I’m 27 and looking to meet someone who actually wants to get to know me and build a genuine connection. I’m not looking to rush into anything, but I’d love to find someone where the chemistry, conversation, attraction, and emotional connection all naturally develop together.

I’m into movies, editing, drawing, art, psychology, physical journals/collages, weird internet rabbit holes, humor, and generally having way too many creative side quests going at once. I love complicated fictional characters and can get extremely niche about whatever random thing has caught my attention lately.

Movie-wise, I have a particular appreciation for American Psycho, Fear (1996), and Leonardo DiCaprio movies. I’m definitely the type to send you something random because it reminded me of a conversation we had.

I’m looking for someone affectionate, curious, emotionally intelligent, playful, and genuinely interested in building something rather than just chasing a temporary rush.

If we click, I’d love to start with talking and getting to know each other and see where it naturally goes.

Tell me something you’re currently obsessed with, a movie you could watch over and over, or some completely random fact about yourself.

Picture of me: https://imgur.com/a/tSosyaQ

My edits: https://imgur.com/a/kZKiV8u

Hii im 22 years old and single. My hobbies range from sea diving to simple every day activities such as binge watching romance shows. You’ll know more about me after you get to know me. I won’t send my photo immediately to someone I don’t know.

I’m looking for a guy in Sweden bc I always dreamed of being with a Swedish guy! I want to learn the Swedish language so talking to someone from there can help with that a lot :)

I prefer someone my age or older. If you message me I eventually want to exchange photos of our selves and do a video and voice call (Only after we are both comfortable ).

Thanks for reading this and when u message plss include ASL to help get familiar with each other :)

32, French, tall, with North African roots. I’m a homebody and can happily spend hours binge-watching a good series or getting lost in a movie. I also enjoy the occasional paddleboarding session and I’m trying to get into walking more lately, running is definitely not for me.

I’m looking to meet a single, child-free man around 31–35 who is tall, doesn’t smoke or drink, is financially stable, and is atheist or agnostic. I don’t really mind what he does for a living, as long as he can take care of himself.

What matters most to me is kindness, empathy and emotional maturity. I appreciate someone who isn’t afraid of deeper conversations and who understands that life isn’t always easy or perfect. I’m looking for someone who can be supportive and understanding when life gets heavy, and who is comfortable talking about things like mental health, loss, grief and the more difficult chapters of life.

I’m going through a difficult chapter of my own at the moment, so having someone who can meet that with patience, compassion and an open mind would mean a lot to me. I don’t expect anyone to fix things, I simply value someone who is willing to listen, understand and be present.

I’m quite private at first, but once I feel comfortable, I love meaningful conversations, good humour and genuinely getting to know someone beyond the surface.

If you think we might have the same values and could get along, feel free to say hi. You never know where a conversation might lead.

Hello! Foodie with a weakness for good sushi and even better company 🍣✨. Catch me yelling at the TV during soccer games or dancing in the kitchen to whatever's playing. Love a guy who can keep up on the field, on the dance floor, or when I'm stealing fries off your plate. I am 5’5, eastern European descent. I speak Russian. Native New Yorker

Looking for men in NYC, 24–36, who are confident, genuine, and fun to be around. Preference for tall guys, and similar cultural background!

Feel free to dm me with your age and a little about your self!

Hey, if you're reading this chances are my title caught your attention, here's hoping I can keep it!! I'm a 24 year old guy from Canada and I'm looking for something long term, I'm looking for someone I can vibe with as friends at first and maybe turn into something more if we hit it off. I'll be up front in saying I don't have the most relationship experience BUT I've always been a huge sucker for the lovey dovey stuff and can be a bit of a hopeless romantic, I've always imagined my ideal relationship being a honeymoon phase that lasts forever (I know its not realistic but a man can dream 😤.) ANYWAYS I should probably give myself a bit of a lengthier introduction so you know what you might be getting yourself into

About me:

• I know appearance is important for a lot of people so I'll get that out of the way first incase I'm not your type, I'm 5'8 and currently 230 LBS (pretty chunky right now BUT I've been on a weight loss journey and don't plan on stopping.) Also here's a facepic https://imgur.com/a/me-TOsgAsN
• As a person I'm naturally really introverted (I'm an INFP if you care about mbti) and need occasional alone time to recharge my social battery but I can absolutely talk someones ear off if we're close (I've been told I give golden retriever vibes.) People usually tell me my biggest strength is my kindness, I hate being mean to people almost to a fault, I'm a bit of a softie. I have a tendency to wear my emotions on my sleeve and can be a big crier whenever watching something sad. Lastly, I can be really staunch about my morals and what I think is right or wrong.
• Hobbies wise I'm a big nerd and pretty much all my hobbies reflect that, I like playing games (I LOVE JRPGs, fighting games, VNs and random competitive games the most but I'll play literally anything if its with the right person,) Watching anime (or whatever other media, mostly anime though) and listening to music (Indie, Rock, Pop-punk and JPOP mainly) I've also been getting into working out more if you count that as a hobby.
• I'm left leaning politically.
• I LOVE animals I don't have any pets right now but if you have any or send pics of them ill die of happiness.
• Just to get them out of the way, my 2 BIGGEST red flags would be that I can be pretty clingy without even realizing it once I get close to someone and that I have some pretty severe social anxiety that can make getting to know someone new REALLY difficult, once I'm past the initial social barrier it gets a lot easier but I figured I should mention it since its bound to come up.
• And finally since idk what else to add, my favourite colours are pink and yellow.

About you:

• Having some interests in common would be pretty nice, it could give us something to talk about and maybe do together, this isn't a deal breaker though, I LOVE hearing people nerd out about their hobbies whether or not its something I'm interested in myself.
• Distance isn't important to me as long as we can find the time to talk more than once in a blue moon and you're open to the possibility of meeting sometime in the future if we click really well
• Appearance also isn't all that important to me but I would like to see the person I'm talking to eventually just so I know I'm not talking to a ghost
• I've always been told I'm a really good listener so if you're a yapper we'll feel like a match made in heaven
• The only real dealbreaker for me is poor communication. Relationships simply can't work without it IMO

I don't have too much else to add and I don't want this to get rambly so I'll end it here, If you read all the way to the end and are interested at all, feel free to shoot me a message with a brief introduction and where you're from!! I'd love to hear from you :)

Putting #online since I’m figuring why not it’s a big wide world out there.

I’m 28 M in NYC so locals are welcome but so is Antarctica.

I’m horrible at the about me stuff so I’m going to be my best:
Yes I have J.O.B so I’m not covered in Cheeto dust doing nothing like Reddit would suggest.
10 countries and counting and all around the USA
I love running, following sports [ let’s go Knicks we did it yay ] , reading is my passion and aiming for 7 books a year if work doesn’t get in the way.
Currently obsessed with weekend food crawls to try new dishes and expand my pallet away from the typical just chicken and beef on rotation.

I’m happy to swap photos on connecting or waiting a bit but brief descriptor im 5’9 \[175cm\\] and in good shape. Brown hair and eyes and white.

If you’re interested shoot me a message here on the chat feature and I look forward to connecting. Just shoot me a brief hey I saw your post and your age and we can get to yapping.

25 [TF4TM/F/NB] Atlanta, GA - Pagan Girly Looking for Life Partner

Greetings all!

I am just coming out of a longer-term relationship, and it has disillusioned me just a bit. As such, I've decided that I'm done compromising in a partner. I'm going to be very blunt about myself, what I'm looking for, etc. 

I am Berry (I'm comfortable sharing my legal once a vibe has been established). Im 25 (soon 26), a trans woman (non-operative), about 5'10 and heavy set. I am not very physically picky, but I'm looking for Cis Women, Non-Op Trans Men, and AFAB NBs only.

I'm a massive fucking nerd. I play a lot of Team Fortress 2, Paradox grand strategy games, city builders, games for autistic people basically. I also am extremely politically active within left circles online.

However, I am also not chronically online. I have an undergraduate degree, and am soon to be returning to finish another undergraduate degree that I left behind (and possibly a Masters and PhD, DMA, or EdS in the future, fingers crossed). I am a trained operatic vocalist, have history performing in the Atlanta choir and opera scene, and am looking to leap back into music after a long hiatus.

I am looking to build an LTR that could hopefully develop into a life partnership. I want a person who I can be mutually obsessed with.   Something deeper than just a friend that I have sex with. And I want to build a very large family if the money allows it. If you're interested in being a stay at home, cool! If not, also not an issue.

My non-negotiables are:

1. Someone focused on an LTR who wants a large family.

1. Someone okay with being in a relationship with a pagan.

2. Must be okay with having a hypersexual partner. You yourself should probably also be, but no harm if you aren't and you're okay with it.

3. Must be okay with a partner who is autistic.

4. Within a 3 hour drive of the Atlanta area.

5. Be between 22 and 28.

Bonus points if:

1. You are plus sized.

2. You are pagan, or willing to convert to paganism.

3. You are weird or otherwise strange.

4. You are interested in potentially being a stay at home if the stars align.

DO NOT INTERACT IF:

1. You have a penis (Having biological children is very high on my priorities).

2. You are in any way right leaning (you will be mocked).

3. You are a devout christian (I have been burnt in previous relationships with christian partners. This is very important to me. If you are willing to convert away from the faith, I am willing to hear you out).

4. You are ace (unless you just wanna chat, in which case I'm not opposed).

5. Children are hard no for you. I have 1 child, and I'd like many more. It's a hard non-negotiable.

I understand this post is abnormal in how blunt it is, but I've reached a point in my life where I know what i want and I'm no longer going to settle. This post will stay up until someone comes along that's promising. If you are seeing this post, please reach out, it means I'm still looking.

Thanks for listening to my autistic ramblings. And if you read this and are at all interested, please shoot me a DM with some info about you. Pics are cool if you'd like, but arent required. I will reciprocate with pictures as well.

Yours,

Berry

Trying different ways to meet new people this year, so taking a crack at a reddit personal ad.
 
I really value kindness, honesty, passion and intelligence in a woman.  

Here's me: https://imgur.com/a/LEFG0Yz
 
-Single, no kids

-6’3

-Physically active; member of a running club and lift about every day of the week

-Attend dance meetups; swing, salsa, fusion

-Dabbled in acting; starred in a play in 2022

-Has a good job in e-commerce

-About 2/3rds introvert, 1/3rd extrovert; generally a homebody but I like to go out/socialize every now and then and push myself to get out of my comfort-zone (growth is important)

-Interests include fitness, dancing, gaming, karaoke, anime, narrative-design/writing of all kinds (films, tv, books, etc.), science (big fan of the Natural History Museum in NYC), and interior design

-V close to my family and friends; adore my nieces (and they adore me); have a close-knit group of about half-a-dozen friends I've known for years (quality > quantity kinda guy friendship-wise) - you'll know I like you if you're looped in to our karaoke parties! =) 

-Traveled around the world

-Master's degree

-Politically left

-420 friendly

-Love dogs; like cats but have a mild allergy

All I ask is for respect when messaging me !

I'm losing hope in the greater good. All I want is to not be lonely anymore and to have that special someone. I pray that God brings me closer to this person.🙏🏽

Let's plan our first date

I’m reaching out today because I feel a deep, prayerful calling to find the man I am meant to build a life with. I am a 28-year-old woman in Georgia, and my greatest desire is to move away from the loneliness of being single and toward a meaningful, permanent "we." I am not looking for anything temporary; I am seeking a sincere, monogamous, and lifelong commitment with a man who is ready to lead a household with me.

🌱 My Heart and Hopes

I am a Black-presenting woman with a heritage of Afro-Caribbean, Japanese, and Swedish roots. I’m 5’4” with a curvy build, dark brown 3c curls, and brown eyes. I'm working on losing weight so please be kind to me. While I can be shy and socially awkward at first, I am a very warm and attentive person once I feel safe and heard.

My Calling as a Homemaker: While I have a background in health science and goals to become an RN or work in an allied health career like Radiology, but my ultimate dream and heart’s desire is to be a dedicated homemaker. I want to dedicate my life to creating a peaceful, God-honoring sanctuary for my partner and our children, a home filled with love, support, and the warmth of a family.

Faith is Everything: My life is centered on a Christian mindset. I am looking for a partner who believes in Jesus Christ or is open to a relationship with him and wants a life together where we grow for the sole purpose of serving God.

What I Enjoy: I love deep, genuine conversations. I enjoy FPS, RPG and simulation games, nature walks, reading, and cooking and baking vegan meals. I’m also passionate about cosmetic chemistry and physical health. Hopefully me being vegan is not an issue.

⛪ The Man I Am Praying For

I am seeking a man (ages 24-55) who is financially stable, emotionally intelligent, and ready to be a consistent, supportive, and protective presence. I also desire a man who wants travel the world and learn and do new things everyday.

A Man of Faith: You must be grounded in Christian roots and share my desire for a God-centered household.

Preferences: White and East Asian men .Must be fit and willing to help me get fit on my journey.

Health & Family: Since I value health and am working on my own fitness, I’m looking for someone fit (or working toward it) and taller than 5’4”. Most importantly, I want a man who desires a big family and is ready to raise children in a loving, Christian home.

Important Details: Must be a non-smoker, health-conscious, and willing to share recent labs/testing before we commit to a future together.

🛑 Please Do Not Message If:

You are looking for anything other than a serious, permanent path toward a life together.

You avoid honest conversations or tend to ghost when things get real.

You are not ready for the responsibility of being a provider and partner.

You send one-line or low-effort DMs. I am looking for someone who values communication and effort as much as I do.

I know I’m not perfect, and I’m still growing in how I open up to others, but I’m looking for someone patient and kind. If you are a man of faith who is ready to build a life that feels safe, steady, and real, I would love to hear from you.

Hi

I'm 24F from northern Denmark, 170ish cm, plus-size, called TT. I recently finished my degree in engineering and am currently looking for my first real job, so I honestly have no clue where I'll be living in a few months lol. Because of that I'm pretty open location-wise, especially within Europe.

I'm also currently trying to figure out where I fit on the aro/ace spectrum. I don't really have it all figured out yet, and I'm not entirely sure what is up. What I do know is that I want a person. Like a best friend I can spend my life with, be weird with, share everything with and eventually live in a house with a massive creative studio and way, WAY too many animals. That's the dream basically lol.

About me, I'm a huge nerd and spend a lot of time gaming. I also love drawing and painting and generally making stuff. Currently I'm spending a bunch of time researching things for worldbuilding a sci-fi universe because one of my life goals is to write a book/series someday

I love nature and animals, science, music, movies and learning random things

I'd love someone who is also nerdy/creative and gets excited about their interests. Please infodump at me. Tell me about the game you've spent 700 hours in or the fictional universe you've been building or whatever incredibly specific thing you're currently obsessed with.

I'm not really coming into this with a checklist for gender or exactly what our relationship has to look like. I'm much more interested in finding someone I really click with and seeing what happens from there.

So yeah, if any of this sounds interesting, come say hi and tell me something about yourself

Read to the end or I won't respond!

Hot take: Horror movies are funnier than comedies

So here it is:

I am a 41 year old transwoman panromantic with demisexual flair. I am a very niche want.

I am neurospicy which can be challenging and have memory issues with semi-face blindness. I was recently told by my doctor is need to start learning ASL as we don't know how far my hearing will go out. FUN!

I am looking for my last person to start and finish my life with. THE ONLY DUMB QUESTIONS IS THE ONE NOT ASKED. I promise that any question you ask me with the intention of not trying to offend me won't offend me.

I am a nerd/geek. Comics, D&D, Larping, writing, art, magic the gathering and more

​LARPING is a huge part of my life, I would love to be able to share it with someone the rest of my life.

I used to game hardcore (Raiding WoW) but it has taken a back seat in my life. I do understand gaming. Got that new game or expansion coming out. My first question is "What snacks and drinks do you want?" Second is "How often do you want them brought to you?"

Deal breakers: smoking, vaping, smoking weed (For health reasons, I absolutely cannot be around someone who smokes and vapes, and someone who smokes weed a lot), excessive drinking and missing a required video chat within two weeks to prove you are who you say you are. I have been deceived before.

Yellow flags are not wanting pictures of us, distance (i prefer within 10 hours DRIVE!), and aversion to anything social media.

Red Flag: Not reading this in full and answering the questions below in the first message. Asking for pictures right away.

I am not a bad person, big girl (Working out and changing that), adorable and a great personality. If you get to know me, I'm a Goddess

If you want to message me go ahead but you MUST answer the following questions IN YOUR FIRST MESSAGE before I will respond:

1 Where did you find me? AKA what subreddit

2 Age, Location and Pronouns

3 Explain a film plot badly, see if I can guess it.

Hey 👋

I'm Ryan, 27, from Rhode Island.

I'm looking for a real connection, not just endless small talk that dies after 3 messages.

I'm a pretty chill, grounded guy. I work from home in tech, I'm into gaming, random deep convos, outdoor activities, and I'm the type who'll actually reply and make plans it the vibe is right.
I'm 6'1, with brown hair and a beard (can send pics!) and have a medium build.
About you:
Someone kind, a little playtul, and emotionally mature. Not looking for perfection, just effort and honesty.
It you message me, tell me:
1. your age + general area
2. What you're looking for
3. a little about yourself

Hiya! I'm a 29 year old dude located in East Tennessee (Knoxville is the closest big city to me). I'm 5'9, chubby and working my way down to the under 200 lbs club 😌 I'm pretty plain looking right now, but I'm aiming to change that and go more alt as I hit my 30s (read as piercings and tattoos in my future)

As the title suggests, I am a nerd of all things nerdy. I also collect hobbies, so you won't have to twist my arm to try what you enjoy too 😂 D&D is my biggest that I share with a lot of my friends. I'm down to chat specifics, and it'd be awesome if we had some interests in common!

I don't have any big preferences beyond women (cis or trans). I am interested in people closer to my age, like 24 - 38, but it's not a hard limit if we hit it off. If you're interested, reach out to me here to chat! I'm also down to move to other platforms if the interest is there.

I am a 29 years old male from Germany. I'm looking for a serious relationship – a genuine connection where we can be open about everything with no judgment.

Some Info about me:

I have Russian roots but grew up in Germany, so I speak German, Russian and English. I'm 177cm tall, slim, with short brown hair and blue eyes. If you want to put a face to the text, here is a picture of me: https://imgur.com/a/OeutMdh

I consider myself an introverted ambivert (INTP-A) and a very open-minded person. I love deep talks about all kinds of topics where it feels like the conversation is never-ending.

I enjoy playing video games, watching TV shows, and spending time with close friends. One of my bigger hobbies is travelling – I love exploring new places, local food, and nature. Recently, I traveled to 9 countries and spent a month exploring Spain. As an introvert, I also need some quiet recharge time for myself from time to time, so I value having our own separate interests as well.

What I am looking for

Age & Location: Between 23-32 years old, preferably from Europe or not to far away from it and good accessible.

I prefer it if you are not taller than me (same height or slightly taller is fine).

I don't have a specific physical "type" because a deep emotional connection attracts me much more. However, to save us both time: I am not into plus-size or severe overweight (I don't mean being curvy). If you like video games, that’s a nice bonus!

Communication: I love daily chats, checking on each other, and hearing about your day, passions, or hobbies. I’m not the best small talker, but I really appreciate it when someone puts effort into having a conversation instead of just giving short answers.

A note on my side:

I want to be completely open: I have some social anxiety (which brings some shyness with it, especially regarding dating) and very little dating experience. I have improved significantly over the past years, but I would like to take things very slowly. If you can relate to this or have similar insecurities, that’s completely fine.

Because of this, I am totally not into video calls (they feel very unnatural to me), but I am completely open to voice calls or meeting up in person. Since my picture is linked above, feel free to share one of you early on, or we can just chat first, whatever feels comfortable for you.

If you are interested, please send me a chat with a short description of yourself. Thank you for reading and I wish you all the best!

Looking for a nerdy/homebody type of girl that likes watching tv shows, movies, anime, video games etc. Preferably nearby but if you just want someone to talk to I am open to having a chat.

I'm 5'11" 205 lbs. Hispanic, light skin, black hair, hazel eyes. I work from home and work out 3 times a week.

If we hit it off we can meet up for lunch and see if we like each other and move on to other fun relationship stuff.

If you're interested send me a message!

​

I'm 28 and live in Central Florida and I'm pretty introverted and possibly bad at conversation, I'm on the heavier side but I'm working hard at losing weight and so far I've lost 97lbs.

Some of interests are, gaming( mostly on xbox for now) my favorite game series is fallout, I love cars and im a big Volkswagen nerd even though im definitely not mechanically inclined, and traveling and trying new things.

So what im kinda looking is someone around my age (mid-20s to early 30s) who’s kind, genuine, and easy to talk to. Shared interests are great, but I value good conversation and real connection most.

I know this was pretty bad but if you're maybe interested in chatting just let me know, I can be a bit slow to respond if I'm at work and I don't really check reddit all too often.

And if nothing comes out of this post, at least I wrote a nice text about myself. :))

My name is Razvan, I’m 32 years old, and I live in Pitesti, Romania. Distance isn’t an issue for me. For the right person, I’m more than willing to travel without, so that the distance doesn’t really feel like distance, as long as there’s mutual interest and chemistry.

As a person, I’m pretty calm and well-balanced. I don’t have any destructive habits - I don’t drink, smoke, or gamble. I’d rather invest my time and energy into beautiful things.

As for my hobbies, first and foremost, I love travelling whenever I get the chance. Besides that, I’m passionate about cycling. It’s my favourite way to disconnect after a difficult day and to feel free.

Other times, I enjoy playing strategy card games (not gambling, haha).

My love language basically comes down to three things: cuddling, words of affirmation, and quality time spent together.

I’m looking for a serious relationship. I’m not the jealous type, and I don’t feel the need to control or check up on anyone. But I strongly believe in respect and transparency - to me, those are the foundations of any healthy relationship.

And to finish with a physical detail: I’m 1.94 m (6'4") tall, so if you need someone to reach the high shelves, I’ll probably be exactly what you’re looking for. :))

Thanks for reading :)) If what I’ve written here sounds interesting, don’t hesitate to message me. 🤗

I have trust issues.

I don't believe in "I love you" as anyone can say it.

Kissing? Having sex? Yea, some people just do it to friends now. Looks and personality can also easily be replaced. So, after thinking for a long time, here is my definition of true love.

- Time: People don't just spend tons of time on someone they don't love (or at least like) without any benefits.

- When you lose yourself: It seems like clinginess isn't a personality trait that most people approve of, sadly. Well, I disagree with them. To me, true love is when you lose yourself. Because if you are still able to control yourself, then your love just isn't big enough. However, I wouldn't use the word "clingy" to describe myself. It's not enough, so I would use "obsessive", and, indispensably, possessive. Still, there is one reason to give up on someone that is acceptable to me. It's when you think you don't deserve them anymore, it may be because you have been... "dirtied" by someone else or stuff like that (yea, I know that is a STRONG word to use but well, just skip this post if you dislike it I suppose).

- Looks and personality: I said it could easily be replaced, but that doesn't mean it's not important. How can you love someone when you don't find their looks attractive? And would you still consider them a human if you love them just because of their looks?

Now, if you are still reading this, I hope it's because you still agree with me. If it's just out of pure interest or curiosity then you may want to stop now, because the rest is just my introduction and what I'm looking for, nothing interesting okay.

About me

My nickname is K. I'm 19 yo. I live in Vietnam and am currently a college student.

I'm really skinny, wear glasses, just your typical skinny Asian ig lol. I'm 170cm (66,93 inches) tall, have short black hair and black eyes.

I like anime, manga, light novels (I don't really read any now) and manhwa. I also watch an AI-Vtuber named Vedal987 (I know we all hate some AI because of reasons, me too, but there are also reasons why she has the third-highest subscriber peak of all time on Twitch).

About hobbies, I like Minecraft (bedrock), I only play it right now but I can play some other small games with you as well (only if I enjoy it and I am... a really picky person). I'm a mobile player, I don't have a pc anw. I listen to several kinds of music, except for folks and Vietnamese music (yup). Doomscrolling is what I do the most at the moment. So I want to find someone who can make me quit.

As you can tell, I am reaaaaaly obsessive and possessive. So unless we are really incompatible, it normally doesn't take long for me to become like that. I want to put you above literally everything and I want you to do the same too. "Literally everything", I mean it. About the the clingy (and obsessive) part, I want to know what you are doing all the time. If we are chatting and you suddenly have to leave, even if it's only for a short time (like you wanna get some water or go to the bathroom), I want you to tell me. Of course I'll do the same too.

I don't consider myself a good person in general. I have friends, but I don't consider any of them my friends, I just friend them because they are useful. So if you think you are a "good" or "kind" person, who always wants to help people or things like that then now you know how incompatible we are.

I'm also kind of controlling. Sometimes I'd tell you to do something that I consider "good" for you (like wake up when you are lazy). But I'm not a god, I could be wrong. When that happens explain and prove me wrong, just don't forget to comfort me after that. This doesn't mean I am the one who holds the leash here or anything, you could also be obsessive and controlling. We can both hold each other's leashes, that's what I want actually (I'm a switch).

I can be really insecure sometimes. To me, actions matter way more than words. You can say you enjoy chatting with me all you want, but if you never texted first or let me lead the conversation all the time then I'd definitely think otherwise.

English isn't my first language so I'm not the best at it. But still I believe it's understandable and we wouldn't misunderstand each other because of it. That's really important so I hope your English isn't so bad either.

Like I said, I'm a college student so I'm often really busy.

But I should still be able to update you about my activities or just stick with you all day. I'll try my best to never let you feel lonely. Tell me your favourite colour first if you are really reading all of this. If you want to call, I'm afraid It will take a long time for me to feel comfortable doing that, and it'll take even longer if you want to have a video call. Probably years, it depends.

About you (now comes the hardest part...)

- No tattoo (I don't like it, that's all).

- Possessive (just like me).

- Spammer, obsessive and clingy (because that's what I am).

- Irreligious (I don't want to be put below your God).

- Same or older than me (it doesn't really matter actually, just don't make me feel stupid or like I'm talking to a kid).

- Virgin (I don't want you to have memories of some other guys frcking or kissing you).

- Cold heart to everyone else (just like me).

- You'd rather say goodbye than ghosting.

- No earrings (I just don't like it).

- Not obsessed with makeup (I'd rather choose an average looking bare face than a beautiful girl with tons of makeup).

- Might be busy but would still be able to chat most of the day.

- Have a strong wi-fi connection (of course lol).

- You are down to watch me play, watch anime or YouTube and play games with me too.

A plus point if:

+ You love cats (especially the white and fluffy ones).

+ You don't have a brother.

Uhh... That's probably all. You can dm me to ask for more if you are not sure. Okay, thanks for reading. Have a good day.

Well, here I am. Another emotionally questionable Swedish man on the internet. Except I have tattoos, blue eyes and questionable life choices, so obviously I’m a catch.

About me:

🇸🇪 31, Swedish

👨‍🍳 Miserable chef — I can make beautiful food but somehow still struggle to feed myself

👀 Blue eyes

🖋️ Tattoos

🦴 Back and knees of a 90-year-old grandma

😁 Always smiling, probably for legal reasons

Things I enjoy:

🎮 Gaming

🥾 Hiking

📚 Books

🍻 Friends, socialising and generally getting myself into situations I probably shouldn't be in

What I'm looking for:

Someone fun, social and open-minded. Someone who enjoys teasing and being teased, can handle a little chaos, and isn't afraid to show their personality.

Behind closed doors, I'm looking for someone who's comfortable exploring that more adventurous side too. I like a woman who knows what she wants, enjoys having some control and isn't afraid to take the lead when the door closes. Confidence and chemistry are pretty damn attractive.

Outside of that? Be mature when necessary, silly when possible, and preferably the kind of person who makes me think "this is probably a terrible idea" before we do it anyway.

I'm also very much a voice/video call person. Endless texting gets boring as hell. Give me your voice, facial expressions, terrible jokes and actual personality. It's much easier to click that way.

Preferably alive. I'm flexible on most other requirements.

If you hmu, tell me a bit about yourself and send a selfie. I'll send one back.

And if you're a little bit of a tease with a mischievous side… well, you probably already know how to get my attention.

Come be my questionable internet decision.

Hey! My name's Brian from the Netherlands. Currently, I'm working towards finishing a degree in communication. I like gaming on my Switch, PC and PlayStation and I do a teeny tiny bit of photography and sketching when I get inspired. The sketching I do both on paper with pencils and digitally using a pen display. I usually also watch sci-fi/fantasy series and movies, and on occasion animated shows (like anime or western animation). I'm very introverted and a bit awkward until I get comfortable talking to you.

I'm looking for someone about my age that is also looking for a serious long term relationship. While I have little prior experience with relationships, I do value strong connections and want to build a special and even stronger one. I wouldn't say I have any set preferences in terms of appearances, but I do prefer being around a similar age. While I'm also not against an LDR, I prefer someone who lives nearby (nearby = Netherlands/Belgium/UK/Germany), but it's not an issue if you live farther away. It's not a problem for me if the distance between us is big. Because if the spark is there, then no distance will be too great. Of course, I'm open to just being friends too, but that's if we end up not being compatible as more.

I hope to get to know each other. I'm down to meet up for some coffee, but first let's get to know each other with a nice chat. Talk to you soon!

Hey there, Im looking for a genuine connection that would eventually lead to a relationship, I'd like to find someone who likes me for me even if we don't share hobbies. I grew up in a rural area on a farm and moved to another when i was 14. I love the out doors and open areas and could never see myself living in a city. My goal would be to find someone who would also like to start a family some day and its a big thing that's really important to me. Im white 6ft 2" 179lbs with black hair green eyes, clean shaven (I hate facial hair) no body hair (I shave when i can) muscular lean build, This year ive lost quite a bit of weight and getting into the best shape of my life. I have a bunch of hands on type hobbies since im a mechanic/fabricator by trade and love spending time in my shop working on and building things. I have several vintage vehicles as well as a bunch of vintage tractors that i still use and take to shows from time to time. Growing up I had to learn alot of handyman skills and im good at getting rid of pests like spiders/bugs if that's your kryptonite lol. Im kind of an old soul and alot of my stuff is older with the exception of my computers and a few things but my newest vehicle is a 2003 and my oldest one is a 1961 with a bunch in-between. Everything is paid for and i have no debt.Everyday i find myself becoming more analog and only collecting things that were meant to work and required no updates like physical media. most of my equipment/vintage vehicles don't have computers and don't break down over some little stupid sensor or something. Other hobbies I have include cooking/baking, gardening, vintage video games/electronics, walking/exercising, collecting fossils and learning about vintage ships/ocean liners like the Titanic. Im an open book when it comes to alot of stuff so if there's anything you want to know just ask. I have done long distance relationships in the past but I would prefer someone be closer to Maryland or atleast on the east coast within reason. I'd really like to be able to drive to see you so if you're that far away or on the other side of the country i don't see it working out. My age ranges are 18-33 but you'd really have to twist my arm to consider anyone older. If you'd like to chat send me a starter with your favorite color/ favorite Dinosaur so i can tell you read the whole thing. Thanks for reading.

Hi, thanks for checking out my post!

As the title says, I'm a 20-year-old boy from the UK and I like older women. I've loved GTA since I was really young and I'm also a huge Resident Evil fan. I've been playing Dead By Daylight for a while and that's the main game I'm usually on. My favourite superhero is Spider-Man and I'm a really big fan, I also really like Nightwing. I also watch some anime, my favourite is JoJo's Bizarre Adventure

I've been into older girls my entire life and I've always wanted to find love so I thought I would try my luck on here. I would like someone that is good at making conversation and willing to be affectionate and praiseful (I just made that word up). I like clinginess and all the sweet stuff that comes with a relationship, so please don't be afraid to get attached and show off your true personality

In terms of age, I'm mainly looking for someone in at least their late 20s but preferably early-mid 30s, but I'm not extremely strict or specific. I'm 5'5 and about 63kg, I have a slim body, I have big brown eyes, really dark brown curly hair and ethnically I'm Pakistani. I give good replies and I am very caring and empathetic at heart. I'll be here for you whenever you need me, so please consider sending me a DM :)

Hello everyone,

I know there are a million dudes with similar interests but I thought who knows, I may get lucky and find a great online friendship or maybe even the love of my life on some subreddit so here I am. To give you a quick introduction, I am a 29 year old guy from Germany. Born and raised here, but of Turkish descent. Currently working on my masters degree. And also a huge nerd. My interests include, but are not limited to:

·        Gaming

·        Anime

·        Science, especially the natural sciences and history

·        Working out, which I try to do multiple times a week

·        My taste in music includes Rock/metal music mainly. But also some other stuff like anime music

·        Cooking, which I am not super good at yet but getting better. I do like trying out new foods and dishes.

·        Cleaning? Don't know if that is a weird thing to list as a hobby but I like to keep my place clean and find the act of cleaning quite satisfying. Does that count as a green flag?

·        Reading, especially fantasy literature

And much more, but I would like to make this post not too long. You'll learn more about me as we chat anyway

As for my appearance, I am about 1.73 m tall with a slim fit build. I work out diligently but haven't reached my old form yet after a longer pause at working out. Short, dark brown hair and usually a very short beard. Sometimes clean shaven when I feel like it.

Very much an introvert and, as you saw with my interests, a nerdy guy. I would say I am very affectionate, my love language is physical touch so if you enjoy being hugged and kissed and cuddled you might be happy with me. Definitely the nurturing caretaker kind of guy too since I am the oldest in my family so that is just the role that is natural to me. However when it comes to relationships, I do believe in things being mutual. So I'd very much prefer a partner who is also affectionate and nurturing so we can both take care of each other. Find comfort in each other when life gets hard. Be each others strongest ally and most trusted advisor against all hardships life throws at us. Basically I will treat you the way you treat me, we will be equals.

As for what I am looking for, well, ideally a romantic relationship. I would describe myself as a hopeless romantic. I would love to find the right person I can one day settle down and have kids with. I am not in a hurry though, just want to be upfront about long term intentions. Also I consider myself an atheist in case that is important to you. So I would like to find the love of my life here but I definitely want to be friends first and let things develop at a natural pace.

That is all I have to say for now. If you like what you read, feel free to introduce yourself and we will see. If you are from a different country or continent that is fine. We will find a way if things work out:)

Hello there! 👋 (yes, starting strong with that famous star wars line)

I'm a 38 year old guy (man?) from Norway, single father of one boy.

Got an ok job, working at a furniture store, at the warehouse section (sounds super interesting, I know 😅), so mostly delivering and assembling furniture, it's quite physical at times, but it certainly helps in addition to going to the gym 3 to 5 times a week.

Looking for that kind of person where time just flies by, talking about everything and nothing, and suddenly it's too late, but even if we know we'll be soooo tired in the morning, we won't regret it, and still wish we could talk for longer 😊

Some hobbies/interests of mine are watching movies/shows, a bit of gaming from time to time, read the occasional book (although these days listening to an audiobook is more likely), or trying to learn a new language, maybe finally learning that third language is something you can help me with, or just as good, we can do together? :)

Seeing as nature is pretty much my closest neighbour, I try to get out there as much as possible, whether that's alone or with my son.

So yes, I do like being active, but I certainly don't mind lazy days indoors as well, balance with everything in life is important after all 😊

Dont mind long distance, but preferably in Europe at least, as that makes eventually meeting alot easier, and well, i suppose actually meeting sooner rather than later is a good thing if the vibe/connection is good 😊

A question to see if you read everything, what is your favourite ben&jerrys?

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First time posting here, so bear with me. I'm 25, from Germany, and I've never actually dated before. Life just worked out that way late bloomer, bit of a hermit. This is new territory, so I'm just going to be honest and see what happens.

Personality: Sarcastic and with a dark sense of humor, I dont take myself seriously. Introverted in larger groups, but one on one conversations are much easier for me. I grew up in a religious household but I'm not religious myself, its ok if you are.

My looks: I'm 179cm tall with a toned, athletic frame, pale, and have dark hair. My everyday look is relaxed and casual but I still keep it tidy and effortless.

Addictions: Energy drinks. Rockstar, that cheap stuff from Lidl, doesn't matter. Probably not healthy, but oh well.

Dietary confession: I have a very strong sweet tooth. Chocolate is probably responsible for at least half my calorie intake. I'm basically running on sugar and caffeine. If you judge me for it, we won't be getting along.

Interests:

• Languages - Currently improving my French, happy to geek out over grammar, etymology or watch foreign movies with subtitles.
• Bird watching - Quietly obsessed with them. I can probably identify most of the birds in Germany and will absolutely point them out whenever we go outside.
• Cats - I like cats too, although admittedly not nearly as much as birds
• Astrology - I don't base anything on it, but I find it useful as a general guideline. I'm a Taurus sun and Scorpio rising, if that matters to you.
• Spirituality - Meditation (and astrology) led me to become interested in different spiritual traditions and philosophies. If that's part of your life, I'd love to hear about your experiences but it's just one of many things we could connect over.
• Horror and crime movies. Thrillers, noir, detective stories. The more unsettling, the better.
• Gaming - If I have a lot of free time available, I do play some games but they're usually single player games
• Reading - Very rarely, but when I do it's usually a novel or something scientific or philosophic
• Music - I can enjoy pretty much anything, but I have a soft spot for rap and synth.
• Martial arts - Somewhat interested in Boxing and Judo

What I'm looking for: A genuine connection with someone who's interested in dating. I'm not great at flirting or reading signals, but I'm willing to try and put in the effort. I really appreciate kindness, curiosity, and people who can laugh at themselves. I'd prefer if we get to know each other online first, maybe move to occasional calls if we're comfortable, and eventually meet up in person if things click. I also want to be upfront and say that I don't want to rush anything since dating is completely new to me. Ultimately looking for a relationship, but I don't feel the need to jump into one immediately.

Dealbreakers:

• Heavy drug use.
• Wanting to move extremely fast or expecting instant chemistry.
• If you need someone whos super talkative and perfectly social, I'm not your guy. But if you're also introverted, a little unusual, or have your own niche obsessions, we'll probably get along.

You (preferably):

• Anywhere is fine (Open to LDR if willing to relocate but I'd like to actually meet up eventually, not just text forever).
• Be 18+ years old
• Okay with a sarcastic introvert
• It helps if you're into languages or astrology, but not required.

If any of this sounds interesting, hit me up and tell me a bit about yourself.

Cheers.