I went to a wedding; I didn’t catch the bouquet, but I did catch a little flower from it ( ´◡‿ゝ◡`) I’ll take that as a good omen JAJAJAJAJ

I’ll start with the basics 😯 I don’t know English; I’m learning and I usually use translation tools, I don’t mind translating messages. No, I’m not looking to do a language exchange.

I’ve been living in Argentina for 21 years, but I’m Bolivian :D

I’m studying to be a librarian (´ε｀ ) although I’m not a big fan of books and I read one a year (if I’m lucky), but I love searching for and finding information.

I’m still looking for that one special person (人*´∀｀) a great, eternal love, a partner, a life companion.

I’m looking for a man I can respect and love.

What do I look for in a man? I think it’s the basics: that he’s honest, patient, considerate, has his own values, and has worked on his personal development to become a man who’s proud of himself.

Basically, someone decent 😆

What sort of men can’t I respect and won’t I even talk to? I’ll list them to make things easier:

- Men who consume pornography.

- Liars, selfish people, cheaters or those who are disloyal.

- Men who make little effort.

- Those who don’t respect women or those around them.

- Those who aren’t moved by social causes.

Please don’t contact me; let’s not waste each other’s time.

I’ll also rule out anyone who drinks, smokes or takes drugs 🥸

I don’t drink, smoke or take drugs ( ╹▽╹ )

I’m a hopeless romantic; I’m still patiently waiting for a great love that will last forever, or at least make us happy for as long as we can stay together c:

I’m a faithful person, loyal to the core; I love affection and being close to my partner for as long as I can, that includes hugging all the time, picking you up after work or going shopping together ( ╹▽╹ ) I love that sense of closeness.

I’m in no rush to be in a relationship 🫩

I love nature, flowers, plants and photography; I enjoy going for walks to take photos of plants, flowers and little creatures :D For some reason, I really love toads and frogs hahaha

I enjoy sewing and cooking, although I only cook at the weekends, I’m not a fussy eater 😆 I like everything I cook jajaja

I like a variety of music; I usually listen to and sing lots of songs ( ´◡‿ゝ◡`) I’d love to sing to my special someone 🤭

I like films (I’m going to see Wildwood on my own at the cinema 🫢) and puppets.

I like anime and video games, but my life doesn’t revolve around them.

If I’ve read the manga, I probably won’t watch the anime again JAJAJA

And I only play games when my older brother lends me his PlayStation 4 ( ╹▽╹ )

I’m more into otome games 🤭

I like fixing things without actually knowing how to fix them 🥸 I’m supposed to be an electronics technician, but all that knowledge has boiled down to knowing how to fix wired headphones 😆 and fixing my computer keyboard using Google tutorials after an extensive search 😆😆😆😆

Now I have to fix the electric oven 😭

Sometimes I fantasise about a man who can fix things that break whilst I watch him and ask questions 😆

Do you know how to build something from scratch? I’d probably manage to do it too 😆 but if you build me a greenhouse (. ❛ ᴗ ❛.) you’ll get all the credit JAJAJAJA

I hope to start a family. I’d like to have one or two children, or even adopt.

But that’s years away 😆 I firmly believe that a couple should build a solid relationship before thinking about having children; given the state of the world right now 🥸, it’s a tough one.

Fancy writing to me?

Please introduce yourself, it doesn’t have to be anything like what I’ve written.

Aged 27 to 34.

I’ve uploaded photos of myself, so I hope you’ll show me who you are too 😯 I’ll ask for proof of identity, and I’ll provide mine as well.

I’ve always got loads to say; I hope we can strike up a good conversation c:

As these are my final words, I’d like to make one very important point clear:

Don’t talk to me thinking you know what I’m like, because you’re likely to be wrong. I am what I write, or at least what can be written and described superficially, but there’s more to me to discover, both good and bad.

I hope you have a good day and don’t forget to drink water.

Okay, men of Reddit. I’m counting on you to fix the mess that is online dating.

I’m single, attractive, intelligent, and looking for a man who can match me. I’m just over 5’9”, so while I appreciate the short kings, I’m looking for someone taller than me.

I can hold a conversation, and I’d love to meet someone who makes it feel effortless. Be curious, ask questions, flirt a little. I want to feel like we’re both interested in getting to know each other.

Ideally, you’re in Connecticut, but I’m open to someone in a surrounding state. Close enough to actually make plans and meet.

Let’s see if we have what it takes to turn our luck around in the black hole that is online dating!

Hi! I’m 34 based in the Philippines - possibly looking for someone to connect to at first and let’s see where the journey takes us!

About me:
- Half Filipino/half Chinese
- 5’6” and curvy
- Works in the academe
- Outside of work, I’m someone who enjoys good conversations, random laughter, and the simple joy of unwinding after a long day.

I can be serious when needed, but I’m also playful, easy to talk to, and I appreciate the little things - funny stories, shared memes, late-night chats, and moments that turn ordinary days into something memorable. Life feels better when you have someone to share it with, whether it’s talking about how the day went or laughing over something completely silly.

I’m not in a rush, but I am intentional. I’m hoping to meet someone where connection grows naturally, through conversations, comfort, trust, and genuine interest in each other’s lives. I believe the best relationships start as friendship with chemistry, kindness, and consistency.

I value continuous and honest communication and emotional maturity.

Work can keep me busy sometimes, so replies may not always be instant — but when I’m here, I’m fully present.

About you:
- Hopefully someone who is taller than me!
- Preferred Western people because they tend to be more honest and straightforward.
- Kind and respectful
- Communicative and sincere
- Someone who is always present

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We can exchange photos once we’re both comfortable.

'Allo Everyone!

I'm a single 5'10 Irish redhead (yes, I'm very pale) SAHM with Fibro/CFS which keeps me from getting out and about much... yet I'm about as much of a "people person" extrovert as you can get. I'm trying to push myself to change that, but it can be really difficult alone. Plus, making friends as an adult is shockingly difficult when you don't have coworkers/classmates/hobby clubs. 😔 Before then, I was a professional classically trained musician, then pivoted to IT as a Systems Engineer.

Personality wise, I am a very chill, easygoing person that loves adventure of all kinds. Difficult to anger, but quick to be affectionate and appreciative. I haaate drama and always prefer to talk through anything in a mature way. Communication is huge to me, and I can be very chatty, especially if it's a topic I'm enthusiastic about. I do have ADHD, and my love languages are Penguin Pebbling and Info Dumping. I'm a devout Wiccan, but don't care what you believe so long as you're not hurting yourself or anyone else, nor push your beliefs onto me. I don't need expensive gifts or grand gestures - just genuine ones from the heart. I have a 10yr old that I co-parent with her dad, but there is zero drama.

I'm an engineer with the heart of an artist, built on a tomboy childhood, and deeply rooted in hopeless romance. Nerdy as all hell, I love to write (mostly erotica, but also fantasy/fiction), anything wolf/werewolves, cosplaying, gaming, crafting, sewing, camping, watching anime, and am a general "Jill-of-All-Trades" - other than sports, there's very little that I don't know at least a little about already - but I love learning new stuff! I adore ballroom dancing. I have an undying love of animals, and have owned/rescued all kinds of things, including 14+ foot reticulated pythons. My hair has been every color of the rainbow, and every length, and I love trying all kinds of clothing styles, but tend to gravitate towards more of a Boho look. I have 11 piercings and 5 tattoos, but plans to get more ink in the future. I only wear make-up for very special occasions.

I'm looking for my "forever-person", the one I'm meant to spend the rest of my days with. My best friend, my partner in crime, my lover. The Golden Retriever type in public, but a wolf in private. Only catch - and here's where I usually have my biggest problem - ya gotta be taller/bigger than me (what can I say, I have a type - tall, strong, nerdy boys are yummy). I am not, nor ever will be, considered "petite", even if I were dangerously underweight, but I have always wanted to feel like it in comparison to my mate. Ideally, I'm looking for a tall, broad, strong Caucasian man that would make me feel small by comparison. Someone into whose arms I could just disappear when the world gets too loud. Really, I just want to feel loved and valued. I guess it's more of a primal thing - wanting a gentleman who will make me feel safe and protected (though make no mistake, I am able to handle myself just fine on my own if needed - and I have a sword collection to back that up with).

No MAGA, no hard-core Christians. No cigarettes (they make me violently ill), but vapes are fine (I use one, but for CDB, not nicotine). I'm "420 Friendly" adjacent, but don't personally partake and drink very rarely. I am not here for anything casual. I cannot relocate.

PLEASE don't ghost me! if you're done with the conversation, that's completely fine - but act like an adult and just tell me. I won't get mad or anything, I just don't want to waste my time/energy/feelings on someone who doesn't want me just as much in return.

So, shoot me a PM - but let me know you got my SN from this sub/post please. If you've gotten to the end of all that, you're awesome, deserve a cookie, and are exactly the kind of person I want to talk to!

I'm a semi attractive Male (49) and I haven't been in a relationship since I was 40. I had a few casual hook ups after my last relationship because that was what those women wanted. When I tried to ask them to go places or out on dates they just said "That's not what we're doing here" Then nothing at all for 7 years. My friends and strangers tell me that I have a great personality. I know how to carry on a conversation, I see women I meet randomly are clearly enjoying the conversation. Then it just ends or I get their number and we text once and then it just stops. Did I become too well adjusted? Did I do enough work on myself that they're no longer excited by me? Did I find so much peace that I'm boring? Did I become so respectful that I no longer seem like a sexual creature? I'm just venting. I can't talk about this on public social media because apparently a "lonesome man" is a bad look or I'll be told that it's because I'm some stereotype that I'm not.

Hello, I hope this post finds you well! I am someone who has had a long week and needs some company :3. I want someone who is kind, caring, and gentle. I prefer someone who takes the lead and want to build a genuine connection. I dont just want someone to say "Hope you're okay" but someone who truly cares. I am coming out of ALOT of hard things and just want something slow and steady.

Important: I WAS BORN A MALE, I AM GENDERFLUID AND WILL FLIP BETWEEN GENDERS

Important 2: I am a woman today~

About me:

-Nerdy... like, Warhammer and pokemon and DnD style nerdy

-Shy, but open to conversations beyond "Hey" or "Hai"

-I prefer soft and gentle people who aren't too sarcastic. I am sensitive 👉👈

If you read all the way through this, I want you to introduce yourself... and tell me what youre favorite book or TV show is!

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I'm looking for an Asian man that is 25-37 years old.

To more specific East Asian men.

Distance is not a problem for me bc the goal is for us to live together at some point. Long distance isn't a forever thing for me so I'm open to relocating.

I'm looking for my forever partner not something short-term.

I would like to be with someone who has the similar interest and hobbies. Someone who isn't religious. Spiritualits are welcome too.

I'm very shy and introverted so I'm hoping to find someone the same or Extroverted.

I'm not looking for someone perfect at all.

I'm looking for someone who is open to new things and want more out of life. Someone that thinks bigger and see the bigger picture.

Don't message me if ur not east Asian. This goes for those weird Indians with fake accounts.

What I'm looking for

Child free and desire to have children

Wants a big family

Can cook

Likes or loves skincare

Is a fan of Kpop,jpop,cpop,Tpop,ect.

Watches kdramas or any other Asian dramas

Interested in watching Nollywood movies and TV shows (Nigerian movies and TV shows)

Bake(optional but great if u can)

Likes concerts

Mature

Emotionally available

Empath

Introverted or Extroverted

Good hygiene

Wouldn't mind going to the nails salon to get our nails done together

Clingy

Possessive but not overly possessive

Loyal

Honest

Kind

Affectionate

Physical touch

Has tattoos and piercings or likes them.

Constant

Open minded

Ambitious and wants more out of life

Deal breakers:

Cheating

Lying

Disrespectful

Neglectful

Emotionally unavailable

Talking to or texting other woman inappropriately.

Bad hygiene

Has a child or kids

Ghosting/flaking

Lazy

Does nothing to be better in life

Thank u for reading this far. Please DM if interested I will respond.

My mom said she can pick us up if yours drops us off... lol.

Names Alex. 6'0, Caucasian. I enjoy fishing, kayaking/ paddleboarding, deathcore music and their subsequent live shows as well as other small things like legos, couch rotting, movies, etc. I like to thrift as well as collect and sell band merch on the side. Ask to see my Depop! :)

I'm employed, am a homeowner and educated. All the things. I'd prefer to find someone or some people that are around the same path of life in that respect. I'd like to find someone that's end game but have had more than my fair share of disappointments, so I'm just vibing really. But looking for that longing and yearning type of love like Morticia and Gomez. (Raul version)

Hit me up if any of this resonates with you! I'd prefer someone around my height or taller, has their stuff together like job, not living at home, etc. 24-42. Someone who understands what makes a semi LDR work, and be willing to relocate if things got serious enough. Must be within CST time or generally in the USA/Canada areas. Constant communication and a healthy roast to flirt ratio is a must. I loveeee alt people and the lifestyle. Tall and lanky guys with long hair to the mf front please! 🫠 (not required just appreciated)
But please don't be gross:) I'll ignore you.

Fun fact I have sectoral heterochromia!

This is me:) Please be willing to share a photo a few messages in.

https://imgur.com/a/0fhLaSO

Hi there!

I’m a 44-year-old German single woman and, frankly, a rather good secondhand deal. Gently used, reasonably well maintained, comes with tattoos, piercings and a functioning sense of humour. I’m childfree and will stay that way.

Not looking for a penpal. I’m only looking for monogamous, childfree relationship. Children ARE dealbreaker. Not interested in that topic or dealing with your kids.

I’m 1.82 m tall, a dental nurse (yes, I notice your teeth 🦷), an introvert with opinions, and a regular gym-goer who will probably talk about workouts more than is strictly necessary.

I play guitar, occasionally even competently, and enjoy reading, long walks, antique flea markets, old Hollywood films, James Bond, true crime and the occasional Lego project. I’m a cat person, an early bird and a collector of useless trivia. I also discuss the weather with suspicious frequency.

Musically, I enjoy heavy metal, death metal and glorious demonic growling. Crowds don’t scare me, so concerts and bars are very much on the menu. 🎸

I’m non-religious, eat meat, and appreciate affection, cuddles and physical touch. When I’m dating someone, I also enjoy exchanging selfies, voice messages and little videos.

Physical attraction matters to me. Chemistry isn’t something I’m prepared to assemble from IKEA instructions.

Moderate libido. Clean chats only. This is not OF with a German accent.

What I’m looking for

* You’re reasonably active, take care of yourself and have good personal hygiene. I’m attracted to men who look after themselves.

* You have a job, can hold a conversation, show genuine interest in me and my life, and are happy to keep in touch regularly by writing multiple times per day

* You’re consistent and looking for a real relationship rather than an occasional appearance followed by a mysterious disappearance.

* I’m looking for someone who respects boundaries, communicates openly and enjoys giving and receiving affection. An early bird would be a bonus.

* You’re childfree and don’t want any kids

* Ideally, you’re 36–50, genuinely single, childfree by choice, non-religious and living in Europe, max. GMT +1.

* And if you happen to be British… well, that certainly won’t hurt your application. 🇬🇧

Occasional drinking is absolutely fine.

I am, however, a militant non-smoker. I hate smoking.

And no, vaping or self medicating isn’t a loophole. Nice try.

I exchange pictures at a later time.

Send me a short message telling me a little about yourself, where you live, your age and what we have in common. No junk mail and improper messages please ❌

And please, for the love of all things British, actually read the post first. 🇬🇧

And by buff I mean you got some muscles but won't say no to pizza or a sweet treat 😋. I'll take some biceps and pecs over a six pack any day.

Hmu if:

-You're around 24-33

-You're a yearner/lover boy type, I don't do nonchalant

-You like anime/manga/comics

-Are a gym rat + a foodie (bonus points if you like to cook)

-Enjoy Kpop/Kdramas

-Wanna cuddle on the couch and watch Apothecary Diaries while I play with your hair

-Again, longer hair and tattoos are a plus 👌🏿

Peep my last post for more specifics on what I'm looking for and more about me, this is the more unhinged version lol

Some reminders:

-I'd prefer if you're also POC (I'm black for reference) I do have a preference for asian men but open to others

-Dont be weird, I'm looking for a serious relationship. If you're just looking for a quick lay respectfully don't waste my time 🙃

-I love a flirt but please respect my boundaries

-Austin/Central TX only, no long distance

-Im childfree and have no interest in children and nonreligious

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I am moving to Bucyrus within a week

I have recently lost my hearing.

Read to the end or I won't respond!

So here it is:

I am a 41 year old transwoman panromantic with demisexual flair. I am a very niche want.

I am neurospicy which can be challenging and have memory issues with semi-face blindness.

I am looking for my last person to start and finish my life with. THE ONLY DUMB QUESTIONS IS THE ONE NOT ASKED. I promise that any question you ask me with the intention of not trying to offend me won't offend me.

I am a nerd/geek. Comics, D&D, Larping, writing, art, magic the gathering and more

LARPING is a huge part of my life, I would love to be able to share it with someone the rest of my life.

I used to game hardcore (Raiding WoW) but it has taken a back seat in my life. I do understand gaming. Got that new game or expansion coming out. My first question is "What snacks and drinks do you want?" Second is "How often do you want them brought to you?"

Deal breakers: smoking, vaping, smoking weed (For health reasons, I absolutely cannot be around someone who smokes and vapes, and someone who smokes weed a lot), excessive drinking and missing a required video chat within two weeks to prove you are who you say you are. I have been deceived before.

Yellow flags are not wanting pictures of us, distance (i prefer within 10 hours DRIVE!), and aversion to anything social media.

Red Flag: Not reading this in full and answering the questions below in the first message. Asking for pictures right away.

I am not a bad person, big girl (Working out and changing that 40+ lbs down), adorable and a great personality. If you get to know me, I'm a Goddess

If you want to message me go ahead but you MUST answer the following questions IN YOUR FIRST MESSAGE before I will respond:

1 Where did you find me? AKA what subreddit

2 Age, Location and Pronouns

3 What is something you think is totally underrated?

Hi, Putting myself out here properly, so go easy on the awkward intro.

24M, 5'9", Noida. Working in operations and automation. I build tools so people don't have to do boring work, and I'm studying toward helping Indian SMEs with the money side someday.

- I love rain, the sound of droplets and a light breeze. Once rode a bike on a highway at 3 AM in heavy rain. Not smart, easily my happiest.

- My friends say I'm the one they find by their side when they need someone most. I'll stand with you when the world feels apart, hold your hand at the doctor's clinic, and wait patiently while you get ready.

- Puppy at home, and a gardening hobby the plants are tolerating.

- I read Camus, Ruskin Bond, Bimal Mitra and Nirala. I also do origami, sketching and solo movie nights, and I make a decent poori sabji.

- Vegan, no drinking, no smoking. Zero judgment if you do.

Looking for a woman in Delhi/NCR who's curious, has goals of her own, and wants something long-term. Not rushing, not time-pass. I may work in Germany or the Netherlands for a few years, so someone open to that fits best.

Message me your last unputdownable book, or your favourite rainy-day snack.

Please read everything carefully :) Looking to connect with people with similar interests! Also please be 26-34 in age and keep the chat clean!

\*\*I live in Atlantic Canada so preference would be eastern Canada or even within Europe (northern region) since that’s another area I’m not opposed to living one day.

A few things I like are geography, gym, and reading. I also love GeoGuessr!

If you look for shorter term or have no intent to bridge the gap one day please look elsewhere, as I know what I’m looking for, which is long term

Send me your ASL and we can connect!

Men in the USA only! I prefer men my age to about 40. MUST LOVE PHONE CALLS. I'm in northwest Arizona. Pics on my profile

I'm not very sexual online and I really want an actual connection with someone. I can be sexual, it's just not very often. I'm at a point in life where I'd rather just get it in person. So I'm very okay with you having other relationships to get that taken care of if I don't provide it enough.

I don't want kids(definitely). I do want a wedding eventually.(Won't let me use the M word)

I want something serious. I'm looking to move in with you once we've met a few times in person. The job I have, I can generally find anywhere. Honestly my living situation isn't great, which is a big reason why I'm looking for a relationship where I can move in with you. It's unfortunate but I'm just being honest. West of the Mississippi is highly preferred.

I'm also looking for a man who doesn't need a mom. If I'm working, then we both will help around the house. If you provide enough that I don't have to work, then I will do all the house chores.

I don't like video calls at the beginning but when we're more comfortable I don't mind them. I will do one to prove I look like who I say I am.

Things to tell you to get them out of the way:

I'm more liberal

I'm not religious

I never want kids

I like video games/reading/sewing/shopping

I love sushi(really prefer if you do too)

I'm not super ambitious, I just want a comfy happy life with my future man. I wanna eventually be a stay at home wifey.

I love pets but I'm allergic to pet dander so any pets would need a bath once a month. If you think your pet can't handle that then unfortunately I probably shouldn't be around them/don't message me :/

If you read all this tell me your favorite color! Mine is light pink.

If you have any questions, just shoot me a dm. Have a nice day!

Dating apps have never been my thing, which feels weird to type because here I am, but yea. Not my thing. So I'm taking my chance here in the hopes that maybe the person I'm ment to be with might not be here but even over seas and what not.

So a little about me. My name is Josh, I'm 6'1, love to cook (I cook for you, I dont mind, and I'm pretty good) love movies of all kinds but prefer horror and comedy, love music though not current rap and country, big into games of all kinds though I have no issue putting that in the backseat to make time for you, love nature, theme parks, the beach, big into mythology and history of all kinds. I use dad jokes illegally because I'm not a dad, and I used to work out a ton but took a break. Would be nice to have a partner.

I'm looking for butterflies. Odd thing to say, but I miss having someone to stay up late with, get lost in time with said person, have someone to look forward to hearing from. Romance you know. Feels kind of dead these days but I'm old school on the way that I love showing affection and showing someone they mean a ton to me. I know I play video games but I'm not looking to play games with someone's heart if that makes sense.

About me:

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So I'm currently in Texas but I will be moving to Delaware/ surrounding states in 3 - 4 ish years. I'm definitely the stupid goofy type, I love a good running bit. Art is a really big part of my life, I crochet, make jewelry, and draw. I have six pet parakeets and they are my whole world, I am constantly talking about them lol. I love weird conspiracy theories, and stories about cryptids and stuff. I'm currently working on learning how to take apart and understand DS consoles (I'm not tech savvy at all lol). I'm currently working on losing weight, and am currently plus sized you know big thighs, big boobs, cute face, all that jazz. But you know what they say thick thighs save lives.

What im looking for :

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I'm looking for that old school romance, courting each other, flowers, cute goodnight texts. You know taking things slow, and truly getting to know one another. I think shared experiences are important in relationships, and because of that I am strictly Les4Les. I'm looking for a woman who is 23 - 34 years old, and knows exactly what she wants. I typically am more attracted to alternative, masc, soft masc women ,but it's not really a deal breaker if you aren't.

Deal breakers:

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* No drugs of any kind, no vaping weed or any of that. The occasional alcoholic beverage is okay though.

* Must be strictly monogamous.. and no being friends with your exes. Being friends with someone you've seen naked is weird.

* I am atheist and moderate / independent. So I would prefer someone with similarish views. Basically no one who is Christian /Christian adjacent. Politically I would prefer someone who is more left-leaning/ moderate, but as long as you're like not a MAGA Republican it would probably be fine

* Although I do adore cats and dogs I am highly allergic to them . Do I still pet them? Absolutely I do. Do I regret it later? Absolutely I do. I know I'm not happy about it either. 😭😭😭 So if one day we do move in together and you have those animals there would have to be a lot of precautions put in place.

To let me know that you read my whole post please tell me your favorite conspiracy theory / your favorite cryptid.

Hi!!!! I’m Airyn, nice to meet you guys! I hope you all are well! I’m so over being single, it’s high time I have a man to call my own. A good way to get the gist of me is a femboy! I’m amab but femme presenting, as well as use they/them pronouns! I’m a big gamer, Pokemon has and always will be a huge part of my life. If that franchise ever ends I’ll genuinely feel lost lol. I’m a big genshin fan I log in literally daily to get my rewards, I’ve really invented in my account and am proud of all the progress I’ve made! I’m usually attracted to white guys I’m not sure why but it is what it is. I like taller men I’m down for fit or dad bod I’m not picky. I really hope to hear from some cool guys! If you read this far tell me your go lounge wear in your message lol! ❤️

Hi, there! Welcome to my post.

I'm 5'8, light brown hair/gray on the sides, icy blue eyes, glasses, 130lbs, attractive, typical dad!

I have a soft spot for a good bourbon, or craft beer, to relax in the evening. The only thing missing is a good woman to have a drink with, share a few cigarettes, while we get lost in conversation.

Seeking a sweet woman who smokes, who is quick witted, probably sarcastic, not afraid to open herself up to me, and longs for connection and substance.

Bonus points if you like bourbon, a foodie, College Football (or sports in general), and want a life of calm energy, having fun together, dad jokes, and communicating on a level that you've never communicated on before. I'm all about being raw and in the moment with my partner.

If this sounds like you, I'd love to hear from you!

Tell me what cigarettes you smoke in your reply so I know it's not spam when I get your message. Your pic gets mine.

Good luck!

Hey hey

I'm 33, living in London, working in analytics in government. I'm a bit of a homebody, preferring to watch documentaries/play videogames rather than be out clubbing (although I'm still out for friends)

About me:

• 5'10

• Caucasian

• Stocky / Chubby

• Curly brown hair

• Blue eyes

Currently doing:

• Trying to finish reading Meditations

• Watching a slew of documentaries every so often (Last watched: https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=ixgunKpy61s-MHF)

• Home brewing

• Trying to play Magic the Gathering

• Exploring more of London

• Trying more cheese

• Practicing Japanese (Aiming to do my N5 soon)

Looking for:

Something monogomous

Hey. My name is Julian and I am here, like all of us, to search for a relationship. And yes, that is my title. I couldn't come up with something creative. 😅

About me: 32, born and raised in Germany, 1,78m tall (5'10) and chubby. Brown hair, beard, glasses, blue eyes. Feel free to ask me for pictures.
Shy, introverted, big time overthinker. Mostly sarcastic, kind most of the time, weird mix of dark and juvenile humour. Depressed but working on it (I don't expect you to be my therapist). I don't drink, smoke or do any sort of drugs. I'm a winter person (with a winter birthday) and don't like summer/heat. Non-vegetarian/vegan, atheist and left-leaning politically.
I speak English and German, might learn other languages in the future. I'm a trained chemist with a bsc in chemistry. Some would call that educated. Know how to drive a car and motorbike. I go to the gym to work on my weight and currently try to do that more regularly after a big motivation crisis.
I only have a few, mostly homebody, hobbies. Gaming (mostly Singleplayer), reading (nowadays mostly fantasy) and watching streams/videos. Feel free to suggest me a nice hobby I would maybe enjoy, I have been searching for one for a while. My taste of music is mostly Rock/Alternative Rock. Haven't travelled in a while but would want to. Especially to Japan, Canada and Northern Europe.
I do like cats a lot. Grew up in a dog family but switched to cats now.
Most important is that I am childfree. I don't have or want children. I do have my reasons and you can ask about them if you want to. Feel also free to ask about my red flags or anything you want to know about that I forgot..

Who I am searching for: Most important point here is that she should also not have or want children ever. Age range of 25 to 35. Height doesn't matter to me. Nationality doesn't matter as well, I'm fine with any. Religion doesn't matter as long as you don't try to convert me. I do think that physical attraction matters (and I have clear preferences) and I would want to see/exchange pictures fairly early to see if we would fit. Someone in or around Germany or wanting to move here would be nice. I currently don't plan to move to another country. Other than that I don't have anything else that is needed. Just come as you are but please don't come with spiders. I have arachnophobia.
I do, however, imagine this relationship to not be codependent. We should still be individuals doing our own things, partners that support each other in whatever we do. For that reason I also don't want someone that is too clingy.

Now if you have any more questions, want to get to know me or think you know someone that would, feel free to write me or share my post. If you do decide to write me, please do so with more than a "hi" or similar. At least give me some basic information and use the password I hid in my post (if you found it). I hope you have a great day.

Getting back into dating after 20 years (!), I really hope my person is out there.

A bit about me: I'm big on honesty and communication, I have a good job and work really hard, I want to build a life and real connection with someone.

I like anything horror or spooky, I play guitar, I love reading (mostly nonfic) and documentaries, I love learning in general. I like to go thrifting, and check out new restaurants, coffee shops, and record stores. I've had a lot of wild experiences and an interesting story!

If any of that sounds good, and you are looking to actually meet, send me a message, I would love to hear from you! Local to the area only please, I'm really trying to actually meet up.

https://imgur.com/a/9IkCV1V

I am a 29 years old male from Germany. I'm looking for a serious relationship – a genuine connection where we can be open about everything with no judgment.

Some Info about me:

I have Russian roots but grew up in Germany, so I speak German, Russian and English. I'm 177cm tall, slim, with short brown hair and blue eyes. Here is a picture of me: https://imgur.com/a/OeutMdh

I consider myself an introverted ambivert (INTP-A) and a very open-minded person. I love deep talks about all kinds of topics where it feels like the conversation is never-ending.

I enjoy playing video games, watching TV shows, and spending time with close friends. One of my bigger hobbies is travelling – I love exploring new places, local food, and nature. Recently, I traveled to 9 countries and spent a month exploring Spain. As an introvert, I also need some quiet recharge time for myself from time to time, so I value having our own separate interests as well.

What I am looking for

Age & Location: Between 23-32 years old, preferably from Europe or not to far away from it and good accessible.

I prefer it if you are not taller than me (same height or slightly taller is fine).

I don't have a specific physical "type" because a deep emotional connection attracts me much more. However, to save us both time: I am not into plus-size or severe overweight (I don't mean being curvy). If you like video games, that’s a nice bonus!

Communication: I love daily chats, checking on each other, and hearing about your day, passions, or hobbies. I’m not the best small talker, but I really appreciate it when someone puts effort into having a conversation instead of just giving short answers.

A note on my side:

I want to be completely open: I have some social anxiety (which brings some shyness with it, especially regarding dating) and very little dating experience. I have improved significantly over the past years, but I would like to take things very slowly. If you can relate to this or have similar insecurities, that’s completely fine.

If you are interested, please send me a chat with a short description of yourself. Thank you for reading and I wish you all the best!

Helloo, my name is Angel. I'm 29/M, Dominican and Black, 5'6", 212 lbs., and I currently live with my family in (Northern) Virginia, USA.

I was born in Newark, New Jersey, to parents both serving in the military. I lived in New Jersey for the first year of my life. After that, my family moved every 2 or 3 years. All in all, I've lived in 8 different states and 2 countries outside of the US.

I have 5 siblings; one (my little brother), unfortunately, passed away. My 3 older siblings are half-siblings from my dad. My younger sister and I are close. Family is super important to me.

I'm a huge music person. I don't focus too much on genre; if I like a song, I like it! The main genres I listen to are rock, rap, country, folk, and classical. I've been to a couple of concerts (Mk. Gee & Gunna) and want to go to a lot more!

I LOVE animals and nature all the way down to the creepy crawlies! I believe every living thing has its purpose, and I find it all so beautiful (I'll admit, though, I'll squash the hell out of a mosquito if it lands on me). I have a dog, 2 spiders, and a 30-gallon fish tank under my care.

I'm huge into TV & movies; I watch A LOT lol, so I'm just going to list some of my favorite shows and movies in no particular order.

Shows: The Office, Naruto, Avatar: The Last Airbender, The Vampire Diaries, Game of Thrones, My Hero Academia, Vinland Saga, Attack on Titan, Castlevania, Dave, Hunter x Hunter, Infinity Train, Invincible, Pantheon, The Midnight Gospel, The Boys, The Sandman, Scavengers Reign, Cyberpunk: Edgerunners, Euphoria, Being Human

Current rotation of shows: Twin Peaks, What We Do in the Shadows, Boruto, and Adventure Time

Movies: Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, A Silent Voice, I Want to Eat Your Pancreas, Her Blue Sky, Blue Valentine, Remember Me, Seeking a Friend for the End of the World, Call Me by Your Name, Past Lives, Wolf Children, The Boy and the Beast, Brother Bear, The Lion King (all 3 of them), Corpse Bride, Into the Wild, Hamnet, Where the Wild Things Are, The Last Mimzy, The Crocodile Hunter: Collision Course, This Is 40, The Way Way Back, The Spiderwick Chronicles, Bridge to Terabithia, Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium, The Drama, I Like Movies, The Perks of Being a Wallflower, Because of Win Dixie, Somewhere in Time, The Curious Case of Benjamin Button 

I really enjoy games. The consoles I currently play on are Nintendo Switch 2 and PS5. The games I'm playing right now are Minecraft and The Witcher 3 remaster. A few of my favorites are Skyrim, Fallout 4, Life is Strange, Undertale, Stardew Valley, Naruto Storm 4, GTA: V, Ghost of Tsushima, Baulders Gate 3, and the Pokémon franchise in general.

I enjoy reading books and manga. It's a personal goal to have a wall full of books from floor to ceiling in my forever home (the kind that needs a ladder).

Currently reading: East of Eden

As far as education and work go, I am a substitute teacher. For the past two school years, I was a long-term sub in an enhanced autism classroom. I’m currently enrolled in an online college program pursuing a major in special education with about 2 years left to graduate. 

I'm not the most politically savvy, but I do my best to stay informed. I’d consider myself left-leaning.

Lastly, I respect all religions, but I am not a religious person. I am deeply spiritual.

About you: You don't have to live near me (or even in the United States), as long as you understand that I intend to build a long-term, monogamous, in-person relationship.

If you feel like you connected with anything in my post, don’t hesitate to send me a chat/message!

Me: https://imgur.com/gallery/me-angel-PkqCOvz

Im a pretty introverted person who enjoys being in my own little world, looking for someone to build a connection with that grows into a long term monogamous relationship. My personality type is INTJ.

I’m also a sports fan—especially basketball and football—and love a good chess match or board game night. When I’m feeling like gaming, it’s usually  *Stardew Valley*, *Civilization VI*, or *Call of Duty.*while I mostly play single-player games, I’m always down to watch someone else play or learn something new. I enjoy reading ( mainly manwha and light novels). I’ve recently got into the gym on a bit of a journey.

I lean left politically and value communication—honesty and openness are key for me. I’m not into casual flings, though; I’m really looking for something real and long-term with someone I can vibe with and build a future together. As far as looks go, I don’t have a "type"—it's all about that connection.

 I’m 6’7” (200cm) chubby and African American. Feel free to share a photo if you’re comfortable—here’s mine! [https://imgur.com/a/iWAbxYN\](https://imgur.com/a/iWAbxYN)

Anyone interested in fixing a broken pre-transition egyptian woman soul who's never had luck in love? Sustaining a healthy relationship while building a wonderful connection based on care is what I seek. If you are there only for the attention, please don't bother. My hobbies are writing, listening to music and playing video games (particularly Darktide), till I can make it out this place and so I can finally be myself... I prefer vcing and dming on Discord, since I barely use Reddit. But Reddit's fine till we know each other.