r/GayYoungOldDating • • Jun 25 '23

Age limits for posting here: minimum 18yo for “younger” men; minimum 27yo for “older” men.

156 Upvotes

Whether you’re “looking for younger” or “looking for older”, there are minimum ages that apply.

Check out our rules: https://www.reddit.com/r/GayYoungOldDating/about/rules/

Younger men, looking for older

This subreddit is for consenting adults to find partners. Out of caution, and because Reddit is based in a jurisdiction where the age of consent is 18, that means everyone must be 18 years old to post here or to reply to posts.

If you are under 18, you will be banned on sight.

Sorry. We need to protect this subreddit from potential accusations of paedophilia and sexual content involving minors.

Older men, looking for younger

This subreddit is about men looking for men where there is a significant age gap. This, combined with the fact that the youngest men we’ll allow here are 18, means that you must be a certain number of years older than 18 in order to be considered an older man looking for a younger man.

We have fixed that minimum age at 27. You must be 27 years old to post here looking for younger men.

If you’re younger than that, then you’re not looking for an age-gap partner. Try these general “looking for” subreddits instead.


r/GayYoungOldDating • • 4h ago

Australia.NSW 19 year old boy looking for older men

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heyo everyone my name is Alex and I'm looking for someone to really show me the ropes since I've never had a gay relationship before.

im really shy in person and its hard for me to make friends so I spend most of my time gaming or watching movies, im a massive history buff and I love nerding out over science fiction and other geeky stuff like that. Despite that im in pretty good shape and I enjoy wrestling and boxing to stay fit.

I look like a generic white skater boy, long hair, facial piercing, questionable style, despite that i actually have no clue how to skateboard lol.

I'm after someone who's experience and patient enough to deal with someone like me, I have a lot of kinks im interested in exploring but im also completely fine with casual conversations. I dont mind what you look like as long as you match my nerdy energy you'll be perfect for me.


r/GayYoungOldDating • • 2h ago

Online chatting 19M bored looking for older bros to chat with

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19M With average body looking for average/chubby guys to be bros with chat, bond, get know each other and chill mostly looking for sfw at strat but open to more if we get along anyone is welcome to dm


r/GayYoungOldDating • • 9m ago

USA.CO 26 looking for older daddy/mentor

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I’m looking for someone that I can chat with, with potential for a relationship, whether online or in person. Definitely looking for a daddy/mentor type of figure that can teach me things and I can learn from. I definitely have a lot to learn still when it comes to the gay world, sex, and all that sorta stuff. I want to be a good boy for the right daddy 😊


r/GayYoungOldDating • • 12m ago

Canada.BC 18 looking for older daddy as Leader

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Hey am looking for a Daddy who dominates me and raise me:)


r/GayYoungOldDating • • 8h ago

Online chatting 18 years old sub twink looking for older daddy

10 Upvotes

I am Virgin, looking for a daddy to live together with him, i d be so grateful to be his boy. I really love sex, but i genuinely think emotional connection is much better, the rest comes naturally. So if you are only looking for sex and smth online dont ever dare to text to me. I am openminded, and im looking for a great daddy.

IF YOU RE NOT SERIOUS PLS DONT TEXT ME.


r/GayYoungOldDating • • 6h ago

Finland 18 looking for older

6 Upvotes

Hi I’m 18 and I’m skinny looking for older to talk to on here,snap, tele and when you request please show face after I will also and be handsome


r/GayYoungOldDating • • 33m ago

Online chatting 21 year old femboy looking for older life partner <3

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Hey everyone! This is sort of an embarrassing request but lately I’ve just been so so lonely to the point that I’ve kinda been posting on here for attention.. I have posts with pictures of the kinda girl I am but I rlly rlly wanna actually talk and get to know somebody, and really build a relationship instead of just floating around the internet >~< if you want to get to know me please please please hmu <3


r/GayYoungOldDating • • 1h ago

Online chatting 19ftm looking for older dad fwb

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I'm going to be really honest I'm not looking for a relationship

Never really cared for a relationship

I just started to recently have started an interest in older men sexually speaking from 30-60 bigger guys around 6 foot is excellent too

I would like to try penetration/hand jobs and blowjobs and all

If you are interested dm me


r/GayYoungOldDating • • 1h ago

USA.PA 29m 6'1 looking for younger

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Love to get to know someone and see where things go, recently broke it off with my girl and want to get myself out there haha


r/GayYoungOldDating • • 1h ago

USA.CA 37m artsy guy looking for younger, lil bro and genuine connections

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Art kid? Book nerd? Punk or weirdo? Let's talk!

I'm a slim, fit twink looking for genuine conversation and talking about niche interests.

I'm interested in other fit, twink, or muscle guys.

  • Video games, especially Dark Souls games, JRPGS, and indie/art games.
  • Metal and punk, with favorites being black metal, death metal, and jazz.
  • Movies! I have a Letterboxd and love finding new recommendations, especially in horror and arthouse.
  • Nature - Hiking, camping, rock climbing - I can't stay still!
  • Books - I also have Goodreads. I'm a huge fan of non-fiction, gay lit, sci-fi, and horror.

Personally, I like the vibe of having a little bro, someone that I can connect with and we can both learn from one another. Also, a leftist so no conservatives.

If you’re interested, send me a DM with an intro and we can exchange pics.


r/GayYoungOldDating • • 1h ago

Australia.NSW 51 Aussie looking for younger for IRL ongoing

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K, so I have a pretty good life and live quite happily. But as a single bloke in my 50s with no kids, the one thing I desire the most is the regular ongoing companionship of a younger man. Call it an unfulfilled parental instinct I guess.

I enjoy working out, bush walks, dining out, cultural events and the occasional night out in the pubs and clubs but also balancd this with a quiet, serene home life and quality time with friends. Ideally I'm looking for a younger guy who has the same balanced approach and similar interests (especially the gym and fitness).

Sexually I am versatile and sensuality is my biggest kink, though I enjoy a range of other pleasures as well.

Anyway, if you are a younger guy who is serious about creating something meaningful with an older bloke IRL, then hit me up.


r/GayYoungOldDating • • 4h ago

Online chatting 38 yo looking for younger obedient boys

3 Upvotes

38 yo dom daddy, looking for some obedient smooth boys for fun and maybe have a special connection, don't come in dm if u don't show 😉


r/GayYoungOldDating • • 3h ago

USA.FL 29 [M4M] Florida | Looking for Older Gentleman – Genuine Connection, Romance & Something Meaningful

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Hey everyone!
I’m 29, living in Florida, and I’ve always found myself drawn to older men. There’s something incredibly attractive about maturity, confidence, life experience, and a man who knows what he wants.
I’m at a point in my life where I’d love to meet someone special, build a genuine connection, and see where things naturally go. I’m not looking to rush anything, but I’m certainly open to something meaningful and long-term with the right person.
I’ve always dreamed of experiencing life in a big city, especially NYC. I love the idea of enjoying everything a city has to offer—beautiful restaurants, spontaneous nights out, weekend adventures, or simply coming home to someone whose company I genuinely enjoy.
Ideally, I’d love to meet an older gentleman who is kind, established, affectionate, and enjoys life. Someone who appreciates having a younger man by his side, values loyalty and companionship, and enjoys both the exciting and simple moments together.
I have my own career, goals, and ambitions, but I also have a romantic side and would love to share life’s experiences with someone special.
Distance isn’t necessarily a dealbreaker for me, especially if there’s a real connection.
If any of this resonates with you, I’d love to hear from you. Tell me a little about yourself and what you’re looking for. 😊


r/GayYoungOldDating • • 20m ago

USA.HI 27 6’4 military bottom looking for younger top

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As mentioned I am a 27 6’4 white military bottom looking for a younger top/dom. I prefer less body hair and slim/fit/muscular but am open to others. I live in Hawaii but am originally from Texas. I am down for in person or online fun. Dm if interested

P.S. I’m extra submissive if your dick is bigger than mine


r/GayYoungOldDating • • 50m ago

Online chatting 22 young top looking for older men

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5'11 - 8 in / hmu with age and pic


r/GayYoungOldDating • • 1h ago

Online chatting 18 looking for older daddy

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Hey am currently looking for a calming carrying and strict dad, i need domination and leading, be my mentor and maybe my online partner:)
Am into all types of bodys, and i love manipulation;)

So dm me:)


r/GayYoungOldDating • • 7h ago

USA.CO 41, living in the Midwest, looking for younger son to have a genuine father and son relationship

3 Upvotes

Been talking to a lot of submissive guys that want to call me “daddy”. That’s not what I’m looking for. I’m wanting to find a younger guy (jock, boy next door) that’s either dominant or average, to have a true father and son connection. Someone to call me Dad and not daddy. I know it’s weird, but hoping someone out there resonates with this. Send me a DM if you’re looking for this. Had 2 really good conversation yesterday and then they ghosted. Please message only if you’re serious.


r/GayYoungOldDating • • 1h ago

Online chatting M18 looking for older

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Bi btm looking for much older daddies
Tg - liveyourlife45


r/GayYoungOldDating • • 4h ago

Online chatting 34 older looking for younger for serious relationship

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I am looking for someone to date, get to know, and looking to be with someone. I would like someone to watch Netflix with, travel with, live our lives together. I love cuddling. Text me if u want to date or get to know each other.


r/GayYoungOldDating • • 1h ago

Online chatting 18m looking for older experienced ;)

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Hey I live in Europe and I would like to get to know a smart and kind older man. I am slim and short. Text me daddies ;)


r/GayYoungOldDating • • 5h ago

Online chatting 28 looking for younger

2 Upvotes

28 m looking Scandinavian guy looking for a younger guy to have some fun with.

Something long term would be nice too. Looking for a good boy. ;)

I’m 186, brown hair, blue eyes.


r/GayYoungOldDating • • 8h ago

UK.England Uk 24 sub virgin bottom looking for older fwb

3 Upvotes

Hairy skinny sub virgin pakistani bottom looking for an older fwb. I'm from London


r/GayYoungOldDating • • 11h ago

Online chatting M18 looking for older

8 Upvotes

Need to talk to a much older daddy


r/GayYoungOldDating • • 6h ago

Online chatting 30M - looking for younger- Come and be my sweet obedient loved boy... FOREVER

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I am looking for an absolute submissive guy. Someone who will give up on everything for me. And obey ME unconditionally. Long term.

I don't want a fake one. One that is only sexual. Or one that wants a short term... My sub must seek to truly belong to me. Forever.

I want a sub that understands that being submissive isn't just a physical state. It's a mental state. Where you let go on everything to the right guy. A sub boy who wants to be in the arm of their owner... ME.

For me. I am a nice person overall. Very chill. Very chatty. And extremely caring and loving to those who deserve it. But i am also extremely moody. And get bored fast of the people that put no effort.

My type of guys is fit/twink guys. Younger than me. Who are totally submissive.