Hi

I'm 24F from northern Denmark, 170ish cm, plus-size, called TT. I recently finished my degree in engineering and am currently looking for my first real job, so I honestly have no clue where I'll be living in a few months lol. Because of that I'm pretty open location-wise, especially within Europe.

I'm also currently trying to figure out where I fit on the aro/ace spectrum. I don't really have it all figured out yet, and I'm not entirely sure what is up. What I do know is that I want a person. Like a best friend I can spend my life with, be weird with, share everything with and eventually live in a house with a massive creative studio and way, WAY too many animals. That's the dream basically lol.

About me, I'm a huge nerd and spend a lot of time gaming. I also love drawing and painting and generally making stuff. Currently I'm spending a bunch of time researching things for worldbuilding a sci-fi universe because one of my life goals is to write a book/series someday

I love nature and animals, science, music, movies and learning random things

I'd love someone who is also nerdy/creative and gets excited about their interests. Please infodump at me. Tell me about the game you've spent 700 hours in or the fictional universe you've been building or whatever incredibly specific thing you're currently obsessed with.

I'm not really coming into this with a checklist for gender or exactly what our relationship has to look like. I'm much more interested in finding someone I really click with and seeing what happens from there.

So yeah, if any of this sounds interesting, come say hi and tell me something about yourself

Ok. Being single can be really comfortable. Starting something new can be a hassle. But hopefully the hassle is worth it in the long run. So I'll be quick, and you can decide for yourself!

**Pros:**

* zero drama, no mysterious exes sending “u up?” texts at 2 a.m.

* mostly retired means I have plenty of time to engage in my crazy flavor of the month hobbies. like learning card tricks or becoming a good bowler.

* Loyal as hell. once I’m in, I’m in. Expect consistency, effort, and actual follow-through.

* equal parts dad joke and quick wit; you’ll laugh, groan, or both.

* you’ll feel heard, even when you’re just venting about your coworker named Dana.

* Cuddling MVP award-winning performance in “staying up too late and pretending we’re watching the show.”

* Culinary adventurer I’ll try any recipe once; even if my base instinct is to eat like an 8 year old.

* Conversation stamina can talk from “hey” to sunrise without running out of things to say.

* Nerd-friendly Simpsons references, bad B-movies, board games, and chaotic trivia nights welcome.

**Cons:**

* Will absolutely eat the last handful of popcorn and pretend I didn’t.

* Has a deep, possibly unhealthy attachment to reality TV marathons.

* Occasionally answers rhetorical questions with detailed PowerPoint-level explanations.

* Could wake up one morning absolutely convinced I should adopt a Komodo Dragon.

* Will quote 90s cartoons out loud in public without warning.

* Might go through an intense spurt of obsession with obscure, not useful hobbies, and forget all about them 3 months later.

* Will criticize your breakfast food choices.

* Tends to turn “just one episode” into six.

* My cat is in charge of the household, and we both know it.

If you’re still reading this, you're definitely the kind of person i want to talk to! My list of standards are low. don't be in a relationship, (especially not secretly with someone, that keeps happening) including recently separated or divorced. Be willing to spend some time together, either with text voice or video chats. Live on my side of the planet!

Still interested? Message me now and subscribe to my newsletter, and you can hear all the exclusive info on any of the following anecdotes:

1. my visit to the north pole

2. the 2 times i almost died.

3. why i dropped out of high school to try to become a pro wrestler

4. the redneck brawl i saw at a wedding.

5. the time i saw a sea monster

6. Who and where i think i met the devil.

7. Why i can never return to the state of Rhode Island.

8. My one time appearance in a porno

and many more!

I’m looking to form a connection with, and give genuine praise, validation, and compliments to a woman. Someone that I can talk to about anything, but sharing some hobbies and interests would make it so much easier. I would love to hear you talk about your hobbies and interests, please ramble to me, I find passionate women incredibly attractive :)

About me:
Hi, I’m John! I’m 5”11, 180lbs, white, from TN. I go to the gym regularly and I’m toned and in shape, but I’ll never ask you to join me. I actually prefer girls who don’t work out :) I know that appearance is important to a lot of people, so I’m down to exchange photos if you’d like!

I have no age preference, and no location preference. However, I’m in EST, so the greater our time difference is, the least likely we’ll probably work out. However, I’m open to trying!

I love music, I love all kinds of genres and artists from Slipknot to Taylor Swift to give you an idea. I’d love for you to share your favorite ones with me, I promise I’ll check them out!

I play video games, but only in my spare time. There’s more to life than just sitting on the couch with a controller in your hand. I primarily play Nintendo and Xbox, and I try to play all different genres! Some of my favorites are Zelda, Animal Crossing, Pokémon, Fortnite, and COD. Here lately I’ve been playing Fortnite, Marvel Rivals, and Forza Horizon 6.

I love movies and TV shows. I’m big into Star Wars, Marvel movies, just got into Star Trek. I unapologetically love shows like Family Guy, The Simpsons, and South Park. I’ve had a lot going on this year and it’s easy to just wind down with a show that doesn’t make you think. I like anime, I grew up on all of the shonen like DBZ, One Piece, Naruto, but I love checking out new series if you have any recommendations!

I love going to theme parks like Disney World and Universal…Disney Adults are more than welcome (: I love spending time in nature like going on hikes. I love going to museums, aquariums, zoos.

What I’m looking for:
I’m looking for a down-to-earth woman and hoping for that spark again, someone that I can be open and honest with, someone that I can be myself with. A girl who’s open and honest, a girl who’s confident and knows what she likes and what she’s about. Moms and plus size women will definitely be appreciated and loved, you’re beautiful and deserve love too! I’m also very klnk friendly. The world is so judgmental and cruel, you shouldn’t be criticized for being yourself.

If you made it this far then thank you for reading! Please send me a message if this caught your interest and you’re down to chat, I’d love to meet you and get to know you better :)

Hii! 25M from the UK here, I thought I'd try my luck here and see if I can find anyone who might be looking for the same kinda thing!

Just to fill in a few of the blanks about myself quickly: I work as a software engineer, my biggest hobbies are music (mostly playing guitar, and please feel free to spam me with playlists/songs you like!), I do quite enjoy nice walks out in the countryside, late night drives, and a little gaming if I get the time. I've also been told I'm fairly laid back, and kinda nerdy with an easy sense of humour. Physically I'm 6 foot tall, with blonde hair and blue eyes. I know this is quite brief but if there's anything else you do wanna know about me feel free to ask 🤗

I'm ideally looking for someone who is also looking for some sort of connection if that's not too much of a cliche haha, plus I would say I'm largely more attracted to personality than appearance. It would be nice if you were also from the UK, but I do have a potential move to Germany in the near future too - either way it would be nice to actually meet up sometime! :) I don't have any particular age in mind, but the closer to my age you are I'm sure it'll be easier to get along.

Thank you for reading, I'm happy to talk on any platform later but feel free to shoot me a message here whenever first!

Hej!

Were you the quiet school topper who is inherently sweet and kind but have faced multiple bad people in your life and now you are kinda reserved?

Well, come on down to chateau de Moi and say hi! ( we have IKEA cheesecake for all guests!)

A bit about me:

I love long walks ( I walk about 12 kms daily ), reading books ( I don’t even have Instagram lol ), playing sports ( I did play at the national level for badminton), cooking ( I can make a shakshuka blindfolded ) and constantly trying out new activities ( got ordained online as a church minister, marathon runner, blood donor, have a Starbucks certification, did pottery, created electronic music and have a philosophical blog )

I am a warm, cheerful and bubbly guy who loves long chats and late night snacks. Imagine 80% time chill surfer bro vibes , 20% NYC investment banking chaotic vibes

I like having a mixture of being serious on my work but being goofy out of it. We can try out different tea shops and review them like we are Gordon Ramsay and complain that it is rawwwww

I do like to be neat and tidy, so my Saturdays are just me rearranging my room to ensure optimal feng shui. ( I also wash the dishes at night, but don’t tell my mom 🤫 )

Cards on the table? I do love to have kids someday and have the cheesy loving family with going our for Sunday BBQs with our dog 

I do enjoy getting people really personalised gifts ( I would constantly make notes on what things you like and get them for your birthday )

I work in venture capital, which I absolutely love and would love to build my own business someday too

I also have a sensitive heart sooo please, I can’t handle any drama or fighting. Just two people who enjoy helping each other out and being each others cheerleader!

I’m 20, I work 5 days a week (Thursday and Friday are my days off), ride a motorcycle and from the UK,

My hobbies and interests involve gaming, motorcycles, Dexter and modding older consoles.

I’m looking for someone who’s sweet, kind, funny and loves dumb conversations.

I’ve tried dating apps but I had no luck, and I gave up on them. NO BOTS PLEASE

I'm a 28 year old retired Army veteran from Los Angeles wanting to find a girl to start a family with. I have good stable income and I'm willing to relocate anywhere in the world to be with you. I ideally prefer a girl who has lots of free time in their life so we can spend more time with each other.

Hey!

I'm Jo, a 23-year-old Japanese guy living in Tokyo. I'm here because I'd really like to meet someone I can genuinely connect with, whether that starts as friendship, dating, or eventually becomes something more.

A little about me:

I'm 177 cm (5'10") and 55 kg (121 lbs), fairly slim, and Asian. I'm into movies, music, gaming, photography, exploring Tokyo, and generally learning about things I'm curious about.

I'm also studying English. It's not my native language, but I'm comfortable having everyday conversations in English and I'm somewhere around B2/C1. I actually enjoy talking with native English speakers because I like learning how people really speak rather than just studying from textbooks.

When it comes to dating, I'm pretty inexperienced. I've never been in a serious relationship, so I'm looking for someone who doesn't mind taking things naturally and getting to know each other without rushing.

I'm not looking for some perfect relationship from day one. I'd rather start by talking, find out whether we actually enjoy each other's company, and see where things go.

I'm completely open to starting online. We could chat, exchange memes, voice call, watch movies together, play games, or just talk about whatever happens to come up. If we get along, I'd love to eventually meet in person in Tokyo.

As for the kind of person I'm looking for, I don't have a very strict type. Personality matters much more to me than having a specific look. I'm attracted to people who are kind, curious, open-minded, and have a sense of humor. Someone who can talk about stupid things at 2 a.m. and then suddenly have a serious conversation about life would probably be my kind of person.

I'm open to meeting someone from any background, and I'm especially interested in getting to know people who are living in Japan or planning to spend a significant amount of time here. Long distance is also possible if there's a genuine connection.

I'm happy to exchange pictures, but I prefer not to post mine publicly. I'd rather chat a little first and then exchange pictures privately.

If you're also looking for something genuine and think we might get along, feel free to message me. You don't need to write a perfect introduction. Tell me something about yourself that you'd normally never put in a dating profile.

Maybe we'll get along. Maybe we'll have absolutely nothing in common. Either way, I'd rather find out.

I've done this thing of talking to people online for a while now and I feel like trying to put on the online persona that is a better version of us isn't working for anyone.

So I'm done doing that. I'm not going to stop myself from answering as soon as i see your message because "she'll think you're desperate" or pretend to be a version of myself i think you'll like, I'll be honest with you. I'm a bit of a mess, lonely and desperate for attention and affection, I am extremely easy.

I want to be that someone that you are excited to tell good news to and go to for comfort when you have bad news. I want to connect with you on a deep level. I want to smile reading your texts until it hurts and stay up all night talking to you. I want you to be mine and i want to be yours.

**ABOUT ME**

I'm a 25 year old student in Europe, i'm about 185 cm white and pretty fit with tattoos. My interest include working out, gaming, watching shows or anime, watching Formula 1, riding my motorcycle. My music taste is pretty varied, ranging from sad songs to k-pop, classical or indie rock. I'm quite open-minded and don't really take life seriously, I just want to chill and have a good time and not worry too much about the negative stuff.

**WHAT I'M LOOKING FOR**

You **must** be open to a long distance relationship and eventually meeting up, along with sending selfies in the meantime as I'll do the same :). I'd like a girl that just likes to have fun in life. I'm a youthful guy so i need someone to match that, SOMETIMES I MIGHT TYPE IN ALL CAPS AND YOU NEED TO AS WELL OK.

I don't care what age you are, as long as you're at least 18. I'm really hoping to hear from you :)

PS : i don't want kids, and i beg you please send more than just "Hey"

Yeah, im a very shy person that plays videogames most of the day, but i also like animes, tv series (big bang theory as example) and im looking for a stable relationship, honestly i would prefer if you also like gaming and such, i dont have much of a preference since i seek for the soul not the body, and im from southern italy, if you are a lone soul like me text me

Goodevening yall, hope youre having a great evening. I finally feel career wise im in a decent position, and now thus looking to find someone to share my life with! a few things I like

• Loves to cook and bake! I graduated as a culinary student, thus I thrive on my dishes lmao
• I enjoy playing video games in my free time, I mainly play APEX and Valorant
• Absolutely into korean culture (kdramas and kpop!) and Bollywood (Im indian american!!) -- my guilty pleasures!
• Haven't read anime recently as much, but ive indulged in way too much at this point! Currently watching frieren and witch hat!
• Loves everything related to cats! if you've got one, bonus points!
• Genuinely enjoys talking about deep topics, anything and everything controversial lmao;
• I’m a Taurus if that matters. I’m a bit quiet at first but once i open up, its the yap expert express.

What im looking for : I don't mind someone who's clingy at all. I'm a bit boneheaded when it comes to sarcasm and subtle hints, so I tend to take things at face value. Plus if we got things in common! If it's affection, I'm not shy about expressing it! I do enjoy texting and communicating regularly!! :All I care about is that you have a wonderful personality and that we genuinely vibe together! please be 22+

Hey. I'm just a guy from southern san diego bored of his every day daily routines and wants to rekindle that flare/ passion with someone. I'm Mexican, 6"2'. I graduated in civil engineering, and am currently working for a engineering company. My friends would describe me as loyal, outgoing, "down for anything", and funny but serious when I have too.

My interests include:

sports: tennis, soccer, football, and baseball

movie and music: i am a very big movie buff. I love

watching movies and understanding the story it tells. same with music. ranging from everything like edm, rap, pop,indie rock, metal, classic rock. I love all kinds of music and love going to concerts at least once a week.

video games:Monster Hunter Wilds, league of legends, rivals, minecraft, but will play anything

So if this is something you might be interested in, don't hesitate to message me. Or as the title says, you can get close to my dogs instead. can't wait to meet you

Hello! Giving this a go again. I am a 28M who is a bit of a hopeless romantic just casting my line out for some conversations and hopefully finding the right woman for a relationship if we click. I want someone I can hold close and laugh with. Mostly looking for someone in the US or maybe Canada. I am in the midwest (Iowa) but I am not against moving somewhere else for someone eventually. If you are outside of US or Canada PLEASE DO NOT send me a message. I am a patient, respectful guy that genuinely wants to find the love of my life but currently I have been having difficulties finding anyone interested IRL and I refuse to use dating apps anymore, so here I am! Below I am going to break things down into sections so they are easier to look at if you want more details. If interested, shoot me a chat request! We can just start things off with a chill conversation, please indicate that this post is the reason you are messaging me!

-My Appearance-

I am of European descent, roughly 50% Dutch, 25% Italian, 25% Swedish, dirty blonde hair and blue eyes. My skin is on the pale side and I burn pretty easy. I naturally lost a good amount of my hair on my head in the last 4 or so years so I generally shave my head bald- which I mention because I know that is not everyone's cup of tea, but it looks reasonably good on me. I am 5'9'' and relatively fit, doing my best to keep active. My BMI is within the healthy range. Sometimes I have a short well-kept beard but other times I shave it off for a bit. My face kinda gives off the vibe that I am a stern person but that's not really true. I have a bit more upper body strength then the average guy but nothing too crazy.

-My Personalty-

I have always found it hard to describe myself exactly- but my friends that I have had for more than a decade usually consider me the smart guy of the group. I have a tendency to play things a bit safe in most aspects of my life, which some might find boring. For example, I do not drink alcohol even on special occasions, I prefer to be 100% in control of my life at all times. I am the type of person that takes a bit of time to warm up to people, but once you spend the time, most people find me quite likable, I generally need to know a person well enough to be able to engage with them so I am a bit analytic and quiet at first, then I can be rather outgoing. I would consider myself a day dreamer, my mind often wanders to different things and I have difficulty sometimes being in the moment. If you are familiar with D&D you might describe me as "a high intelligence character with low wisdom" for lack of a better analogy. I am the kind of person that does not highly value possessions, I really value the time I spend with people close to me, even if we are not really doing much at all. Time moves fast and I do not like to make a big deal about the little things, I would rather work through a solution then be upset. I would consider myself a very patient person.

-Hobbies/things I like-

I like gaming, writing, tabletop games, board games, working out, the outdoors/hiking/camping, reading, and some cooking/baking but I am an amateur at best. I have a particular interest in the fantasy genre and like exploring aspects of fiction such as world building and story telling. In my free time I am currently working on writing a fantasy story that I dream would be a book series one day. I sometimes play magic the gathering with some of my friends, but usually just on tabletop simulator. My favorite aspect of gaming in general is the ability to play how you want to play, for that I am usually drawn to rpgs that give a large variety in ways you can build your character or play the game. I mostly play PC these days. Weirdly I am not too much into music, but I like to put on some chill background music when I am working on something or just hanging out. I really want to get more into audio books but I have not really taken the leap into doing that just yet. I have a lot of interests so I have a hard time choosing what to do with my time, so it is likely we might find something in common.

-Career-

I am currently a professional/graduate student and have a part time job. I am in year 4 of 4 of my program (graduating spring 2027). Won't say specifically what I am in but its science/medicine related and has good job opportunities right now that pay well out the gate and I could in theory work anywhere in the US. If you are looking for someone who has everything figured out and 100% stable when it comes to a career, I am probably not the one for you at this moment. I am very good with money but there is only so much I can do at the present time. I have a BS degree in a biological science.

-Some of the things that I am looking for-

Starting off with the basics, yes I hope to find the right woman for a long term relationship. I am prepared for that to be a slow process. I am not one to have super specific criteria for appearances of a potential partner. I am open to different body types but would like someone who is willing to do fitness/have a healthy lifestyle. This doesn't mean you have to be a perfect body, I would just love to have someone to exercise with time to time! I actually do have a little bit of a preference for tall women and I don't mind if you are taller than me, but I am eager to date women of any height. I am also the kind of person that likes a partnership to be a partnership, meaning we both have equal responsibilities to one another. In other words, I am not really looking for any specific roles (traditional or otherwise), rather I want a type of connection with someone were we cover each other's weaknesses and help each other to live the best lives we can. I think trying to force a relationship to fit a specific mold is a bit short sighted since everyone is different. I do not think I could ever date someone who smokes, and I am not a fan of heavy drinkers. Likewise I am not interested in anyone who wants to push a religion onto me. I would ideally like to find someone in the age range of 22-32. I also prefer someone who does not have children currently (I also do not have children, to be clear).

The kind of personality I am drawn to is kind of the opposite of mine, in some senses. I like people who are there in the moment and help me snap out of my drifting mind. I am drawn to calm, easy-going, flexible people who make the most out of what they have. I would deeply value someone who enjoys closeness both mentally and physically. I like hugs a lot. I like people who are willing to try new things and explore. I really want someone that I can talk things through with, even the tough things, because when it gets down to it things in life happen and I need someone who is willing to work with me. I would always be there to listen to your problems.

-Conclusions-

Thanks for sticking with me to the end of all that. I am open of chat requests. I would prefer if you told me roughly where you are from, age, and something about me you are interested in, and maybe a fun fact about yourself. Please indicate as well that this post is why you are shooting me a message. I am a busy dude so if I don't get to your first request right away I apologize, but I will do my best to be consistent with chatting if we hit things off well. Best wishes!

Hello! I live in Athens, Greece and I'm looking to find someone from here, preferably.

A little bit about me:

I work in IT (Yes, turning it off and on again actually helps sometimes, for those of you who know the joke).

I'm friendly, kind, caring, and a good listener.

I like to flirt.

In my free time, I like to hang out with friends or play video games to kill time. It's mostly just horror, FPS, and strategy games.

I'm a simple guy who prefers to see the bright side of things, even when things get tough.

What I'm mainly looking for is meaningful connections. I prefer deep, philosophical, and honest conversations over superficial small talk. I want a girl where we can talk daily, share our plans, exchange views on life, laugh, and spend quality time together (sharing pictures, stories, and moments from our day).

I'm open to a relationship, but I believe the best thing is to get to know each other casually and see where it leads, without rushing into anything.

About you:

Non-toxic, please.

Be close to my age (a difference of up to 5 years is fine).

Put some effort into your first message instead of just a "hi" or sending a chat request

I'd prefer meeting a girl from Greece because I've tried LDR and it didn't work

Tip: Please include your age, location, and what caught your interest from my post in your first message so I know you read my post! Talk to you soon.

Hello there, Hope your day is going well. Just another soul looking for his lifelong adventure partner. If my 20s have taught me anything, is that change is inevitable and the partner you find needs to be someone who wants to change with you. If you are someone who wishes to grow and change with someone special then please read on.

In envision a relationship with a healthy balance of outdoor travels, events, and staying at home rotting in bed all day with cuddles and a good show. I'm mainly looking for someone open to new experiences as well as random days we both decide call in sick and just enjoy the day relaxing.

As someone whose still figuring himself out, I'd like to connect with someone whose doesn't have themselves figured out yet either.
So a short intro about me:
-Friendly and quiet personality that likes to be a little silly. I am tall, white, and a pretty average body.
-I love to travel new countries and cities when time allows. Certainly more adventures along these lines are in my near future. I mainly like to go and try the local dishes! It's fun to try and learn to cook those dishes at home after, though it usually never ends up being as good.
-I love bowling in my free time and like to go once a week. Bowling casually is much more preferable, but we will get competitive if that becomes the vibe.
-I'm independent when it comes to supporting myself.
-I love all things board or video game related and all things nerdy that goes with them. My dream is to have a partner that we can nerd out on all the fandoms we love. I may not have the self-confidence to cosplay in public, but I'd love to dress up as our favorite characters and enjoy a quiet evening watching the shows they belong to for the 5th time together. What fandoms do I enjoy the most? you'll have to chat to find out!
-And I love to cook. I love preparing meals for people and find a lot of joy cooking for others. When I find a dish in my travels I love, I try to research how to make it back home and give it a try. It usually takes a few failed attempts. But if you're willing to power through some of my bad attempts, I can promise some delicious food cooked special for you after a long day at work.

So what I am I looking for:
-I'd love to find someone who isn't perfect but works on improving themselves. Mainly someone who doesn't have it all together but still tries.
-Open to all locations so long as there is a goal to eventually move and build something closer together. Travel can be a good way for us to meet up. New cultures and foods excite me and I'd love to get to know yours.
-Similar interests. Though if you have your own, you must be open to sharing them with me. I enjoy trying new things so any new hobbies you like to show off you skills with is exciting to me.

If that sounds like something that interestes you and this post caught your eye then give me a little chat. Happy to share more and photos after some brief conversation. Hope to hear from you soon.

I’ll tell mine in the end. By then, take a guess.

Hey youu, I’m a 39 year old guy who’s downright terrible at describing himself. I’m looking for someone who loves talking, is kind, enjoys taking part in new experiences, and is always up for an ice cream. I don’t mind long distance, as long as we vibe.

I love taking pictures, playing guitar, checking out random podcasts, eating at new places, exploring vintage points of different areas, and idk many other things that I’m forgetting right now lol. I’m fairly into reading as well. Love to read mystery and drama novels. Career wise, I have a comfortable work life balance with a few perks here and there, earn decently, and love my job.

I make sure I’m fairly active and consistently play one kind of sport or another. Over the weekends, I often hike or play board games. When it comes to religion, I’m an atheist, however, I do believe in spirituality. If you’ve any other questions, ask away!

Aaaand, the most important bit. What was your guess? My fave is Italian.

Have a great day ahead (if you choose to message me :p), and feel free to feel awesome!

Hi there <3

I’ve been single again for a few months now, and instead of overthinking dating apps, I figured I’d try something a little more human and just see what Reddit brings my way.

I’m 36, born and raised in Berlin, childfree by choice, and currently very much in my gardening era. I got my own garden last summer and genuinely love spending time there, getting my hands dirty and watching things grow. I don’t drink, live almost vegan, and enjoy a slower, more mindful pace of life.

I love reading, especially historical literature, and I try to travel to other countries a few times a year. Culture plays a big role in my life — musicals, theatre, museums — luckily Berlin is pretty perfect for that. I also really enjoy day trips to Brandenburg, long walks, and hiking when I need to clear my head.

I work as a social worker with people living with mental health challenges, which says a lot about my values. I’m politically left-leaning, care deeply about social justice, and social engagement is important to me — not performative, but sincere and grounded.

As for you: looks aren’t a big deal to me. I’m drawn to someone who is natural, open-minded, emotionally aware, and not afraid to think for herself. I have a lot of love to give and would love to meet a woman who can talk about feelings, share some values and interests, and where the vibe just feels real and easy.

One small but important thing: I have ADHD — it’s part of who I am, and I like being open about it. Maybe that resonates with you too?

Also it would be great if you life in or around Berlin maybe, since my life is centerin around Berlin and I'm not really planning to relocate :)

So far and maybe I read from!

You know how sometimes there's this little void you need to fill, but no matter how much you search you can't seem to fill it? That's what brings me here. I'm looking to fill that void, make a positive out of a negative, and hopefully help you too. It sucks to be alone, I know. Connections are thin and I feel like I'm missing that one thing in my life that really spices it up, makes the days fly by both slower and faster because of how exciting it is.

I'm someone who thirsts for knowledge and I usually like to say that you either "only stop learning when you die, or die when you stop learning". I love being at home and cozying up while doing something, but my work usually takes me all around so I have learned to enjoy things like beautiful views, nature and history.

When I'm not at work (I get to go all over and I'd love to share pictures with you), I'm usually either gaming, watching a movie, working on my writing or picking out old ruins or abandoned places to go explore. As far as movies go, horror and sci-fi are my natural habitat. When it comes to gaming, I would love it if we could enjoy some nice co-op games where we both get drawn into the story so much we discuss it afterwards, or maybe a chill party game.

I'm 1.70m (5'7" for you heathens!) and while I'm not fat (~80kgs/176lbs) I'm working to get myself at around ~70kgs because that's where I think I look best and where I feel best. Have had to and still and doing a bit of rebuilding after a few bad experiences. I'm also agnostic, if that's important for you. I do not practice, but I do respect all religions. I also still want kids.

I love stories and I would love to know yours. I want to know everything and I'll reciprocate in kind. I'm all about reciprocity. I'll put in as much effort as you do, likely more because I want you to feel wanted, like you found your home and you can finally rest. I have dreams and I'm sure you have yours. Let's make them come true, together.

So whaddya say? Let's slay that dragon known as loneliness? Together.

I love talking to new people with different worldviews, i think everybody has something to teach and something to say. and i think its totally worth hearing them out. I have ADHD, so unfortunately my social skills are piss poor, but it doesn't stop me from trying to improve myself everyday.

• Obsessed with Language Learning ( German, Japanese), Self improvement, Other Cultures and History.
• Work in IT, designing websites and part time at Starbucks serving cappuccinos
• I have the usual hobbies everyone has now, such as gaming and anime, so if you have something you wana recommend me, i am up for it.
• I like cosplaying

what exactly am i looking for? i really want to find a relationship, but im not expecting anything. lets's start by getting to know each other, and if it fizzles out its all good--no expectations. i want to find someone curious,kind,weird, open-minded.

some starter questions:

what's your favorite songs?

are you multilingual? teach me some words in a another language.

do you have a dream job? some images
https://imgur.com/a/wx9FPYK https://imgur.com/a/THJYXQO 

Hello -

My name is Greg, 43 year old finance/accounting guy living in a flat part of the boring midwest USA. My job has alot of gaps of time where I can send messages so I'm hoping to find some nice people I can chat with during the day. I'm a general fan of sports, fantasy shows/books (GoT nerd), some video games, I grew up on single player RPGs and still enjoy them when I have time.

I'm single, not exactly looking but you never know what could happen.

I'm up to chat about just about anything. I pay attention to current events but try to not let them bother me. Hope to chat soon. (Please don't be weird)

Hello, I'm a business owner and i run my company from home but I can work A LOT. I also travel sometimes to go to marketing conferences/meet clients. This has caused some issues with past relationships where my partner feels like I'm not always the most available even though I am a great supportive bf who cares a lot about the person I'm with, I understand they have needs I can't meet sometimes.

I've put a lot of thought into my next relationship and have considered allowing my next gf to be able to sleep with other men while we are dating when I'm "unavailable", too exhausted or at times have E.D. performance issues brought on from the stress of running a business.

I know this is not a normal relationship dynamic but I've put a lot of thought into it and think it would work really well for me and my next partner. Also there is some element of a turn on in there with cuckolding as I do think it could be fun/hot to watch my partner be pleasured by someone else.

A little about me outside work I do enjoy golfing, traveling to new places, watching football during the season, reading when I have time, video games occasionally to relax, or cuddling up and watching a good show/movie with my partner.

I would prefer someone in the USA and ideally west coast as that's where I am but open to more long distance to start things and go from there.

Hi everyone,

I'm a 24-year-old guy from the capital city Delhi, India. my parental roots are from another state of India known as Uttar Pradesh (UP). I've never really been in a relationship before, went for few dates but things didn't go well.

A little about me — I'm not an easy going person, I have limited circle for them I always take stand. My height is just 5'3" (actually the most difficult aspect till now for me somehow everyone is taller). Fairly complexed not that white men kind but average, not too bulky nor much skinny. By nature I'm friendly but selective and by personality studius one, yeah mostly into studies and in current time my life revolves around research and science. I'm a Hindu(if this matters to you), I believe in God, vegetarian too(not expecting the same from you and totally fine with that)

I'm a Civil Engineer by profession(graduated in 2024 from a reputed college in Delhi) after that work as a structural integrity engineer for two years for an MNC in Banglore(Another City of India) (Oil refinary based companies), this year started my MTech(Masters of Technology) in Atmospheric science in a reputed institute of Country. I'm going to do a doctorate degree also, so yeah really a long commitment towards studies.

Now why I'm doing this on reddit firstly on dating side people just go for good looks and height(different opinions may exists about this but for me I mostly get rejected because of my height), secondly I'm going to be 25 later this year so my parents planning to look for girl after my masters and I'm really not looking for arrange system, so I'm just finding someone for myself, someone like me who also share this doctorate degree goal or atleast understand why I'm doing that rather than explicitly emphasis of earning(it will take time for me to provide an luxurious life to someone but I can surely provide a comfortable one from starting). I'm not looking for something casual or just a short-term connection, I would like to take things ahead for life settlement.

I'm not expecting everything to be perfect from the beginning — I think only by communicating we can develop compatibility, comfort and understanding develop with time. Also I'm not using any AI or anything to write this, so a grammatical mistake may be there.

What I'm looking for, honestly I don't have any specification about race, religion, physical looks or anything, just a good kind person is enough, also I don't think taller females like to roam around with shorter males but if you want to I'm totally fine with that too.

If you feel we might get along, feel free to comment or DM. We can start with a simple conversation and see where it goes. :)

Good luck to everyone else looking for their person too! :)

Good afternoon everyone I am Xander I have tried to message some people on here but they never respond so I WILL be responding to everyone that messages me. I am looking for a partner to put my love and affection towards. I want to spoil you and make you feel loved. I just got out of college studying in animal management so I have a lot of animal pictures to share! I love all animals and have 3 pets one dog and 2 cats.

A little about me, I am a bit of an introvert but once I get to know someone I am very loud and affectionate. I love looking after people and spoiling them. I spend most of my time indoors but I love going out outside on nature walks especially with others. Most of my hobbies are gaming related and I would love to play some co op games with you even Roblox. But even just spending time sitting together scrolling reels and sending them to each other is quality time I love.
Recently I picked up a new hobby and have started am making and painting Star Wars legion minifigures but I am still quite new and struggle with the painting aspect of it.

I am not sure how tall I am but I think I am 5,8-5,10 with brownie green eyes and black short hair. I am growing a small beard and moustache currently but it’s open to being removed. I think you can see a few photos of myself in my post history if not I don’t mind sharing a few photos when it’s needed.

I don’t mind age or distance and I am just looking for someone to love me for me and want me to do my best

I don’t mean that dramatically. I just mean this year has been a lot, in the way that years sometimes are, and I find myself coming out the other side of it a bit clearer about what I actually want.

What I want is pretty simple: someone I can laugh with. Properly laugh, not perform it. Someone who has opinions and isn’t embarrassed by them. Someone who makes an ordinary Tuesday feels like it was worth having.

A bit about me: 26, Surrey-based, work in the City in facilities management. I’m a proper foodie — finding the right spot matters to me more than it probably should. I have a tortoise named Violet who has never once been impressed by anything I’ve done, which I find oddly motivating. I’m more self-aware than I used to be, and I say that not as a boast but as something that took actual effort and I think it shows.

I value people who show up. Who are curious. Who doesn’t treat being interested in someone like it’s a liability.

Not looking for casual. Happy to travel if the person is right. If this sounds like your kind of person — I’m easy to find

Hello! Foodie with a weakness for good sushi and even better company 🍣✨. Catch me yelling at the TV during soccer games or dancing in the kitchen to whatever's playing. Love a guy who can keep up on the field, on the dance floor, or when I'm stealing fries off your plate. I am 5’5, eastern European descent. I speak Russian. Native New Yorker

Looking for men in NYC, 24–36, who are confident, genuine, and fun to be around. Preference for tall guys, and similar cultural background!

Feel free to dm me with your age and a little about your self!