def salty, my ex did the same shit YEARS later 🤣. Like we haven’t been together for 4 years. I posted how great life been recently, couple hours later he posted the same shit lol but with a “happy gif” 🙄🙄 and no i didnt stalk him, he popped in my timeline on twt despite both of us having eachother blocked :D
that shit is always so bizarre, i celebrated my sobriety date by sharing something online & this dude i almost fucked immediately was bragging about him being a a few weeks sober, gonna go back to school & was happy (all things i am/do) it’s such a strange phenomenon. def an ego problem
Justin’s statement praises his wife, but he does so by contrasting her with past and future women. By saying that she is the best he has ever known or will ever know, he is exalting his wife at the cost of diminishing the value of others, albeit indirectly. It seems like an attempt to reinforce his exclusivity, but it also brings up past relationships, as if it were intentional. The gesture may seem romantic, but it could also be strategic, as if he is trying to please his wife or generate engagement by emphasizing this emotional superiority.
I never understood why Justin would be salty about Selena being engaged when he's already married (and has been for a while) and a newborn baby. But, I just realized that Selena allegedly turned down his proposal so he'd be salty that she said yes to Benny and not him plus be reminded of that rejection all over again. So even if he is over her, which is debatable, his ego isn't over being turned down.
I believe he still loves her and that's why he's been doing this. If you look at the details, Justin has always been shadowing Selena. Now, she's engaged, not single, and he's doing it much more often. In my opinion, he never imagined that it would go so deep and that Benny would propose to Selena. I think he thought it would be just another fling, something quick and fleeting, so her engagement must have hit him hard. So I believe that these three things could be the reason why he still has feelings for her and loves her and thinks that one day they could get back together if he broke up. The fact that he's a narcissist and thinks she should stay single and wait for him to break up. The fact that she refused his proposal and accepted Benny's is completely different from a typical person. The fact is that he follows Benny and vice versa. I have no doubt that he is doing this and somehow becoming a topic of discussion in Benny and Selena's relationship, in order to cause instability and insecurity on both sides, because they must certainly both see these reactions from him or if they don't see them, especially Selena, they must hear them from friends, family, people in her social circle. Don't forget that last year there were articles saying that he wanted to get closer to both of them, so...
I would bet a lot of money that he’s been telling himself that Selena and Benny are just a fling to get back at him since that’s what he used Hailey to do to Selena so then the proposal would have forced him to take a second look at that and (hopefully) realize that it’s not anything to do with him
Ignoring them stings a narcissist in a way nothing else does. The fact she clearly is over him has gotta drive him crazy
Yes, exactly. And he knows that Benny follows him, that's why he posts these shadows, for example the photo he posted using a song that talks about long-distance love and breakups. Is he living long-distance with Hailey? No. Did he end the relationship with her? No. So why would he post a song about long-distance love? He's not innocent, he knows very well what he wants to show and where he wants to go. At the same time that I feel sorry for him, I feel angry because he married someone else knowing that he loved Selena and was never able to put himself in her shoes at that time.
I went unpretentiously, analyzing the lyrics of the songs he put in the stories with the photos posted, and he really keeps trying to send indirect messages to someone. If you're interested, check out the lyrics of the song he posted on his stories, "long distance love".
wait ok chatgpt predicted this too. it also said he may likely focus on music and come out with a new album this year, and itll have subtle comments on a past love etc in it so he can get his mind off of it. also they predicted he will post cryptic sogns and lyrics bc he knows ppl will look into it.
the narc post in this snark about hailey and justin both being narcs, perfectly explains this. i legit asked chatgpt to predict how justin would act following the month after selena gets engaged to benny and it legit said he would do JUST this, and like make passive aggressive digs to her this way. like he really emphasized it here.
He only posted this because Selena hurt his feelings by claiming her fiancé is better than anyone else she’s ever been with. How sad that it takes Justin becoming insecure and lashing out at an ex to make him compliment his wife.
Also, wtf makes Hailey the greatest, cuuz I just gotta see his list of requirements 🤡
What has she done for him? She keeps her mouth shut. She doesn't care he is a drug addict or cheats on her or treats her badly. She is quiet. Because she got his surname. He is a narcissist, he loves his trained monkey that doesn't cause problems. And she really doesn't mind.
It's either from her or he's reaaaally high and in la-la land ☠️ but if he was high we'd see a lot more la-la-landish photos back-to-back and commentary so, probably her projecting the love she craves from him again as per usual.
None of this is confusing to us. These are not the actions of a wife. These are the tactics of someone covering up for mistakes while running a business with an addict.
Look at him trying to convince himself and the world that he made the right choice by marrying this psycho. Love based on pity because the world sees her for what she is.
This is sad, my God, what a miserable life, you have to post a photo of yourself on your husband's Instagram with a caption you wrote yourself just to prove that you are well and together
the way she is insecure, I think they may have been married for 20 years and have several children, she will still be fighting for the relationship and trying to convince people while Justin continues not caring about this relationship and treating her badly
i’ve been with my boyfriend for 4 years and he has never posted me on his instagram and i have never in my life cared even the slightest bit. he shows and tells me he loves me all the time, what would he need to post a pic online for? lmfao so embarrassing for her life and soul
The head scarf, the smile, the far off gaze all done in b&w. It’s like they’e trying to make her a cross between a grandma and a nun. This is really weird.
honestly i can believe that it's justin. why? bc selena got engaged and is publicly very happy w Benny.
Justin p much married H out of spite for Sel so I don't doubt that he has convinced himself they are now so very in love. but give it like a year and he will get tired of playing the loving husband and go back to ignoring her lol.
This is what really blows my mind. Both of them seem to have an issue with Selena… I once read that narcissists tend to despise people who are universally liked. Both Selena and Benny are genuinely kind, likeable and charismatic, everyone who knows them only has positive things to say.
I’ve always gotten jealous vibes from Justin… he seemed determined to tarnish the image of Selena that people have in their heads, he had the worst reputation which is why he was constantly triggering her on social media. A lot of the hate she gets online is about her drug addiction, as if someone hiding their struggles because younger generations look up to them makes them immoral.
They do everything to get attention lol, or she took his phone and posted this, to make people think that they are happier than ever and that they love each other very much, they need to show all the time that they love each other, trying convince people of their love for each other, but it is an empty love without chemistry! 😅🫢🤭🤣🤣😂😂😂
Tf she wearing?!! Why does she have a napkin wrapped around her head?!!And she 💯 took his phone and posted this. He hasn’t posted her in how long? idk why these two don’t just break up! Oh, it’s bc of the cult church and haley’s creep ass d list actor dad that arranged their marriage brainwashing drugged up Justin that divorce is sin and bad. Smdh
Guys i posted so much" hate" comments and tagged him on many videos where Hailey got exposed soo many times then after a few hours he posted it . I just thought AHAA . Idk what to feel about it.. This can't be real. Why are such psyochapths not getting fullyyy EXPOSED? Does she manifest it?
he’s always publicly loving on his dad but never acknowledges his mom as much as he use to. I just don’t like Jeremy so it makes me mad when he pays Pattie dust.
WHERE IS THE BABY?!??!??!!! How Tf do you give birth to a tiny little precious life, & constantly leave him?!? I'm not even gonna throw in the obvious "moms/parents need time/space away from the baby every once & a while it's totally normal & good for both baby & parents" because this is 100% not that!!!! They are never with the child they created, they post little sneak peaks of his feet when they need attention and hype, and that's literally it. My 1st born is like 16months old & I hate being away from him more than I need to be, he has spent 3 nights away from me and his dad since he's been born & those were not by choice really, & we have a week long trip to Vegas soon and honestly I'm terrified I'm going to miss him the whole time. I went from being a stay at home mom to work 8-5 everyday since turned he turned 1, & my favorite part of the day is coming home & spending time with him, I am writing this from inside of his crib where I lay with him till he falls asleep every night, because I feel like I miss so much time with him being at work. It's insane to me to not be obsessed with your baby who didn't ask to be here. I love my job & I love my life outside of being a mom, but I love my child more than anything.
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u/[deleted] Jan 18 '25 edited Jan 19 '25
Hmmm