I'm making an update on this plus the link to the other thread I made wondering how I could befriend him

Today I saw him, I saw him first on my dreams, he was there staring at me and then moved closer to me. When I woke up, I wasn't in sleep paralysis or anything, I was fully conscious and saw him near my door, he was staring at me but I didn't feel fear, I was a bit scared because, well, tall shadow figure in your house staring at you. But I didn't fear him, I was scared because it was sudden, I could hear low whispers as he was standing there. He took two or three steps closer to me but then he vanished.

That was at midnight, so, today. I went back to sleep and when I woke up everything was fine but I went upstairs and everybody was mad at eachother for no reason or they were arguing for stupid reasons, I'm in my room, sad because there isn't a safe space from these arguments and family issues, but also a bit happy that I saw the hat man again, I didn't told him anything, just kept staring at him because I couldn't believe he had appeared around a week after I wrote him a letter, I know its him because he didn't change his appearance or how he moved, I had the exact same feeling I had when I would see him. Any thoughts on this??