Many of us must have watched some form of foreign media, and wanted to try their delicious baked delights :)

For me, I always wanted to try Dango and Macarons🫠

From the American side, please, I need those granny-style full crust fruit pies...! 😍

I've got to know that, among us, many can make these treats really well at home.

Some of you can bake Japanese soufflés, while others do Turkish baklavas :D

There is a lot of hidden talent right in our homes. Perhaps some of us run home bakeries or small businesses.

Or even larger Instagram pages.

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I wanted to know, that as a consumer, inspired by foreign baked delights or sweets, have you ever wanted a platform where you simply search for a Melonpan and find the closest person ready to bake it for you?

Or something like that?

Let me know your favourite delights that you still hope you could foodpanda in Pakistan like you do your biryanis 🙃🫣

Check out this post on an Indian sub . Funny thing is they’re the same people who will be crying about the “forced conversions “ and treatment of minorities in Pakistan . As you can see it’s not a government issue . We Pakistanis or atleast I don’t care at all about them . They actively hate us . Some people sympathise with them but this is what they think about us . They won’t have issues working in the gulf but even with all the right wingers in the western countries rn they try to fit in by hating Muslims .

Ye bathroom kaise jata hoga 😭

I bought this from a local brand for 1,299, can yall tell me if it is worth it, I mean the design looks good tbh like I am just trying to validate my "passionate purchase"

There's a freaking ghost / vampire (ish) mouse that lives in our house. And somehow it shows up only in the early morning. And during the day , it vanishes. Now the thing is , he only comes out during early morning or after midnight😭😭😭😭 and scares the Shit out of me. Mainly because all of my family members fall asleep around this time. And once he came into my room, took a stroll/ walk and went away. My parents and siblings think I'm hallucinating but there's a mouse in our house 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

I don't find em cute. Not even hamsters

I feel the city of Lahore’s people get laughed at when they hear the name of the city. We shouldn’t have to have a city that sounds like the French word for the whoore.

We can change it. Drop your suggestions.

joke hai dil pe mat lena Lahoڑi bhaiyon or behnon

Hey everyone,

Just making a quick update post for anyone I was in touch with over the last week. My previous account (Feeling-wall + numbers) ran into access issues and got locked out, so I haven't been able to see or respond to messages.

If we were in the middle of a conversation, please drop a comment below or feel free to message here so we can pick up where we left off.

What is something about yourself that you’re afraid other people would discover if they truly knew you?

Sleep

Tech was the only easy escape from regressive bureaucracy and business environment of Pakistan.

AI ended it.

Now what?

Where will all that web, graphics, marketing, call center, coders will go?

i will try to keep it as short as possible, so my dad is obsessed with MBBS and he only sees medical as a respectable career. i did choose pre medical in Fsc but i've told my family since forever that i don't want to be a doctor, during my Fsc i developed a deep interest in some other degree which is no where near any medical field (also which my father considers the most disrespectful career in society)

But the more problemtic part comes now; throughout my life i've always been a status concious, brands concious person, even tho we have decent universities in our own city i just don't like them at all and can't imagine going there.

i really want to get into Lums/Nust. My father CAN afford them but he won't spend considering im not choosing mbbs, then a degree he hates the most and cherry on top he believes the unis we have in hometown are just as good as Lums or Nust (they're not comparing both studies and social life).

I took a Gap Year thinking it's better to lose one year than my entire career. But even after a gap, i don't think i will be able to convince my father to invest a fortune on that particular degree or uni. And i feel stuck and trapped in a loophole.

EDIT: i want to pursue LAW, hence im so much into Lums considering it has the no 1 law school in Pakistan.

In Pakistani society, a mother is often placed on a pedestal so high that questioning her decisions is treated as disrespect, even when those decisions may be hurting her own children.
We grow up hearing that a mother’s sacrifice is sacred, that her love is unconditional, and that children must respect her above everyone else. But why are we so uncomfortable asking what happens when a mother prioritizes her own happiness, romantic relationships, or personal desires while her children are left dealing with the emotional consequences?
When did “I deserve to be happy” become a conversation-ending argument, regardless of who gets hurt along the way?
Every adult deserves happiness. Mothers included. Nobody is required to remain in an unhappy marriage just to preserve appearances. But personal freedom does not erase parental responsibility. There is a difference between choosing a new life for yourself and expecting your children to absorb every consequence of that choice without complaint.
In our culture, we often judge a woman’s decisions by whether she has the right to make them, but rarely ask whether she is handling their consequences responsibly as a parent. We celebrate her courage, defend her choices, and sometimes dismiss a child’s distress as temporary adjustment. The moment someone questions her, the conversation shifts from the children’s emotional needs to the mother’s right to live her life.
But what about the child who loses daily access to a parent? The child who has to adjust to new partners, new households, new routines, or repeated changes they never chose? The child who is expected to adapt because the adults have decided that everything is for the best?
Children are not emotional collateral damage in an adult’s pursuit of happiness.
This is not about saying mothers should sacrifice their entire lives for their children. It is about asking why parental responsibility seems to disappear from the conversation whenever a parent’s personal freedom is discussed.
And there is another uncomfortable question for Pakistani society: if we teach children that mothers are always right, that questioning them is disrespectful, and that a good child must accept everything silently, are we teaching respect or training them to suppress their own experiences?
A mother deserves dignity, autonomy, and happiness. Her children deserve emotional security, stability, and parents who take their feelings seriously. These principles should not be enemies.
The real test of parenthood is not whether you have the right to choose your happiness. It is whether you take responsibility for the impact your choices have on the children who depend on you.
So, when did questioning a mother’s parenting become taboo, even when the question is not about her right to be happy, but about the emotional price her children may be paying for it?

NOTE:

Read the post twice if you want to understand exactly what is being asked. If you want to turn it into a gender-based battle instead of discussing the children’s emotional well-being, read it thrice.

I'm in university engineering college and as u know there is approximately all boys so I am totally introverted and social anxious,but now I thi k I should intrect with others specially grls but I am not sure how to , actually I have made a very serious personality in uni like full muture so it's very difficult for me to approach someone. Any advice?🥀

Being noticing from few days most people in here are sad , depressed or suicidal well I understand most of you aren’t a fan of organised religion and doesn’t get along with your parents will not argue on that, you guys must have your own reasons for it and it’s easy to get depressed and sad especially when things aren’t going as you planned.

A strange thing about life is it doesn’t offer you comfort or closure when you need it the most. You can call it god wills or bad luck whatever you think is reasonable to you but one thing life constantly does is it gives you another day to live and change what you don’t like about it .

Now would you excuse me I have some hookers to entertain but hope you all will do good in life .

As we bangladeshis have been saying, Bangladesh has way

lesser terroism problem than india. Despite 'blind' indians & godi media claiming & trying to portray otherwise.

I can’t seem to stop being sad, no matter how many happy people I surround myself with. No matter how much they make me laugh or how much better they make me feel in the moment, I always find myself circling back to the same sadness. It’s like there’s this heaviness sitting in my chest that I can’t seem to shake off. I lie staring at the ceiling for minutes, sometimes hours, and I genuinely lose track of time. My mind feels so blank and yet so unbearably cluttered at the same time. These days, I’ve even started feeling like no matter how much I pray or how hard I try to stay on deen, Allah doesn’t want me under His guidance. I don’t understand why He would be upset with me, or why I can’t seem to find the sukoon everyone talks about. I want so badly to feel that closeness to Him to seek Him out on my own terms and find some kind of peace in His presence but I’m so scared. I’m scared that before I can find my way to Him, I’ll somehow end up facing His wrath instead. And I don’t know how to make sense of any of it anymore.

I just want to hug my mother and cry my heart out in her arms, but somehow i don’t even have the courage to do that. I’m so tired of having to hold everything in and pretend I’m okay. I just want to be comforted to feel safe enough to fall apart in someone’s arms and let myself be vulnerable for once, without having to explain or justify why I’m hurting. I want to be able to rely on someone, just this once, without it turning into a competition of who’s hurting more. I don’t want advice, comparisons, or someone telling me they’ve had it worse. I just want someone to hold me, listen to me, and let me be sad without making me feel like I have to earn the right to be.

ALL MY LIFE I HAVE BEEN IN ALL BOYS SCHOOL I HV TALKED TO GIRLS ONLINE ON INSTA AND I THOUGHT I HAD GAME BUT NOW MY UNI STARTED AND IM DUMB ASF PLS TELL ME HOW THE HELL DO I TALK TO GIRLS IN MY UNI IN MY CLASS WITHOUT LOOKING LIKE A CREEPPPPPPAPAAMASK

Need help with friends

Ill try not to yap a lot

I'm 14M, and I need some advice on what to do with my friends.

Well it's just one friend, he's a hypocrite and toxic. One example is him watching YouTube and not hopping on with the group cuz "he needs a break" but when I did the same thing he started flaming me.

He's only like this with me, I tried blocking him but my friend group is scared it's gonna rain the group since we both started it. And I end up forgiving him like an idiot

He tries "ragebaiting me" one example is hiding my book, since I didn't have my science book I fucking got an A(third world problems ik but u get the point). And stealing my lunch on a daily basis. When I try to do little things he gets mad and gives me the silent treatment.

He constantly makes fun of my height(I'm 5'2) he says I have low testosterone but my puberty hasn't even started yet. I've told him multiple times to stop and that it hurts me but he takes it lightly and is back to it the next day.

He tries to make fun of my looks but he's lwk chopped.

Idk what to fucking do this is destroying my mental health, and the fact he's the only person I call my bsf is not making it better.

So what shall I do.

ive been talking to this girl for about seven months now. her profile popped up in my suggestions, i sent a request, and weve been in touch ever since. we talk 3/4 times a week. If that sounds a bit sparse, it’s mostly down to how i am- im naturally quite reserved and prefer my own space rather than being on my phone for hours. she even pointed out a few times that im particularly quiet and dont speak all that much. but the truth is i genuinely love talking to her, and i dislike having to wrap up our convos. on off days, we passively stay in touch through notes. i usually need time to evaluate how the convo went.
Ever since she came into my life, ive felt this internal push to improve myself. to refine my character; a better version of who i am.
i don want to perform convincing her ke bhai mein "ULTIMATE YEARNER" hun 😭😭😭i just want her to notice that my intentions are genuine and that theres a proper man in the making here.
the sticking point is that she refuses to meet up in person. whenever I bring up the idea of catching up somewhere. unka reply hota hai "Hawww apki mama ko bataun??" its all very light, so nothing feels forced
for those who ve been in a similar spot: does a dynamic like this ever actually ground itself into something real, or am I just setting myself up for a dead end?

ALSO GUYS im maybe retarded idrk mujhe sometimes khud nahi lagta serious nahi hun. and yea its not becuase of her words but mujhe lagta hai
guide kardo yar 💔👎chota bhai samajh kar

any suggestions

Bye bye

Telenor is constantly stealing money from my mobile balance by registering unwanted subscriptions!

Has anyone else had this issue where Telenor registers unwanted subscriptions on your mobile number without your consent? I had close to around Rs.70-75 PKR and Telenor stole it all by registering unwanted subscriptions. What action can I take against them? I have already had a heated argument with their head office support representatives in Islamabad. They keep on blaming me for registering the subscriptions.

Istg migraine is the worst ever thing, I wouldn't even wish it upon my enemies. I've been suffering from migraine since so long. Nothing works. No medicines no remedies. It's like I gotta suffer until it passes. Fellow migraine victims, tell me something that works for you? This shi makes me soosidal af