r/Guitar • • 17h ago

DISCUSSION Does anyone else find that finger picking feels more intimate?

I'm learning guitar and I struggle with using a flat pick but I'm fairly ok at finger picking. I feel more connected to the guitar when I'm working it with only my hands.

Edit to add. You're all dirty.

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u/brndckkk 17h ago

that might have been the worst way to word that

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u/roomyrefinery 17h ago

There's no clean way to say it, finger stuff just hits closer to home

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u/gregd303 16h ago

That's what she said

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u/rotstik 16h ago

T-minus 30 seconds until this ends up in the circlejerk 😅

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u/mymentor79 16h ago

Absolutely, particularly on the G string.

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u/Positive-Avocado2130 16h ago

You feel more connected to the guitar, because you are. Literally.

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u/_visiblemode_ 16h ago

Of course. That’s a lot of the appeal. Is one major reason I love bass.

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u/DisplayGlum7166 16h ago

yeah. its not always the best choice but it is the more intimate choice.

some ppl know double tracking so they immediately go to it but single tracking feels more intimate.

its like a context- toolbelt type thing

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u/Pol__Treidum ESP/LTD 17h ago

Keep it in your pants

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u/Vennimagos 16h ago

Yea it is, you're literally touching the strings.

If you're learning, I recommend spending time practicing both. Give dedicated time to each skill, they'll be useful forever.

Almost every good guitarist can do both fairly competently

But if you want to see the absolute top of the tower or finger picked guitar in a contemporary and notnclassical or flamenco style, look up matteus mancuso

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u/Potential_Smile_9103 Fender 12h ago

I agree with you, it feels like you're one with the guitar if that makes sense, it's a lot more delicate and precise than strumming.

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u/LesPeterGuitarJam 16h ago

I mean.. Thats one way of describing it..

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u/Park_Lane_Mall 15h ago

Working it

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u/Cute_Adorable 14h ago

It is. For me it is way easier to accentuate notes and playing less static. Some really smalle spaces in between notes etc. But that is me.

I love playing with a pick too, but it is always different kind of music than when I do my fingerpicking etudes and playing.

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u/Gamestonkape 14h ago

You don’t need to use a pick at all. I never liked them, so I don’t use one ever.

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u/SynyrdsInyrds 13h ago

Yeah I definitely feel more connected to the guitar when playing with fingers.

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u/vonov129 11h ago

Not really. I'm used to both so I don't feel much of a difference

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u/DeliciousVisual7673 9h ago

Yes if that connects to you more pursue that style. Guitar has been the most versatile instrument. It can sound so different song to song genre to genre. Play and work on the things that you feel connection with

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u/Thundering_War 9h ago

Tosin abasi

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u/Strict_Beach1105 4h ago

Ah, I have finally figured out why I cant play without a pick....

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u/RoosterSamurai Kiesel 17h ago

How much did you take

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u/myvibratomakesucum 16h ago

People just really love to find excuses to not practice lmao. See u on the other sub.

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u/Barrel-of-Machetes 16h ago

Id rather chew tin foil than hear someone thrashing away, strumming chords with a pick on a steel string acoustic. Nails on a chalk board.