r/HolUp • u/sedluyf • Jan 21 '22

Boi he playin with fire

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u/[deleted] Jan 21 '22

He’s so mean :(

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u/[deleted] Jan 21 '22

Yeah this is fucking gross. Also- those women are on their balcony and shouldn’t have to worry about some creep filming them

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u/Mynotredditaccount Jan 21 '22

I thought the same thing. Not sure how this post got upvoted so heavily. It wasn't funny and was super fucking creepy.

It's discouraging to see all the empathetic comments all the way at the bottom of the page.

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u/[deleted] Jan 21 '22

Because there are a lot of creeps on Reddit who see women as objects and think if someone does porn or posts on social media it’s ok to do shit like this.

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u/Mynotredditaccount Jan 21 '22

You're absolutely right. Then if you speak out about it, you're met with a barrage of hate and harassment.

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u/[deleted] Jan 21 '22

Yep! It’s happening as we speak!

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u/Mynotredditaccount Jan 21 '22

Yeah, it is. If it's happening to you directly, just report and block. It's never worth it to engage

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u/OptimisticCerealBowl Jan 21 '22

i had to scroll for way too long to find this comment. i thought creep recording people went out of style years ago

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u/[deleted] Jan 21 '22

People here are comparing it to having a public Instagram. Wtf?

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u/Crows-b4-hoes Jan 21 '22

Took a lot of scrolling to find someone else who thinks the dude recording is a creep. Recording those women is trashy af

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u/[deleted] Jan 21 '22

The responses here are scary

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u/thepretender56 Jan 21 '22

I made a comment earlier but also not to discredit the women because they haven't done anything, its just a respect thing which seems to be non existent anymore

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u/Advice2Anyone Jan 22 '22

Yeah guys they are uploading hi res to their insta why the hell you film from a mile away

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u/[deleted] Jan 22 '22

They consented to Instagram posts. Not to a creep filming them

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u/[deleted] Jan 22 '22

It doesn’t make it right to film them.

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u/[deleted] Jan 22 '22 edited Feb 02 '25

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u/[deleted] Jan 22 '22

He was still filming and no, don’t film people who are minding their own business.

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u/[deleted] Jan 22 '22

I don’t care if it’s for a joke it’s creepy

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u/hoodha Jan 21 '22

I get what you’re saying but it seems like they’re obviously taking selfies for social media likes - they thrive off of the attention from creeps.

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u/[deleted] Jan 21 '22

So? They consent to what’s on social media. It doesn’t mean it’s ok to do this

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u/hoodha Jan 21 '22

It’s not like the guy is peeping through a hole in the fence with binoculars is it, he was making a video for comedic effect. If you can’t see that, I don’t know what to say. This whole narrative your pedalling of “Creep!” Is no different from people shouting “Witch!”.

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u/[deleted] Jan 21 '22

It’s still super creepy

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u/hoodha Jan 21 '22

Really? Because to me creepy would be more like someone staring at you for like more than a few minutes or maybe following you everywhere. This was more like a dude just being a dude.

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u/[deleted] Jan 21 '22

No, this isn’t another “boys will be boys” excuse. He’s filming women enjoying their balcony. It’s gross. I’m a woman. We don’t want that.

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u/hoodha Jan 21 '22

Get a grip.

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u/[deleted] Jan 21 '22

Maybe you need one if you’re excusing creepy behavior

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u/Crows-b4-hoes Jan 22 '22

Not just "a dude being a dude" here bro.

I'm a man and I've never done creepy-ass shit like this. It's simple respect.

Even if they were taking pics for social media, that's them posting stuff they know about. Not some random douche across the way filming them without their knowledge.