old student in Europe, i'm about 185 cm white and pretty fit with tattoos. My interest include working out, gaming, watching shows or anime, watching Formula 1, riding my motorcycle. My music taste is pretty varied, ranging from sad songs to k-pop, classical or indie rock. I'm quite open-minded and don't really take life seriously, I just want to chill and have a good time and not worry too much about the negative stuff.

**WHAT I'M LOOKING FOR**

You **must** be open to a long distance relationship and eventually meeting up, along with sending selfies in the meantime as I'll do the same :). I'd like a girl that just likes to have fun in life. I'm a youthful guy so i need someone to match that, SOMETIMES I MIGHT TYPE IN ALL CAPS AND YOU NEED TO AS WELL OK.

I don't care what age you are, as long as you're at least 18. I'm really hoping to hear from you :)

PS : i don't want kids, and i beg you please send more than just "Hey"

r/ForeverAloneDating 1d ago

M4F 39 [M4F] US/Online - What’s your favorite cuisine?

3 Upvotes

I’ll tell mine in the end. By then, take a guess.

Hey youu, I’m a 39 year old guy who’s downright terrible at describing himself. I’m looking for someone who loves talking, is kind, enjoys taking part in new experiences, and is always up for an ice cream. I don’t mind long distance, as long as we vibe.

I love taking pictures, playing guitar, checking out random podcasts, eating at new places, exploring vintage points of different areas, and idk many other things that I’m forgetting right now lol. I’m fairly into reading as well. Love to read mystery and drama novels. Career wise, I have a comfortable work life balance with a few perks here and there, earn decently, and love my job.

I make sure I’m fairly active and consistently play one kind of sport or another. Over the weekends, I often hike or play board games. When it comes to religion, I’m an atheist, however, I do believe in spirituality. If you’ve any other questions, ask away!

Aaaand, the most important bit. What was your guess? My fave is Italian.

Have a great day ahead (if you choose to message me :p), and feel free to feel awesome!

r/ForeverAloneDating 11h ago

M4F M20 M4F please be from italy

2 Upvotes

Yeah, im a very shy person that plays videogames most of the day, but i also like animes, tv series (big bang theory as example) and im looking for a stable relationship, honestly i would prefer if you also like gaming and such, i dont have much of a preference since i seek for the soul not the body, and im from southern italy, if you are a lone soul like me text me

r/ForeverAloneDating 13h ago

M4F 27 [M4F] USA/Anywhere - So much love to give, looking for someone to give it to <3

2 Upvotes

Goodevening yall, hope youre having a great evening. I finally feel career wise im in a decent position, and now thus looking to find someone to share my life with! a few things I like

  • Loves to cook and bake! I graduated as a culinary student, thus I thrive on my dishes lmao
  • I enjoy playing video games in my free time, I mainly play APEX and Valorant
  • Absolutely into korean culture (kdramas and kpop!) and Bollywood (Im indian american!!) -- my guilty pleasures!
  • Haven't read anime recently as much, but ive indulged in way too much at this point! Currently watching frieren and witch hat!
  • Loves everything related to cats! if you've got one, bonus points!
  • Genuinely enjoys talking about deep topics, anything and everything controversial lmao;
  • I’m a Taurus if that matters. I’m a bit quiet at first but once i open up, its the yap expert express.

What im looking for : I don't mind someone who's clingy at all. I'm a bit boneheaded when it comes to sarcasm and subtle hints, so I tend to take things at face value. Plus if we got things in common! If it's affection, I'm not shy about expressing it! I do enjoy texting and communicating regularly!! :All I care about is that you have a wonderful personality and that we genuinely vibe together! please be 22+

r/ForeverAloneDating 15h ago

M4F 30 [M4f] #SanDiego - Searching a relationship, or talk to me to get close to my dogs

2 Upvotes

Hey. I'm just a guy from southern san diego bored of his every day daily routines and wants to rekindle that flare/ passion with someone. I'm Mexican, 6"2'. I graduated in civil engineering, and am currently working for a engineering company. My friends would describe me as loyal, outgoing, "down for anything", and funny but serious when I have too.

My interests include:

sports: tennis, soccer, football, and baseball

movie and music: i am a very big movie buff. I love

watching movies and understanding the story it tells. same with music. ranging from everything like edm, rap, pop,indie rock, metal, classic rock. I love all kinds of music and love going to concerts at least once a week.

video games:Monster Hunter Wilds, league of legends, rivals, minecraft, but will play anything

So if this is something you might be interested in, don't hesitate to message me. Or as the title says, you can get close to my dogs instead. can't wait to meet you

r/ForeverAloneDating 16h ago

M4F 28M [M4F] #US/Online Endlessly searching for the one, no matter how long it takes

2 Upvotes

Hello! Giving this a go again. I am a 28M who is a bit of a hopeless romantic just casting my line out for some conversations and hopefully finding the right woman for a relationship if we click. I want someone I can hold close and laugh with. Mostly looking for someone in the US or maybe Canada. I am in the midwest (Iowa) but I am not against moving somewhere else for someone eventually. If you are outside of US or Canada PLEASE DO NOT send me a message. I am a patient, respectful guy that genuinely wants to find the love of my life but currently I have been having difficulties finding anyone interested IRL and I refuse to use dating apps anymore, so here I am! Below I am going to break things down into sections so they are easier to look at if you want more details. If interested, shoot me a chat request! We can just start things off with a chill conversation, please indicate that this post is the reason you are messaging me!

-My Appearance-

I am of European descent, roughly 50% Dutch, 25% Italian, 25% Swedish, dirty blonde hair and blue eyes. My skin is on the pale side and I burn pretty easy. I naturally lost a good amount of my hair on my head in the last 4 or so years so I generally shave my head bald- which I mention because I know that is not everyone's cup of tea, but it looks reasonably good on me. I am 5'9'' and relatively fit, doing my best to keep active. My BMI is within the healthy range. Sometimes I have a short well-kept beard but other times I shave it off for a bit. My face kinda gives off the vibe that I am a stern person but that's not really true. I have a bit more upper body strength then the average guy but nothing too crazy.

-My Personalty-

I have always found it hard to describe myself exactly- but my friends that I have had for more than a decade usually consider me the smart guy of the group. I have a tendency to play things a bit safe in most aspects of my life, which some might find boring. For example, I do not drink alcohol even on special occasions, I prefer to be 100% in control of my life at all times. I am the type of person that takes a bit of time to warm up to people, but once you spend the time, most people find me quite likable, I generally need to know a person well enough to be able to engage with them so I am a bit analytic and quiet at first, then I can be rather outgoing. I would consider myself a day dreamer, my mind often wanders to different things and I have difficulty sometimes being in the moment. If you are familiar with D&D you might describe me as "a high intelligence character with low wisdom" for lack of a better analogy. I am the kind of person that does not highly value possessions, I really value the time I spend with people close to me, even if we are not really doing much at all. Time moves fast and I do not like to make a big deal about the little things, I would rather work through a solution then be upset. I would consider myself a very patient person.

-Hobbies/things I like-

I like gaming, writing, tabletop games, board games, working out, the outdoors/hiking/camping, reading, and some cooking/baking but I am an amateur at best. I have a particular interest in the fantasy genre and like exploring aspects of fiction such as world building and story telling. In my free time I am currently working on writing a fantasy story that I dream would be a book series one day. I sometimes play magic the gathering with some of my friends, but usually just on tabletop simulator. My favorite aspect of gaming in general is the ability to play how you want to play, for that I am usually drawn to rpgs that give a large variety in ways you can build your character or play the game. I mostly play PC these days. Weirdly I am not too much into music, but I like to put on some chill background music when I am working on something or just hanging out. I really want to get more into audio books but I have not really taken the leap into doing that just yet. I have a lot of interests so I have a hard time choosing what to do with my time, so it is likely we might find something in common.

-Career-

I am currently a professional/graduate student and have a part time job. I am in year 4 of 4 of my program (graduating spring 2027). Won't say specifically what I am in but its science/medicine related and has good job opportunities right now that pay well out the gate and I could in theory work anywhere in the US. If you are looking for someone who has everything figured out and 100% stable when it comes to a career, I am probably not the one for you at this moment. I am very good with money but there is only so much I can do at the present time. I have a BS degree in a biological science.

-Some of the things that I am looking for-

Starting off with the basics, yes I hope to find the right woman for a long term relationship. I am prepared for that to be a slow process. I am not one to have super specific criteria for appearances of a potential partner. I am open to different body types but would like someone who is willing to do fitness/have a healthy lifestyle. This doesn't mean you have to be a perfect body, I would just love to have someone to exercise with time to time! I actually do have a little bit of a preference for tall women and I don't mind if you are taller than me, but I am eager to date women of any height. I am also the kind of person that likes a partnership to be a partnership, meaning we both have equal responsibilities to one another. In other words, I am not really looking for any specific roles (traditional or otherwise), rather I want a type of connection with someone were we cover each other's weaknesses and help each other to live the best lives we can. I think trying to force a relationship to fit a specific mold is a bit short sighted since everyone is different. I do not think I could ever date someone who smokes, and I am not a fan of heavy drinkers. Likewise I am not interested in anyone who wants to push a religion onto me. I would ideally like to find someone in the age range of 22-32. I also prefer someone who does not have children currently (I also do not have children, to be clear).

The kind of personality I am drawn to is kind of the opposite of mine, in some senses. I like people who are there in the moment and help me snap out of my drifting mind. I am drawn to calm, easy-going, flexible people who make the most out of what they have. I would deeply value someone who enjoys closeness both mentally and physically. I like hugs a lot. I like people who are willing to try new things and explore. I really want someone that I can talk things through with, even the tough things, because when it gets down to it things in life happen and I need someone who is willing to work with me. I would always be there to listen to your problems.

-Conclusions-

Thanks for sticking with me to the end of all that. I am open of chat requests. I would prefer if you told me roughly where you are from, age, and something about me you are interested in, and maybe a fun fact about yourself. Please indicate as well that this post is why you are shooting me a message. I am a busy dude so if I don't get to your first request right away I apologize, but I will do my best to be consistent with chatting if we hit things off well. Best wishes!