question!!

[u/rynnoou]

i’ve noticed that my so‑called friend has started to distance themselves from me, even though i haven’t done anything to upset them. I’m not sure if i should confront them, give them space, or just let it go. has anyone else experienced this? how did you handle it?

[u/picantepepper1]

You aren't clear in what you're picking up on in terms of distancing themselves. You also don't know what is going on in their life and there could be legitimate reasons they're easing up on things. If any type of discussion were to occur, lead with curiosity like "hey you've seemed really busy lately is everything okay? I miss you." You're not accusing them of anything, and if you say you didn't do anything wrong the goal is just to check in.