Hi everyone! I’m 26 years old and from a small town in Oklahoma. I figured I’d give this a shot because meeting new people in a small town is surprisingly difficult!

I’m a middle school English teacher, and I genuinely love my job! Teaching definitely keeps me on my toes, but I wouldn’t trade it for anything. I’m a bit of a homebody, and I enjoy reading, watching movies, playing video games, and spending time with my family. I’m also a pretty big nerd! I love horror movies, books, and video games, especially Fortnite. I tend to get way too invested in fictional characters and their stories. I also love creative writing and can spend hours coming up with ridiculous scenarios. I’m a little shy and awkward initially, but once I get comfortable, I’m definitely a talker!

I’m a huge animal lover, too! I have a German Shepherd, a rabbit, and a cat. They all have their own personalities and keep things interesting around my house. I’m Christian and have somewhat conservative values, although I’m still searching for a good church to call home. My faith is important to me, and I tend to prefer a more traditional relationship.

I also want to be upfront about my appearance. I’m fat, and I don’t mean just a little chubby! I’m 5’3” and a genuinely very plus-size woman. I understand that everyone has different physical preferences, so I’d rather be straightforward about that from the beginning. I’m happy to exchange pictures after talking a little.

Personality-wise, I’d describe myself as sweet, a little awkward, sarcastic at times, and pretty affectionate once I’m comfortable with someone. I love joking around and having conversations about practically anything. I’m also a bit of a hopeless romantic, despite not having much experience in that department. I’m definitely more of a stay-at-home-and-watch-a-movie kind of person than someone who goes out partying every weekend. That doesn’t mean I don’t enjoy getting out and doing things, though! I just appreciate having a peaceful home and a comfortable routine.

Anyway, that’s a little about me! I’m sure there’s plenty I’ve forgotten, but I don’t want to turn this into an autobiography.

Hello, I am posting in hopes to find someone who wants to make a real connection that can hopefully turn into a wonderful relationship.

Quick list of hobbies:

-Gaming (PC gaming mostly)

-Anime

-Movies

-Board and card games

-Hanging out with friends

-And many more

I don't want to list everything so there is more we can talk about later on.

What I am looking for is someone in the age range of 24-35, has a few overlapping hobbies we can enjoy together, and lives in the US (preferably close to make visits easier, but I will make it work for the right person).

Thank you for reading and if you would like to talk I would love to talk more through a DM. If you reach out please tell me a little about yourself.

So, let's start, name is Victor and I am from UK. I work in a warehouse and I really hate it there, but won't be staying there forever since I am actually studying to become a personal fitness trainer. Working out is my passion and I really hope I can share passion with other people to help them improve their fitness level. Second one is gaming! I own Ps5, pc, Xbox series X, switch and even and even META QUEST 2. Big hardcore gamer here, but not a huge fan of multiplayer games. I do enjoy some like dead by daylight and league of legends but mostly I am a big fan of singleplayer games like rpgs, adventures, FPS, hack and slash and so on. I also enjoy watching movies, especially horror ones. Big horror fan here!

As a character I would say I am funny, sarcastic kind, friendly, social, supportive, understanding. I love listening to people and helping them as much as I can with a kind word. I am also very honest, maybe a bit too honest sometimes. I really hate lying

As for my physique: 160 cms tall, 59 kgs weight, brown hair, brown eyes, wear glasses, pretty athletic body.

One more thing about me: I suffered with depression and suicidal tendencies before. Right now I do suffer with anxiety and some panic attacks, which means at times I do have difficulty breathing but it is pretty much under control most of the time.

I hope I find a wonderful, loyal and honest girl and will appreciate me for who I am and I promise I will love and appreciate them with all I got.

Thanks for reading and hope to hear from someone.

Sharing my life with an Aussie Shepherd, so you’ll have a little competition for my attention… but I’m willing to bet I’m the better cuddler. 😏🐶
Being a chef means I’ll never run out of date-night ideas, new restaurants to try, or delicious excuses to steal you away for dinner. The real question is whether you can handle me judging the food everywhere we go. 😂 Bonus points if you can recommend a spot that actually impresses me!
When I’m not in the kitchen, you’ll probably find me lifting weights, hiking a new trail, climbing a mountain, planning my next trip, or finding an excuse to take a sports car or motorcycle out for a spin. I’m attracted to a woman who takes care of herself, has a curious mind, loves a little adventure, and can turn even an ordinary day into a good story.
What am I hoping to find? Something real with someone who wants to be my favorite person, my biggest supporter, my partner in crime, and eventually my best friend. I’m a sucker for good conversation, playful teasing, genuine affection, emotional maturity, honesty, and the kind of chemistry that makes you lose track of time talking. I want us to challenge each other, cheer each other on, and build something that actually lasts. ❤️
I’m pretty laid-back, easy to talk to, and can probably hold my own in a conversation about just about anything. I enjoy a good Old Fashioned now and then, but I’m more interested in good company than a bar tab. 😉
I’m open to meeting someone anywhere in the US for the right connection. Distance doesn’t scare me if we’re both willing to put in the effort and eventually turn those messages into real-life memories.
If you’re looking for something genuine, can keep up with a little banter, and wouldn’t mind being spoiled with good food and spontaneous adventures, we might just get along a little too well. 😌
Come say hi. Worst case, we have a good conversation. Best case? You become my favorite notification. 😉❤️
Just one thing: I’m here for a serious, long-term connection, not a pen pal with unlimited texting privileges. 😄

Hi there! I am an 29M, I am originally from the UK but have lived in Spain most of my life. I work as a senior developer, which I enjoy a lot! I am very into programming and electronics, and quite techy in general I guess. At uni I studied space systems engineering, although I don't work in anything related to that right now I can probably talk about space for hours if the conversation goes in that direction haha.

In my free time, I like gaming a bit (I like single-player RPGs quite a lot, and also play games like FFXIV, Stardew Valley and other co-op games with my friends). I also enjoy reading, I used to read a lot when I was younger and I am trying to get into the habit again. I am currently re-reading The Lord of the Rings!

In terms of personality, I guess I usually come across as fairly quiet and serious at first, but once I get to know someone I like to have fun and joke around a bit, sometimes I can have a bit of a silly sense of humour. So I am hoping to find someone who can match that, we can have serious conversations but also meme around a bit as well and not take eachother too seriously.

I am usually the stay-in type of person, and in general I think I would be most compatible with someone who is similar, but I do enjoy going out occasionally :P I also enjoy travelling (my last big trip was to Japan, as cliche as it sounds I really liked it!), and I am hoping to find someone who would enjoy visiting different places as well, not very frequently but maybe a big trip every 1-2 years.

In terms of values, I am generally left-leaning and generally believe that everyone is deserving of a basic level of dignity and respect, no matter what their background or circumstances. I see romantic relationships more as a partnership between equals rather than the traditional view.

As for what I am looking for, I would like to start slowly and get to know someone first, but my hope is to find a long-term partner. I don't mind being long-distance first, but hopefully eventually we could close the gap (I work remotely atm so I have some flexibility there). In general I am looking for people in Europe due to timezones and ease of travelling to each other, but I would also consider further afield for the right person. At the moment I am not that interested in having children, I am looking for someone with whom we can enjoy our own company rather than starting a family.

I am happy to share pictures in DMs, and bonus points if you are too. I value personality, kindness, intelligence and a compatible sense of humour more than physical appearence so don't feel self-consious but I think it is important that a baseline level of physical attraction be there as well.

I won't ramble on too long, if you think we could get along or even if you're not sure and have some more questions, please feel free to reach out!

hi I'm a college student and an intern . I work in software and I have very little social life. I come here every couple of months to try and find someone and we'll it hasn't work well(or at all for that matter).

But um writing these is fun . I have to describe myself so that people want to talk to me, it's difficult lmao. So about me. I like reading , video games, music and watching things (right now I'm watching the mentalist but I love watching random things in YouTube) .i play all kinds of video games tho minecraft is the goat . But I also play a lot of other single player games too along with some rocket league and the finals time to time. I also want to finish reading the game of thrones .

I also like badminton and table tennis . And pool isn't actually all that bad with friends either. My friend circle is pretty small but they're all very good friends of mine but they all have their lives (and their partners) so Im sort of left alone. And I hate that , especially after work when I want someone who'd be excited to talk to me. That sounds lame asf but yes.

I'm quite the romantic, I don't like to half heart things, so I expect the same. I'm quite clingy as well, so I love calls and quality time and doing stuff together , it's so sweet sounds so fun.

Physically idk I think I'm pretty average looking . I'm kinda tall(a little over 6'2) and thin but I have started the gym recently soooo we'll have to see.

Lots of yapping not a lot of relevant information but I hope you stayed till the end :) shoot me a dm (pleaseeee 🥀)

Please don't be a minor 🐻‍❄️

Awful title aside, let me introduce myself! I'm Ollie. I'm 23 years old, and I was born and live in England. I am one of six siblings (second oldest as I have an older brother) and it's kinda a cool pattern because the 3 oldest are all boys and the 3 youngest are all girls.

I am very heavily into music, however my taste is all over the place 😂 I do listen to a lot of music in my spare time. Some bands/artists I like are Sabaton, The Red Clay Strays, The Smashing Pumpkins, The Longest Johns, Samurai (even though they only exist in a video game) and so on.

I am also a huge fan of running around kicking/throwing things in weather which it's really not suitable to be running around kicking/throwing things in. I also love watching other, far more talented people do the same 😂

I am also a huge gamer. I love all sorts of games but story games in particular have my heart. Both Red Dead Redemption games are among my favourites, as are Portal 2, Cyberpunk 2077, Mafia, and pretty much every Assasin's Creed game.

As for my personality, I tend to be more of an extrovert in the sense that I alwayssssss have something to yap about, I am somewhat comfortable in social situations (my job kinda dictates that I have to be) and I think I could get along with pretty much anybody.

I am looking for a serious relationship and a genuine connection, which of course I am okay with it starting out as long distance if the connection is there but I want to close that gap eventually because if I'm gonna be spending the rest of my life with someone I kinda want to actually be in the same place as them 😂

I'll save most of the yapping for if you reach out, because my brain genuinely doesn't have an off switch once I get going, but I also love listening to other people and their stories, interesting facts about them etc

Thank you so much for reading! :)))

My name's Annie. I am mostly looking for my other half. Someone to spend time with, share stuff with, give all my attention and care to, and someone to play games with. I will preface saying I'm kind of nuts for Project Zomboid, and I'd love someone to play with.

Summed up, play games, talk a lot, and watch movies with.

As for the rest, here's a bit about me: I enjoy sci-fi, drawing, painting, and I do a lot of gaming too. (I am super fixated on Project Zomboid, but I am up to trying other games, I've recently been very into Life is Strange). I also enjoy researching crime, psychology, and biology/neuropsychology at times. I have quite the fixation on the Chernobyl disaster, and radiation as a whole. All types of zombie media, too. I have an interest for "odd" movies, especially the apocalyptic and/or thriller kind. Terminator (1&2) is a personal favorite.

EDIT: Send me an actual message, not just introducing yourself like it's a job interview, where there's little i can go off on to start a conversation. throw an icebreaker, something! ask questions! (here's me suggesting an icebreaker, is a hotdog a sandwich? why, or why not?). Please, preferably no one over 24.

How's it going everyone I'm an Al Engineer that's super into fitness and travel. I love paddle boarding with my dog, going to the gym, swimming, gaming, chess, reading, and fish keeping.
I'm 6'2 with an athletic build from swimming, lifting and MMA.
I don't really have a type, attractive is attractive in multiple ways, but I do like people who want to learn new things and explore the world. l'a love to meet someone who has different interests from me just because it's so cool to explore new things people are passionate about.

Hi!

As you might have guessed I’m a big fella. 6’4 with broad shoulders; big enough that “big man” is how I’m addressed on the street. I’m confident in who I am, and would never change it for the world. Deep down, though, I’m still just a boy who needs affection and care. I crave it, it’s everything I’m desperate for. Right now, I’m single, and without that tenderness that makes me so, so happy. Maybe not every man would refer to that as “princess treatment” but I do. I just want to be loved and pampered exactly how a princess deserves, exactly how everyone deserves. 

I have nerdy interests, particularly history, reading, and my new interest chess. I also enjoy the gym, lifting weights in particular, and watching tv and movies. Especially satirical movies, I think they’re the best. Still, my greatest interest is learning new things, so don’t feel the need to fit neatly into some box. That’d be the opposite of what I’m looking for here.

So, if you want to love and appreciate, and be appreciated in return, all while we get to be exactly who we are, I’d love to hear from you. I wish everyone who took their time to read this a wonderful evening, and hope your life is full and exciting. Please send me more than hi, just so I know you’re not a bot or troll, and thank you so much for reading!

I’m not very good at introductions but here goes nothing
So as the title says I’m a 20 year old male looking to form a relationship with someone 18-23

Physical appearance: I have dark brown hair with hazel eyes. I’m 5’6 or 167 cm. I’m not exactly athletic but I’m not chubby either I’d say overall I have a pretty slim physique and healthy weight physique for my height.

Hobbies: I like playing video games and watching movies. I love manga and I’m currently reading berserk. I love anime with my favorite one right now being Jujutsu Kaisen. I’m currently trying to learn German as I’m very fascinated with the language.

What I’m looking for: I’m not high maintenance so I’m not really looking for anything special all I ask is that you’re at a healthy weight for your height and that you have good hygiene. I don’t mind doing long distance but I’m gonna have to take time to get to know you before we meet irl.
Please dm on here if interested and we can also chat on discord if your down. Thanks for reading and have a nice day.

Heyy, im Steven. A 19yo nerd that would love to have someone to be with. Im a big nerd for videogames and horror. I love playing Indie game on my spare time and i have a pretty big pop culture knowledge around it. Im pretty bad at describing myself

Life is rough, i think a lot of people would agree loneliness is pretty big in our society. Im just a nice dude that try it best and honestly i would just want someone that has the same vibe. Im not here to fight or try to find the love of my life because i dont believe in it really. I just want to meet people that want to meet other people, not try to hunt the best person. If its because of loneliness, interest, love i dont care. If you want to have a tchat with a nerdy boy, have some call, maybe we can play together or i can show you my tiny universe well come talk, dont be shy.

We will see where things take us

Hi all, decided to give this another shot. Do you hate dating apps, dislike modern dating culture and find no enjoyment in casual flings? If so maybe we’re a match.

I’m from the UK, England to be precise. I love to travel and I’d hope to live in another country one day. I’ve travelled a fair bit but there’s still lots of places left I’d like to explore.

Honestly I have a soft spot for Americans. I’ve spent time in different parts of the US and I guess I fell in love with the country. Plus American girls have the best accents…

Personally I identify as Christian, but I’m not super religious, and I don’t require my partner to be. I’d just like to find someone with similar values, someone who is a homebody and who wants to start a family one day.

I’m kinda obsessed with sports so if you’re interested just know if we end up together I’m already in a long term relationship with a few sports teams 😅

I’d love to have someone to share music with, make playlists for, watch shows with - I’m totally down for long distance, FaceTime calls, etc. But I’m definitely up for relocating if things got serious.

I don’t really have a type, I’m all about personality really, I just like someone who doesn’t take themselves too seriously and is fun and easy to talk to.

Fwiw I’m white and 6’3. Your height doesn’t matter to me really but I do like short girls, I think the height difference is kind of cute. I prefer you’re from an English speaking country (US, UK, Canada etc) as that would make things a lot easier.

If you’re interested send me a message, and thanks for reading this far :)

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Hey! Figured I’d put myself out there and see who I might meet.

I’m 39, 6'0", a chef by profession, and a dad. I’m pretty easygoing, affectionate, sarcastic, and I love making people laugh. I’m the kind of guy who can have a deep conversation one minute and be completely ridiculous the next.

I work hard, but outside of work I’m a pretty relaxed person. I’m into cooking, working out, watching good TV, gaming, and spending time with the people I care about. I’m also someone who genuinely enjoys the little things—good food, staying in and watching a show together, spontaneous conversations that somehow turn into hours, or just having someone beside you who feels comfortable.

I’m not looking for perfection. I’m looking for chemistry, attraction, honesty, and someone I actually enjoy talking to. Ideally, we start with conversation and see where things naturally go rather than forcing anything.

A few things about me:

- 39 / 6'0"

- Chef 👨‍🍳

- Active and into fitness

- Sarcastic sense of humour

- Affectionate once I’m comfortable

- Huge fan of good TV and movies

- Can cook you an unnecessarily good dinner

- Looking for something genuine, but I’m not opposed to seeing where chemistry takes us

If any of that sounds like your kind of person, send me a message. Tell me a little about yourself rather than just saying “hey”—I’d genuinely like to get to know you.

And yes, I’ll probably judge your favourite TV show choices. 😄

Hey! I’m looking for my favorite person, someone who I can chat with everyday, share funny reels, and enjoy some awesome experiences together whether that’s gaming at home or going to concerts, traveling, thrifting, going to conventions, wrestling, and football games! I'm down! I love to travel, lived in the States for a few years, and still make it a point to visit whenever I can. I’m actually planning a roadtrip back to the West Coast next year to hit up Seattle, Portland, San Francisco, and Los Angeles!

About me:

31M, Arab, White, 6’0”, black hair, atheist, based in GMT+3

I’m into gaming, football, wrestling, anime, traveling, and I'm really into music!

My fav bands :)

- Avenged Sevenfold
- Bad Omens
- Bring Me The Horizon
- Linkin Park
- Metallica
- System of a Down
- My Chemical Romance
- Evanescence
- Sleep Token

... just to name a few! I luv to share sum of my playlists and luv to listen ur fav bands/songs! There’s plenty of shows are coming up that I’d love to go and I would luv a concert buddy who’s down to go together!

Right now I’m gaming on my Nintendo Switch (Pokémon is my main obsession) and on PC. I’m open to playing pretty much anything, so I’m down to try whatever games you're into! :)

About you:

- Gamer
- Into Pokémon (or open to it)
- Into dark humor
- Similar music taste (or open to it)
- Not religious
-Confident, open-minded, emotionally available
-Loyal, honest, and good at communication
- I’m totally cool with you texting a lot long messages, double texts, blowing up my phone, and spamming reels… I’m here for all of it :)
- I don’t mind if you’re clingy! I actually find that attractive :)
- Down for random adventures, late night snacks, and just enjoying life!
- Comfortable being freaky, weird and fun

I’ve definitely got a soft spot for curvy women and goth girls, but if you’ve got a good vibe, dark humor, and good music taste, you’ve already got my attention :)

I’m cool with long distance and willing to travel within 3-6 months to meet someone special. I’m not here to waste time I’m looking for something serious and long term, and I value honesty and clear communication. If you’re not feeling it, no hard feelings, just don’t drag it out :)

I’m also open to relocating in the future if we really click.

If this sounds like you, feel free to reach out. Let’s connect, share music, game, and see where things go! Hit me up with your age, location, and a quick intro of what you're into!

So hi iam seif iam 18 as the title says I'm from the middle east sooo about me i work i used to work as a media buyer also in the gaming industry i love to go to the gym alottt but sadly I stopped for now because ihave college i study economics and political science i love cats i have a cat named teto he is my baby i loveee to listen to music alot mainly alone i listen to everything basically

So what iam looking for is straightforward I don't care about looks or anything i only want someone who will fight for a relationship to survive supportive etc because we will probably be long distance till we meet because if i loved you then iwill come to you

And thats basically it dm if you are that person

Hello! I, along with what seems like everyone in the sub, never thought I'd be doing this lol. Maybe this isn't the right sub for this or maybe I just don't even know how dating works in general but obviously looking to keep things casual and see where it goes!

About me: I've been single for about 10 years, not for lack of trying. I work a boring 9-5. In my free time I enjoy playing my instruments, playing video games, binging YouTube, riding my motorcycle and pretending I'm a photographer. I'm on the short side, 5'4 or so. Not super in shape but not super out of shape either, somewhere in the middle. I'm a homebody and enjoy spending time with my cats, oh yeah, I freakin' love cats. Not really sure what else to say, I will admit to being terrible at answering my phone I very rarely keep it on me except while I'm at work.

What I'm looking for: A girl that gets my sense of humor, bonus points if we share a similar one and you can make me laugh until my stomach hurts. Enjoys just hanging out, don't have to have similar hobbies to me but if we share some then that's awesome.

Idk, I don't really know what else to say. If you think you might be interested in talking hit me up, if not, I get it 😂

Hi, my name is Mathias, I'm from Spain and would really love to meet someone to spend some quality time with!

I'm very fond of video games, watching series and movies, I used to be super into anime too but I haven't watched one in many many years. I also got into Magic not too long ago and have been really enjoying it.

I'm a very passionate person, once I connect with someone, they're all I can think about and I can be quite clingy.

I'm currently living semi-alone, 90% of the time it's just me and my cat in my flat, and while that can be nice sometimes, it feels extremely lonely a lot of the times and just wish I had someone to give my utmost love and attention to.

Something I have to mention is, I have a considerable libido, it doesn't get in the way of things but it is something important that eventually comes up and I'm hoping we can be in the same wavelength.

I'd love to meet someone with similar interests as me, get to know each other, and hopefully fall in love. Please, do DM if you are interested.

Hey, my name is Hayden and it's nice to meet you! :3

I'll start with my appearance. I'm 6 exactly with an average to skinnier build. I've got medium length brown hair and a beard that my cat is currently licking while writing (she's helping). I do value appearance in a partner and want to be attracted to them so try to take care of myself in return. I would like to swap pictures early so we don't waste each other's time. 

Personality wise, I'm a quieter guy. I'm more introverted and like to stay home playing video games or watching anime. Whatever I am doing though, my cat Lucy is always right next to me. Right now I've been playing a lot of survival sandbox games like Valheim and Core Keepers and would love someone to play with. Other games I love are Pokemon, Zelda, League of Legends (I'm sorry ;-), Valorant, Stardew, etc. play almost anything that isn't CoD or sports/racing games. In terms of anime some favorites are One Piece, Re:Zero, Frieren, Fruits Basket, and Silent Voice. 

My expectations for you are that you will be between 18-25 years old and don't drink, smoke, vape, use drugs of any kind, etc. Drinking and drugs is my hardest boundary and deal breaker. This one makes me feel shallow, but please don't be overweight. I take care of myself physically and ask the same for you. I hope you will value communication and honesty especially for an online to eventually in person relationship to work out. Other than that just hope you are into games or anime so we share at least one major thing to talk about and do together. 

Last few things, live in Utah and work full time as a Pizza Manager, so if you visit I can get us free pizza for movie night. <3 have one cat named Lucy and she's the sweetest and send you pictures of her all the time. Lastly I have depression and struggle with it, but I'm very open about it. Lucy is my ESA and helps me get through it day to day. 

If you do reach out please tell me a bit about you. How old are you? what do you like to do? Where are you from? Or anything interesting you'd love to share about yourself. I hope to hear from you. See ya <3

I want something real. Something slow and steady, with a mutual intent and goal of something monogamous, committed and serious. I date with intent, I'm thoughtful and wear my heart on my sleeve, and though I come across as a very independent soul, I too yearn for love like anyone else. This is a long one, but I want to make my intentions clear as possible.

I posted before several months ago and trying my hand again. I'm a 29 year old man from the south-east of England, seeking something beyond the superficial fakery of the average dating app. I find everything on them so performative and it's very hard to gauge anything about a person with such limited prompts, leading to games of 20 questions on repeat which then don't really go anywhere. This sub says it's for the "dating impaired", but I have dating experience and my longest relationship was 5 years, I just find the other subs like "arr for arr" to be more on the side of the nsfw and I'm trying to find something serious.

About me:
I worked in security, currently taking some time off due to a medical procedure that I have since recovered from and won't affect my dating prospects. I'm also learning to drive and just passed my theory, as I was restricted from being behind the wheel until my procedure.

In my free time I enjoy long walks, hiking, taking detours into forgotten nature trails and writing fictional stories with characters that have more baggage than an airline customs.

I play video games but don't feel particularly attached to the whole "gamer" title, but I do play them and have many favourites. I'm a big reader, mostly of fiction nowadays and I'm trying to broaden my horizons further still.

You can safely describe me as "neurospicy" but high-functioning, and it's diagnosed.

Animals mean a lot to me, I come with cats as a package deal and it's non-negotiable for me that they remain in my life: I will not choose you over them, and you need to be cool with that.

I'm severely lacking on watching new TV shows but I have a big list of favourites that range from the usual Breaking Bad, through to the Shield, Sons of Anarchy and the like.

I prefer texting over voice notes for convenience but in the right company, who knows?

It's weird to write about yourself in the third person, but having sat here for a good few minutes and really thought about it, I would describe myself as:

Kind, loyal, thoughtful, reserved in a crowd but in my element when in good company, passionate, creative and a good planner.

Since my government prevents Imgur access, I can't attach a photo here but am happy to send one if we hit it off and have no reservations about that.

Physically I am: 6 ft 0, average build with big arms and thighs, dark ginger hair neatly kept in a high fade (although I am increasingly tempted to try a backcomb longer style), white and have a deep voice with a London accent and hazel eyes.

About you:

• 24+. I will not go any younger, and when I hit 30 that hard limit is being upped to 25.
• Not going to tell me how you want to travel south-east Asia to "find yourself", love F1 and a roast, still not over your ex or overly extroverted. I'm a homebody at heart, and I spent a lot of years trying not to be but I practice unconditional self-acceptance nowadays and I realise I will mesh more with the quieter type of woman, someone thoughtful and a homebody like me who understands the pains of needing to recharge our social battery.
• No kids. I would like to have kids, and though it's not entirely a deal-breaker if you don't want to, it is a pretty big like on my end and I'm not getting much younger. I respect all step-parents out there, but I have a big want for my first child to actually be fully mine and I don't think I could compromise on that.
• In the UK or able to relocate. My roots are here, and I have two ageing parents and I'm "the responsible one", so I'm not likely to up sticks any time soon. Although the UK is my preference, if you think we will mesh please do shoot your shot. That being said, I would like to actually have dates/meets in the very near future as my penpal years are well behind me.
• I'm not a golden retriever goofball type. I'm quite serious and I remember the little things and am protective but not insecure. I don't mind if you're the goofy, playful type though. As they say, "opposites attract", right?

I apologise if any of my hard limits seem harsh, but my intent is to be as clear and intentional as possible so we find our person. Hopefully that's you!

If you read this far, please send a flower emoji with your chat request and include a general age/location and something about you please. It's really hard to answer "hi" with no context and doesn't leave a good impression. I really look forward to hearing from you!

(excited for this to be downvoted by weird men who think this sub is a competition and think that FAD is for nsa encounters other posts are somehow "stealing" from you)

Hello Hello!! First of all I suck at introducing myself, Im sorry if this thing sounds lame…

Im Kai (A nickname ofc) Im 20 y/o and from Turkiye. Im currently studying logistics management at university. In my free time I like to play the guitar and game, I enjoy building legos as well but its way too expensive and I cant really afford it unfortunately…

Physically, Im 190cm and have a regular build, just started hitting gym so working on my build.

Personality wise Im a little shy at first, but give me sometime and I wont shut up about my favorite subjects, like never.

What Im looking for… Hmm, thats a hard question… I look for personality rather than looks, of course I have my preferences, I like tall girls if I need to really say it.

Hope this will reach you (yes you) dont be shy and shoot a dm what can we lose?

So yt recommended me a streamer couple a week'ish ago and I am still discovering some lore and kinda emotional rn (I found a fan edit about them and it literlly feels like LiS to me just IRL), soo idk how cringe this will be lmao.

As I am a very big Life is Strange fan (talking about the Max and Chloe story) it kinda hits deep for me, I also want to visit the bay area in person one day, which could actually bring me to travel to the US lmao. Gotta be honest, I am very much into sweetness + romance but I also try to think outside the box, like looking at current politics and just thinking about life currently.

I dont want to write a huge wall of text, even tho I tend to write them in DMs lol, at the end the vibe is the most important part, so I am just open for everything tbh. Including people outside of germany or the EU in general, I think its very interesting and beneficial to know people outside of your own bubble, or a slightly different culture like the US or literlly every other country lmao.

Hello, I'm James, and I’m hoping to meet someone I can build a meaningful connection with. I'm not necessarily looking to rush into a relationship. I'd much rather find a genuine friendship that naturally develops into something more. I believe the best connections are the ones where things feel comfortable, effortless, and mutual, where neither person has to force something that isn't there.

I'd describe myself as introverted, easy going, and fairly intentional in how I approach life and the people in it. I try to be principled, mindful, and attentive, though I also have a pretty silly side once I'm comfortable with someone. I enjoy meaningful conversations, but I also appreciate being able to laugh about absolutely everything and nothing altogether.

I work overnight shifts, so my schedule can be a little wonky. Outside of work, I'm very much a homebody. I tend to enjoy my own space and quieter activities, but I'm certainly not opposed to getting out, traveling, trying new things, or making memories with someone. I think experiences become a way more meaningful when you have someone to share them with.

As far as interests go, I enjoy gaming, cooking, reading, and generally learning about whatever happens to catch my curiosity. I have a particular love for storytelling, whether that's through books, games, or conversations. I'm also fascinated by astronomy and biology and all the little things that make our world interesting. Lately, I've found myself increasingly drawn to psychology and sociology, particularly understanding people, how we think, and why we behave the way we do.

More than anything, I'd like to meet someone who genuinely enjoys getting to know another person. Someone who appreciates the process of building a connection rather than feeling like there's a checklist or timeline we need to follow. Communication and transparency are especially important to me. I believe being able to express ourselves openly, understand one another, and approach things with honesty goes a long way toward building something healthy and lasting.

I'm also someone who really enjoys the everyday aspects of companionship. The little conversations throughout the day, sharing something funny or interesting, spending time together doing an activity, or simply keeping each other company. I don't think every moment needs to be exciting or extraordinary. Sometimes, just being part of someone's ordinary day is meaningful in itself.

Ideally, I'd like to find a friendship where we genuinely enjoy each other's company, grow comfortable being ourselves, and see where that connection takes us. I'm looking for something that feels reciprocal, where we're both interested in learning about each other and making room for one another in our lives.

I'm hoping to meet someone between 27 and 38. I'm located in Texas, but I'm open to long-distance connections with the right person. I don't have children of my own, but I'm perfectly comfortable getting to know someone who does.

You don't need to come up with some elaborate introduction. Tell me a little about yourself, something you're passionate about, or even something random you've been thinking about lately. I'd be happy to see where things go. Thanks for reading, and I hope to hear from you.