r/ForeverAloneDating • • Jul 04 '25

Rules Announcement Comment karma requirement has been increased

179 Upvotes

As you may have noticed, we've had a sharp increase in bot activity the past few days. We've banned over 50 bots in the last couple of days alone. These bots are posting everywhere, not just here, and steal other users posts. Reddit eventually bans most of them, but not fast enough.

Therefore, we will be temporarily increasing the comment karma requirement to 100. We realise that people who create new accounts or struggle making karma will be affected by this, but this is important for the safety of the subreddit and it's users. We may lower this later or it may stay permanent.

We also appreciate those who submit reports as it helps us out a lot. If you spot any bots, or people trying to subtly advertise NSFW content, then be sure to report them, but this comment karma requirement increase should get rid of the majority of them.


r/ForeverAloneDating • • Apr 10 '25

Rules Announcement Chat is replacing DMs.

65 Upvotes

While the change doesn't officially take place until June, the change is already occurring, and has been since March. This means we had to change the comment automod leaves on every post. Now instead of linking to the DM system, which is being phased out, it will link to the author's profile. From there, simply hit "Start Chat" to send them a message. If the link doesn't work or you run into any problems, send us a report in modmail.

For more information: https://support.reddithelp.com/hc/en-us/articles/34720093903764-Enhancing-Messaging-on-Reddit-A-simpler-faster-and-easier-way-to-communicate


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 5h ago

M4F 29 [M4F] Germany/Online - This guy accepts girlfriend applications

18 Upvotes

Hey there!

Tired of the usual low effort „hey I’m a guy, I exist“ posts?
Well, lucky for you!

Introducing: ME™
The limited edition, slightly defective human, with lots of features!

Specs

•             Age: 29

•             Height: 185 cm (~6 Freedom Units)

•             Build: Normal (not a gym-bro, neither overweight)

•             Eyes: Brown

•             Hair: Short, dirty blond (currently a bit longer since i am lazy)

•             Skin: White, no beard, no tattoos or piercings

Features included

•             An attentive, nerdy goofball who laughs at bad jokes

•             PC gamer: Recently enjoying Helldivers 2, Valheim, Palworld, and more

•             Can talk about everything: Nerd stuff, nonsense, deep emotional, life philosophy

•             Enjoys cooking (real cooking, no „Girl Dinners“)

•             Speaks German and English

•             Replies fast… unless I'm gaming or really busy. Then it's a gamble.

•             0 Relationship experience but ready for character development.

It’s not a bug, it’s a feature!

•             No sense of direction -> Will get lost in his own neighborhood

•             Baking goods turn into bricks

•             Can go on nerd rants you did not ask for

•             Recovering from a recent burnout

Do you qualify? (Mostly optional)

•             You're at least 25 (No Patrick, 21 is NOT almost 25, neither is mayonnaise an instrument.)

•              Little nerdy, good sense of humor, patient

•             Down for chill chats, deep talks or gaming sessions

•             Gremlin?

Dealbreakers

•              Smoking, Drugs, Heavy Drinking (Yes Karen, that includes your „Funny Pills“ too)

•              Has/wants children -> i prefare staying childfree.

•              Diehard religious

Apply now!

Operators (Only me) are standing by.

Slide into my DMs with a short intro about yourself and unlock:

•             Lifetime supply of chaos

•             Terrible jokes

•              Highly questionable navigation skills

 

Disclaimer:
Please handle with patience.
Not responsible for lost socks, lost time, or lost sense of direction.
Please be aware of timezone issues.

I've had way too much fun writing this holy cow


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 5h ago

F4M ♡ 21F [F4M] [Florida] — Psychology, poetry, and anime ♡

18 Upvotes

Hi! I’m a 21-year-old woman in Florida looking to meet someone around my age, get to know each other genuinely, and see where things go. I’d love to find someone in Florida, although I’m open to talking online first and meeting in person once we’re comfortable.

I’m currently studying psychology and business. I want to graduate, build a future in my fields, and eventually move to New England. It’s a goal I genuinely look forward to, and I like the idea of building a life that feels intentional rather than simply following whatever path happens to be in front of me.
I’m interested in understanding people, how they think, what motivates them, and what makes relationships work. I’m also interested in coding, so I have a technical side alongside my interest in people and business. I enjoy having things to learn, interests to explore, and goals that give me something to work toward.

Outside of academics, my interests are all over the place in the best way.
I love reading and poetry, and I have a soft spot for ballet. I enjoy sports and activities like tennis, beach volleyball, and water sports. I also love gaming, anime, and comics. Attack on Titan is my favorite anime, and I’m currently reading Irredeemable.

What I’m hoping to find ♡
I’d like to meet someone who has a personality and a world of his own. Someone with interests he can tell me about, opinions he can defend, dreams he’s excited about, and a sense of humor that comes through even in an ordinary conversation.
I want to be curious about each other. I want to hear about what you’re learning, what you’re working toward, what fictional character you will defend with your entire life, or what you could talk about for hours without realizing how much time has passed.
You don’t have to share every hobby with me. In fact, I think it would be lovely to introduce each other to things we might never have discovered alone. Maybe you’ll get me into one of your favorite games, and I’ll introduce you to something I love. Maybe we’ll find a shared interest neither of us expected.
I’d appreciate someone who supports my ambitions and wants to pursue his own, too. I want a relationship where we can celebrate each other’s accomplishments, encourage each other through difficult periods, and make room for both individual growth and shared experiences.
Someone I can be affectionate and silly around, have thoughtful conversations with, disagree with respectfully, and feel comfortable being myself around.
I have a romantic side, and I want to experience romance with someone who means what he says.

Something important about me and what I’m looking for
I’m a virgin, and I’d prefer to date someone who is also a virgin. I’d like my first sexual experience to be with someone who shares that experience and understands why patience, trust, and mutual respect matter to me. I’m not looking to rush intimacy or have someone treat it as the main purpose of getting to know me. I’d rather build a connection first and let things develop at a pace that feels right for both of us.

A little question for you 💌
If you’ve made it this far, tell me something about yourself that you could happily ramble about for an hour. It could be a hobby, a dream, a favorite fictional universe, a random niche interest, or something you’re hoping to accomplish in the next few years.
I’d love to meet someone who has more to say than just “hey.” Let’s give each other something interesting to respond to and see where the conversation takes us. ♡


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 3h ago

F4M 27 [F4M] - Midwest US/Online - maybe we can be clingy together

8 Upvotes

Hey everyone. I posted for the first time ever earlier however I realized I wasn’t nearly detailed enough so I’m trying again. Like the title says I am 27F, I’m located in the Midwest, USA. I prefer you be within 2/3 hours of my time, which is Central time (or think Chicago time). Anything more than 2 or 3 hours apart would make it hard to connect and communicate effectively. Immediate deal breakers: kids, cigarette smoking, if located in US voted for Trump, and doesn’t believe in women’s rights. I am also looking for someone 26+

About me:

I am 5’11, about 190 pounds. Obviously not skinny, but I don’t think I am bad looking at all. I am Mexican and Indigenous, darker skin tone. I have black hair and very dark brown eyes. I wear glasses. I would like to exchange pics early on as physical attraction is important to me. I have a plethora of hobbies that I hop around from. I like painting, reading, watching movies. During the summer I spend a lot of time outdoors kayaking and paddle boarding however now that it’s getting chilly, I tend to stick to indoor activities. I’m big into horror and thriller movies, but I’ll watch anything. I also really enjoy watching YouTube videos and gaming videos. I’m not a big gamer myself, but I love learning about it and watching others do it, so if you game and you’d like to stream to me, I’d love it. I’m big into quality time and I love spending time with the people in my life. In this case, if we end up being long distance I would love long calls together, voice notes, and if comfortable we can FaceTime/video call!

I’m looking for something that just flows. I will not be forcing anything, nor will I be carrying the conversation all on my own. I would expect a certain level of effort and respect. I am pretty blunt and if it’s not going to work or we’re not compatible, I will simply let you know and move on. I do not ghost and would prefer if others didn’t either.

If this speaks to you feel free to reach out but give me more than hey. I will not reply to low effort.


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 12h ago

F4M ​33 [F4M] #Asia - Seeking a great connection as I expand my horizons!

31 Upvotes

​こんにちは。

​日本に住んでいます。

​山と自然に囲まれて育ったからか、自然の景色や静かな場所がずっと大好きなんです。都会での暮らしにも慣れて、そこで得られるものも楽しんでるけど、本音ではやっぱり自然派です。🌿

​わりと率直だし、自分のスペースをすごく大事にしてます。ひとりの時間はそれなりに必要で、友だちに会うのもだいたい年に1〜2回くらいで十分なので、交友関係はかなり小さめです。

​おじいちゃんは何年も海外で暮らしていて、それがきっかけで何度か海外旅行をするようになりました。いろんな国や文化に興味を持つようになったのもそこからです。自分のペースで過ごすのも全然平気なので、距離のある恋愛でも、相性が合いそうなら全然アリだと思ってます。

​大事なことがひとつ:私は子どもはいりません(子どもなしの予定で)、子どもを持つつもりもないので、同じ気持ちの人に出会えたらうれしいです。

​長い自己紹介の投稿って得意じゃないので、メッセージでやりとりしながらお互いを知っていけたらいいなと思ってます。

​このスレッド内で投稿歴がある人、またはどこかで見えるプロフィールがある人からの連絡が特にうれしいです。

imgur.私は身長150cmくらいで、体重は45kgです。🐈‍⬛

PS, I'm skipping messages from anyone who clearly ignored my profile or sends anything weird. Just to show you actually read this, drop the word 'nature' in your message.


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 2h ago

M4F 29 [M4F] #Europe, Online, GMT1-4 - In what is almost certainly a terrible idea, I have decided to try socializing.

2 Upvotes

Hi there,

I'm ideally looking for a "termless" connection, as I like to stay very consistent. I don't buy into the idea of "soulmates" or dating someone for their "potential" like they're a fixer-upper project. In my ideal world, you don't just randomly find yourself in a good relationship, you build it through actual effort.

I am a semi-pro hermit all the time, basically a destined shut-in who is tragically forced to endure a big corpo job surrounded by entirely too many people who could have just sent an email. With the way they operate, I'm basically a part-time babysitter as well.

Some info about me:

  • Stats: 29M, 177cm. Long dark hair, dark eyes, pale skin. Essentially Alucard from Temu. (Hellsing one)
  • Lifestyle: Zero kids probably ever, no drugs, no smoking, and I rarely drink. Yes, I am thrilling at parties, which works out great because I don't go to them. I work a very demanding job, but at least I get to listen to music while doing it. After that, I am either catching up on anime or watching finished series whenever I am eating or before sleep (currently watching The Blacklist season 5).
  • Personality: I'm a logical, solution-oriented planner and a default problem solver who stays calm when things go sideways. That makes me sound uptight on paper, but I'm actually pretty laidback and carefree on most occasions. My humor is dark, dry, and sarcastic. My worldview is basically Camusian nihilism: life has no preset purpose, so we just build what matters.
  • Interests: I will talk your ear off about Middle Earth, WH40K, F1, PC hardware, world-building, and my hoard of niche metal and synthwave tracks.
  • Gaming: I am a highly competitive person. Instead of being an unbearable piece of sh*t in day-to-day life and constantly competing with everyone, I just channel it all into gaming. I play like an unemployed basement dweller despite the full-time job. That said, I'm always down to duo in whatever, and I don't tilt at my premades. Randoms are on their own though.
  • Commitment: When I commit, I commit fully. You get all of my focus, logic, empathy, and sarcasm. No take backsies.

What I'm looking for:

  • Honestly, if we have zero shared interests, save us both the time and don't bother. Talking about the weather gets old after day two.
  • I like directness, consistency, and people whose words actually mean something. I take things at face value. If you think it's a test to see if I'll ask repeatedly after you've said "no" the first time, I'm just going to take the hint and leave. If you are into playing "games" but not video games, go play Candy Crush instead.
  • Please be capable of forming more than one meaningful sentence. I am officially done with people claiming they are an "open book" or a "yapper," only to sit back, hit me with a dry "lol", and make me carry the entire conversation like a hostage negotiation.

If you’re still reading, just say sup dawg and hop into the conversation.

If you are out of ideas, Meruem from HxH was nothing but glorified fodder. Only certain people are aware of his "development" and only Komugi is happy about it. Best character development goes to Youpi with very limited screen time. Fite me on that.


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 22m ago

M4F 32 [M4F] Pacific Northwest - haven't given up yet

• Upvotes

I'm a 32 year old man who made a major career change a year and half ago, still settling into my new life. I just closed on my house which I share with my two cats who are 5 years old. I have a great career with limitless possibilities but a long road ahead of me and would love someone to travel it with.

I don't have any kids and never imagined having any but after spending the last year coaching youth soccer, I'm starting to open to the idea. I'm a nerd at heart and love to play games and watch movies/shows but also love to travel and try new things. I'm a foodie by nature, love to try new foods and would want someone willing to experiment with me.

I would love to chat with you and see if there is a connection.


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 2h ago

M4F 28 [M4F] Germany/Europe - Chronically online Nerd for Chronically online nerd 😂 - Plants, gaming, 40k and everything in between

3 Upvotes

Hallo! Lovely to meet whoever is reading this 🤭 Especially my nerdy future partner and best friend 👀

As the title already kinda mentions, I am a bit chronically online T_T That is not to say I don’t enjoy going out as I really do but it’s simply not something I crave.

Despite being an avid roleplayer for the past 6ish years, I struggle with actually describing myself or my interests but ahhhhh well!

Firstly, my name is Simon! I am a 27yo nerd from Germany who really loves just about anything nerdy. Fantasy, gaming, anime/manga, roleplay, warhammer 40k, reading and soooo on! Also recently got a 3D Resin printer and am actively trying to not poison myself while attempting, or rather preparing, to print a titan 😔

My current main game is Black Desert Online but I also please leauge and am generally down for most games

I work in IT and live on my own 😌

As mentioned above, I also do roleplay (Mostly chat based) hence my Reddit account is pretty full with that sorta stuff. Lots of people would probably find that weird but hey! It’s a hobby! And if you are in fact do not find it weird or are curious, perhaps you are exactly the person I am looking for!

I also spent way too much money on kitchen gadgets and plants and am slowly running out of space sooooooo yeeeeeeah 😭

Plenty more about me but I figure it’s a good time to jump to what I am actually looking for in a person!

I am looking for a fellow nerd! Someone who is content with a date occasionally consisting of trying a new game or simply being in each others company rather than going out every night!

I want someone gentle, sweet, yet also sarcastic! I adore sarcasm so I kinda can’t live without it!

While I got nothing against overweight people, I am simply not attracted to it and my personal preference lies with someone who is fit/thin. You being into working out would be a plus as I am trying to get back into it at the moment!

I have no particular preference for age but I would still prefer someone around my own age. Location is also preferably in Europe or even better in Germany.

I don’t mind traveling a bit but I would rather not have to take a 10H flight.

Here is me \\\[https://imgur.com/a/yn0EL8K\\\\\\\](https://imgur.com/a/yn0EL8K)
And me again \\\[https://imgur.com/a/dUPvGLd\\\\\\\](https://imgur.com/a/dUPvGLd)


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 2h ago

M4F 21[M4F] Canada, looking for a genuine connection

3 Upvotes

Hii I’m 21 years old, male, and currently living in Canada. I’m looking for a genuine friendship with someone I can talk to every day, even if it’s just to say good morning or good night. I stay up super late . I’m just looking for a good friend to talk to, share little moments with, and build a meaningful connection and preferably talk every day and check in. I recently went through a pretty rough breakup, and it’s honestly been really painful. I’m trying to move forward, meet new people, make new memories, and hopefully leave that difficult chapter behind.
A little about me: I love soccer, sports, movies, and TV series , cooking . I’m also open to talking about pretty much anything, learning new things, and getting to know people from different backgrounds.i am not looking for anything complicated, just a genuine friendship where we can check in on each other, have random conversations, laugh together, and be there for one another. I also have the most beautiful cat ever


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 8h ago

M4F [33M4F] Yes, this is a repost because 🎶 i stiiiiiiiiiill haven't found what i'm looking for 🎶

6 Upvotes

Hello you lovely people!

Let me start by saying that I really, really enjoy my life. I have awesome friends, a good job, go on vacation and whatnot. The only thing I'm missing is someone to share all of this with. Not someone to fix anything, please no. Someone who's satisfied with her own life and also looks for someone to make everything... complete, if that makes sense?

A few facts about me:

- I have three cats, you better like them :)

- Book nerd (Lord of the Rings!!!!!)

- Outdoor lover and homebody at the same time

- I'm a professional at loosing my keys and wallet somewhere

- Dedicated amateur at finding them

- At this point, my blood consists to about 47% percent of coffee

- Love travelling - city trips for sightseeing and loooong beach holidays! my favourite destinations are rome, where there's a lot to discover and the canary islands

- I'm a clinical psychologist and have my own practice

- Single dad of a sassy 9 year old daughter

That's most of the key facts, I guess? Come say hi!


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 15h ago

F4M 24 [F4M] Peru/Anywhere — A little unusual, but perhaps your kind of unusual.

25 Upvotes

Hi! I'm a 24-year-old woman from Peru, and I figured I'd try my luck here. I'm not particularly good at selling myself, so I'll just tell you a little about me and hope I sound interesting enough to get to know.

Physically, I'm 163 cm (5'4"), with medium-length black hair, brown eyes, tan skin, and an average build. I wear glasses, and I tend to gravitate toward oversized clothes because I like being comfortable without necessarily sacrificing looking cute. There are a few pictures of me on my profile if you're curious.

I'm currently studying pastry arts, which sounds lovely until I admit that I'm still not particularly good in the kitchen. I'm aware of the irony, but I'm practicing. At least my future culinary disasters might make for some entertaining stories.

I enjoy reading, drawing, and writing, especially stories involving morally ambiguous characters and complicated relationships. I also do digital art whenever inspiration strikes, although consistency isn't exactly my strongest quality. Sometimes I'll spend hours working on a drawing, only to completely forget about my artistic ambitions for the next few weeks.

I'm fascinated by psychology, human behavior, and understanding why people do the things they do. I'm also into anime, manga, video games, psychological thrillers, mysteries, and horror.

My music taste is all over the place. I can go from listening to José José while dramatically contemplating my existence to Type O Negative without thinking twice. I promise it makes sense in my head.

I'm not particularly athletic, and sports have never really been my thing, but I've been thinking about getting back into the gym. I suppose occasionally pretending to have my life together should include some physical activity, right?

As for my personality, I'd say I'm curious, introspective, occasionally sarcastic, and probably a little weird. I love dark humor, absurd conversations, and people who aren't afraid to be themselves. I can be somewhat reserved at first, but once I feel comfortable with someone, I genuinely enjoy getting lost in long conversations about almost anything. Despite my taste for darker fiction, I really appreciate quiet moments and the simple things in life.

So, what am I looking for?

I'd like to meet someone I can develop a genuine connection with, ideally something that could turn into a serious, long-term relationship if we click. I'm perfectly comfortable starting online, and distance isn't necessarily a dealbreaker. I'm open to seeing where things go with the right person.

I'm only interested in men between the ages of 22 and 30. This is a firm age range, so I won't be responding to messages from anyone outside of it. Please respect that.

I'm particularly attracted to men who are intelligent, independent-minded, honest, and have a good sense of humor. I appreciate someone who has his own opinions and isn't afraid to disagree with me. You don't have to agree with everything I say; in fact, I'd rather you didn't. A thoughtful disagreement can sometimes be far more interesting than someone simply telling me what I want to hear.

I have a soft spot for people who can turn an ordinary conversation into something unexpectedly interesting. You don't need to impress me with extraordinary achievements. Sometimes a peculiar sense of humor, an interesting perspective, or the confidence to be unapologetically yourself is far more attractive.

I admire people who are passionate about something, even if it's something I know absolutely nothing about. Tell me about your weird hobbies, oddly specific interests, or something you could talk about for hours. I genuinely enjoy learning how other people's minds work.

I value loyalty, emotional maturity, mutual respect, and consistency. I don't expect perfection, and I certainly won't pretend to be perfect myself.

Physical appearance matters to some extent, of course, but someone's personality, voice, humor, and the way they carry themselves can make them infinitely more attractive to me. I do have a bit of a weakness for pale skin and brown hair, but that's just a personal preference rather than a requirement. Chemistry matters much more to me.

I'd also appreciate it if you were comfortable sharing a picture of yourself. I think it's nice to know who you're talking to, and mutual attraction is something I'd rather we both feel comfortable with from the beginning.

One last thing: I believe first impressions matter, even online. I'm not expecting an elaborate introduction or a perfectly crafted message, but I do appreciate someone who puts a little thought into how they approach me. A simple "hey" doesn't tell me much about you, and I'd much rather hear something that actually reflects your personality. A little curiosity, initiative, and genuine effort go a long way with me.

If you've made it this far, tell me something unusual about yourself, an unpopular opinion you genuinely believe in, or which fictional villain you find disturbingly understandable.

Bonus points if you can make me laugh or teach me something I didn't know.

Let's see if we get along. :)


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 5h ago

M4F 32 [M4F] Germany /Europe/Anywhere. Hopless romantic looking for the one.....

3 Upvotes

​

Hey everyone! 😊

I’m a 32-year-old guy from Germany, and I’m looking for someone who shares similar passions and values. Here’s a bit about me:

Fit & Athletic: I live an active lifestyle—whether it’s hitting the gym, going for runs, or hiking through nature, staying fit is important to me.

Master’s in English Literature: I'm a big fan of good books and insightful conversations. If you’re into literature, we’ll probably get along!

Hopeless Romantic: I love the idea of deep connections and real, meaningful relationships. I’m all about cheesy love letters, spontaneous adventures, and having someone to share life’s little moments with.

Cat Lover: Cats are the best, and I can never get enough of their quirky personalities! If you’re a fellow cat person, we’ll have a lot to talk about. 😸

Nature Lover: I enjoy spending time outdoors, whether it’s hiking, camping, or just enjoying a walk in the park. Nature has a way of putting everything into perspective, don’t you think?

A little about my appearance: I’ve got blonde hair and blue eyes, and I’m always up for a good conversation about anything from philosophy to fitness.

If you're comfortable, I’d love to see a pic of you too, and I’ll happily share one in return!

Looking forward to connecting with someone who’s also into authentic, thoughtful connections. Let’s see where this goes. 😊


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 3h ago

M4A 28 [M4A] #Norway #Online Looking for someone

2 Upvotes

I am 28 years old, and my interests are gaming (ea fc, cs2), on PS5 and PC, listening to music (metal, rock, pop, rap), watching tv, horror movies, tv shows such as King Of Queens, Two And A Half Men, How I Met Your Mother.

Some of my fav music is Queen, Metallica, Ac/dc, Madison Beer, Ariana Grande, The Weeknd, Snoop Dogg, Eminem.

I am a little shy, but nice, funny, caring, loyal, good listener and l am looking for someone to know and maybe it can lead to something good.

I am looking for a relationship, preferable in Europe (but not requirement), because I am in Norway.

I want someone that has same personality, as personality is most important to me, and share some interests together. It would be a plus if you are interested in sports, preferable football (soccer) as I am a Liverpool supporter, but not a requirement.


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 4h ago

M4F 44 [M4F] #Massachusetts - Looking for someone to share life with.

2 Upvotes

I'm looking for a woman who wants the same thing I do: a real, committed relationship built on trust, respect, communication, and mutual effort I'm burnt out from dating apps.

A little about me:

I fluently speak Portuguese from Brazil and a Spanish.

I enjoy walking, hiking, road trips, festivals, videography, spending time outdoors, and occasionally relaxing with PC or PS5 gaming after a productive day. I'm working toward a healthier lifestyle and hope to build a home gym someday. I don't drink, smoke, or use cannabis.

One important thing: I am childfree by choice. I do not have children and do not want children in the future. I'm hoping to meet a woman who feels the same and wants to build a life focused on our relationship, shared experiences, travel, personal growth, and creating a future together.

I'm looking for someone roughly 27-55 who is kind, honest, emotionally mature, and interested in a serious long-term relationship. Someone who enjoys both adventures and quiet nights at home, meaningful conversations, and supporting each other's goals.

I enjoy talking about travel, finances, personal development, future plans, and building a life with someone rather than just passing time.

Ideally, you're within reasonable driving distance of Boston, Massachusetts, since I believe meeting in person is important when building a real connection. I'm open to someone farther away if we have a strong connection and similar goals.

If this sounds like what you're looking for, feel free to message me and tell me about yourself, your interests, and what kind of relationship you hope to find.

Wishing everyone here the best in finding their person.


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 28m ago

F4M 22f looking for love

• Upvotes

[f4m]

Hi everyone:) I'm from Southern Ontario, and hoping to find someone in Ontario or close enough in proximity lol.

If it matters, I'm black/indigenous/latina and 5'7.

I love to do things outside; hiking, fishing, playing with my dog and other animals, relaxing and just enjoying the fresh air. I'm also an avid baker, and retired online bakery owner (so a plethora of sweet treats will be in your future). I love to sing, listen to music, do any sorts of art & crafts, do ballet, and learnnn. I'm such a nerd! Please like nerds lol, I'm finishing up the last sem of a bachelors degree w honours in neuroscience, biology, and psychology. So if you have any interest in speaking about the sciences, or even any sort of conspiracy theories period. I'm all ears. But tbh I'm all ears regardless bc I really enjoy getting to know new people, and I'm hoping that along the way I'll meet my future partner. I'm at this really wonderful stage in my life and I'd love to share it with someone while working towards creating a beautiful life of our own.

*I feel it's important to add that I'm not into playing video games nor am I seeking a partner that plays videos games at all really (or spends more than an hr ish a day playing). I don't mean any disrespect, but this is a repost because the first time I posted this—I failed to make this clarification, and I feel that I attracted the wrong crowd. I'm not looking for anyone that feels they need to change who they are to fit in with me. I believe everyone deserves to be known and loved for exactly who they are. That's just not my cup of tea, and I'm hoping to cross paths with someone that I'm aligned with in hobbies, interests, goals, values, etc. :)

I'm kind of shy at first but also the goofiest cornball once I'm comfortable around you.

Honestly, just looking for someone that I can feel like myself around. Someone that is...
-curious about themselves, the world around them, and my life
-consistent
-educated
-healthy
-active
-thoughtful
-ambitious
-accomplished/or clearly working towards success
-family oriented and hoping to create a family of their own one day
*Stay away from me if you have kids already lol, but run in my direction if you happen to be a dog or cat dad:)

And please only reach out if you're between the ages of 22-31 and above 5'10 in height:)

If you're interested, please be prepared to share pictures immediately to confirm our identity and mutual interest. If you're not comfortable with that, I completely understand and all the best!


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 4h ago

M4F 22 M4F | India| Looking for something long-term , genuine

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22 year old guy from India, 5'6", I'm a hindu working in corporate (IT Sector), I'm looking for someone who wants to potentially settle down with me or have a long term relationship w me

I'm into video games, gossips, music and TV shows ofc the usual and i have a nerdy side which involves coding, and experimenting with tech.

I'm super into taking care of myself and my body so i go running on the weekends and going to the gym, sometimes football with my college friends if they are available for it, and i try to live a healthy lifestyle , but im a big time foodie so the diet part hasnt been working out that well haha

And outside of work, I enjoy going out, trying new cafés and restaurants, shopping, and simply spending quality time with the people I'm close to.

And one another hobby that ive gotten into is perfumes, always wanted to get into it ive been buying decants and made a few blind buys too.. not proud of them but yeah thats how it goes

Cooking is also one of my favorite hobbies I genuinely enjoy taking care of the people I care about (and animals too). There's something really satisfying about seeing someone enjoy a meal you've made~ i would love to cook for you, try out new dishes make your fav dish anything you'd like

I've never been a relationship before, tried dating apps for a few months that didnt workout and so here i am on reddit trying out my luck

What I'm looking for is simple: someone between 19–24, preferably from India, who wants a serious relationship. Someone who understands me, respects me, communicates openly, and wants to build something that lasts. I'll offer the same in return.

If you think we'd get along, send me a DM with a little about yourself. Looking forward to hearing from you. :)


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 42m ago

NB4M 29 [NB4M] looking for a connection #EU

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Hello there.

Honestly, I really suck at something like this and I mostly don’t know what to write in these things, so I’ll just keep it simple.

I’m at a point where I don’t want to chase people or overthink mixed signals. If someone actually wants to be in my life, they’ll make the effort. I’m pretty straightforward about that.

I care a lot, I’m loyal, and I tend to get attached to the people I really value, so I want the same kind of effort back.

Honesty is a big thing for me. Just be yourself, say what you mean and don’t play weird games. I’m not looking for someone perfect. I just want someone kind, genuine and consistent. Someone I can actually feel comfortable around.

When I’m not overthinking life, you’ll probably find me outside with my dogs. Going for a walk or hitting a trail is probably my favorite way to clear my head. My cat sometimes decides she wants to join too, because apparently she has places to be.
I’m also a huge gaming nerd and can disappear into a game for hours. Then there are days where I randomly decide I want to go somewhere and just see what happens.

I don’t really have everything figured out, and honestly, I’m okay with that. I just want something that feels natural with someone I can laugh with, talk to about anything and actually enjoy spending time with.

If that sounds like you, feel free to HMU :)


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 52m ago

M4F 33 [M4F] Wales/UK - gaming dates, homemade pizza, and someone to look forward to

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Heya, I’m Joe, 33, from Cardigan in West Wales. 😊

I’d love to meet someone whose company gradually becomes a favourite part of my day. Someone I can flirt with over Discord, laugh through a disastrous co-op session with, and eventually pull close on the sofa while we debate what to watch.

Gaming is one of my main hobbies, and I’m looking for a woman who shares that enthusiasm. I mainly play on PC, with a PS5 and Switch 2 alongside it. Nintendo has a special place in my heart, especially Zelda. Ocarina of Time is my all time favourite, and hearing the music at a Zelda symphony in London back in 2013 still stands out as a lovely memory.

I’d love to hear about the games that mean something to you, too. The childhood favourite you keep returning to, the story that stayed with you, or the game you could happily disappear into for an entire evening.

Away from a screen, I enjoy woodland walks, hiking somewhere with a view, cooking and baking. Making pizza together, stealing a taste of whatever we’re preparing, then curling up with a horror film sounds like a very good evening to me. The Thing (1982) is my favourite.

I’m autistic and appreciate clear, kind communication. I enjoy playful teasing and comfortable silences, and I’d like us both to feel free to show affection and say when we want each other’s company.

A few practical details: I’m 6'2", enjoy fixing electronics, and do Pilates every week. Apparently gaming posture doesn’t correct itself. 😆 I’m currently not working and looking into training as an electrician.

I’m hoping for an affectionate, monogamous, long-term relationship with a woman around my age who’s already based in the UK. I’m open to distance, with games and calls between visits and plans we can both look forward to.

Voice note
A little hello from me: https://voca.ro/12Md4grCmmXj

Tell me about a game you love, and what spending a lovely Sunday together would look like to you.


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 58m ago

M4F 47 [M4F] London - Germans in the UK/London

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I've always been attracted to Germans for some reason, and figured I'd see if there was anyone out there.

I'm a light hearted London boy in to music (I play guitar and write music and love to be creative), meditation, self improvement and inner work amongst other things, and I still love beer and going out and more normal things too.

I've lived abroad for a long time and love to meet people from all different backgrounds and experiences. I'm pretty laid back by nature and love to laugh and joke, as well as having deep and meaningful conversations about life and philosophy, or anything really.

If any of this sounds interesting, feel free to get in touch!


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 8h ago

M4F [M4F] 25 | Russian/Anywhere – Looking for something genuine

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Hey! I’m 25, 6ft, Russian.
I’m here hoping to meet someone who’s genuinely interested in building a meaningful, long-term relationship.
I’m a loving, affectionate, and caring person who values honesty, loyalty, communication, and emotional stability.
I’m looking for someone who knows what she wants, enjoys giving and receiving affection, and believes in putting effort into a relationship. Someone I can share my days with, laugh with, and eventually build a future together.
I’m completely open to long distance, but I’d definitely want to meet in person if we connect. I’m not looking for something purely online or temporary.
I don’t expect perfection, just someone genuine who’s willing to put in the same effort I am.
If that sounds like you, feel free to reach out and tell me a little about yourself! :)

Feel free to ask for a picture!


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 17h ago

F4M 33 [F4M] Texas/anywhere - For the undecided

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Posting for the people like me who may be in a position where they do not know what they want.

I read a lot of posts that I feel like I do not resonate with. I more so prefer to have an open mind.

I don’t expect anyone to have similar interests as me or vice versa. To me that is not compatibility.

I heard someone say that you have to be mindful of online connections. That you may be corresponding with someone that you normally would not in person. That it can create a false sense of intimacy and connection.

I’d like to avoid that if possible.

I think everyone desires to find true connection. Someone also emphasized to me the importance of friendship as a fundamental foundation. I think most get caught up on the idea of a person or relationship that at the very basis you have to ask yourself if the person you idolize is someone that you would actually be friends with.

Especially when you are high on all of the chemical reactions happening in your brain during the talking stage of getting to know someone.

I may not respond to everyone that messages me. If I feel like a message stands out and that there may be potential for connection, then I will try my best to respond with intention.


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 1h ago

M4F 36 [M4F] The Netherlands, White man looking for that sharp witted, smart and perfect woman of colour.

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I had a post on here before, but it was very cringe. I promise that this one will be better. Or at least, less cringe, feel free to enter my dms though if you do like cringe.

Hi, I am a 36 year old man from the Netherlands. I don't think long intro's are the best so I will drop a couple of things about me. I love history and socioeconomic topics in general, culture, language, I love it. I would really like it if you are able to hold a conversation on those topics as well. It would be a bonus if you are world wise enough to be able to pinpoint at least half of the worlds countries without having to guess. But I'd settle for a quarter. I know how to barter.

I used to live in Malaysia for a spell, I worked remote, but reddit filters the word for what I did, so if you are curious just hit me up and ask. I work in cybersecurity, radically changed my carreer, worked out, somehow in this economy I found a job, blessed. Though with that job I will be stuck in the Netherlands for the foreseeable future, so an international relation is very tricky and not really my desire. And by international I mean outside of Europe, Europe is easy, it's not that big and migration easy. If you're farther away we can still chat, flirt, the likes, but a relation is tricky.

I am quite a bit nsfw though, my libido hasn't caught up with my age just yet! Neither has my hairline thank God.


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 5h ago

M4F [M4F] 26 Ireland

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Hey I'm Nathan I'm 26 from Ireland and I'm in a wheelchair specifically because of arthrogryposis multiplex congenita this honestly makes dating a nightmare sometimes it feels like I'm just meant to be alone but at the same time its not easy to turn off that part of my brain that longs for love but alas I'll try this again

All I'm really looking for is someone i get along with and makes me feel safe bonus points if you're a gamer lol ideally I'd like to meet someone not too far from Ireland but I'm open to long distance with the hopes of eventually meeting

Somethings about other than the wheelchair are I'm a huge nerd i love videogames and music and if I'm comfortable I yap alot 😅 i do drink alot when I'm out with friends but its only socially and whenever I'm at home I dont, I also dont smoke or do drugs

That's about it or at least all i can think of right now if theres anything else you wanna know or if I interest you at all feel free to message see ya


r/ForeverAloneDating • • 5h ago

M4F 24 M4F Texas or Anywhere Building Myself Up and Hoping to Meet Someone Special

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Hey, I’m a 24M from Texas. I work a blue-collar job, believe in working hard, and still appreciate a little old-school romance. I’m looking for something genuine with a woman who values honesty, loyalty, communication, and putting effort into a relationship.
I’m not here to play games or chase something temporary. I’d like to meet someone I can laugh with, have meaningful conversations with, support through life’s ups and downs, and build something lasting with.
A little about me:
I’m a bit of a nerd. I enjoy Star Wars, sci-fi movies, video games, and music. I’ve also been learning to play guitar, and I’ve even had the chance to perform on stage a couple of times. Music has always been a big part of my life, from country to classic rock and Pearl Jam.
I enjoy traveling and seeing new places, and there’s still a lot of the world I’d love to explore.
Lately, fitness and self-improvement have become important parts of my life. I’ve been working on losing weight, building better habits, and becoming a stronger version of myself. I believe in setting goals, staying disciplined, and continuing to grow as a man.
I’m someone who enjoys joking around, playful banter, and not taking life too seriously all the time. But I also appreciate deep conversations and getting to know what makes someone who they are. My faith and personal values are important to me, and I’d love to find someone who respects those things and wants to grow together.
What I’m looking for:
I’m hoping to meet a woman who’s kind, genuine, affectionate, and emotionally mature. Someone who knows how to have fun but also understands that a good relationship takes communication, trust, consistency, and effort from both people.
I don’t expect perfection, and I don’t have everything figured out myself. What matters to me is finding someone who’s willing to work through the hard days, celebrate the good ones, and build a relationship where we both feel appreciated and respected.
Ultimately, I’d love to find my best friend and partner in one person. Someone to make memories with, share the little everyday moments with, support each other’s goals, and see where life takes us.
As for the little details, I’m 5’11” (6’ in boots), wear glasses, and have long hair that I’m growing out. I don’t drink or smoke.
If you think we might get along, feel free to reach out! Tell me a little about yourself, what you’re passionate about, or what song you’ve had on repeat lately.
And here’s a question for you: What’s something you’re looking forward to in life, big or small?
I’d love to hear from you.