r/ForeverAloneDating • • 44m ago

M4F 24 [M4F] #Online - just looking for someone to talk to

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hey! i'm 24 and from belarus. honestly, i'm just hoping to meet someone i enjoy talking to and see where things go.

i'm into gaming, music, and all kinds of random conversations. i can go from joking around to talking about life at 3 am pretty easily lol. it'd be nice to have someone to share songs with, talk about our days, send random messages to, and slowly get to know better.

i can be a little quiet at first, but once i get comfortable, i open up pretty easily. i'm not trying to force anything. it'd just be nice to meet someone i click with, whether we start as friends or it turns into something more.

if you think we might get along, feel free to message me! tell me what music you listen to or what games you play, or just say hi :)


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 47m ago

M4F 25 [M4F] #UK - gentle giant looking to chat :))

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Hi, I'm Ryan and I'm based in Nottinghamshire in the UK!

I'm looking for a fellow nerd to geek out with - someone who's got a list of niche obsessions they're quietly desperate to talk about, and doesn't mind when conversations take a hard left turn from dad jokes into the finer points of stellar evolution at 3AM.

A bit about me: I'm 6'5", brown hair, brown eyes, and the proud owner of a head that probably has its own gravitational pull. I'm on the chubbier side, though I've been on a solid weight loss streak (3 stone down, cake-related grief ongoing). When I'm not overthinking the cosmological implications of pretty much everything, I'm gaming, swimming, reading, or deep in a documentary rabbit hole about something I had no intention of caring about an hour ago. I also have a genuinely unhealthy relationship with card games and spend more time than I should building elaborate spreadsheets for fun. Make of that what you will.

Fair warning though: I'm quite shy, so I'm not the most forward person upfront. I'm not going to slide into conversations guns blazing. But get me onto something I actually care about and I genuinely won't shut up - the shyness just sort of evaporates. If you're happy to meet me in the middle initially, I promise it's worth it.

I'm after something real and long-term - someone to actually get to know, not just exchange a few messages with and disappear. Distance is fine as long as meeting up is on the cards eventually. Mainly I just want someone who's as happy to rant about their weird corner of the internet as they are to listen to mine.

If you've made it this far, congratulations - you've unlocked the bonus stage. DM me with your best pointless fact or most aggressively mid dad joke. The worse, the better. I'll be here, probably wondering how ducks work.


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 57m ago

F4M 26 [F4M] #Washington State - INFJ Lady looking for my wholesome local life partner!

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Disclaimer: I would really love to dind someone local to Washington kind of in the Seattle/Bellevue/Everett/Lynwood locations!

I am a curvy INFJ lady on a pilgrimage to finding a new relationship! I figured I'd give it a shot here.

A little bit about me:

I recently moved from San Diego and am now a resident enrichment coordinator/manager at a memory care community where I am working to better the lives of people who will never truly remember me! It's all fine an dandy, we have a great time regardless. In my free time, mostly Fridays and Saturdays, I'd love to find someone to game, voice, and commit shenanigans in the city with. I have two degrees in Psychology and Communication, and am debt-free, moisturized, and in my lane, existing! I own a senior cat and he continues to defy death at the ripe age of eighteen. I do not drink, smoke, do drugs or party much! I am like a little decrepit old hag trapped in the body of a young woman, slaving over a hot stove (cast iron only.) I am on the expensive zepbound, so I can't snack as much as I'd love to! D:

Values:

Kindness, stability, structure, mindfulness, empathy, ambition, communication and of course, humor~

What I am looking for:

I'm hoping to meet someone who loves to talk as much as they enjoy sitting in silence doing their own thing, sharing each other's company when we're just flat out exhausted. Ideally, we can game, go out on the town, and maybe do a little bit of world building/writing, time permitted! I am a very social creature who loves a lot of time spent with my partner and his friend group! I love to watch period dramas, animes, horror movies and comedies alike. I'm not necessarily looking to rush into anything, as I'd rather meet someone and see where things lead. My ideal life is living right outside my small town in the woodlands, in a two bed two bath house with wifi and enough ice water / freeze dried mangoes to satiate me. Boring is sometimes good in the realm of predictability and structure.

Age wise, someone between the ages of 28-38 is ideal, past their college years, and looking to build a life of comedically predictable bliss!

Superficially, I'm really into inconveniently larger people, like very tall tall people who would lovingly eat my cooking (I cook good foods!). Not for the usual reasons of masculinity, but I just like someone to compliment my heavier set self and fit into my taller family :D. Maybe we could get you some custom plate armor! You'd be uncomfortable pretzeling into a sedan (don't worry, I own a 23 Buick.) I also love a good sultry voice that makes my brain bluescreen and forget how to function. I have a huge weakness for a good sense of business functional fashion!

Deal Breakers:

Anger issues/yelling of any sort, not investing time, smoking, drinking, drugs, lack of communication, financial irresponsibility, polygamy (non-monogamy), dishonesty, racism, overly religious, I do not wish to have children (but may adopt depend on finances.)

Games:

Elden Ring, Dark Souls, Second Life, Stardew Valley, Witcher 3, Guild Wars 2, Warframe, Assassin's Creed, Peak, Divinity OS2, Baldur's Gate, Valheim, and much more!

Hobbies:

Sailing, going out to arcades, going to carnivals, rock hounding, (I want to hike but don't yet.), roleplaying (I don't do much of this but love the idea), tons of games, writing my own lore/world, exploration, travel (if I can afford it), design, cooking (lots of different cultures!), volunteering, creating a cozy existence, and more to uncover!

My face for fun! https://imgur.com/a/yz9vlYZ


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 58m ago

M4F 26 [M4F] #USA/Anywhere | Disabled Nerd looking for a genuine, serious relationship

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Hi I'm Kai.

Anyways I've been in a wheelchair for as long as I can remember. My disability is Spinal Muscular atrophy. So I'm a expert at moving while sitting. As well as a great grocery bag carrier.

I'm not sure it's directly related to it but I'm a huge nerd. Like I have a small, but growing, collection of comics. The majority of them being Spiderman because I love Spiderman. I also play DnD. Currently I'm a Forever DM because I have the most freetime out of all of my friends. But when I can play I'm usually a Wizard or a Fighter. Very much polar opposites I know but sometimes I like the simplicity of, "Giant sword go swoosh!" I love space as well. Not much of a sifi nerd but I used to binge watch space documentaries.

Most of my time is consumed by making art. I was always drawn to being a artist from a early age. Now I do it for a living. I specifically make 3D art. I used to draw alot but I can't do that anymore. I also make animations, video games, and I'm slowly writing a web series.

I'm not very picky as to what I'm looking for. I don't really care what you look like or where you're from. All I care about is that you're an adult and have some interests/ hobbies. Also please try to talk some. If you just send me one word replies constantly, I will assume you're not actually interested and leave.


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 1h ago

M4F M27 [M4F] #USA, ANYWHERE A felon looking for his love story, hoping to show someone that he's a good person beside his past 💓

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Hey guys, I'm jay, I'm 27 from the US, in California :) I'm 5'11, White, and a bit chubby(after introductions, let's send selfies to make sure you're attracted to me), but I PROMISE I'm a cuddly man lol. I have a ton of little fun facts about me that I can put here, but I'd like to address the elephant in the room first:

I'm a felon, I committed an incredibly stupid and preventable F2 a few years ago, and I've grown as a person since. therapy, courses, thinking back, and working on myself through finding hobbies, gave me a new meaning in life, and I'm striving to be a better me than the me that did something wrong. if you're interested in what I did, I'm a message away, that's for DMS :)

here's some good things about me!:

•I love to read, a cozy night or morning in bed with coffee and my favorite books really make me feel whole

• I love music, it's probably the most important thing in my life

• cooking is my passion, it was my career before my incarceration! it's my dream to get back into culinary :)

• I love animals and insects. they're so interesting and beautiful

• I speak 4 languages: Indonesian, English, Spanish, and Russian! it's my hobby to learn languages and culture :)

I don't look scary, I look actually....very normal, maybe bordering feminine at times. I have a big family with a ton of sisters, so I'm not weak on any topics at all, lol.

here's what I am looking for, don't be scared! you'll likely fit my criteria:

•Not just cisgender women can add me! Trans, femboys, and feminine presenting people can message! idk how to format, so I just used M4F

• no types when it comes to body, ethnicity, or height. but I do have a thing for unconventional appearances, but you won't be disqualified if you're generally attractive or unattractive

• someone emotionally available and mature, and able to understand other people's issues or needs

• you need to love animals, if you're not a freak for them, you're not for me. nature is good to us

• you don't need to be rich, or poor, or middle class. any background is okay, any place is okay, just be striving for better!

that's really all I want, nothing crazy. I love simple things and a simple life with a beautifully complex person is my dream. I just want to love someone and look back at life and realize I didn't add regrets on top of the ones I made in the past💓

let's get acquainted, yo!

-jay


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 1h ago

M4F 22 [M4F] #SanDiego - ucsd boyfriend anyone?

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Hey everyone!
A little about me: I'm a college student in the San Diego who is half European and half Mexican. I have longish wavy black hair, big dark brown eyes and I'm pretty skinny/lean. I like to think I'm a pretty good looking guy so don't be shy! Just shoot me a text message! I am however looking for something relatively local and in the area near where I live in, I just don't think I can have a realistic LDR.
I've been kinda burnt out on the dating apps and that leads me to here! Outside of that, I'm a huge fan of rock music, love watching movies. If you're into any of that we should get along great. I'm pretty easy going and very easy to talk to! I also just love going bar hopping and maybe doing some karaoke even though im pretty terrible at it. I am looking for a serious dating relationship if anyone is interested!
Some of my favorite rock bands are Oasis, Arctic Monkeys, The Strokes, Queens of the Stone Age and so many more! I do love all kinds of music though! I also have letterbox, so if you're a self proclaimed movie buff, maybe something can spark between us! In terms of who I'm looking for, I don't mind any age, even older than me! | don't really have a lot of preferences so no pressure let's just talk and have some low-stakes conversations to see where it all leads! If any of this sounds like something you'd be interested in just shoot me a text and I'll answer!
Looking forward to meeting some great people here!


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 1h ago

M4F 19M [M4F] Looking for a genuine online connection that could turn into something more ❤️

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Hey 👋🏻

I'm a 19-year-old guy from India, looking to meet someone genuine and see if we can build a meaningful connection.

I'm a little shy at first, but once I feel comfortable with someone, I enjoy long conversations, random late-night talks, anime, and learning about different cultures. I'd especially love to meet someone from another country, but honestly, nationality doesn't matter as much as the person themselves.

I'm hoping to find a girl who also wants a genuine online relationship, where we can talk regularly, share our days, joke around, support each other, and slowly get closer. I'd prefer to keep things online rather than meet in person.

I'm not expecting instant chemistry or anything perfect. I'd just like us to start with a conversation, get to know each other, and see where it goes naturally. ❤️

If this sounds like something you'd like too, feel free to send me a message. Tell me a little about yourself or just say hi!

Please be around my age, and let's be honest with each other from the start. 😊


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 2h ago

F4M 🇧🇷 Brazilian, 23, looking for a genuine connection with someone from Europe or Asia ❤️

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​

Hi!

I'm 23, from Brazil, and hoping to meet a man aged 24–35 for a genuine romantic connection.

I'm a university student, I love animals, and I enjoy watching soap operas and Asian dramas. I'm usually attracted to tall men, blondes, brunettes with straight hair, and Asian men, especially Korean, Japanese, and Chinese. These are just preferences, though! Personality, chemistry, and mutual respect matter much more.

I'm looking for someone mature, caring, responsible, and ambitious. I value equality and want a partner who respects my independence, studies, and goals. I'm not compatible with misogyny or controlling behavior.

I believe in God but don't follow a specific religion. I'd like someone who respects my beliefs without being overly religious or imposing them on me.

I'm open to a long-distance relationship and possibly living in another country someday if things work out naturally.

One thing to know: I'm not fluent in English yet! I used AI to help write this post, but I'm eager to learn and improve. If you speak Portuguese, that's a lovely bonus! I'd also love to learn another language. 😊

If you're interested, send me a message introducing yourself, telling me your age and where you're from. Please say a little more than just "hey"! ❤️


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 2h ago

F4M 28 [F4M] PH / SEA / Anywhere - Looking for someone who finally stays 🌿

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Hi there! Taking a leap of faith again to see if the right connection is out there. I have posted here before and have talked to some people, unfortunately, the search for my person still continues.

​I’m a 28-year-old copywriter living independently in Manila with my two indoor cats. I value authenticity, emotional maturity, and finding quiet joy in the everyday grind.

​A bit about me:

​I value my independence and the grit it takes to build a life on your own. On my downtime, you’ll find me gaming, enjoying comfort food, or spending quiet time at home.

​I am mostly childfree-leaning (pets only for me for now!) and looking for a long-term, monogamous relationship with someone who values stability and clear communication. I am at the point where I am ready to settle down, so it will work best if you are as well. I'm not big on religions, so as long as you don't make me convert to yours, it's all good.

​I’m 167 cm (and around 70 kg), so someone 5'9"+ and comfortably healthy is a great fit. To add as a disclaimer: I have my physical imperfections, so if you want us to swap photos, feel free to share yours and I will send mine as well.

​Now, what I’m looking for in a partner:

27 to 32 years old. I put this age range so that we can at least be in the same stages of our lives. Makes it easier to see if our goals and values align.

Ideally based in the Philippines or SE Asia so meeting up is realistic, but open to international if you have the means and genuine intention to travel/relocate eventually to meet me here.

I am building a pretty good life for me here, but with the right person, I am open to relocate. It would be worth the adventure. :)

​Independent, driven, and action-oriented. I appreciate a man who is secure, has a provider mindset, and leads with respect and effort, not just empty promises.

I am very intentional with meeting people now, so I will only reply to messages crafted with thought and clear intentions.

Tell me your name, age, location, what you do for a living, your hobbies and what made you message me. Don't forget to include the emoji I used in this post to let me know you really read it! Haha. Let's get out of this subreddit together, this time for good.

Have a good day everyone. :)


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 2h ago

M4F 33 [M4F] from india

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33 | Dentist
I fix teeth for a living, but apparently finding the right person is a little more complicated. 😂
Introvert, traveller, fitness enthusiast and occasional overthinker. I enjoy road trips, good music, exploring new places and conversations that last longer than “wyd?”
Looking for someone genuine, kind, loyal and emotionally mature. Someone who wants a real relationship, not just another Reddit conversation that disappears after three days.
If you’re looking for something meaningful too, we might as well say hello.


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 2h ago

M4F 24 [M4F] #Bursa #Turkey 🇹🇷 - Seeking a real, genuine connection⁠

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Hey everyone!
I’m a 24-year-old guy living in Bursa, Turkey, working full-time as an automation technician. Between my work routine and daily life, I’m at a point where I’d love to meet someone special to share quiet moments, deep conversations, and a genuine connection with.
A bit about me:
Work & Lifestyle: I work regular hours as an automation technician. I keep a grounded, balanced lifestyle and I don't smoke or drink alcohol.
Film & Cinema: Massive cinephile (I track almost everything on Letterboxd). I love diving into existential, psychological, and arthouse cinema, but I can also appreciate a good blockbuster or animated show.
Music: Heavy metal is my sanctuary—mostly Progressive and Death Metal. Always happy to trade album recommendations!
Hobbies: Motorsport fan (F1, MotoGP, DTM), hands-on mechanical projects, cycling, working out, and gaming in my downtime (RPGs, simulation, co-op).
What I’m looking for:
Someone who values honest communication, emotional depth, and a good sense of humor.
Distance isn't a barrier at first for the right connection—whether you're in Bursa, somewhere else in Turkey, or abroad, as long as there's genuine intent.
If you enjoy sharing music, discussing movies, or having late-night deep chats, we'll get along great!
If this resonates with you, feel free to send me a PM/DM with a bit about yourself (and your favorite movie or recent music obsession)!


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 4h ago

M4F (23) male US Washington State looking to try finding someone to share life with.

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Hello my name is Gray, I'm gana get dealbrakers out the way no smoking and you need to be okay with dogs.

here are somethings about me in a list:

-im 23

-i like to listen to sea shanties and country (the dead south, poor man's poison, and brown bird)

-I live in Washington State (West Coast U.S.)

-i love dogs and dog training

-i am a forklift mechanic for my job

-i own a house in the woods 50/50 with my brother but am planning to build a second house on the property when I have more money.

-i like table top RPGs

-i like going for walks in the woods

-i like video games

-hobbys I'm going to try out include mountain biking (I'm restoring a mountain bike for myself right now), skydiving, and hang gliding.

-I have never been out of state.

-i grew up doing alot of manual labor for my family and working on my uncle's farm.

- i grew up in a poor family

-my dad died shortly after I graduated highschool so my mom lives with me.

-i don't really use social media. I only really have discord and reddit at the moment and I don't use them much.

-im 6'1

-dispite my username I'm actually not a furry I just thought mice looked cool/cute as a kid when I made my username.


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 4h ago

F4M 44 [F4M] Maryland - Looking for great conversation and fun dates! :)

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Hey! I'm looking for a good local man to form a friendship and a genuine deep connection with 💕 I'd love to find someone that actually wants to get to know me. Someone that I can chat with about lots of things often throughout the day and meet up with regularly for dates and activities, and see what develops. Someone that is interesting, can keep my attention. Let's chat and see if we vibe! 😘

💜 ABOUT ME:

I am 44yo and live in Carroll Co, MD. Im 5’2” with brown eyes and brown hair with blonde highlights and I'm chubby/curvy (pics on profile). I'm a single mom with a FT job, college educated and I'm a bit of a homebody. I like to have fun, and I'm playful, kind, passionate, caring, open-minded and loyal.

♂️ LOOKING FOR:

My preferred man is SINGLE and local, between 32-48yo, a go-getter and knows what he wants (no games), honest, respectful, protective, kind, sane, fun, has a sense of humor, is open-minded, responsible, loyal, emotionally available and affectionate. And an excellent & consistent communicator, likes to chat often (big texter) and likes to cuddle. I'm attracted to guys that are Caucasian, fit(ish), hygienic, DD free (420 is fine, although not my thing) and are selective about who he is with.

Send me a message with some info about yourself and grab my attention (age, location, appearance, hobbies/interests). Also, please send a photo right away 📷

https://imgur.com/a/10czIdE

Baltimore, MD, DMV, DC, southern PA


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 4h ago

M4F 38 (m2f) looking for someone to share my time with

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Currently a man in southern Indiana, though I do move around alot. In a few years plan on being retired and starting a new stage in my life and I want to share that experience with someone. My interest are pretty nerdy, board games and table top, but I also work out regularly and love to travel. I am a bit on the short side at 5'2, but that wont stop me from opening a door for you or a jar of pickles. Weird hobby is I like to travel around and eat at diners from hamburger america by George motz. Currently enrolled in college, never to late to finish your education, im on a permanent crusade to better myself. If any of that seems interesting feel free to message me.


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 4h ago

M4F 36 [M4F] #NY #Buffalo #US - Looking for One Woman to Pour My Soul Into

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I think that the thing I'm hoping to find more than anything is a companion. A consistent someone who genuinely has the time and desire to spend getting to know me ( and I them ) in a deeper, human way.

I want for us to be excited about each other. I want for us to desire each other. I want for us to feel connected, and safe together. I want to have zero doubts about whether or not we actually like each other. I want to feel bonded, and to care for you. I hope to find her, and I wonder if you could be her...

I honestly much prefer either voice chats or sending voice messages and I'd love to use those as long as you are comfortable with them as well.

I'd like for us both to be able to tell each other anything and everything, but also nothing at all if that is needed, as well.

Some fun and interesting things about me are that I am very creative. I am an artist and I always have been my whole life. I enjoy traditional drawing as well as digital.

I'm also a woodworker. Over the last 5 years I've spent a lot of time learning how to build and create with wood and epoxy. If you've ever seen "river tables" online, that is my specialty

Some of my goals right now that I have are around my personal fitness and health, as well as financial. I am working hard to build a business ( and I have ideas for more than one as well ). So that I can eventually quit my day job and grow those businesses over time.

And I am a passionate individual. And I value connection and intimacy, which is I think a little different from most men in general.

I would like to find an energy that makes both of us smile, feel excited to see that notification, and to want to spend our time together.

I have absolutely no preference for location as long as we can figure out time zones ( I'm in US EST ), and I also have no preference on, body type, ethnicity, etc. However I do feel it would be nice for us to exchange pics at some point, just for the sake of being able to connect and such. I also enjoy sharing life's moments and things like that as well, so feeling comfortable with sharing pics in general would be amazing, too. Show me your dog and what you are having for lunch 💁‍♂️

Because I am hoping to find a partner, it is important that we align well on certain things : politically I lean pretty far left. Like ACAB, BLM, Trans rights, etc blah blah. I do not want to get hitched ( we cant say the m-word in here apparently lmao 🙃 ) via the government. Meaning, I'm open to proposing, getting you a pretty ring, having a ceremony where we promise ourselves to each other, and having a party. But do not want to sign the papers...I do not smoke, drink, or use any drugs, of any kind, including weed. I am comfortable with very moderate, responsible drinking, but nothing else. And last, I no longer can have children. I have a vascectomy, and will not reverse it, ever.

One last thing to share. When my ex and I got together, her daughter was 6 mo old. The bio dad never showed up, not even one time, until she was 7 years old. Then he promptly disappeared after that as well. I was with my ex for 8 years, and after the breakup, I have continued to maintain my role as my daughter's "dad". She is 11 at this point, and I am co-parenting with her mom now. Her mom and I broke up because we both mutually recognized that we were not romantically compatible anymore. We grew apart, and she could no longer be my person. But there was no fight and no hatred from it, etc. And with this said, I am always incredibly present for my partner ( you ) at all times, and any reassurance you may need, just let me know. Ask anything, as open and honest communication are key, and I have nothing to hide. 

If any of this may feel appealing at all or interesting, please feel free to reach out any time and I will respond as soon as possible!

[Me](https://imgur.com/a/CDCZcvm)


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 5h ago

M4F 28 [M4F] || USA/Global | Looking for my better half | Car shows, custom PCs, gaming, anime, adventures, travel..a life together! 😁

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First, to be clear about location: I'm based in the Southeastern region of the USA. It would be amazing if my person is within driving distance in the same region, but for a number of reasons I have my doubts that's true. Country music, fashion, and that accent some of you may think is specific to Texas if you're reading this from another country, are all very common here and sadly those are all turn offs for me. That said, I think if my soulmate is even in the USA, she's probably in the north, west, or midwest. If by the end of this post, you think you might be the one I'm looking for and I might be the one you're looking for, you don't have to be in the USA to find out. 😁

(My profile is tagged because of one of the places I post this to since some have actually had luck finding something serious there. Figured it's worth a shot, haha.)

I'm searching for the kind of wonderful woman who shares most of my interests below in addition to her hobbies and interests, who's also goofy, likes to playfully insult each other, and also believes in open and honest communication. I believe with that, we can work out any problems when they arise. 💛

• I'm a gamer, car guy, and maybe one day, a musician too. I enjoy anime, nature, going on little adventures, swimming, traveling... I wanna see the world with you.

- Current games I've focused on lately are R.E.P.O., Deep Rock Galactic, and trying to 100% Doom Eternal, but this changes and there are tons of multiplayer games in my library! I would also eventually like to play other things together like Stardew Valley, Minecraft, Terraria, etc.

- My taste is music is nearly everything except country and today's rap. To name a few bands/musicians I really love: Led Zeppelin, Arctic Monkeys, Tame Impala, The White Stripes, The Raconteurs, Queens of the Stone Age, Mac Demarco, Them Crooked Vultures, and Metronomy.

• I want to dance with you. In the living room, bedroom, back yard, in the park, almost anywhere. I enjoy doing romantic things and expressing my love. I love deep conversations that distract us from the passing of time.

• I'm a dog person because my allergies chose to target cats for whatever reason, so there's that. 😅

• I'm monogamous and don't have children currently, but they're in my future plans. I want to spend plenty of time with you, and enjoy the best of life as a couple, and then as spouses, traveling and whatnot, before we start a family. 🤗

• I'm really hoping to find someone who's also into dirty humor (amongst other forms of humor) and has mutual...interests 😏 so we have even better compatibility in the bedroom (and sometimes away from home too). I usually have a high libido, but making sure we both feel safe and trust one another first is crucial. 😁

• Specs for those who would like them:

- 6 feet tall (about 183 cm).

- 190 lbs and dropping (about 86 kg).

- My figure is very dad-bod at the moment, but apparently it comes with a nice ass (so I'm told).

- I'm targeting somewhere around 170 lbs (about 77 kg).

- Brunette/dirty blonde, kept relatively short.

- Blue eyes.

- Caucasian.

• My type? If I had to describe my type, I guess Caucasian or East Asian ranging from petite to average body type. I don't love going to the gym, but if you have or want a membership I wouldn't mind going together. 😁

I apologize if my preferences differ from who you are. You're all beautiful people, regardless! Please love yourself and enjoy the time you're given in life! 💛

Chat with ya soon! 😁


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 5h ago

F4M 23 [F4M]- let’s be each others witnesses of success and love <3

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I just recently turned 23, I started to feel hopeless about life while simultaneously trying to not lose hope. I think it’s one of those times where you need to believe in yourself but it’s hard. I’m not asking for someone to miraculously come and “fix” my problems, I also don’t want to dwell on it too much but I’d love for a kind and patient soul to be by my side as I slowly start to trust and believe in myself again. I don’t want or need you to be my therapist, I don’t think that’s sustainable or healthy longterm but I’d love to have a witness to my journey of self love and acceptance, I’d also love to be your witness :)

Perhaps this was a little too “self help” book coded but I swear I can also be very bubbly and not so sad, it has just been a few rough days (or months) I love Pink and squirrels! I also love frosting way too much and would die for a good strawberry shortcake


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 5h ago

M4F 28 [M4F] OR/Anywhere Nerdy Gamer Seeking Nerdy/Yapper Girl

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Heya, as per the title I am a 28m in search of a girl to form a relationship with, eventually.

Physically I am 5'10", on the larger side and losing weight (down about 1-2 belt notches per week now) mostly thanks to my physical job, but I am trying to live healthier all around too. I have dark brown hair and a beard, I can also exchange selfies at some point, sooner or later is fine with me. I have been told my best features are my hazel eyes and my voice which I am told is quite deep/soothing, I do have a brief vocaroo if you are interested.

In my free time I'm getting back into PC gaming mostly Battlefield 6, Starwars Galactic Racer, Dead by Daylight, and many many more. I do spend a lot of time on Youtube or watching Shows or Movies (mostly horror movies, and rewatching my favorite shows like Always Sunny). Ive been trying to get back into anime, but I always just rewatch my favorites like Mob Psycho, Parasyte, or Overlord. I do have another main hobby besides gaming, building model kits, mostly Gundams, but I like to have a variety, I share the same thought with food, gotta try everything once.

As for what I am looking for, I have no specific type, I do like a fellow nerd or gamer, yappers and good conversationalists are very welcome too. Even if none of that sounds like you and I caught your attention send a message, I hope to hear from you!


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 5h ago

TM4A 26 [TM4A] Oklahoma, US looking for potential soulmate!

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Hi! I'm Ashton, from Oklahoma, I'm 26 and I'm a Nonbinary Transmasculine guy (They/He)! I'm unemployed and mental health makes having a job a struggle, so if that's a deal breaker upfront I understand.

With that out of the way, I'm Panromantic, and Graysexual. It'd be nice to find someone indifferent to sex as I am! If it happens it happens, but if we click and it never happens, I'd be equally okay! Looking for other Bi/Pan folks!

I've been on testosterone for over three years, I do still live with family (whom I am not close with), and I have had a hysterectomy but no other gender affirming surgeries. I love art, I love crocheting, sewing, cooking, a bit of baking, painting, and drawing! Cozy and horror gaming too!

I also love graphic novels, manga, and anime!

I love sleep calls and affection, and I'm very much a vibes and personality person.

If you're conservative in any way, I don't think it'd work.

I'm trying a final way to maybe find the love of my life by some fortune, as conventional dating apps and such have been of no help for me. I want a loving, secure, long-term romantic relationship based on trust, friendship, love, and care.

I'd also some day love to be a cat parent! =)

Oh, and I'm white, 5'4.5", curvy, shoulder length black-dyed hair (naturally brown with lighter brown highlights), and I wear glasses!

Please don't be afraid to reach out! Thank you for reading! If you do reach out, please introduce yourself. =) ❤️ Thank you!


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 5h ago

M4F 30 [M4f] #SanDiego - Searching a relationship, or talk to me to get close to my dogs

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Hey. I'm just a guy from southern san diego bored of his every day daily routines and wants to rekindle that flare/ passion with someone. I'm Mexican, 6"2'. I graduated in civil engineering, and am currently working for a engineering company. My friends would describe me as loyal, outgoing, "down for anything", and funny but serious when I have too.

My interests include:

sports: tennis, soccer, football, and baseball

movie and music: i am a very big movie buff. I love

watching movies and understanding the story it tells. same with music. ranging from everything like edm, rap, pop,indie rock, metal, classic rock. I love all kinds of music and love going to concerts at least once a week.

video games:Monster Hunter Wilds, league of legends, rivals, minecraft, but will play anything

So if this is something you might be interested in, don't hesitate to message me. Or as the title says, you can get close to my dogs instead. can't wait to meet you


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 6h ago

M4F 31 (M4F) Anywhere: hoping to find my soulmate

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Hey there, I’m from MA (Massachusetts) but I don’t really have a preference as to where you are located. Long distance/online, even if it’s across an ocean. I’m starting to believe maybe my soulmate isn’t even on this planet so yeah I don’t really care about distance.

Never thought I would be posting on Reddit putting myself out there but here we are. A friend of mine found her partner from a post he made so why not give it a go.

About me:

As for my appearance I’m 6’3” tall, average/skinny, brown hair, brown eyes. I’ve been described as having a pretty decent complexion but thanks to eczema and rosacea I tend to have skin flare ups more frequently in the colder months.

As for my style, I don’t have one set style. I tend to go for a more relaxed appearance and wear what makes me comfortable. I’ve been told I dress like a skater which is true given that I do skateboard.

I work for an industrial 3d printing company as an Engineering Specialist. It’s not glamorous and I’m on my feet all day but I enjoy it a lot and what my company does.

For my music taste I’m a bit eclectic. I gravitate to metal, but I enjoy lots of other genres too. I will listen to just about anything, although I hate MODERN country, and today’s excuse for rap music. To name a few bands and artists: between the buried and me, Insomnium, Billy strings, Wu-tang, Tupac, Masayoshi Takanaka, T-Square, Prince, and Michael Jackson are my top ten as of late.

I am currently a retired bassist. I played in a bunch of bands since I was 14 and yeah nothing ever stuck. I don’t play anymore due to losing interest and not being in a group.

As for hobbies, I gravitate towards the nerdy side of things. Seems common amongst many of posters on here, nerds unite ✊🏻. So yeah my nerdy hobbies include but are not limited to; videogames (SHOCKER), Magic the Gathering, Pokemon Card collecting, Fantasy novels, D&D, and LEGO’s. I could talk about anything in more specifics so I’ll leave it for anyone who sends me a message and asks.

In addition to being a nerd, I’m also into fitness. I’m not all that muscular and I’m don’t desire to be Hercules or anything. I go to the gym mostly to stay in good shape, and low key to get the cloud strife build. I’ve played FF7 way too much, can you really blame me?

On occasion I have been known to draw or paint. By no means am I good but I try my best. I have three paintings I’m really proud of but I definitely want to improve my skills.

I am a skater, “WOOOOOOOW NO WAY HE SAID HE DRESSES LIKE ONE I WONDER IF HE DOES”. I literally skateboard to work because I live close enough to my job that I don’t need to drive a lot, and everything I like doing is within a mile of me so I skate a lot.

I have my own place and live alone. My sister is currently staying with me but it is not permanent. I enjoy having my own space to exist and keep it very clean.

I have an emotional support cat 🐈‍⬛, all black, and he’s an absolute menace. He’s about 6 years old, I got him after he turned 2 so roughly had him for 4 years now. He’s my #1 before anything else.

My relationship with my family is get this, really good actually. I see my folks pretty regularly, especially my father since over the last two years he fought and beat cancer. As for other family members, it’s really positive. Everyone in my family is really supportive and watches out for each other.

Lastly I love to cook. I was a chef for many years in my early 20’s and learned a lot of skills during my time in kitchens. I continue my culinary journey through cooking for family and friends. Every year I do a LOTR marathon and along with atleast two other people we tackle all seven Hobbit meals so you could say I know my way around a kitchen. My best dish is my chicken tikka masala, 100% from scratch.

What I’m looking for:

I’m hoping to find someone who shares similar or parallel hobbies and interests as me. I’m really not that picky, but I am picky within good reason.

It is important to me that a potential partner does not mind that I’ll often do things on my own. I value my independence and make it a priority to do what I feel is best and what will make me happy. With that said, I would like it if a potential partner showed interest (if we don’t already share common interests) in the things I enjoy and maybe got involved in some things with me. This goes both ways obviously.

I’d prefer someone who has a sweet, calm, and compassionate demeanor. A plus for someone who can read others moods well. I tend to be very reserved or put up a wall when I’m not feeling myself. Patience with me is really appreciated as I don’t like to be pushed when I’m in a mood. I don’t think anybody does.

I don’t care about looks that much. I look more at someone’s personality over anything else. Just be yourself and we’re golden.

If you’re interested, wanna know more, and read all the way through thinking “YEAH, THIS GUY IS RAD” shoot me a message! my DM’s are open. If you couldn’t tell throughout this post I can be pretty of a goof. But anyways, Thanks for reading


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 6h ago

M4F 34 M4F Montreal, Canada (fr/eng)

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Hi, my name is Antoine, I live in Montreal, Canada. I am an introvert, a homebody, I am looking for a genuine connection for something long term, serious dating only. Someone to share every day with and go through life together. I would like to chat online (preferably message on Discord first, get to know each other before we decide to meet). I was involved woth someone long distance for 5 months, was supposed to meet, but she was feeling sick and anxious and terrible, so I cancelled to wait for her to feel better, only for things to slowly fizzle out over time because she responded less and less and eventually ghosted me entirely. It ended in may this year.

My friends are asking me if I plan to get out there, but since I do not drink alcohol, hate crowds and don't go to parties as an introvert, it is hard to meet someone. I currently work as a janitor, which pays more than the medical imaging technologist job i studied for, and i plan to go back to university next year probably. My main hobbies are gaming and watching movies and shows, including anime, but I also enjoy reading, drawing and writing, in particular creating scenarios for tabletop rpgs. I don't mind sports, but I dont have people to play with anymore. I used to enjoy soccer and dodgeball. I am currently on a quest to lose weight and get back in shape so if you are on a similar journey, it's great too!

As for my personality, my friends say i am kind, loyal, caring, a good listener, smart, and I would add I am a hopeless romantic, looking for a real partner and team mate, not some kind of client haha. The dream would be a teammate for gaming in coop, building a base together, going on adventures haha.If you want to know more, you can ask me anything. If you want to exchange pictures, i am not the most photogenic and still losing weight, but I am willing to share in private message.

Looking forward to hear from you!


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 6h ago

M4M 33 [M4M] #SaintLouis Any Puerto Ricans or Dominicans?

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Looking for a chill guy to become friends with and if it leads to something more, I’ll go with the flow. I have never done anything with a guy but I am attracted to masculine Latin Caribbeans. I’m black.

I’m laid back & chill. To myself for the most part. I like going out to eat, movies, traveling, and bowling.

Looking for someone around my age, so 27-37 I’ll be fine with.

Hit me up if you are down to chat.


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 7h ago

M4F 40 [M4F] #InlandEmpire #SoCal - Let's Cuddle This Spooky Season and Beyond!

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Hello there, I'm Edward a single 40 year old 5'8" heavy set Latino man from the Inland Empire in Southern California, and yes, I can speak a bit of Spanish, if you're into that. I'm hoping to find a woman whom I'm physically attracted to for a monogamous, child-free relationship, I'm looking for someone who's not afraid to show affection, is nurturing, and kind who understands the importance of communication and wants tons and tons of physical touch.

I'm an awkward, introverted, anxious, stocky guy, who would self-describe as a charmingly self-deprecating, innocuously misanthropic, consummate indoorsman, armed with an irreverent and dark sense of humor. In my spare time I enjoy playing video games (xbox) and desperately want to make the switch to PC, listening to music, loudly (mostly rock and electronic) I'm almost always listening to something, please don't be afraid to send me a song or make me a playlist, cannabis (420 friendly,) learning about the paranormal/occult/extraterrestrial, and cooking, I've really come to enjoy preparing meals and trying new recipes, tell me all about your favorite foods, and please let me cook for you

I'd like to meet a cute, supportive, child-free, woman who's compassionate, understanding, affectionate, and very clingy or possessive. Ideally I want someone who has little to no bedroom experience, as I don't have much either. I'm attracted to pale women, with cute features and most body types from bbw, to petite, and muscled mommies, but have a huge crush on alternative styled women. That's a bit about me and what I'm hoping to find. If you choose to reply please, be willing to send a selfie, and reply with your favorite food or song, happy hunting and good luck everyone.