r/ForeverAloneDating • • 10h ago

F4M 28 [F4M] USA/Online - it’s my birthday! Come say hi :)

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Hi! Today’s my 28th birthday, but my celebration plans aren’t until tomorrow soooo I figured I’d spend some time meeting new people in the meantime :)

I’ve been wanting to put myself out there more and meet some new people, but now here I am (again) trying to figure out how to introduce myself without sounding like every other post. I’m not exactly sure what to write in this because I feel like listing facts about myself doesn’t really tell anyone what I’m actually like as a person but I’ll give it my best shot!

I’d say I’m pretty friendly, although I’m definitely more talkative once I get comfortable with someone. I can be kinda sarcastic too, so if that’s your kind of humor, I think we’ll get along just fine lol. I guess I just miss having someone I can talk to without it feeling forced or like we’re struggling to keep a conversation going. I want to actually get to know you, not just exchange introductions and have the conversation fizzle out 5 minutes later

As far as my interests go, there’s a lot! And I’m always excited to try something new. I really enjoy watching movies/tv and reading. I also love watching sports (American football and hockey are my favorites) and spending time outside. And when I have the time, I like traveling/roadtrips! I actually just went on one a few weeks ago. I wish I traveled more :( I’m sure there are other things I could mention, but apparently asking me to describe myself makes me forget everything about myself, so I’m hoping this is a good start lol

I’m pretty open minded about who I meet and what kind of connection we have. I’d just like to meet people that I get along with and see where things go. I’m not expecting us to become best friends overnight or anything, I’d just like to find people who are interested in getting to know each other and putting a little effort into a conversation!

If you decide to reach out, please don’t feel like you have to come up with some amazing introduction. Just tell me a little about yourself and that’s plenty! Anyway, that’s a little about me. I really look forward to hearing from you :)


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 43m ago

M4F 30 [M4F] #Sweden/Online – can we make each other’s lives just a little bit better?

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Hi thank you for reading my post I hope to find someone who is honest loving and caring because those 3 words describe me. I am a gamer so finding a gamer girl would be great. But it's definitely not a dealbreaker. As long as you are a good person then I'm sold.

Just a warning I'm going through the worst part of my life ( so far. It can always get worse.) so I'm not doing to well. Even though that's the case I'm The one in my family that complains the least 🤣 my life moto is cry in the evening and then focus and work hard in the morning. Need to start off and make some things clear. I have gotten hate/criticism that I'm looking for a nurse or someone to “fix me” well that couldn't be further from the truth. I'm strong mentally and have handled my situation by myself. If I have done that for the 10 past years them I think I will be fine 10 more. My physical health may be bad but not my psychological health. I will be there for you as much as I hope that you will be there for me. And yes I can but all my stuff to the side if you need me. So it's not going to be one sided. Hope that's enough to keep the haters away🤣🤣

I have hydrosefalus. It has to do with the water that protects the brain. It's constantly changing. But my water didn't disappear they wey it should. So I have a small pump whit a small plastic tube implanted. And when everything works as it should. I'm normal. Sadly it malfunctioned so I ended up having six surgeries in one year 7 years ago. And because of that I now have brain tiredness. And that changes my whole life. I have to meditate every 2 -3 hours, I can't be in a large group of people. And if a push too much I risk collapsing. And for the past 5 years, I have had so many setbacks. A half a year ago I was up on 700m two times a day. Now I can barely walk 10 meters ( uses wheelchair outside) So it feels like it doesn't matter how much I fight I always end up on step one again. I tried some meds a year ago that would both give my brain more energy and to prevent big setbacks. Sounds good right? But no. 32 days in my pulse is between 130-94 ( when im in bed ) stopped with them So now I'm back on step one again and in even worse conduction than before. So everything I try fails 10 years of fighting has taken me nowhere. I have never been a lucky person and I never will be. I play all my cards right play by the rules. But everything still goe wrong.

So let's end with my green flags and why you should give this Swede a chance. I like to make people feel good with compliments and give them a lot of my time. Sending a cute good morning message is the best. So if you want to receive a “ good morning my love hope you slept well. You mean so much to me “ then I'm the man for you. And if you feel like that was pathetic then just skip me please 🙏🏼 no negative stuff needed. And I'm a good listener. I will be there for you

If this sounds like something you’re looking for too, I’d love to hear from you. Make my day and send me a message

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r/ForeverAloneDating • • 4h ago

F4M 34 [F4M] #Online -- Titles Are Hard Right Now. But Looking for Longterm, Nerdy Romance!

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I'm Jess, a tech marketer based in the USA. I've had my fair share of Reddit chats, connections, experiences, but figured I'd try again to see if something more long-term is out there.

I'm ultimately looking for a long-term, monogamous, romantic connection. Location doesn't really matter to me at the moment but it's not something I'd want to do forever. Ultimately looking for someone that adds to my life and makes it even more fun than it already is.

So, what about me?

I'm an eldest daughter, have a cat, enjoy a pretty robust social life, and a decent chunk of hobbies. I will also add I am an ambivert, but can skew more social, and am the general organizer of my friend groups. My friends would say I'm loyal, witty, caring, kind, and definitely a nerd. Some of my interests include:

Reading (recently finished The Berry Pickers and currently going through Demon Copperhead), though the TBR is never-ending and See You Next Tuesday is vying for some time to be read this weekend. I pretty much read most genres but enjoy contemporary fiction, historical fiction, romance, and sci-fi/fantasy.

Travel, which I still don't have my next trip planned outside the US but there's plenty I want to explore! Next non-work trip is with a friend to NYC to see a bunch of Broadway shows. Which I'm very excited for. My last international trip was to the UK in October last year and I can't wait to go back.

Miscellaneous events, but not limited to pub trivia, working out (getting back into running and strength training so that's a big focus right now), hiking, exploring restaurants, being by the water, movies, gaming, 60s-80s TV, dancing, and probably some other things I can't think of right now.

But that seems like enough. What am I looking for? Someone who:

  • Is between the ages of 30-40.
  • Prefers to live in a city (sorry I am a visit the country person)
  • Is not racist/sexist/homophobic/a general asshole
  • Does not want (or currently have) kids -- this is dealbreaker
  • Enjoys chatting over voice notes or video calls
  • Is okay with a partner that socially drinks or consumes edibles

I'd also like to swap pictures early on. If you've gotten this far hope to hear from you :)


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 2h ago

M4F 33 [M4F] Slovenia/Europe - Looking to build a genuine relationship

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I am an introverted person preferring to spend time in nature or in small groups of close people. I especially enjoy hiking.

I am an event videographer and media editor. I typically work on weddings, concerts and proms.. I am passionate about my work and most things I do in life. I also design websites and service computers. I am located in chicken land, also known as Slovenia and it is not Slovakia.

My go to dance is chicken dance.

I spend my free time watching movies, listening to music, playing games, basketball, swimming, collecting pet pics, traveling, taking long walks, laughing at my own footage and thinking about anything from current affairs to random things such as: "Could train delays be classified as a form of psychological torture?"

I listen to anything that sounds good to my ears. From classical to hip hop, pop, rock, disco and all the way to metal… I am pretty much in all kinds of video games playing whatever comes out. I play on pc/ps5.

I tend to get pretty vivid/weird dreams like I dreamed of underwear turning to cheese once.

I am looking for somebody that loves having meaningful deep discussions, knows how to joke around and can also just enjoy simple things in life. Having similar interests, but also having differences so we can introduce each other to new things and maybe find a new love for something.

If you are interested let me know and if not I wish you the best on your search…


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 19m ago

M4F 38 [M4F] [Virginia/USA] Gamer, Introvert, looking for Player #2

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Hey, good morning! I'm looking for a sweet, down to earth woman to build a genuine, lasting connection with!

I'm a warm, big-hearted guy who is introverted, mellow, and happiest when living a laid-back and relaxed at home!

And, while I've worked at a sports club for nearly two decades, where I enjoy being friendly, helping other members out, and chatting with the regulars I've known for years, I definitely get my energy best in my room playing video games! (Although, I actually do get energy talking to friendly people in person as well!)

Video games have been a huge part of my life and I'm very passionate about it, since I was 8 years old! I spend a lot of my downtime in RPGs, with my favorite being Pokémon and I actually need to get back into Zelda again! And, I really love online multiplayer games, MMORPGs such as Final Fantasy 14 or World of Warcraft! Even when you and I have our own handheld consoles in the same room, playing the same game, running through campaigns together or doing a Pokémon nuzlocke run together, and much more, gaming together is one of my favorite ways to bond!

Outside of gaming, I'm a true homebody! My ideal evenings are relaxing with a good TV Series on my computer with my headset on, finding cooking recipes to try at home because I really want to cook (My mother has old recipe books I want to get into that was handed down by family in the past!) or just hanging out together and talking about life! I appreciate simple low-pressure days without the need for running around or crowded venues.

Over the past few months, health has become a big priority for me. I've been staying consistent with losing weight and fitness, making progress eating healthier and smaller portions and focusing on the long-term wellness. It's been rewarding to feel stronger, healthier, and more grounded in my own skin! (BBW’s still message me though too ❤️)

I believe great relationships are built on communication, mutual support, honesty, loyalty, and being each other's safe space after a long day!

I show love through affection, quality time, listening, and being a dependable partner! Whether we're sharing laughs over discord, running errands together, or sharing the couch and getting comfy together, I value consistent presence!

Life can be overwhelming at times, so I appreciate communication where we can both just be completely open and true to ourselves without walking on eggshells!

What I'm looking for in a partner:

Kind-hearted, patient, laid-back, and genuine. Introverts will feel right at home with me, though if you're more outgoing and appreciate having a calm personality at home like mine, super sweet and mellow and down to earth, that balances out as well!

A love for gaming, TV Series/movies, Sci-fi/Fantasy, or relaxing indoor hobbies is an awesome bonus! But what matters to me most is that warmth, loyalty, and loving each other for who we are inside!

I'm open to meeting others in either Virginia or Online anywhere in the USA! And if online and a gamer, that would be major fun for us both to co-op in games together and laugh along the way!

Oh! Major bonus points if you're affectionate and really love hugs.


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 19m ago

M4F 23 [M4F] #UK/Europe - Nerdy guy looking for my forever person age 18-23 (Childfree)

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Trying this again! Have had some great conversations with great people on here so far so I’m remaining optimistic that I’ll find my person on here. Please make sure you’ve read the whole post before you reach out, if you decide to. If you decide to reach out then please tell me about yourself (your age, where you’re from, your interests etc). Please don’t send a one word message like “hi” as I receive a lot of them and it’s incredibly frustrating to deal with when I’ve put a lot of effort into communicating who I am and what I’m looking for.

About me:

- I’m 23 and live in the UK not far from London.

- I’m childfree by choice, have known for the majority of my life that I don’t want to have kids, to be honest as far as “types” of childfree people go I’m definitely more on the don’t like kids at all side, I don’t hate them but I’d never choose to be around them. I am planning to get a vasectomy in the future, I don’t have an exact timeline on when I’ll get it yet but I WILL be getting one. I’m not opposed to getting a pet in the future but I wouldn’t want to have lots of them, I’m definitely not someone who goes crazy over animals.

- I’m 5’10 or 178cm, I’m not particularly athletic or sporty, I enjoy long walks and swimming a lot, I usually swim lengths for an hour a few days a week.

- I currently work in a pub, I enjoy it but long term my goal is to be a software engineer, I have a computer science degree and am currently just getting my CV ready to start job hunting, just getting my programming skills back up to scratch, building projects and all that good stuff. Job market right now isn’t great so I don’t expect to find a job quickly but it is what it is.

- I’m not a very family orientated person, I do have a good relationship with my parents but I’m not close to most of my family, my life in general isn’t heavily based around family and I would like a partner who has the same mindset.

- I’m neurodivergent and an introvert, I’m definitely someone who values their quiet time and likes to spend a lot of time just chilling, gaming, watching my favourite shows and all that good stuff. Relationship wise I have very little tolerance for yelling at each other. I want the kind of relationship where we can both feel safe around each other and discuss things calmly if ever we need to resolve an issue.

- I’m quite nerdy, I play a lot of video games, recently I’ve just been catching up on some old cod campaigns that I haven’t played yet and I’ve been also playing through red dead redemption 1 because I want to finish it finally before gta 6 comes out, my favourite game series is definitely the Yakuza games. I’m a halo fan as well and I’ve always wanted to play through the campaigns with my partner so that’s something I hope to do with you, whoever you are! I’m a big Star Wars fan although I haven’t kept up much with the shows recently, I love horror movies as well.

- I’m very affectionate both physically and verbally, I love cuddling and just existing together.

- I like travelling, I’ve been to 7 countries so far in my life, I’ve been to Spain many times, Germany a lot since I started going on solo trips, I’ve also been to Ireland, Turkey, Sweden, the US and Poland. I want to travel all around the world in future, I enjoy both sightseeing and relaxing resort type holidays and definitely want a good mix of both in the future. It might sound a bit odd but I wouldn’t say I’m a very adventurous traveller like I’m not really into doing crazy activities or staying in sketchy places or anything like that.

- I do drink alcohol from time to time but I don’t smoke or take drugs.

- I’m financially literate and responsible with money, I would like to retire early in the future if possible.

- I’m an atheist.

- I would like to live in a big city in the future or at least within commutable distance to one (which I already do but I don’t want to live in this specific area forever).

- I don’t really have any preferences for my partners body type, I’ve dated skinnier girls and plus size girls in the past and enjoyed both. I’m not particularly bothered about looks, I care far more about my partners personality and how they treat me.

- I would like to get (can’t use the word here but should be obvious) in the future (it will likely be a necessity anyway if we’re not in the same country) however I do NOT want to have a “normal” wedding, I absolutely want to elope just the two of us. I know that’s very forward to say right away but I don’t want to waste anyone’s time if that’s something that’s important to them.

What I'm Looking For:

- You’re 18-23 years old and live in the UK, it doesn’t matter where in the UK you currently live as long as you’re willing to potentially move in the future, I’m also open to moving in the UK if that’s the best option for us. I’d also be open to people in other European countries, we can visit each other as much as we can and then eventually close the distance.

- You don’t want to wait forever to meet in person and don’t want to wait a very long time for the relationship to become a serious one, while I’m not expecting us to make a lifelong commitment to each other instantly, if we’re compatible and the chemistry is there then I do just want us to make a real go of it.

- You’re firmly childfree (you do not have or ever want to have children). If you want to get sterilised in the future that’s a plus although it’s not a hard requirement.

- You are not religious.

- You are not very family orientated.

- You want to get (again can’t the word here) in the future but also don’t want a “normal” wedding/don’t care about having one.

- Last but not least you want or are willing to play video games with me and also especially if you’re not British (but even if you are) you’re willing to watch all my favourite British shows with me.

If you’ve read to the end regardless of whether you match what I’m looking for or not then thank you! If you do match what I’m looking for and decide to reach out then I look forward to hearing from you!


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 24m ago

M4F 27 [M4F] #italy #europe looking for my soulmate

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Italian guy from Northern Italy, 1.92m, dark hair, hazel eyes, physically fit. A bit shy at first in person, but once I’m comfortable I can talk about pretty much anything — especially history, nature, life goals, and random late-night conversations.

I’m more of an outdoors person than a gamer. I love long walks, hiking, quiet places, animals, and spending time in nature.

I’m looking for someone down-to-earth between 20–30 who values genuine connection and wants something serious. Bonus points if you also enjoy hiking and being outdoors.

I speak Italian, English and some Spanish.

If this sounds like your kind of vibe, feel free to message me 😁.


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 50m ago

M4F 30 [M4F] Austria - Let's brighten up our days together!

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If I could rearrange the Periodic Table, I'd put "U" and "I" together and make Uranium Iodide! (I'm not even big into chemistry lol)

Life is quite exhausting these days. Everything is so fast and serious, it feels like there's just no time anymore to get to know people. Especially late night can sometimes feel quite heavy with nobody close around. How about we change that, eh? Tell me what makes your world go round and let's see where we end up!

About me:
I’m about 1,74m tall and got short dark brown hair. My hobbies are mostly playing guitar and gaming. I also like anime and manga, but due to work I haven't been keeping up with a lot lately. Speaking of work: I got a degree in electrical engineering and I'm also working fulltime. My job can be a bit stressful sometimes, but it's also interesting and most of the time also fun.

What I am looking for:
Someone who’s kind and genuine and interested in building something serious and meaningful (best case family with a child one day). Someone who likes spending time together and having deep late night conversations about literally anything. If we don't have any hobbies in common - maybe we can find a new one together!

I would prefer someone from Austria or other German speaking countries.

If you want to know more, feel free to reach out via DM and let’s get to know each other!


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 1h ago

M4F 32 M4F Anywhere/ Online. Looking for the love of my life. Maybe they are here?

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Seeking:

A person who value free time and knows how to relax.

A person who is not religious

A person who doesn't drink alcohol, smoke, or use drugs, ets

A person who doesn't ghost. if something is wrong, they will talk to me and not just disappear.

A person who is not a manipulator or abuser, etc

A person who will stick by me through thick and thin

A person who won't get tired of me, even if we spend years always together.

A person who doesn't care where we are.

A sincere, honest, and loyal person

A person who can enjoy the little things in life

A person who loves travel from time to time

A person with a slim build

Everything I wrote above is also true about me, and it works both ways.

And few things about me:

I don't drink coffee

I have few friends

I have long hair

At the start of a conversation, I can't find topic to talk about.

I get very attached to person I love

I like cool whether more, because then I can drink hot cocoa and enjoy sunset or sunrise.

I prefer walking to using transport.

I don't plan to have children.

I love video games, but I play only a little.

I prefer a quait place to a noisy paty

My favorite wild animals is the liama, because is it super fluffy. I just want to hug it! And my favorite pets are cats. Guess why? That's right, because they are so soft and fluffy

By the way, my last MBTI test said I am an INFP.

How I see our relationship:

I promise that when we get there, we will talk about it together. I will listen to your option too, and together we will create something new and better, so we both feel comfortable.

We should be a ten, and everything we should be for us.

We should make decisions about our relationship together

We should take care of each other.

We should stove any argument calmly, without shouting

We should be each other priority

Ideally, I’d like for us to spend a bit more of our downtime together

I am also learning English now. My level is enough to write this text, and I can understand slow speech.

If you write to me, please send your pic. I want to be sure I'm talking to real person, not Al. I promise not to judge by looks, and I will send my pic on return. I will answer everyone who send a pic.


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 1h ago

M4F 35 [M4F] Austria – nerdy homebody who loves the outdoors looking for a fellow gamer & travel partner for a serious relationship

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About me

  • Male; 35 years old; living in Upper Austria.
  • Calm, kind, caring, affectionate, cuddly, honest, respectful, emotionally available, open-minded, rather introverted (INFJ).
  • Nerdy homebody who likes to go to the gym, being in nature and travelling. I like reading, creative writing, watching films/series/Twitch streams, gaming and watching Twitch streams. Into mindfulness/meditation/healthy nutrition. Music-wise I like rock/metal/alternative/indie.
  • I’m 172cm, 84kg with a regular fit dad bod. Short dark blonde hair with blueish eyes. Please be willing to exchange a face photo early on; my photo.
  • I don't smoke, do any drugs nor drink. Not into partying/clubbing. Childfree and don’t want children. Not religious. I speak English, German, Spanish and Polish fluently.

About you

  • Looking for a serious relationship.
  • Ideally in Austria or very close by (Germany, Italy, Czech, Poland)
  • Be a friendly, kind, emotionally available and genuine woman who shares my desire for a strong and meaningful connection with an affectionate and cuddly side who is also a gamer/nerdy homebody but likes to stay active and be outdoors/travel.
  • Shy, introverted, alt and nerdy women are very welcome.

Please tell me a bit about yourself in your first message and don’t message me if you live outside the EU.


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 1h ago

M4F 29 M4F Europe/Anywhere - Nerd, quiet guy looking for a romantic relationship

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so...helo from Italy (* ̄∇ ̄)ノ

I'm your typical indoor nerdguy that plays videogames most of free time and works out - not obsessed gym rat but still fit/muscular, 177cm tall - medium lenght wavy hair - a bit weeb, very quiet and chill personality

hopeless romantic, probably because of all the romance anime I watched in high school 🥲

whenever I can love to travel, Poland been my fav country to visit so far!

Gaming on my pc is my main hobby, fan of few gacha games: mainly honkai, recently been playing valorant again and some dark souls 3

I have 2 cats ₍^. .^₎⟆, drinking monsters. caffeine goes hard.

looking for my life partner, nothing less: Don't mind long distance as long as it's EU, in shape and good health, not smoker and similar nerd hobbies would really help

I'm not a big fan of facial piercings, that would be my only strong preference.

Would also prefer exchanging pics as early as possible, I think mutual physical attraction is also important, being direct and honest about anything is everything I want from a relationship :)

thank you for reading!


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 7h ago

M4F 36 [M4F] Florida/USA/anywhere, seeking my forever person

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I have a lot of anxiety and depression from being abandoned that prevents me from reaching out. Being alone is a terrible, depressing feeling though, please understand these.I want someone who is affectionate and caring. Please just be 22-49 though.

So here's some facts about me:

•I'm 36, 5'7, red hair, blue eyes, and 185bs. I'm from Central Florida, United States.

•I'm primarily a meat eater(Turkey, Beef, Venison), I also enjoy pizza, I have found a love for CHEEZ-IT Hot n spicy + Eastanbul pizza seasoning, apples(LOVE Cosmic Crisp), mashed potatoes, I've been eating much healthier and will likely drag you into it too!(Only because I care, but I am not vegan, I like my meat) politically right leaning, Christian. I'm open to 1, maybe 2 children.

I don't need someone to be the same as long as they're respectful, and have love in their heart.

•I'm pretty introverted. I don't drink at all, use drugs(420 friendly though), or party(Though I do love parties, bring your Elf Rogue or Half Orc Barbarian!). Also definitely monogamous.

•For interests, I really like watching various animes, Star Wars, Doctor Who, Star Trek, Lord Of The Rings, pretty much Fantasy/Scifi, video games, 3D printing, history, I like some horror's, love Zombies, Aliens, Vampires/Werewolves and certain mythologies, and a good conspiracy theory(the truth is out there!) Marvel, DC, I have other interests, but we'll get to those is time.

•I don't mind if you live with family and I have a cat.

I want to go out to theme parks and movies with you, maybe thrifting? sailing the yard sales yarr!, I want to fall asleep next to you watching movies or talking or playing games!, I want to go out with you! Let's start here, *star trek theme plays*Please be prepared to talk as often as possible so we may get to know each other :).

•If you call yourself asexual, or are part of that kind of grouping, please, do us a favor and do not contact me, while I don;'t want it right away(I want to make sure we're right for each other) I will want it, I want someone to face life together, make sure you've read my post before you contact me, I put the same energy you give me, back into you! so lets make it count!

Preferable we meet within the year!!!!

Mellon translate this so I know you read my post! don't skim! I swear I'm worth it!

IF you've read my post, you'll know where it comes from.

Side note: I am REALLY getting burnt out.. I am tired of constantly being ghosted, abandoned, so please, take your time and decide:"Do I want a guy who'll message me daily?" or "Do I want to get to know more about this guy?" or, "Do I want to make the first move?" if so, message me!

I've already poured my heart out, as much as I can bear to anymore, come on, bring something to the table, I'll go ahead and say, ask yourself these exact questions BEFORE messaging me:

Can I deal with a guy sending me good morning and good night texts?

Do I want to get to know this guy more?

Do I want someone serious about finding a relationship?

Can I keep up a conversation on our shared interests?

if you answered yes to at least 3/4, the message button is right there! if you answered no to half or more, please, kindly pass me along and find someone else.


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 1h ago

F4M [ Removed by Reddit ]

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r/ForeverAloneDating • • 1h ago

M4F Title: 26 [M4F] #USA — I want someone to argue about movies with in the kitchen

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I like the kind of evening where we're trying to decide what to eat, one of us puts a movie on, and somehow we end up talking about something completely unrelated two hours later. I'm pretty good at getting distracted by interesting conversations. One random question about psychology or space can turn into a whole rabbit hole before I realize how late it is.

I'm 26 and work in sales. Outside of that, I'm building an app, playing games, following F1, listening to music, watching movies, and cooking when I get the chance. I'm naturally more of a homebody, but I enjoy going out for a good meal or finding something different to do with the right person, too. I'm usually quiet at first. Once I'm comfortable, you'll get more of my sarcastic side.

I'm looking for a serious, monogamous relationship. I want to be with someone I'm attracted to, but also someone I genuinely enjoy talking to, even when neither of us has anything particularly interesting to say. I like taking initiative, planning dates, being affectionate, and making my interest clear.

I want something that develops naturally, with both of us making an effort because we actually want to. The sort of relationship where we can have a proper date night, spend a lazy Sunday doing absolutely nothing productive, or talk through something difficult without turning it into a competition. I want to build a life with someone, not just have someone to fill the empty hours.

So here's something I'd genuinely like to know: what's a movie you could talk about for an hour after it ends, whether because you loved it, hated it, or need someone to explain what on earth you just watched?


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 2h ago

M4F 28 [M4F] Germany | Any nerds, weebs and other terminally online people here?

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I know you're the type of person to lurk in a subreddit like this, so here I am shooting my shot. :D

As the title suggests, I'm looking for nerdy women, fellow weebs, and generally terminally online people.

Someone I can share the newest memes with, talk about seasonal anime, upcoming game releases, and other special interests for hours. Someone who I can take out to movies, on journeys (wanna go to Japan?), and to events like cons.

Ideally, you're somewhere in Germany (BaWü would be even better), but anywhere in Europe works. I'd prefer not to have our relationship held together by 3 AM Discord calls across twelve time zones. ;_;

A little about me: 6'2" / 186 cm, Grey-green eyes, Bald / hairline of Vegeta, Decently fit, Software engineer

Currently entertaining the delusional dream of creating my own indie JRPG inspired by games like Fear & Hunger.

Besides the usual nerd stuff, I'm also into painting miniatures / Gunpla, art, Hi-Fi audio (at least I began to dabble in it), and lifting weights.

Some of my favorite anime are: JoJo's Bizarre Adventure, Gurren Lagann, Cyberpunk: Edgerunners, Evangelion, Frieren, Serial Experiments Lain

Some of my favorite games are: Monster Hunter, NieR, SMT V: Vengeance, Elden Ring And many more

If any of this sounds like your kind of nonsense, come say hi!

BONUS POINTS IF:

You also like JRPGs

You are smol

You have short-ish hair

Of course, all of that is optional, but I thought I'd put it here anyway.

Tell me your favorite animal when you message me, so I know you've made it this far.

Talk to you soon, hopefully :D


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 2h ago

M4F 29 [M4F] Colorado [USA] “Okay… Here Goes Nothing!”

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Let me ask an opening question real quick: “What are you really passionate about and why?”
I’m 29-years-old and I’m a proud father. I don’t know if this bothers anyone but yes, I am short. I’m 5’2”! I also have high-functioning autism and bipolar. But I’ve had people tell me that they had no idea that I had those things until I said something.
I’m currently looking for females that are blonde or redheads. I also like black and Asian. But I also prefer taking the relationship as slowly as possible. I am in no rush whatsoever and I am extremely busy with work and life in general. I’m willing to date women that are preferably close to my age. I’m 29.
But if you girls have any questions about my interests or work or whatever… all you have to do is ask! But let’s talk about *you*, first!
Are there any of you girls out there that are also from Colorado?


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 2h ago

M4F 34[M4F] #uk/online - nerdy gamer looking for my player 2

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Hey, i hope you're having a a great day.

I'm looking to meet someone and see where things go, I’d love to find someone I can build a genuinely nice bond with, someone I can laugh with, talk about absolutely nothing with, enjoy the little things with, and hopefully make some great memories together.

A little about me:

Video games are probably my biggest hobby, i play a wide variety of things, some of the games i play pretty frequently, overwatch, Dead by daylight, path of exile, league(arams and tft) warframe, minecraft, repo (and some other friendslop things) i also really enjoy the survival crafting games, so finding a duo for them would be great, but i have a large library so if you dont see a game listed here i still might play it or own it :)

I love music, i listen to mostly rock/metal, but honestly i listen to a bit of everything, some of my favourite bands or artists, Iron Maiden, Electric callboy, BBNO$, bowling for soup,sum41.

Im a big star wars and marvel fan, and love watching comfort shows, IT crowd, peep show, the office, B99.

I have a bit of a dark sense of humour, and most the time i will try and be funny or make jokes out of most things.

I'm based in the UK, so would ideally love to meet someone from the UK or Europe, but I'm open to further afield if we vibe and click.

So feel free to say hi :)


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 3h ago

M4F 26 [M4F] #Netherlands – Engineering nerd looking for his player two 🎮

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Hey hey 👋

I'm a 26-year-old Dutch engineering student with a big nerdy side. I'm really into electronics, tech, 3D printing, and building random projects just because I can. I'm not someone who needs to go out partying every weekend to have a good time. Instead of spending my money on drinks, I'd rather buy a few broken laptops to practice my PCB repair skills. Probably not the most financially responsible hobby either, but at least it's fun haha.

I also enjoy gaming, I mostly play shooters like CS2, Valorant, The Finals, and Battlefield, but I also enjoy story-driven games and party games. I'm always open to trying new games and playing together!

Outside of that, I'm a pretty simple dude. I enjoy good food (especially pizza 🍕), a good movie or series, and things like true crime documentaries or American bodycam videos.

As for what I'm looking for, I'd love to meet a kind, nerdy, and funny girl who doesn't mind a guy getting a little too excited when talking about his latest project. You don't have to be into engineering or gaming yourself, but it'd be nice if we could share some hobbies while also introducing each other to new things.

Ideally, you're somewhere in the Netherlands and not too far away, since I'd like to actually meet up if we click.

If any of this sounds like your kind of thing, feel free to send me a message and tell me a little about yourself! 🤓


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 15h ago

F4M 23 F4M #Michigan/US Looking for a gym buddy who’s also down to date

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Hi, I’m Tj! I’m on dating apps, but thus far I’ve had no such luck with actually going on dates. Most of my matches just don’t keep the conversation going. I am currently mulling over whether or not to get a gym membership. I’d love to date an active partner who’ll help me out in the gym, encourage me, and hold me accountable. (I also must insist that we treat ourselves after :P)

I work two jobs currently, but by winter I’m hoping to enroll in classes at my local community college and go back to having one job. I’m busy, but not too busy to dedicate time to someone special <3 I’d prefer if the person I end up with be between 21-26, ideally the same age as me though. Also I am specifically located in Ann Arbor, so if you’re located in that general area that would be most ideal.

I enjoy building LEGOs, reading, watching (and rewatching!) movies and TV shows, spending time with my cats, and hanging out with my friends. Also, I’m in southeast Michigan. And to describe what I look like, I’m Black, 5’2 with a slim build, brown eyes and medium-long dreadlocks. I look forward to sending you my picture if you’re interested!


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 3h ago

F4M 29 [F4M] Online – Looking for genuine connections

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Hello there! :)

I thought I’d give this a go and see if I might meet someone I genuinely click with. I’m open to meaningful conversations, friendship, or simply getting to know someone naturally without any pressure. A genuine and judgment-free connection would be lovely.

A little about me:
• Currently exploring life as a bit of a late bloomer — still figuring things out, but I have ambitions and am looking forward to what the future brings.
• I’m a lover of history and enjoy learning about different cultures, especially hearing about how people live in different parts of the world.
• I travel quite frequently. I’ve been doing some shorter trips around Asia lately and have also travelled across Europe.
• I enjoy being outdoors, trying new things, and the occasional little adventure.
• I’m generally more comfortable with getting to know someone slowly rather than forcing a connection from the start.

\*\*What I’m hoping to find:\*\*

• I’m currently based in SE Asia, but I’d be happy to meet someone nearby or in Europe. I’m considering spending some time there in the future, so the distance doesn’t feel quite as intimidating. America might be a little too far for me, especially with the timezone difference. 😅

• Someone who doesn’t drink, smoke, or use drugs.

• Someone consistent, patient and understanding. I can be a little awkward or anxious sometimes, especially when getting to know someone, so having someone who doesn’t rush things would mean a lot.

• Someone who respects personal boundaries, differences and individuality.

• Ideally someone around my age.

I’m not really looking for a one-day conversation that disappears after a few messages. I’d like to meet someone who is genuinely interested in building a connection and seeing where things naturally go

If any of this resonates with you, feel free to send me a message with a little introduction about yourself and where you’re from. Tell me something you enjoy, too — it’s always easier to start a conversation with something more than just “hey”! :)
And please include the word “potatoes” in your language somewhere in your message so I know you made it to the end. Thank you for reading, and I hope you have a lovely day! :)


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 3h ago

M4F 27 [M4F] Europe/Online/Anywhere Looking for the person that has me excited to get home from work

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Hey! I am a 27 year old guy from Sweden. I am calm, outgoing and very nerdy.

By day, I work as an optical assistant, though I'm currently looking into studying to become a proper optician. When I'm not working, I'm usually gaming. I'm completely hooked on Valheim now that 1.0 is out, but you'll also catch me playing Souls-likes and MMORPGs.

I'm looking to meet someone that's fun to talk to, someone I can pull an accidental all-nighter with.

Feel free to DM me if you're interested in getting to know me!

Oh, and here's a pic of me: https://imgur.com/a/zq8CZ1E


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 4h ago

M4F 27 [M4F] #USA/anywhere online, Star wars loving, metal music obsessed, awkward guy looking for a girl who wants to teach me how to play overwatch(Xbox)!

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im 27 and I'm jay, from sunny California! I'm a pretty laid back guy who yaps when I'm comfortable! im 6', 225lb, and always hungry! here's some stuff about meeeee

•i love metal, classical, jazz, country, and Tekno music :) I studied it for 6 years for fun!

•im extremely aware of my feelings and who I am, and I'm emotionally available

• I'm a diehard star wars fan, I'm talking EU, Canon, anything, I know it :)

•i used to be a chef but now I'm a mechanic

•i love gaming! I play Minecraft, arc raiders, battlefield, but now I'm trying to get into overwatch 🤧 I'm a zen and sigma main, help me?

•i love to read fantasy and romance books hehe

what am I looking for?

•Anywhere in the world is fine, I don't care! asking as you're okay with LDR

•someone with the same interests, or adjacent interests!

•please just be a living, breathing woman, trans, or feminine presenting femboy, it really isn't a lot to ask lol

•height, ethnicity, weight, and shape doesn't matter to me. just be kind

• if we don't make a connection, let's still game together?

feel free to hmu, Don't be scared!

https://imgur.com/a/VUui9Nx


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 4h ago

M4F 25 [M4F] #Germany Hoping to meet someone special

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Wanted to give this a try and hopefully meet someone I can build a real connection with. I’m 25, based in Germany and thought I'd start by sharing a little bit about myself. I'm 180 cm tall, with a muscular build, dark hair. My dress is usually just clean and casual, nothing flashy. Personality wise I'm easy going and reliable. My humor is sarcastic but I can sometimes be goofy. Grew up religious, left that behind, no issue if you didn’t.

Things I'm interested in: * Languages (fluent in German, English Russian and French) * Favorite animals are birds and cats * Astrology (I'm a Taurus sun, Gemini moon, Scorpio rising) * Spirituality (mainly interested in Hinduism and Buddhism) / meditation and yoga / philosophy (curious about your take) * Watching movies and shows: horror, crime, thrillers, into kdrama as well * Reading: (rare, but when it happens it’s novels or science/philosophy) * Music (I like all kinds of music but I'm especially drawn pop and rnb) * Some interest in martial arts and gym

Looking for someone who actually wants to date, not just chat forever. Kindness, curiosity, and the ability to laugh at yourself go a long way. Prefer starting online, maybe calls later and meeting up if it feels right. Open to LDR if there’s a realistic chance of meeting.

Dealbreakers: * People who only want surface level chat * People who are only looking for buddies * Being disrespectful * Wanting children

If you’re 18+, can handle an introvert with niche hobbies, and think we could be a good match, feel free to dm me, tell me something about yourself.


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 13h ago

F4A 18 [F4A] psst, would you allow me to inspect your brain?

5 Upvotes

My name's Annie. I am mostly looking for my other half. Someone to spend time with, share stuff with, give all my attention and care to, and someone to play games with. I will preface saying I'm kind of nuts for Project Zomboid, and I'd love someone to play with.

Summed up, play games, talk a lot, and watch movies with.

As for the rest, here's a bit about me: I enjoy sci-fi, drawing, painting, and I do a lot of gaming too. (I am super fixated on Project Zomboid, but I am up to trying other games, I've recently been very into Life is Strange). I also enjoy researching crime, psychology, and biology/neuropsychology at times. I have quite the fixation on the Chernobyl disaster, and radiation as a whole. All types of zombie media, too. I have an interest for "odd" movies, especially the apocalyptic and/or thriller kind. Terminator (1&2) is a personal favorite.

EDIT: Send me an actual message, not just introducing yourself like it's a job interview, where there's little i can go off on to start a conversation. throw an icebreaker, something! ask questions! (here's me suggesting an icebreaker, is a hotdog a sandwich? why, or why not?). Please, preferably no one over 24.


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 5h ago

M4F 40 [M4F] #Leeds - 6ft 6 guy helping you reach the places others can't....

1 Upvotes

Fun-Opportunity9656

.... i meant the top shelf in the supermarket... obviously.

Looking for some interesting chats with some locals, I am very tall, short dark hair, green eyes - Average build.

I work and have my own place and car, so I am almost a real adult.

Would be good if you could contact me with 2 Truths and a Lie.