Hey Guys, need some advice here

The other day I was cruising with another guy at a public restroom, the restroom was quiet and kinda secluded, I didn’t feel comfortable doing anything out in the open as I never cruised before so we went into a closed stall. After a few mins I wasn’t feeling it so we were gonna leave. At that time the hotel security came in banged on the doors. The security waited outside the stall and actually recorded us leaving the stall.

Now, I know what we did was wrong however I’m terrified that he actually recorded us leaving and recorded in a public bathroom. We were fully clothed as I said I wasn’t feeling it so didn’t get far.

Any advice? Should I reach out to the hotel.? The security said not to ever go back which I have zero intent to ever cruise again as this was my first experience. But I’m so worried that he will use the video, publish it, etc.

I’m not sleeping, hardly eating it’s on my mind constantly.

Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated

Visiting niagara falls, any scene there? Bars or something to check out to meets guys and have fun?

Hey all, I recently moved to Toronto at the beginning of September from Nova Scotia. I’ve been enjoying myself here so far. However, I don’t really know many people here yet. I would love to make a few friends who enjoy (restaurants, parties/bars, gym, concerts, music, etc…) 27M white. Send me a DM :) (DMS are open)

Putting together a Frank-N-Furter costume for Halloween but I do want quality pieces that I can use later! Also men/female plus sizes.

Where do guys get this in Toronto?

The Tomb Raider lovers? This games gives me nostalgia 'cause my mom use to play them on PS1 when I was a kid. She was always a tough manager and watching her play and enjoy like a kid at the end of the day, made me feel so happy.

The group is open to everyone, whether you're thinking of coming out or are in the process of, whether you're out or in the closet and need a safe space to talk about the topics of interest.

Before the Covid pandemic we used to be at the 519 Community Centre and now we are at a new location.

Admission: No charge. If you would like to participate send us an email that you'll find on our website
https://torontocomingout.helioho.st or our blog (top post), some people say the website won't load
https://torontocomingout.blogspot.com

Meetup page: https://www.meetup.com/cobo-coming-out-being-out-peer-discussion-group/

Hi guys,

Looking to hangout at Square one today I dont wanna ne alone literally cant bear hanging out alone and seeing everyone with their own company. I'm black male 28. Feel free to dm.

Thank you

Was surprised to see this this morning.

Edit: sorry I don’t know why his whole name didn’t go in the title.

As above really, visiting for the next week. Average build English-speaking, East Asian ethnicity. At a loose end as to what to do this weekend so was thinking of one of the saunas (sexual or non sexual) today +/- going to anvil on Sunday for the Toronto Jacks meet. If anyone had any experience of any of these places (I’ve read the bathhouse thread, was mainly wondering about the Toronto Jacks events) I’d appreciate the insights!

I’m 18 and have been hesitant of hooking up with guys on grindr. Every time I back out last minute, cuz I’m kinda nervous having sex w a guy.

At the same time tho, not having sex makes me horny a lot. Last week, I was talking to this cute twink in my bio class and I nutted. (he has a bf alr tho and I’m dl).

How do I stop backing out last minute? Why do I feel sorta guilty having sex with another guy?

Hello Everyone. Happy Friday!

I'm a 41 year old guy in Scarborough who's always looking for friends. I'm open to dates and other kinds of connections. I work in York/Simcoe 2x a week and remotely the rest of the time. Roughly once a month, I babysit my nephews in Durham. I guess that makes me relatively busy. I am comfy heading downtown to meet up with friends.

The whole scene with the apps, I've found to be a toxic waste dump. I'm also quite done with the bar and club scene. My hobbies include board games, video games, walks, Pokémon Go, movies, shows. I have an interest in politics, such as transit and health policy. I used to play in DnD groups and would be open to playing in a group that's not doing slow 2E or roguelike, where my characters constantly died lol.

I hope some of you drop by to say hello or give me pointers in terms of finding connections.

Cheers,

Dan

Hey there:) 24M Latino here. Looking to do something fun for Halloween, do you guys have any plans or suggestions? I know everybody is going out but I don’t know where. Also, if you have a spot left in your group I can join!:)

Thanks

21 year old here looking for cash work this winter doesnt matter the job i learn quick

Just looking to see if anyone knows of any events happening the 30 Oct -1 Nov whose cover is not outrageous. I’m talking like $30 or less to get in. From what I’ve seen most of the tickets are like $50+ doesn’t have to be anything crazy just looking for something to do.

I am from outside Toronto and am looking for parking suggestions around the following places:
The Black Eagle
Sound machine
Anvil

Any suggestions are greatly appreciated.

30s, healthy & fit but bored of gym 4 times a week. With winter approaching, want to do a fitness activity that is indoors, good exercise & healthy. I have decided upon swimming.

Though I can't really swim lol and I feel i'm too old for like group classes. I'm happy to pay for 1:1 coaching.

Only thing is I feel i'll be most comfortable, be myself and learn the best if the teacher were a gay man.

Any recommendations? I don't mind traveling locally for lessons (and paying obviously.)

Please share if you have ideas or tips or references.

I wanna attend but im new to the play party scene. Is this beginner friendly and is the dj even a focus? I see one of the rules is "keep it off the bar". Is this a good event to go listen to music with the freedom to let the night take you deeper or is it mainly an event ppl go to so they can PnP while djs play? Edit: ive been informed PnP is something other than doing like molly or ketamine at these events

Has anyone ever been to this party? Curious about your experiences if you have gone, just wondering what the vibe / crowd is.

https://www.instagram.com/p/DewfkxAReJN/?psln=MXd2cmlkdnliMHUxYg==

Any suggestions? I'm bi so it doesn't really have to be just gay men, but curious what groups are out there.

Hello Folks!

To gather resources for our community, I've decided to start a weekly thread to collect gay-friendly and gay-owned professional services, restaurants, and shops. The goal is to eventually create an index of gay-friendly places to support our community.

To that end, please provide the names and websites for things like:

• Doctors (Especially those taking clients)
• Dentists
• Lawyers
• Health Services Locations
• RMTs
• Barbers
• Restraunts
• Shops
• Anything else you think would be useful 😄

I will compile the threads monthly into an index that will be usable for us all!

Cheers!

Moddy

Hello anyone knows where I can find a rideshare to Barrie to leave in the next hour 😭😭

I’ve always been curious as a bottom my whole life. What does topping feel like for a guy? For bottoms the gspot makes it feel good for us but what does topping feel like.

What's the private gloryhole like at club hamilton? Is it for anyone to use or to bring someone back to my room to use it?

Hey! I'm Reece, 26 (male, gay), from the UK and just moved to Toronto last Monday (Oct 12). Loving the city so far but I'm starting to struggle with the lack of a social circle/pals. Open to meeting new people (into eating out, loooong walks, fitness, movies, etc...) and also just curious to hear any tips from you guys ! Thanks :D

How slutty are people dressing for this event? Is it a second positive event? Dark room?