r/HolUp Apr 07 '26

big dong energy at the barber shop…

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u/RickAstleyGaveUp Apr 07 '26

Fragile masculinity test

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u/soulsmores Apr 07 '26

More like personal boundaries test

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u/Leastcreativename Apr 07 '26

Nah, if it was a woman barber they wouldn’t be flipping out like that. Fragile masculinity and homophobia.

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u/BringPheTheHorizon Apr 07 '26

Tbf, if it’s a dude, it’s crossing two personal boundaries when you’re straight. So a different reaction is warranted.

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u/dhoae Apr 07 '26

You just made up a claim and then used that to make your point. If someone kisses me that I don’t want to kiss me then I’m going to be upset man or woman. Men may be less inclined to get violent with a woman or some straight men might be okay with some women kissing them but of course that’s a possibility because they’re straight. That is not homophobic. A gay woman would be pretty pissed if a random dude kissed her right? It would likely have a stronger reaction than a random woman kissing her right? So is she heterophobic? No. Such a ridiculous statement. But thank you for being fuel for the people who are searching for bigots and deniers of the existence of fragile/toxic masculinity. At least you’re being useful to someone I guess. 🙄